Ep 27. "Times Up"

Hey y'all. I love y'all, everybody, you know all these I love all my whole and how it's How are you feeling, Tam, I honestly feel like ship right now. M hmm, I know so good. It was my birthday weekend. I was outside and that might have been of a stake because the bitch can't breathe through a nose. You might just have a cold. Everything is not COVID weekend. Oh yeah, my weekend. Um, I don't do much. Yeah,

I've been really learning how to do option trading. I don't know if anybody out there, um, any of our listeners are in the stock market like that, But I've always been in the stock market, but bitch, I didn't learn how to option trade and if anybody interested, hit me up, but just been Yeah, man, I really just been looking at fucking stock charts all weekend and understanding trends and all that type of ship. So that's what I've been doing, making money. I'm not mad at that bitch.

Oh wait, he also lost a family member and I'm sorry, sorry, So I lost my dog, Bella last week, y'all, my whole kid, Bella, Bella, sweet lady Bella James. I had to put her down and I'm still debating, Um, I don't hate to stay put her down. I had to put her to sleep because she got extremely sick all

of a sudden within a week. And I just feel like I want to pull up and I don't know, like do a drive by on the fucking vet because this nick didn't call me back yet and I called him since last week Tuesday, and I don't get a call back yet. She was there the week before he gave he prescribed me some medicine that he probably should not have based on the vety she ended up at and I told a receptionist like, hey, I had to put my dog to sleep today? Can you have the

vet call me back? No call back? So, y'all, I think I'm a fucking lawyer, right, it's already drafted up a demand letter. Bitch, you're gonna pay me for my pain and stuffing because I have been suffering the last week, like for real, for real, Like I never knew I could be that sad about my dog. I've had my dogs and she was just little, as little as my hand, eleven years old. That's my fucking kid dog. And I

feel like somebody took her from me. So and if she was suffering, so I didn't have no choice because I would be being selfish if I would keep it here, Yes, I would just literally she was barely breathing properly. She wasn't standing up girl that she was rough. So yeah, I want to put an event and I have yet

to go pick up her remains because it's sad. I might go today because I don't want to get there one day and he'd be like, oh, we threw it out because then when every game like what now, I gotta knock over every fucking thing y'all office with my forearm, like so I'm trying to avoid violence. I ain't turning to switch on I hit the violence switch yet, but I really feel like fighting somebody but my fucking dog, because I don't think I'm gonna feel good until don't

fight nobody. Yeah, so I have had a positive way. How go to like a boxing class? Oh, go to that place I'm going to next week where you go and you break shit. I do want to I've seen that place in Charlotte before. I do want to go something. You should come with me, come up here. We'll come to meet me and Columbia. We can go break ship together. And I have the face because that's what I wanna do. Alright.

So for um this week's dumbass Internet Ship, we just like to talk about some of some of the current events, things that we're seeing online because you know, it's just social media is a bigger part of everybody fucking life. Um, I just want to talk about a couple of things. So Keisha Cole's mother just passed the way, Frankie Peter, Frankie yeah Man and Bismarcki passed away. Every year been rough every year, rough of years since two thousand nineteen.

Sending a lot of love and light to Kepsh your cold man. Yeah, and Nephi and all them. She had a lot of kids, man, it was just keep shows a lot of them. Man. You know, it's tough. You know, Kerom was on drugs for a very very long time and they're saying that she overdook at her birth. On her birth basically yeah, having a good time. M hmm. Also,

bitch just sucking fitting off. I even already. But if somebody has been putting fitting on and got there in marijuana, you better be careful who the fuck you on your weed from out here? Like what is happening sitting all in the marijuana? It causes people to die essentially, it's been causing a lot of people to o D. So I'm thinking, I'm wondering. I don't know what type of

drugs she was on. They've been putting fitting all in the hero on in so you shoot that sh it up like you don't really have a high survival weight rate. So I don't know what are we gonna do about drugs in our community? What can we do? Well? I know in as a Utah, they basically then legalize every drug. I don't know what that really does. Um, I know since the um epidemic and the opioid epidemic and the

methophetamine epidemic has hit the white community. There's more treatment centers for them now because it's being don't want a medical issue exactly. Essentially, it's being handled as a medical issue now. So that's one thing UM as opposed to, you know, UM addicts being treated as criminals for being sick essentially. Yeah, would you No, I don't want to. I mean, I really didn't do what That's like. What's the movie that privilege it? What's the TV show Love

of Country that they got nominated for eighteen Emmys? Is still they canceled it? You know why? Because they're exposing black magic. Yeah, they're exposing the magic that black people have. But that penot gland is so calcified. Yeah mm hmmm, you'll never be able to tap into it. Yeah. I know. That's why we can't have certain conversations. Bitch, you talking about one day you're gonna know and then you're gonna be like girl. So just so I'm like, yeah, girl,

now we had a conversation. Because I am not the type of person with the big gas ego who want to go around and beat my belief systems into people. I don't do that. So whatever, we're just explained to our listeners what you mean by the penot gland being calcified. So there's a lot of things that's being put in food.

It's like a third eye essentially, you know what I'm So you're saying I need to align my chop for us, Yeah, that could be a part of it, you know, because, um, what I noticed when having conversations with certain people, especially based on like the type of foods they eat, the conversation kind of be more aligned with my beliefs, Like people who are who are on more of a to me,

this is what I've been noticing. People who are on more of a plant based diet, the conversations be different, Like we kind of have the same thoughts as opposed to people who consume a lot of pork, beef and ship. Like that is like they don't see the same ship we see somehow. So I attributed to the guet. I attributed to the diet. Why because you know, especially if you eat in pork, right, we're going in a hold some whole other ship. But let's just go ahead and

go there right quick. If you were in pork unless you eat in wild boar like you shot that wild hog in the middle of the forest, like pigs that they keep like on a farm to kill and slaughter like a slaughterhouse. They were at least a chemical because like a chemical, they released this chemical into the meat, like when they're scared. So if they're killed in that way and then you're now you're ingesting that meat, you're taking on all types of stress that that pig was

going through when it died. I really believe that you are what you eat. That's why that's where the whole thing comes from. So you feel like I got the sandwich wen yes, and like he must have been mad. He was magically delicious, So I don't know what his stress level was when he died. But thank you for giving your life. Bitch. I had a pork chop sandwich. Is I was like ten years old maybe, But my problem, bitch, I love bread and sugar, which is still some man

made bullshit. Do you know illegal it should be. It's like cry because I like baked goods, I like I like sweet stuff, I like chocolate. I got a whole problem, child, and it ain't nothing wrong with the chocolate but it's like the sweetener. The sugar is the issue. But yeah, so look this one with the crack and the goddamn black community, all the ship we're addicted to in the black community. Um, I don't know what we can do

about um. Definitely, passing more legislation is not the fucking solution. Passing legislation on people going to jail for drugs and ship like that. No, like, no, it doesn't. So the treatment centers, that's a that's a one way um intervention for family members. We gotta really, you know, be a family for real, for real. But here's how Black people handle our family drug addiction. They're grown. What I'm gonna do?

Mm hmmm. Until they died and they got on the T shirt crimb ain't one Harver, No, No, I hope we've got life is yours on him? Right? That ship is magic. Crack especially is magic. Like that ship was a party drug during our parents time and then you know, you're just sitting at a party and somebody like, hey man, try this ship. Now you're just strung off for the rest of your life. Right, that ship is mad unless you can beat it. A lot of people don't beat it. Yeah,

I don't know. I guess it all. You gotta love yourself. I'm not. I don't have an addictive personality aside from sugar. I'm addicted to marijuana. You may not be addicted to marijuana. You may be addicted to how you feel. You feel better? Is it the same thing? If something else to make you feel how to marijuana feel, would you still smoke? Did not be addicted to that too as well? I like brownies. I don't like that smoke in my fucking lungs. I don't like edibles because see, when you smoke weed,

you go up and then you come down. Edibles you go up and you stayed the funk up. For That's why I only do any drugs right before I'm like to go to sleep. What's the point You're doing it before you go to sleep. I do it to go to sleep. I don't want to be high during the day when I got it to do, I'm not going to be productive. Some people you might you could produce. I can't. Hi, Yeah, I just can't. I don't want to stay high. I know eventually I'm coming down if

I smoke, and it'll be soon. But when eating that ship, I remember one of the guys who worked in my who works in my building, he gave me a liquid marijuana right like juice. It was a juice and it was elimonade. So he didn't explain to me that I should just take a shot of it. You know, he didn't express that to me. I guess he just assumed, with me being such a connoisseur that I knew, but I didn't know. So I drink it with my sandwich on my lunch break. Baby, I couldn't need to come

back to work. I was sitting on the floor Indian style, crying, freestyling to instrumental beats on YouTube. Bitch, I was he bit you made your creative? Wait a minute, you could have been the next mative Stallion bit you on the juice. It wasn't good. It's terrible shame. But some people smoke away, they saying they some more creative. I do. I do feel like I am more creative while I'm high, But I don't like to use hot tools and scissors around people while I'm on drugs, so it doesn't work in

that realm, right shame. So we went from we went from don't do drugs to here's the drugs that I do. It's not just like goodness. That that's all I do. I don't funk when nothing else like no lean or no pills or no none of that just just weak. We can come from the earth. We're just good and I just don't like. How do you funk? How do these people trying to profit off of weed? At this point? Nobody? I guess that's the whole thing surrounding it. Went in

to the other side. They change the rules, you know. Now they're making billions and we can't even find an entry point to the weed business. Um, you know who else I want to talk about? Britney spears, bitch. It's Britney bitch. What do you think about that? Conservatorship bullshit? You imagine? I don't understand what it is. Could you imagine somebody else having control over your life forever? You

mean like my mama? Yeah, well it's her daddy. So conservatorship is a legal agreement that gives a third party control over someone else. Like, how does the court assign somebody else to your life? Right? Um? It says they can be imposed. They can they can be a posed only by a court, and only a court can terminate them. The person put in charge of the person's affairs is

called the conservatoire or the guardian in some states. So remember that movie that was on Netflix a little while ago where that white lady and it was like, uh, it was called I Care or something like that or I Care. Yeah, she and she was in charge. She was I guess she was a conservative for people. Yes, she was. I've seen that ship and they killed that that dude shot her in the head at the end. That was a really good movie. Yeah it was. That

was a really good movie. So maybe some that's what Brittany got going on about to say something ugly, but I ain't gonna say that. Why she need to shoot her daddy? Ned she wanted fast and jail, though she does want him in jail, like she's saying, she's been abused and basically she's been a sex a sex slave from what she's saying to her daddy for thirteen years. Maybe not for her daddy, but maybe he was pamping her out. Who knows, like you have control over somebody

else's life. This is why she wants to retire, This is why she no longer wants to be an entertainer, and she hasn't been entertaining because he's been profiting off of her life and likeness for the last thirteen years because he has control over her. I guess once she becomes are you bigger than life? At that point, she's still her, right, She's still Britney Spears, but her likeness is actually now bigger than her her actual physical you

see what I'm saying. So he has control over her brand, everything, And it's just weird to me. How and what's going on? Why the court won't let her be in charge of herself? Is she not mentally capable? That's head At that time it was going a little They could have been a cry for help. They could have been doing stuff to her even at that time. And then you shave your head off, and now you really appair crazy to the courts and your daddy can just step right in. And

you lost your kids to the to the dancer. She don't have her kids, so she lost her kids. Remember her backup dancer her name was Yeah, she lost her kids to him. That was the beginning of the ship. Um, she wants to have more kids, she said, but she's been forced by her dad to keep an I U. D. How do you know Danny forced you because he has she no longer controls her life. She hasn't, So how she went to the doctor had to put it in?

So did she could have just said I don't want to go right, but you are no longer in control of you. That's why I don't understand what kind of what kind of system is that? So is that only damn? My motherfucker said they got control ottle me. I wish you would put it. I come to come, try, come, try and put it. Or she might have put it in herself and then they wouldn't let her take it out. Maybe, but last about ten years, I don't know, but I

never had that possible. I had one of them ships put in my arm and I had them take it out in the three months I couldn't pop my pussy, the saying I was like, let me take this up. I still could popp it. I'm gonna stay where are your arm? Wait ages in the cut of the arm.

So what I had was it's called implant on and it went in my arm, but my period stayed on for like three months straight, so I had to So then it was like, we're gonna give you an oral birth control to take with that, and I was like, no, I'm not If this don't work, take it out. I'm not gonna take a pill, and had a ship in my arm. Hell no, man, take this ship out of my arm. And that white lady she left a hole in my arm trying to joke that ship out. That

ship is not natural. Like you got forty fifty year old women who have never experienced an orgasm for real, and they've been on birth control, birth control all all through the teenage years and twenties, and ship like that that should have stopping something stopping how your body is normally supposed to be, right, mm hmm, I don't know. We can add that to the list of the pork and chicken and beef. No pork sandwich, No, no, no hard drugs. It's not crazy because I enjoyed all those

things except for the I D hard drugs. Pork sandwich. And if you have and you eat a per sandwich while you own some hard drugs, no you're not. No, no taking any hard drugs, all right. The closest thing I've ever taken is more than weed is I took a perkoce at one day. It was my birthday. I was living in Europe. My friend was like, Papa heard with me. It'll be fun, bitch. I was like the coma on the couch all night. I didn't even make

it to the club. Everybody went out on my birthday and I was when I woke up, I was nauseous. I was sick for two days. Perko said, I've never take another one. Shame. It'll be fun, they said, I did an adderall before, and that just makes you want to get up and go, Like, I feel like I need that adderall. I don't feel like adderall is a recreational drug. Adderall is like ah, it makes you focus, yeah, and make you focus like I probably need adderall. I would want to like, all right, I wake up, I'm

gonna clean my house. I'm gonna fly to Africa and save the children. I'm gonna come back and perform the healthcare system. I'm gonna That's how it was. You know, he'll be on a lot of adderall. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah's to be excelling in school. It's like the what was that movie that came out Limitless. Yes, that's the closest thing to limitless Peel that we have. I might need to trying to see if I can get a prescription. Like,

I just can't focus. I just can't beat y'all gonna be a millionaire by December because my brain be everywhere. My brain be everywhere to wear like, I don't start ship because my brain is just like, Okay, you need addition, need that exactly, So I'll pick one thing. Yeah, So before we get into the topic, because we've just been rambling bitch uh no on the topic, let's do it. Let's do a dumb bitch story right quick. You know, you know what we should do real quick. Let's pay

some bills, all right. So today's dumb bitch story comes from one of our Instagram listeners who would like to remain anonymous. She says, Hi, I would like to remain a non but I need some dumb bitch advice. So I met the guy i'm with through one of my other guy friends. So I thought it was a solid hook up. But I think this nigga is homeless. I've never really, i've never really had in house dick, and it's been nice. But he's been at my house now for two weeks and I don't know how to get

him to leave. I like him and still want to deal with him, but I was under the impression that he had his shipped together. Really I actually know the I g of the girl he was with before, and I almost want to message her to see what's really up with him. What should I do? Well? First of all, how old is this child? Because because how you can't

get him motherfucking to leave your house. Ain't no way staying for my house for two weeks without me being like now, first the first night if I wanted him to say okay, but then the next morning, I'll be like, so what you're about to do? Right? Easy? Because you got to get the funk up out of here. I gotta go to work. I got ship to do now, So audios, and like, when did you'll meet? And when did y'all start sucking around? And why the fund can

you talk to? You want to message another bit instead of just talking to the niked as right there in your house? You are really God, wait for two weeks, so this naked just been waking up Washington and going and coming back, and you want to talk to another bit about him? Did you go to work? Do you got a job where you living? What's your last name, I want to go to your house. Period. That's an

easy way. Oh it's see, that's the submissive, very meek and mild manner type women who are afraid to ask the real questions because how you just have a nigga just sitting up in there for two weeks and you're like home. And I also think it's a science for women. Isn't really a science for a woman to figure out how to talk to the man and be able to ask what they want or ask questions at all. It's like a skill set that some women just don't have.

They don't know how to speak up when it comes come to men, especially when they're getting dick down, because it sounds like if E've been there for two weeks, she happy to just have a nigger there for the first couple of days. Now, all of a sudden, it turned into like when you're going home, but you're scared to ask him when he's going home, do you want him to go home? He wanted to stay right This

alligns you without a topic too. He probably still laying up in there right now while we're talking, eating up all your turkey sandwiches and ship he got kid to home. Is he drinking your kids juicy juice? Right? Little nick Nate mad as well? Oh what go Wrome? I hate mama all my daddy? Right, call your baby daddy if you got one, call your baby daddy talking about But look, black women and women, we need to stop putting men in the positions. Now, you got yourself and some dumb ship.

Now you wanna call your brother and uncle or somebody over there assist snoop dog off parole. And he's staying in your house, kicking over your son a little fort in the living room, stupid ship. You're gonna write me in front of my daughter. No, you're gonna ripe me in front up front of my son to get out. He ain't got a job. She sounds like she just wants to know if he can possibly even get out.

Do you have someplace else to go? Right? Don't message that other woman though, whatever you do, do not message that other woman. Whatever you do, please don't. She has her life, she her age is growing back, and he probably at your house because he can't go to hers. No more, no more cobo sexual. So what is it time to leave a relationship? How do you know it's time when you spend more time frowning and smiling. It's time to go, but that's that's not something you can

determine for anyone else. When it's time for they don't leave because you can talk to you blew in the face to another bit by like girl, you just need to go, But they ain't going nowhere until they're good and god damn ready. Mm hmmm, hold on, tam, Let's say some bills. So we said earlier is before, and you want to hit that nigger reset button, but before if you feel like you want to put your hands

on somebody, should probably leave before then too. You know, if you really love somebody, you're gonna want to kill them at some point in the relationship. Right, I feel like that's normal. Okay, keep going. But if you start planning on how you're gonna kill them and how you're gonna get away with it, that's when it's starting to leap. Yes, So when you start planning, that's when it's ready to go. Yeah, when you start calling your home girls and Google and

how to kill it get away with it? Watching Viola Davis or how to get Away with Murder right down notes and ship how to just all of a body, that's when it's time to go. Yeah. Um, So I think respect is definitely earned, but so it's disrespect. So if you find yourself being like extremely disrespectful to your partner, if you weren't already like that, um, you're losing respect for them because it's just sting. Certain things like love won't allow you to say and do to somebody you

really in love with. So if you just start doing a bunch of stupid ship to the person you with, it's probably time to go. Yeah. When you start ah telling other your work husband about how much you hate your it's time to go. Sid. But you know, a lot of us we stay long, long, long past time ago, you know, long past expiration date. Yea. I think sometimes

sometimes people just need a break. Also, it may not even be a permanent breakup, but that that could be the reset though, to take some time apart and come back together. How about this when you call my phone, like, I always have a regular face, so I always add to and to laughing. Right, it's always gonna be a fun time when we talk to each other. If every time your significant other hitting you up, it's like what

the funk? Now, Like you automatically get anxiety. Maybe just maybe you need a break or it just maybe time to go. So, my my father was here this weekend for my birthday and he was saying that young people cool, we don't know how to stick it out. We don't know how to fight through the good times the bad times, Like we just want instant gratification and as soon as it started being fun, then it's time to leave for us.

He's like, y'all don't even stay on job. He's like, back in my day, I thinkus we'll stay on the job fifty yells, y'all leave after thirty days, right, We're just staying for abuse. We're not Why do we have to? We got other options. I think we have options. We feel like we have more options now and that's why. But when it comes to our relationships, do we check out too soon? Especially when you've decided to get married to take the bidder with the sweet? Are we checking

out too soon? I have had three relationships in the last twelve years, twell, thirteen years, right, and I feel like I may have overstayed too long. And at least two of those relationships, you know what I'm saying. The experience obviously, like they say, it's not like it's not really a loss. But you use a lot of time being someplace you're not supposed to be, and you've got a lot of signs that told you, hey, what the fund is up? So five years is that a little

bit of time? Oh no, that's not a little bit of time. It just I guess it just depends on the relationship. Mhm. I can he learned anything from it? I learned. I learned a lot of stuff from from the relationships I've been in. I learned my likes, I learned my dislikes. You yeah, boundaries, you know, with boundaries I want to establish in the next relationship. Um My daddy told me I wasn't gonna never get nobody because of my mouth. That's what he told me all the

day here. He said, You're never gonna get a man because of your mouth. I know, I mean, I know we always say men just want somebody who shut the funk up. But I really believe like a strong man, they don't want that. They don't want a real man. Doesn't want a yes man or yes ma'am, somebody who just never checks them when they're sucking up. Nobody really

wants that. That is that that's not genuine right. So if y'all I feel like you're a weak man, if you want a woman who doesn't have an opinion and who can't check you when you're sucking up, like I'm just supposed to just let you do. That's why I blame white women for a lot of the things that's happening and happening in the world, because they sit back and they let their men do what the funk they want to do, and they, you know, reap the benefits on the back end um that because they want to

do it too. But we black bitches because we check people, you know. So they get to be like nice, little timid because they don't see much, but they definitely do, they just may not do it publicly. So maybe we need to learn learn that I only punch my nick in the face one time in public. It was because what I never hit it? They getting public, bitch, I ain't trying to go to jail. I showed chin check that nigga in public. He called me a hole in front of everybody. Uh, I wasn't doing nothing. I was

we was at a club. Was all at the club and we was in like the smoke section. My whole girl smoked Newports. So he was in a smoke section, and I mean outside, you know, like outside on the pario, and it was these guys just came over and was just chatting us up or whatever. And I was there with my nigga. It wasn't like I was like trying to pick up nobody. We were This is in Europe,

so we're in London. They were like, oh, y'all Americans. Yeah, and you know how we talk, and we were just chatting and he just saw some niggas standing there talking to us instead of just coming over and talking to He's like you out here being the hole, right, that's a reflex. Actually, yeah, did he start acting? How did he act after you hit him? He reset the fun up talking about because I wasn't even doing the whole ship like I'm gonna I have to talk to other

humans in this world, like you know, mm hmm damn. Yeah. That's the only time I ever hit. Yeah, I think that's the only time. But now I see them if he would have punched me back and then driving and everybody would have been like, oh he wrong for then, so okay. So I never just straight up hit somebody in front of people. But I definitely that smack niggas in some cars before while I was driving, No like park driving, yes, no, just both times were parked two

different people. Now, But this one in particular smacked one of my ex boyfriends because the bitch was like stalking me on Facebook about him, right, And I pulled up to his job to talk to him about it while he was on break, and the nigga said something when he got like dog, I just smacked the funk out of his ask girl, we got it back into the day of job. Um, must be somebody saw me snack him. Obviously,

somebody saw me hit the nigga in the car. And the person told like the superfud was like, hey man, somebody out there snacking one of your employees. I snacked the ship out that nigger in the car. Man, that's not funny, y'all listen, we are knocking laughing, just funny. Oh wait, this wasn't I don't know is this considered domestic violence because I didn't physically hit him, alright, I

had all right, this is living in Europe. This, I mean, all my boyfriend stories are from there, because that's the last time I had a nigga. But I in the hair salon all day. Right, I went in the hair salon like eight that morning, and then I left there at like seven and night went home shower eight and then I bartended too. So I bartended till four in the morning, right three thirty three thirty, I got off and he was like, I can't drive home. I'm at SO and so house. Come scoot me right. So I

was like, all right, but I'm tired. I've been working all day. So I'm gonna let you know. When I get close, I want you to come outside. So I called him. Once I got close and he was like, all right, I'm coming. Two minutes later, I'm ready to go home. What are you doing? I'm coming. I'm coming another like almost two minutes. He got me sitting outside for twenty minutes. So he finally came outside and he had his cup in his hand and he was like laughing with niggles out of there. I think it has

like everything all good. Right, So I'm sitting in a carl like now I'm gonna fun this nick up. He did. So he gets in the car and I was like, why would you do that? That's so rude, Like I told you, I'm tired. I've been working all day. Why would you have me sitting out here waiting that long? He's like, man till the funk out. I had to finish playing spade, and he had his little drink in his hand and he was taking it up to his lip.

Wo I do it. I smacked back up out his motherfucking hand, and liquor herenesse and lemonade start flying, and his laugh or whatever he caught the cup or whatever. He's like mmmmmm. And then I was talking ship, like, see, motherfucker, you see how you make me act. I don't want to do that ship to you, but you at disrespect to me, had me out here all this motherfucking time. So then we pull up to the house because it's not that far. He literally could have walked, you know,

I could have should have left his ass. So we get to the house and we get out of the car. I'm still talking ship, and he hopped out the car and he took what was left in the cup and threw it in my face. It's time to leave. And I was like, Nigga, when I can see again, that's so toxic. Girl. Then nigga ran in the house and lock themselfs in the bedroom because he knew I was

about to go on go to his ass. And then he climbed out the bedroom window and went walking back and had his homeboy pick up up from the street because he already knew I was about to take it to his ass. So before it even gets there, what are some things that happened before it even gets physical that are indicators that you need to get the fuck up out of there, because I'm pretty sure there's a lot of non physical things that happened before you start

putting your hands on each other and doing. Nigga, who called you a hole for standing outside talking to people? Verbal abuse? He used to Yeah, anytime somebody's just disrespectful at the mouth. I know y'all New Yorkers, that's how y'all like to talk to each other. But it's not healthy. I don't new people from New York were talking. They scared me when they talk like you got grown women telling grown men and suck they That is disrespectful. Probing my pearls now. I did tell one man in life

to suck my dick. So I found out my ex boyfriend had a whole baby out here that I just found out about last year. Now he's away in college. Dad's in college. You don't even know, but I couldn't. I really felt the way about it, like even though I don't want to be with him, and you know, so I sent a message to his home, but I was like, listen, you talk to your friend, you tell our nigga suck my dick respectfully. You can't respectfully, I know.

And he's like, disrespectful head, don't. They're like, sit on it. Yeah, So yeah, that's that's that's not nice. And I was trying to be blatantly as disrespectful as possible, especially because he in prison. So how disrespectful is that to tell man in prison that I knew exactly what I was doing. I don't talk to him, and I wanted to offend him as much as possible. I don't, I like you a fuck nigga. You I don't talk like that or suthing my dick. That don't even sound right coming. It's terrible,

it's actually terrible. That's the first and last time, well I don't say last, that's a that's the first time I ever used the term. But I what I say is like I say ship, And this is what I'm working on, trying to be a better person because I won't cuss at you, but I don't say some ship like that ain't even your baby anyway, you know, something like that bit you me, I forgot every with the truth, you know what? That might be fighting words. That's words though, Yeah,

that's words. Yeah, I'd rather you say something I did to tell me that my baby mama lied to me about my kids. You straight just tapped that nigga in with that. Yeah, that'sn't tapping. Yeah, you know, because the podcast is to me, it's get toward you know, women, our age, younger women so they can just live like curiously through all dumb ship. She's just like knowing when when no one when to leave a situation that is

not is not serving you. You know. Um, I feel like these young girls are you know, are growing the value value and adding tax you know, in a way that we did not growing up because we had, like Trina's telling you, like five or six best friends. But she says she was getting paid for these houses. Now at least they getting baid. China definitely was saying if she knew what she knew now she'd be sucking by the time she was tending because she was getting money

from niggas. Remember the time she was if I could, if I, if I could do it all again, I'll be fucking by the time I'm ten. You remember that? And who's bad is? Trina was definitely about getting that check out about these niggas, like I feel like and when listening to Trina when I was in high school, like Trina really made me feel like, these niggas better come with something if they want to sun on me, Like if you have a car, I didn't grow up

listening to Trina. It's so crazy because I'll be in a car with all my friends and treating song and everybody rapping all the lyrics, and I'd be like, where was I I missed it? I don't know. The only song I know really was like pull over that as too Fat? What was you listening to? I was listening to jay Z, I was listening to Nash, was listening to Tupac, I was listening to Big Gi, I was listening to the NA But yeah, I feel like a lot.

We have a way more female rappers out now than before, and all of them on the same you know, get that it had to check that you want to see. That's not all the female rappers. That's just the ones that they allowed to be mainstream. There's a lot of other rappers out here. You're like, what about Rampsody, She's dope. You know, I've listened to her music and I couldn't get it. And she's from the Carolina's I couldn't get

into it. Oh yeah, I like her, but I don't some people I don't like their voice, like the delivery. The lyrics and what they're saying be sounding good, but I don't like the delivery of it. Like that the young girl Alma Redda from Atlanta, Like I like what she'd be saying, but the delivery is annoying to me, Like how her voice sounds the super duper Atlanta dialect along with it. It just sounds so forced. I don't know, I don't like it, Like it's you don't have from Charleston.

So people be extra guchi, right, So it's like listening to a song with a nigga rapping extra guchi. It's almost annoying, like what are you saying? They don't even understand. But then maybe you're not gonna I'm not. So I listened, but I listened to what people say in lyrics, so I listened to the actual words what they're saying. And um, but if I don't like how it sounds, I don't like the artist. I feel like it's more females are here wrapping. Yeah, but they all want some get money.

Shpket better treat me like this. That a third, But we also know that girls outside gird pussy and then give me money. I used someone neck risks and my hair stay done. I'm driving a fly as whip. The fucking bitches, y'all haters, and this body is on sleek, designer body is go to them. You ain't go to my surgeon. You can't afford him. That's it in teeth nowadays? What's all with that? What is going on? So everybody

gonna bitch. Let me tell you a hundred two hundred years from now when they're finding all of our not a hundred, we'll say, wait further than that. What about five six years from now, a thousand years from now, and they finding our fossils? Not even that far? Fake ass. The titties like they go like our bones gonna look so fucked up. They're like, what is this? Like they had everybody had all the women had little plastic bags that laid upon their breastplate. We don't know what the

bags were for. Maybe this was something that they put in the casket to help them transition to the next side. These these water bags right on the chest. We think it held them down and tried to hold their soul down. And they all have these bags, uh not that nice looking bags with them, like these big square bags, said burking on them in the casket and the casket with them.

We think these were offerings to God's women. They had like some residue around the crowns up their heads, that just residue because you bear me and my wig, don't I gonna take my wig off? Apparently a lot of them had hair dressed wigs, things glued to their scalps and corn rolls underneath right there, real hair was corn rolled like meek Mille mill fuzzy corn rolls. Yo. When we get old, bitch, we're gonna be a lot of bad back tattooed so weird eyelashes and wigs. We're just

gonna be granny bitches. In the church was sexy tatted on our neck like they just got face tattoos. Do We're gonna be We're gonna look crazy, but listen, imagine what the kid's gonna be looking like. Though we're gonna look we're gonna look conservative. But you know, if you look at our ancestors, like you know how black people. Girl, we're all off topic, but we're about to wrap it up in a second. But you know how our ancestors when you see pictures of them, they had gold teeth,

They had diamonds in their teeth. They wore a lot of gold. Like we always been a flashy people, like like gold dust. Gold is like the masculine, supposedly right, and silva is the feminine. So back in the Egyptian time, like the men wore silver, women wore gold and they couldn't men can't even wear gold like on the actual skin because it's a chemical that that the gold actually releases. But um, we always been like this. We always moved to the music. We just got all his soul and spirit.

Like it's just so tattered up like face tattoos and all that ship people been doing. That tribe has always been and they call it the face in your body now, right, But it's really not. It's really culture when you think about it, Like people, what about that culture where they take the women put these rings around their necks and on the beauty over there, Like how I bet they can suck. You're so fucking stupid, this loan nigger. The fun you're gonna do with this nick? So stupid, go

with this nick. So just to close out what our topic was about, UM, you know when it when is it time to really leave? I think we all know when it's time to leave. But again, like we said, people over extend mm hmm. The relationships that the expirasion date. Um, you know when to leave. And I think it's like you said, it's subjective to um the relationship, but especially when it starts being physical, when it starts being a lot of verbal um abuse, Um, you no longer respect

that person, it's time to go. Yeah, when it's easy for you to disrespect them, it's time to go. I mean, I don't even want to say if you're just a disrespectful person, because if it's a woman who was just disrespectful to manas you leaver, so he's not he's not ending the relationship because he may be used to that type of disrespect. He might he might have been raised raised by a bitch who knows right, because like like it. When you talk to him crazy thing, it's like a

get old foul mouth, fuck you, nigga. You're gonna eat this chicken, motherfucking sandwich the way I made it, motherfucker, and you're gonna be happy. Bitch. Damn my little girl right here, your mommy and my mama. Yo, that's abuse. These things don't know abuse when they see it. Man, a lot of us are will stick abuse for love because that's how we grew up. Shane. My mom may never talk to me fucking crazy. Nobody never talked to me crazy. So when somebody talk to me crazy, I'd

be like, who then are you talking to? I know the fuck got me fucked up. No, I didn't grow up in the house with my mom talk crazy. She did talk crazy, but not to us around us. Um okay, So let's um go into Okay, let's go into our random sex facts. So this random sex fact is brought to you by meet mindful dot com. So here's an

interesting thing about contraceptives. Women who take hormonal contraceptives tend to be more attracted to men with lower testosterone levels and less super masculine physical characteristics, according to research, But women tend to desire overtly masculine men during their most fertile times in their cycle, and more likely to stray during this time as well. That time period is also the easiest time for women to reach orgasm. Let's break

this down right quick. So they're saying women who are on birth control are attracted to men who are less masculine. It's because the birth control thriving certain hormones that make you less feminine. So you're a tracted to the feminine because you're becoming the masculine. Could that explain like the ship we'll be talking about on Clubhouse right quick, like the masculine women, women being more masculine, being in a more masculine energy as opposed to being in their feminine energy.

Could birth control be the reason for that? Perhaps interesting m m mmmm. And then it also says that women are more likely to stray. It says, but women tend to desire overtly masculine men during their most fertile times. So say, for instance, this is how that reads to me. If you're a woman, and you're on birth control and you're with a man who's more of a uh less masculine man right during your times of fertility, you may be more attracted at just running that time to a

more masculine Yeah, a masculine man. What's the fuck? Right now? You're fucking a metro sexual kind of dude, a beta male. When you about to have your cycle, now you want to d MX, So you you fucking Cavin Samuels or your period right before your period, you wouldn't max, got it? So look all right, but we really need to look into that man, because that could really be that's you know,

because a lot of women are on birth control. We already know planned parenthood is mainly in black communities while white people got fertility clinics. Mm hmm. In planned parenthood is not just for abortions. Planned parenthood is for a planned parenthood, like so they give contraceptives or if you're having a baby, they counsel you on that too. But

birth control is a big part of planned parenthood. So if you're so, if a lot of black women are on birth control from the time they started started puberty for the most part, because your mom would be wanting to put you on that ship as soon as she think you about to be fucking. My mama didn't, but I know a lot of my friends mom did. My mom saw it as a weight, like, bitch, if I put you on birth control, I mean, you're gonna be working without a condom. And that's not really what I'm

concerned about. It's std is more so than the pregnancy. Um. But that's a that's the real thing. That's that's kind of that's weird to me that they actually did a study on that that a woman that's on birth control is more attracted to a feminine man. Oh no, exactly. That's real interesting. So could that explain also more women on your pussy right now and the analysts who you're fucking and why are you suing? It might be the implant on in your arm, even if it's a lesbian,

even if you're in a lesbian relationship. Could it be the birth control that puts push push you towards that because you're not looking for my skilling at that point, or you could you could be the masculine, you're looking for the feminine because of birth control. Yeah, that's crazy. Girls fucking with your chromosomes, that fucking with your DNA that you know, I never bitch. That's an interesting ship. Yeah it is. So we're gonna wrap it up for the day. We ramble on and on and on, but

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