This week the ladies are talking about a very serious subject that seems to be the discussion around this time every year, and thats "cuffing season". The season when people who would normally rather be single or promiscuous find themselves along with the rest of the world desiring to be ‘cuffed’ or tied down by a serious relationship.” In other words, it’s the season where they need someone to show off for the holidays. Moreover, they also discuss some trending topics with one based off rapper ...
Oct 07, 2021•57 min
This week the ladies has very special guest, the southern humming bird Tweet call in where she spoke about her new song, new wine, and opens up about some things her fans may not even know about her with a "Would You Rather" game. Moreover, Tweet even reveals her "Dumb B*tch story" she experienced in the past, after the ladies read a listeners email, who seems not to be coping with her being a pregnant side chick! Would you rather be the sidechick or finding out your man has one? Lets discuss. L...
Sep 30, 2021•45 min
This week AJ and Tambam had a little bit of a therapy session after Tammy shared her dating experiences, which resulted into her possibly having commitment pHObia, but may be a little but different than what the definition says about it. Moreover, they read a "Dumb Bitch" story, and the listener may have got the "Dumb B*tch" award for the year as she sent her question from jail! Her story of how she got in the jail is not only sad but also a lesson to teach all woman, when it comes to trusting t...
Sep 23, 2021•44 min
This week the ladies had special guest Sean Garrett, better known as "The Pen" call in where he spoke about his new label, working on Summer Walkers new album and writing for other artist. Moreover, during the discussion he played a "this or that" game with the ladies, and they find out some interesting things, such as his thoughts on monogamous and polyamorous relationships, and reincarnation. The ladies even get "The Pen" to discuss a simp story. Listen in Learn more about your ad-choices at h...
Sep 16, 2021•1 hr 7 min
In this clip AJ shares her opening up to possibly wanting an open relationship in her last relationship with their guest Dylan and Hailey Lane. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 11, 2021•7 min
The ladies AJ and Tambam read a "Dumb B*tch Story" with their guest Dylan and Hailey Lane, where the listener explained her experience being in a triangle of men and explained the roles each man plays in her life with one that moved in with her but she wants to get rid of him, what should she do? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Sep 10, 2021•7 min
Remember when had a guest that shared his story about being in an open marriage, well Dylan Lane is back and this time he brought his wife along to tell her side of the story. Moreover, they get into how their relationship started, certain boundaries they will not cross and learning self control. Would you rather a person be straightforward with wanting sex or charm you a little? lets discuss Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for...
Sep 09, 2021•54 min
In this clip, Tahoe and Orlando share their stories of when they have been turned off to being the side piece to a woman, with the moral of the story side pieces have feelings too! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 06, 2021•8 min
This week the ladies Tambam and AJ had some special guest to explain their experiences being the side piece. From the "Hard or Soft" podcast, host Orlando and Tahoe do not hold back as they share their crazy stories when dealing with married woman or woman in relationships, their thoughts on relationships, blocking vulnerability and the difference between male and female needs and wants. After listening to the conversation, it just may have you looking at your partner sideways or possibly thinki...
Sep 02, 2021•53 min
This week the ladies Tambam and AJ are joined by therapist James Harris where they spoke about the narcissist behavior in a relationship and in a person. Moreover, the discussion of narcissist behavior sparks from Amber Rose recently calling out her partner and mother of narcissist behavior. And shout out to our listener for our "Dumb bitch" story, because the therapist definitely gave more than just advice on her situation. Moreover, during the discussion they share stories of experiencing narc...
Aug 26, 2021•58 min
It's Britney Bitch! but not the one you are probably thinking about! This week the ladies Aj and Tambam are discussing the Brittney takeover on social media between Future's babymom Brittni Mealy and fitness model Brittany Renner, with one being disrespected by her babydad and the other taking advantage of her baby dad. But before the main topic they also get into a "Dumb B*tch Story" who didnt know if she should leave her current situtation after noticing some red flags from his last relationsh...
Aug 26, 2021•47 min
Do you know when to leave a relationship?? Well in case you don't Tambam and AJ give their listeners a 101 course on what toxic and red flags in a relationship are, while bringing in their own crazy experiences. In addition, they also go over some of the trending news in the media which included the sudden pass of Keyshia Cole's mother, which ended up turning into a discussion about the war on drugs in the community and their experience with drugs. Moreover, they also go over, a sex a fact that ...
Aug 23, 2021•55 min
Do you really know what a "simp" is? Well this week AJ and Tambam explore the real meaning of a simp man, with the help of their friend and educator Bamidele Nkrumah to break down the definition based off social media. Also, during the discussion they mention a certain social influencer who has made his living to hold men and woman accountable in a very distasteful way, heres a hint he has no problem rating your looks from 1 to 10. Also, Bamidele helped the ladies out with a "simp" story from a ...
Aug 12, 2021•44 min
This week AJ and Tambam had special guest Myesha who is a full time baddie and part time government contractor join the show where they spoke about the controversy surrounding Dababy comments and othe trending headlines. Moreover, Myesha also discussed the importance of communication and showing compassion to your partner during their main discussion about masculinity and feminity in a relationship. Also, she helped the ladies give advice to a listener that doesn't seem to know how to leave a re...
Aug 05, 2021•1 hr 6 min
This week the ladies AJ and Tambam spoke to tarot reader and astrologer Maisy Bristol who discusses what certain cards mean, how she got started and how the retrograde affects us on an intellectual and mental level. Moreover, both recieved their tarot reading from Maisy, and lets just say she was spot on with both. Tune in, to find out if Tambam finally finds out when she is meeting her rich husband, and find out AJ secret to manifesting success. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.i...
Jul 29, 2021•47 min
So we discussed what the men want in a relationship and now its the woman's turn to discuss. This episode Tambam and Aj have two beautiful woman Nneka and Lexi join the show who read out their list of what they need in a man in a relationship, and yes sex was near the top! They also share their "Dumb B*tch stories, find out something new with a sex fact, and find out they are not that much different from men. Men feel good, when they are doing well and woman do well when they are feeling good, d...
Jul 15, 2021•56 min
This week the ladies spoke to author, writer and sex worker Zola about her new movie based off her real-life experiences she had with a woman she met one random weekend. But before that AJ and Tambam gave their raw unapologetic comments towards the controversy surrounding 80's and 90's babies TV mom Claire Huxtable or better known as Phylicia Rashad. What happened to just supporting a friend? In other words, leave our TV mom alone! Moreover, during their interview with Zola they go more in depth...
Jul 09, 2021•42 min
Tambam and AJ delivered what they said they were going to do, and that was get the answers to what a man wants in a woman! This episode 2 men, Kenneth and Sport E. Odie come on the show and give the hard raw truth about what they in a woman sexually, physically and mentally, but the ladies were not too far from what they thought already, which is they are just as complex as we are. In addition, as much as they thought they knew what they want from a woman, we also knew that they were foolish ove...
Jul 01, 2021•58 min
This episode Tambam and AJ are only giving you straight hard truth when it comes to men having enough coins to support their woman. But before that discussion they went into some celebrity gossip and gave their honest opinion about Lala and Carmelo Anthony's divorce, and Megan Thee Stallion and Dababy beef. They also spend time answering their "Ask a Black Friend" and gave their opinion on their "Dumb Bitch Story". Moreover, for their main discussion they go into Kevin Samuels comments on men pa...
Jun 24, 2021•55 min
The world is opening back up which means more woman are getting flewed out! So its only right that this week Tambam and AJ school the ladies on how to properly get flewed out and what to look out for. But first they get into some trending topics surrounding baby fathers as well as answering a question about white woman wearing "boxer braids" for their segment "Ask a Black Friend" . In addition, they provide at least 9 rules when it comes to getting flewed out, and if you can't follow these rules...
Jun 17, 2021•37 min
This episode Tambam and AJ are back and discussing the meaning behind the term "Modern woman" after hearing a discussion on clubhouse about a relationship coming to an end all because a woman in a relationship wanted to sleep close to the door and the man was not having that! In addition, they get into a deep discussion about the black family household and the challenges surrounding it; and they are not just stating their opinion they got the facts too! They also had an email from a listener for...
Jun 10, 2021•51 min
Today on the show AJ and Tambam speak to three woman who are black, beautiful and Rich! Jeanine, India Monae, and Davonne Reaves speak to the ladies how they individually broke through struggling obstacles from their past and found success in real estate. They also discuss possible difficulties of dating and being successful while black and a woman. What do you bring to the table when you are the table? Lets Discuss Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omn...
Jun 04, 2021•54 min
This episode Tambam and AJ discuss love, relationships and foolish mistakes with their special guest Anthony Hamilton! Anthony lets them in on his newest single "You Made a Fool Out of me", his upcoming projects, his current relationship status and even shares a Simp story! The ladies and Anthony also get into a interesting convo about dating exclusively. Is dating and being in a relationship the same thing? Lets discuss Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com Se...
May 27, 2021•50 min
This week AJ and Tambam have author and sex therapist Dr. Donna Oriowo call in and speak about all the good things and bad things that may be when it comes to sex and relationships. She also, clears up certain myths when it comes to using toys in the bedroom. Moreover they get into a deep convo on her specialty with working with black woman on issues related to colorism/texturism and its impacts on mental and sexual health. But they switch gears and get into some of their listeners favorite segm...
May 20, 2021•51 min
With so many violations lately in the media when it comes to girl code it was only right for Tambam and AJ to school their listeners on the do's and don'ts of girl code in other words staying in solidartiy with your friends or other woman. And for examples AJ makes a list of the most popular scenarios when it comes to girl code, such as would you talk to a man your friend use to date? Do you tell your friend that her man is cheating if they are both your good friends? Lets discuss Learn more abo...
May 13, 2021•1 hr 6 min
This episode Tambam and AJ went over some trending topics that had them do more than talk back, when it came to some discussions. They spoke about whether they would and how long they would hold down a partner if they were sent to jail, and Caitlyn Jenner's comments on transgender woman wanting to compete in woman sports. They even answered some questions from their segment "Ask a Black Friend" with one of the questions being why are black woman more willing to share their vagina than their mout...
May 06, 2021•43 min
This week the ladies Tambam and AJ had a special guest, who happens to be the Puerto Rican Princess Joseline Hernandez! She spoke about her new season on her show Joseline's Cabaret, the conflicts that happened on the show and let us know her definition of what a "bottom b*tch" is. Joseline also helped the ladies out with their "Dumb B*tch" story with a listener who can't decide if she should leave or stay in her relationship after finding out about an affair. They also went over "Ask a Black Fr...
Apr 29, 2021•45 min
Aj and Tambam are back and clapping back too at the listeners from the Brilliant Idiots Podcast that hated and trolled them after being a guest on the show. After the clap back they went to their regualr scheduled show where they read a "dumb bit**" story from a listener that was having a hard time letting her F buddy go, to the point she even creeped up on him! Also, they changed gears a little when speaking about the recent events of police brutality and the Derick Chauvin Case but changed rig...
Apr 22, 2021•48 min
This week the ladies discuss the recent and devastating news of DMX passing and the effects he had on New York as well as the world. Speaking of New York the ladies were also visiting the Big Apple, to visit some family on the the Black Effect Network. Also, during their sex fact segment they find out that there are some benefits when it comes to swallowing but wasn't enough for Aj to consider. For their Simp stories Tambam had a great story about a time she and her girls ran Charlamagne's right...
Apr 15, 2021•45 min
This week’s episode AJ and Tambam literally speaks about love and Hip-Hop and the effects music can have on relationships. From violence to the misogynistic lyrics, but just how impressionable are young adults? Have we become desensitized to the derogatory lyrics condoning relationship violence and sexual aggression? Can long-term exposure to violent media messages alter audience perception of love or even violence in their everyday lives? Let’s discuss… Learn more about your ad-choices at https...
Apr 08, 2021•36 min
