In this episode of We Talk Back , hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the meaning of the "soft life" for Black women, exploring how it intersects with cultural narratives, gender roles, and personal well-being. They examine the origins of the trend, the weight of the “strong Black woman” archetype, and how social media has reshaped perceptions of ease, luxury, and femininity. The conversation also dives into relationship dynamics, the economics of independence, and the importance of self-care and...
Jul 17, 2025•44 min•Season 5Ep. 232
In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into everything from their weekend recaps to the messy realities of modern relationships. They unpack Diddy’s latest legal troubles and the ripple effects of abuse and scamming within the community. The conversation takes an unfiltered turn into the idea of “dixcipline”—the practice of sexual discipline—and why it matters. Exploring the push and pull between masculinity and femininity, the hosts reflect on the state of the Black commun...
Jul 10, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 5Ep. 231
In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off by recapping their weekend adventures and reflecting on themes of celebration, self-image, and growth. The conversation dives into the world of situationships, unpacking the emotional gray areas and the pressure of societal expectations in modern dating. As they share personal stories and honest perspectives, the hosts explore how views on love and commitment evolve—especially as women prioritize emotional stability and comp...
Jul 03, 2025•52 min•Season 2Ep. 230
In this week's episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the latest SINS—from David Banner’s viral take on cheating and accountability to Cardi B’s album announcement and Offset’s unexpected celebrity crush on Sabrina Carpenter. Later, they’re joined by Emmy-nominated journalist Simone Boyce for an insightful conversation on authenticity, representation, and resilience in media. Simone reflects on her journey as a biracial journalist, the challenges of freelance reporting, and the e...
Jun 26, 2025•57 min•Season 5Ep. 229
This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends before diving into their S.I.N.S. of the week—starting with the lawsuit against Tyler Perry (and you know TamBam had something to say about that). The conversation takes a serious turn as they reflect on the heartbreaking news of former MTV VJ Ananda Lewis's passing from breast cancer, emphasizing health awareness and the benefits of natural products. The hosts also lighten the mood with hilarious takes on workplace harassmen...
Jun 19, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 5Ep. 228
This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of AJ’s birthday festivities and weekend highlights. During their S.I.N.S. of the week, they cover everything from Keith Sweat’s comments on modern women to Coco Gauff’s big win, and Kevin Hunter’s tell-all about his relationship with Wendy Williams. TamBam also makes it known—don’t come for Tyler Perry in her presence. That leads into this week’s movie review: Acrimony . The ladies dive into themes of sacrifice, ment...
Jun 12, 2025•1 hr 16 min•Season 5Ep. 227
This week on the pod, Tambam and AJ Holiday break down their S.I.N.S of the week, starting with a new study claiming women prefer traditionally masculine men. They also unpack recent comments from rapper and media personality, Cam’ron on the Diddy trial, adding their own insights to the ongoing conversation. Later, the duo dives into the difference between “clinical” thinking and what they cheekily call “clitical” thinking—highlighting how emotions, intuition, and logic show up differently in de...
Jun 05, 2025•59 min•Season 5Ep. 226
This week, AJ Holiday and Tambam kick things off by recapping their weekend, including a stressful ER visit for AJ’s beloved cat. During their S.I.N.S. segment, they unpack the public fallout between Remy Ma and Papoose, and weigh in on a couple who made headlines for charging guests to attend their wedding. The conversation then shifts to Dawn Richard’s controversial testimony in the ongoing Diddy trial, sparking a deeper dialogue around loyalty and accountability. Later, the hosts dive into th...
May 29, 2025•1 hr 20 min•Season 5Ep. 225
This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tambam unpack their S.I.N.S of the week, including public reactions to the Nottoway Plantation burning down, the custody battle involving Halle Bailey and DDG, and the bizarre story of a woman found alive after missing for three weeks in the California mountains. The conversation then shifts to a deeper analysis of the legal controversies surrounding Sean “Diddy” Combs and Tory Lanez. The hosts explore layered topics such as abuse, victimhood, power, an...
May 22, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Season 5Ep. 224
This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tambam dive into their S.I.N.S. of the week, unpacking everything from Toni Braxton’s headline-making graduation outfit to a recent stabbing incident involving Tory Lanez. They also reflect on Marlon Wayans’ relationship with his mother and how it may have shaped his perspective on commitment. The conversation then shifts to the rise of social media panhandling—where people request money online, sometimes from total strangers. With humor and honesty, th...
May 15, 2025•57 min•Season 5Ep. 223
This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on the power of gratitude as a foundation for happiness and catch up on their weekend adventures. During the S.I.N.S. segment, the hosts unpack highlights from the Met Gala before diving into a thought-provoking discussion about the film Sinners and its cultural resonance. They explore themes such as the influence of energy in personal relationships, the economics of filmmaking, and the symbolism woven throughout the movie—particularly ar...
May 08, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Season 5Ep. 222
This week, Tambam and AJ welcome special guest Tarji Carter, founder and CEO of The Franchise Player, for an insightful conversation on franchising as a powerful vehicle for wealth building—especially within minority communities. Tarji shares her unexpected path into the industry, the mission behind her company, and why franchising can be a smarter option than starting from scratch. She breaks down common misconceptions, explains her unique consulting approach, and spotlights client success stor...
May 01, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Season 5Ep. 221
On this episode of WTB , TamBam and AJ dive into the controversy surrounding Shannon Sharpe’s lawsuit, the drama involving Kevin Gates and LeBron James, and Tracee Ellis Ross’s reflections on aging, gender fluidity, and dating across age lines all in their S.I.N.S. of the week. The conversation expands into an honest dialogue about dating preferences, mortality, and the emotional layers of marriage and parenthood. They share personal reflections on life choices, the evolving nature of love, and ...
Apr 24, 2025•50 min•Season 5Ep. 220
On this episode of We Talk Back , AJ and TamBam kick things off with a personal check-in, including TamBam’s commitment to the 75 Hard challenge and how it’s pushing her limits. During their S.I.N.S of the week, they touch on economic concerns like tariffs and the importance of revitalizing American industry, celebrate the milestone of an all-women space mission, and call out rapper Kash Doll for being a little too loose with her cash. The energy shifts into a candid rant session where the duo u...
Apr 17, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 5Ep. 219
In this episode, AJ Holiday, Tam Bam, and special guest B. Dot recap their weekend adventures, including their time at Dreamville Fest and other current happenings. During the S.I.N.S. segment, they dive into the latest Housewives of Atlanta drama and react to a viral video that sparked a heated debate around pro-life vs. pro-choice—one that turned physical between two women. The conversation then shifts to B. Dot’s journey as a music journalist, where he reflects on the evolution of the industr...
Apr 10, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Season 5Ep. 218
This week, AJ and Tam Bam kick things off by sharing their weekend highlights, including AJ diving into a new reality series her friend is producing. In the S.I.N.S of the week, they break down the latest drama from The Real Housewives of Atlanta . Then, they take a nostalgic trip back to the ‘90s with a review of A Thin Line Between Love and Hate , unpacking the film’s portrayal of toxic relationships and the traits that fueled the chaos. Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtam...
Apr 03, 2025•1 hr•Season 5Ep. 217
This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam cover everything from their weekend adventures to the buzz around the controversial 'BBL smell' phenomenon. They dive into a bizarre lawsuit where a man claims Apple turned him gay and weigh in on Young Miami’s take on giving a man four chances to cheat before calling it quits. The conversation then shifts to their reflections on Waiting to Exhale , sparking a deep dive into loneliness, the dynamics of female friendships, and the need for balance...
Mar 27, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Season 5Ep. 216
This week, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into the S.I.N.S, starting with Dr. Umar’s comments on not marrying his baby mamas. The conversation then takes a turn toward holistic health, focusing on colonics, detoxing, and the deep connection between gut health and overall well-being. They break down common myths about digestion, colon care, and douching while sharing personal experiences along the way. Beyond physical health, they highlight the importance of releasing both emotional and physical bagg...
Mar 20, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Season 5Ep. 215
This week, the ladies, AJ and Tambam dive into their S.I.N.S of the week, covering everything from Khloe Kardashian’s parenting decisions to Halle Bailey’s relationship drama, Doechi’s viral moment that had straight men in their feelings, and a track meet that took an unexpected turn. Then, they spice things up with a game of Truth or Drink , where they share hilarious and cringe-worthy stories—from wild nights out to awkward encounters. They also get real about the regrets of risky texts and th...
Mar 13, 2025•1 hr•Season 5Ep. 214
This week, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekend adventures—AJ’s trip to a movie premiere in Miami and TamBam’s foodie tour in New York. In their S.I.N.S of the Week segment, they break down Gervonta Davis and Lamont Roach’s recent boxing match, former basketball wife Jennifer Williams' relationship drama, and a viral debate about choosing between saving a child or a partner. Later, they sit down with the host of Black Dads Podcast to explore fatherhood, co-parenting, and the challenges mode...
Mar 06, 2025•1 hr 29 min•Season 5Ep. 213
In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tambam recap their weekend adventures, from Tammy driving the boat at a Lil Wayne concert to AJ gearing up for a Miami trip. They dive into S.I.N.S. , breaking down the concepts of "medium ugly" and "hood fine" after Glorilla’s shoutout to Duke Dennis. The conversation heats up as they explore Ne-Yo’s polyamorous lifestyle and debate the dynamics of main chicks versus side chicks, unpacking the emotional toll and challenges of infidelity. Lets dis...
Feb 27, 2025•59 min•Season 5Ep. 212
In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tam Bam dive into their personal Valentine's Day experience to Tambam’s frustrations of travel. During their S.I.N.S of the week, they discuss how the state of Ohio is seeking to make ejaculation a state of defense and a woman’s honeymoon going terribly wrong after a text from her ex. They also highlight their baddie of the week who invented a security system before getting into their main discussion. Next, the ladies the complex nature of dating,...
Feb 20, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 5Ep. 211
Its Love week! But before they get into their main topic AJ and TamBam discuss their experiences during Super Bowl weekend, including the highs and lows of the game, the impact of Kendrick Lamar's halftime performance, and the ongoing controversy surrounding Drake. Next, they get into their S.I.N.S of the week which included the unlikeliness of Liangleo Ball doing his ex and mother of his children Nikki Baby filthy! Afterwards, they begin the search for Tambam's future husband… hopefully. The la...
Feb 13, 2025•1 hr 29 min•Season 5Ep. 210
In this lively conversation of WTB , AJ and TamBam discuss their past weekend enduring cold weather while visiting family. They dive into the bizarre case of Onijah Andrew Robinson, an American woman "standing her ground" in Pakistan after a failed marriage plan, and reflect on cultural perceptions of entitlement in immigration. The duo also humorously covers a strange legal case involving cyber farting, Erica Mena's new reality show, and they spotlight the contributions of civil rights activist...
Feb 06, 2025•55 min•Season 5Ep. 209
On this episode of WTB , AJ and Tam Bam share their weekend experience, including a near death experience with AJ’s beau and Tambam’s vivid dream about pearls. During their S.I.N.S of the week they discuss the controversial issue involving DJ Akademiks and a minor. They also discuss the rumors surrounding Barack Obama, Jennifer Aniston, young rapper Big Dank getting denied by a Lyft driver because of her size. For their main discussion they speak on the necessity of decentering men in women's li...
Jan 30, 2025•1 hr 20 min•Season 5Ep. 208
On this episode of WTB, AJ and TamBam discuss what they did over the break which included, unwinding, instagram scrolling, celebrating friends birthdays and checking in on their health particularly regarding mammograms. Later in the episode they get into Stupid Internet News, and speak on Monica’s ex and his missing hairline, Cam Newton opening up about financially providing and Love and Hip Hop drama. They also unpack thoughts on a clip of Dr. Umar's views on dating, particularly black love, al...
Jan 23, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 5Ep. 207
*Originally aired May 9th, 2024* In this episode the ladies Tambam and AJ first discuss the Drake and Kendrick Lamar beef that put hip-hop fans in a frenzy over the weekend. They also touch on the controversy surrounding DJ Vlad and the Netflix roast of Tom Brady. Next, they were joined by Glasses Malone and Peter Bas from the “No Ceilings” podcast, where the conversation explores the concepts of shame and self-acceptance. They also, get into the discussion about power dynamics on social media, ...
Jan 16, 2025•1 hr 33 min
The Black Effect Presets... We Talk Back! AJ and TamBam reflect on their New Year celebrations, discuss health, diet changes, and dive into celebrity relationships and public perceptions. They unpack the dynamics of divorce and family, cultural perspectives on relationships and share their predictions for 2025. Also, they explore goal setting, visualization, manifestations, the importance of setting intentions, and the role of guided meditation in achieving personal goals with insights on how to...
Jan 11, 2025•46 min•Season 4Ep. 205
On this episode of We Talk Back , TamBam and AJ get into the S.I.N.S of the week including the current controversial topic on the Skip Bayless lawsuit. They touch on a woman’s story unable to rely on her boyfriend after falling on hard times. Next they are joined by Tristan, Big Stevo and Khaotic who are creators on TUBI and making big moves in entrepreneurship. They get into an engaging conversation about the nuances of romance in modern relationships, and even share some “Simp stories”. Lets d...
Jan 09, 2025•1 hr 23 min•Season 4Ep. 206
Check out some of the best moments in 2024 from the AJ Holiday and TamBam of We Talk Back podcast. Thank you for your continued support as we close out the year. Please join us in 2025 for more of your favorite duo. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Dec 30, 2024•20 min
