Ep. 24 "What The Hell Do Men Want?!"

So we mentioned us not knowing what the funk these guys want, So we decided we would bring some gentlemen on and talk to them about what they really want and see if they can be honest and vulnerable with us enough to explain what they expect out of women. So, gentlemen, tell us who you are, tell us a little about themselves. Um, let's see where do I start. I need to be cooking. Yeah, I'm kidding. I'm originally from South Carolina, been in Charlotte

since what two thousand seven? Promoter chef, Um, it's pretty much what I do. I just laid back in, chill in my life. That's what I like. And then tell us about yourself, sir, your name and where are you from? What you did? This red wine is exquisite. You got your painting up like, oh my bo I forgot sported at Mr Movie Time from gonna do a lot, serial entrepreneur promote clothing line, real estate, um a lot. I just I can't even remember. I always forget something j

all of that. Now I just do a lot. I'm I'm a serial entrepreneur, brand and and and well known throughout the Southeast um region of the United States of America. Went I went to Jamaica and they recognized me to got booked in dubaiole Okay, so worldwide sport went to Africa, had to do a party exactly. So that's pretty dope. So okay, both of y'all are pretty good. How much I got to do to be good? She said? Dope?

First of all? Okay, sorry they are so we want to ask you all some questions about relationships in your dynamics with women. Are both of you single or any of you in relationships aship? Okay? Really? How long we've been for like twelve years but officially recently it's been consistent for last ten months. Okay, congratulations to that. I'm single as of January newly single. How long were you in a relationship? About about two of them? Things about

two years at two different people. Noify, Yes, you have to be real specific with these dudes. Man, about two and a half except for two and a half years, Kenneth, What makes these ten months different from the last twelve years? Good questions. Um, Honestly, I feel like I was. I'm in a more mature space and I was over that time, just a little bit more set up, kind of knowing who I am or what I want, you know what

I mean. So I think I could actually have given the relationship at this point in time what it needed versus you know, little ship didn't playing around over of course at that time. So you guys have any kids? I don't, no kids? They want no kids? All right? For what? You got to have two beautiful young young lads, a boy and a girl. She's six, mirror he's eleven. They're both beautiful. They're so beautiful. I love him, Thank you so much. As long as they're newborns, you're good. No.

They The big question is what do men want? Sloppy yo, man, Okay, I just had to answer store. I know some people who don't like a lot of spin on their dick, so you can only speak for itself. Wow, right. I mean they don't know, right, right. He told me that some like that, and I'm like, I didn't even know Nick has existed like that. They don't like they don't like it sloppy. So that's all that's all you can get. Like this is such a layer. It's just such a

layer question. I feel like there's so many angles to it, like so just talk to speak to one. You can't what do we want in what aspect from what you know from from from my wife, she knowed, she that was that's why men want somebody that's solid. Got to be solid. You gotta be trustworthy, you have to be um. We don't got we We can't have to worry about y'all. You know what I'm saying, Like she gonna hold it

down for me. Like if I lived in this building and you was coming to see me, I got to feel comfortable that it might be fucking Cam Newton, baby Jesus and whoever else in this built on elevated with you and you not. It's just whatever that's big for me because of the circles that I play in and the stuff that I do. And I say, solid, trustworthy gott to be disgusting if you're not disgusting, it's not gonna last. Like when you can't be like learning disgusting

this because we're grown. We don't feel like going through that. So you can't teach a woman what you like at this point. I don't know. I beg they're different on that. I feel like you can't in that aspect. In that aspect, like in a sexual aspect, you can teach uh without it. You definitely can cheat them. Yeah, but you don't want to teach. You want them to come with the general knowledge, right, you don't. I have a problem. I want them to

come nasty. But in my mind, in my mind, you never did it before right to say so you want her to have her nat You might have had sex after your prom, but after that between that time like that, I don't think you su nobody. I'm a realist. I know what time it is is what it is. Everybody to somebody, that's that's just the reality. And everybody got close. But you didn't give him. Everybody somebody I've been set and you didn't get nobody. I ever realist. I ain't

ain't eve about to trick myself like that. That don't like your fifth grade boyfriend, like I think a fifth grade man that nigga, Bro, I'm the nigger that don't give us about him. So you are. So you're territorial over your woman like almost like she's a possession versus a person. I own her and that's say, no, she owns me too. We know you don't own anyone. Why anyone? What do you mean she is my possession? No she is not. She is a human persons, not to be possessed. No,

she possessed. And because look watch this, everybody wants to think I'm crazy. How you treat a rental car terrible? How you treat your car rental cars, dogging them out with no dope gas, nothing you can talk about like from the words I've treating up the great from example, see how you treat a rental car terrible, But the one that you own, you don't treat them like this. But are we comparing significant others two cars? Tangible things?

Were comparing it to whatever you're gonna take care of and it's not ownership like like like like I own you like I'm your master. But now like this is your dick, bro, this is you own it like you and I own and that's my pussy and I own it and I own you. But but but it's not controlling like it's hard. If you don't know me, then you may not understand what I'm saying. And at that point I really don't. So you don't cheat in relationships, That's what I'm hearing. No, No, I'm cheating. M hm.

I have we listen. We only can be as good as our last last ship, my last laship. I didn't cheat, did that? So what caused that relationship to dissolve? It wasn't know she was a dumb fuck. She was a dumb clock it out. I mean, just be honest, so we can we can say that intelligence and we can say that men do want to tell you very tough. It's not dumb and it is unintelligence. There'll be more clear. Just didn't work out, two different levels. It just didn't

work out. Let me. I'm just for listening. Much younger than yes, she was. She was okay, listeners, I'm I'm joking. Please understand. I love you all, I respect everyone. Just do not think. Do not take this too serious. But but no, it was just it was just bad time. I don't I don't I don't have a you know, when you just kind of broke up. You don't got that good dressed up answer yet you only got the real one you ain't really got. I feel like I

feel like, oh, then we're gonna with the dump. Then I don't feel like y'all would just y'all would just y'all were in two different places. How old? Okay? How old was she in comparison to you? How many years apart? How young was she? Mmm? I don't know. Oh you remember a long time ago, man? Okay, okay, so you're about ten years ten plus years older, I mean give it take maybe seven to ten, you know, but so many maturity To be honest, I think it was that. I think. I think I think a lot of it

stems from father. Like father figures man man like if you don't, it's about trusting in the man. If you didn't grow up trusting in the man, then you're starting way behind the curve of trusting the man. And to get to get the best out of out of a man, he got to feel like you're relying on him, not monetarily, but like if I sunk up, I'm sucking her life up to like she put her trust in me, you know what I'm saying. And if you if a dude don't get that, then he can't operate. You know what

I'm saying in my opinion, sense of responsibility. Yeah, it's it's it's it's it's just it's all about just trust. So I just think that that's you know, that was a major thing that was missing and just her not trusting you or you're not trusting her. No, just trusting in men period. I don't think she's trusting the men. And then also just social media or it's just a it's a travesty. Yeah. Yeah, if you don't stop talking like that would beat your ass. It's such a travesty

that thing, that thing, like I really like that. Shu made me want to start a whole initiative like going to the elementary schools and and and like and you know how we had there because crack took over. Like social media is really the new Crackly, we need a program to go around and speak to young boys and young girls and so that they understand like this is all bullshit. It's like it's like fake reality TV. It's like also the music, now, we got to add the

music in there too. I really feel like I feel like young men don't fall in love because it rap music tells you don't have to, and then it just tell you girls the bust of wide open for a real nigga, and and it tells young girls to to make them, make them, make guys spend money on them eating then it makes it makes men not even feel worthy if they if they don't hand them like who nobody's gonna start off broke together no more. That's like a thing of the past that was in the nineties.

Like people are sharning off broke together. They still are. They ain't got no choice, But what do you get on in relationships? And they ain't got ship But but it's not up front. It's not like it's not like like Timmy, I don't got it, like I got these dreams, I got this this ambition, but right now I'm just trying to go get it. And you like, I mean, I support that, like you know, as long as you know we're gonna do it. It It ain't none of that. This nigga acting like he got it, but he don't

got it. He doesn't spend his laugh on him the oars. You know what I'm saying. His last, and she and taking out he don't got pregnant, and now she's like damn here And then dudes, you got dudes like money bag yo, who they just openly be like, I know she wouldn't sunk with me if I don't have bread. He's talking about his girlfriend, bro, Like like you like you you said, you're saying, like, I know I'm ugly. I know that she wouldn't poke with me unless I

was rich, And you're comfortable with that? Like, but they really fucked up, bro, Well you have to be comfortable with women being attracted to resources. No woman wants any man who doesn't have anything to bring to the table. And right now women are bringing a lot. We're coming with a lot right now. I disagree. Would you be comfortable with somebody was only attracted to your ass, Like if you didn't have your ass, then they didn't wuldn't I feel like that is very real? Like men are

attracted to ask men are men? Men love aesthetically, they love visually, right, So men are way more shallow than women. So true, y'all all right, but but you've been had to deal with that. I don't think some of the men that I attracted, and then I attract men who like nice smiles as well. Then you put the smile and ask together. It's a smiley ass. But now I feel what you're saying. I just feel like it's just bad. I think. I don't know. I disagree with you, Sammy.

I'm sorry about men being comfortable with women being attracted resources. Don't. Don't be attracted to my resources because these ships can go and they're gonna go like every like it could be up and then it could be down. So if you just attracted to my resources, you ain't. So what I'm hearing is you want a woman as loyal right, what I'm hearing Okay, didn't want to provide her? No, she just needs a man that she loved and then he would provide. Yeah, but not every man is a provider.

Well I don't know them. Okay. So you have a daughter, right, your daughter? What kind of standards would you like for your daughter to have? I will, I would want my daughter to marry a man. They could be broke and

living in the worst can due to the house. Yes, if this nigga really love her, like like if if they don't got no food, he's going to find it like he gonna go like no matter what, I'd rather that over rich nigga who who don't really love her like that, like he just sucking with her conda and and I don't see the love like I don't really man all I watched my mama die. I don't like, I don't give a funk about nothing material because you don't take none of it, which is when you die,

you don't even know where you left it. The resources is like they're just like because because we like, your ass gonna drop one day, you know what I'm saying, you you're gonna you're gonna keep it uplifted, but you know one day it's gonna drop and U and teeth you know, and whatever I go, I don't know, you just never know. So I need that real love. What

are deal breakers for y'all? Like, like completely deal breaker if they fuck somebody that isn't the second day I watched on TV off somebody from the Lakers man the time. You know what my my deal breaker is. My deal breaker is not being straight up. That is my biggest deal breaker. Be straight with me, Like, let me know

what the funk you got going on? So I know what I'm dealing with, like if you don't somebody from the leggers tell me that, so I know if I want to deal with that, when you tell me after that, I'm just gonna hear. You know what I'm saying, But I'm a very straight sex with the girl and then leave her alone. Let her know that that's that's the only thing you're after. You're gonna make her feel like

it's more no way. So what I'm hearing is, let's because I like, I had a real good therapy session last week and we did mirroring, right, So what I'm hearing is is that y'all niggas don't want to funk behind rich niggas were just as rich. But it's not about that. It's about that we got to sit on the couch and I got to watch the nigga that you that you might have sucked, Okay, but you don't have nothing to do with the bread. Okay, I shouldn't

have said TV. Let me say, if it's anybody that we got to see too much, like somebody basically not even somebody I know. I'm trying to think of what's another way of doing it. You would I feel like you would have been a radio personality if I got to hear his voice every day. Yeah, but I feel like you every time. Everybody don't gotta be sucking dead had sexual experience. Yeah, but especially as promoters. I'm sure you guys we keep it separate. We do business, we

get and we do the party, we go home exactly. No, no lucky young ladies. None, no talking about yes, Okay, I don't believe that. But see, like I said, mine is being straight as long as you keep it straight with me and just be like my shallow you know what I'm saying, Like, when would you keep it straight with me and be like, yo, I gotta tell you, I such I used to sledge. All right, let me rationalize that. Let me let me rest on that, you know what I'm saying that that I know the change

that you might not be able to rest on it. Yeah, that could be a change. Okay, so you kind of just like but no, but but it's it's it's it's if you don't tell me this and I got to find out, like on some sideway ship, you know, if somebody had a conversation and makes what like you know, I mean, I'll be in Coloch quarters with this nigger. You ain't tell me that's a deal breaking for me.

So would you be okay if the girl was just sucking with some bumbass niggers because I've I've experienced that relationships. You see what I'm saying, Like, now you now you could go in on Now you can go in on me because I'm not used to your caliber of man, right, nigger, but you're holding the heat on me because upgraded the woman at that point. Now I'm joking, Um no, let me tell you. Let me be honest. I'm playing too much and I feel like everybody is going to get

a false from this. So for clarity, I was serious about to shoot on TV. I'm not comfortable with that. I had to learn that, Like I don't because it's the caliber of type of girl out track. She probably don't work with the NFL, NBA. Somebody ended up. Happened a couple of times, and I'm uncomfortable. I don't even like watching the game. The more I wouldn't watch the

whole season, then I don't. I don't. I don't give it because then it's like if we're both watching the game, think about it, though he don't not even if he don't, he could just be running down the court. You can have a quick day dream you right beside me. That's just that's what I don't think. Extra. Nobody wants somebody, So y'all don't care if y'all have a man, and y'all have to be around a person, and this is your exactly like we used to these pass around that's

not possessive. First of all, I'm the type of person I want to experience people. I don't try to possess anybody. I will let you do what you want to do so I can see what you rather do. Make me feel like answers was wrong, and your answers are absolutely wrong.

But what I was trying to say was you may feel more comfortable with a woman who has not dude does not know successful men, because then that that will be the problem, right, It won't be that I know successful men and now you're you're insecure because I know other successful men outside of you. No, I don't. I don't like that word. I don't. I don't because it's

it's not an insecurity, it's just what I like. What I don't like, Like I think we are to control that you want ain't never dealt with nobody like I can't control successful. I can't. I can't control it. It's just if I find it or not. So then you would want her to not tell you know, you gotta tell me. So what I'm hearing is you would like a woman to write a list out of all the men she's been with so that you can Is that

what you would like when you do that? In turn, for her write a list of every woman that you nigga can't remember that they've Let's not be my list. On one hand, it's you find this liar at girl, no one hand, go ahead, but cut it up? No, but no, okay, son want okay being honest, No, I don't want to list. I would just prefer that. But honestly, like it's all about when you tell the nigga too you know what I'm saying, because like, if you tell me too early, I'm already gonna be like, well this

is how I'm a handle her. You know what I'm saying. Oh, I just don't even want no parts. But if you kind of wait, like maybe third or fourth date, we already got some great chemistry. And then you say, well, hey, I see where this is going. I just want to let then it might be a little more difficult from because I gonna start liking you, you know what I'm saying. So I probably could deal with it, you know what I'm saying. But it really depends on who it is like.

It can't be like Puff, like somebody that I just really really like. So so it's not about the success of the man the better man. Yeah, if a woman were to funk with a bunch of bum maass niggers, you'd be looking at her sideways, right, But if she were to funk with a bunch of successful men, you're now looking internally. You see what I'm saying. Yeah, I think that makes sense for some people, but I think for me it's not. It's not about that. It's more so I just don't want to have to look at

somebody that you sucked his dick. It's not like I don't want to have to look at him. See, Honestly, did I just say it could be a fifth grade boyfriend. I don't give a I shouldn't have said TV. That's why I funked up wind. The truth is it could be a nigger at work right at CVS. I'm not going in that CVS. No more, I don't want to have to look his eyes so that he could have done it on your face and something like because I know how you because we have sex, so I know

I'll be saying I know what you'd be doing. I know exactly what happens. So I'm not going to that CVS. Well, he different, Let's talk, Kenneth, Go ahead, Kenneth. Like I said, I'm a realist, right, he knows this because I'm like a very I'm a very straight shooter, very very real I know that if you if you didn't talk to a nigger, there's probably a good ch answer to you. And stuff to Dick is what it is. That's what But you see how even though he's a realist, it's

something about the dick suck that you know. I wasn't I was saying. I was saying that because we have been I'm saying telling me before that like you'd be like, I mean, she probably she probably did something about the dick sucks like that. But that's the reality of the situation. Guess what, I hae a bit, you know what I'm saying. So it's just an age. I mean, honestly, it just is what it is. It's like I can't change that. You can't change it. Everybody and did ship you know

what I'm saying. It is what it is. I'm I'm just saying, like I said, my thing, my number one thing is this, As long as you keep it straight with me, don't shoot me, no bullshit, none of that, because then that's when I cut you out. Look, let's move on to the next question. Y'all, y'all, I'm gonna tell you, sportio d you insecure. We're gonna that's what it is. And we didn't like that, won't bring that right back, and we can bring it back up just what it is, just what is, and then I'll be fine.

It's about how much I like head and how with my girlfriend, how I feel when she gives me head, like if I had a girlfriend. But it's about how it makes me feel, right, that feeling that I have. You don't want the other man if I don't know know, I know, I know, like we know it happened, but I don't want to look nobody in their eyes if they had that same feeling that this is an exception, just gonna sun your luck. It's so weird. But unless y'all hair kids, I have no problem being cool with

the baby daddy because something came out of it. To judge me, I don't give a funk. But and she probably sucked this more than anybody else, but something came out of it. It was for real, if he was if it was a person, he was just sliding you off. And y'alln't even had a relationship. What if she got a house out of it? What if she got a house out the head? Oh god, children, no, it could be a not so look, before we move on to the next segment, let's have a word from our sponsors.

So does a woman's body count matter to you? Guys? I don't ask that question. I don't want to know what your body count. If you're a real nick tell me. I do not want to fucking no, because you do not want to know my that's weird. I'm like, don't ask me, don't ask. He want to want he want to beat you suck dick on the handstand when he snatched nobody else after prom that one time after that, it's weird. It's weird. I don't know. I don't think I'm gonna find it, But no, um, the body count.

I don't ask the body count. I had one girl that told me, like when I was younger, she told me, and she was just trying to be honest, being open. We was talking and they just totally turned me off. Yeah, so I just I don't even want to know it, because you remember, the number got to stick insisted out of head situation with numbers kept fluctuating, humber going up or was it going But you know you got a motherly motherply by three. Yeah, women don't tell you the

real number. I don't think any woman they do. Y'all want to know that real number? Why that's a question for you. I think that is the dumbest ship in the world. First off, So how much does looks matter? We already kind of talked about that, right, So I don't think it looks that much. That's whatever. Not that seriously, don't we got to be pretty? I like regular women. I don't want no team, give me no team. So you don't want you want regular women? What is regular men?

Don't I don't want to Instagram model. I don't know that she give me a regular degular chick. She might not have might not have a big old but she might not have big old t You need a big, regular degular chick. I don't want so she wouldn't be you. You would call her a teen or you would be like my ladies and my ladies soulidfied for the beginning.

I'm saying, like like like a solid, a solid saying she put on makeup that, but but you will still tell her she's a ten though, right, you're my team, so what you so Basically what I'm hearing is absolutely sound worse. No no, no, because what I'm hearing is let me Yeah, other things can make her a tend

like her? Is she resourceful? You know? It's just to show empathy things like that, like aside from I feel like I feel like the looked thing like hopefully you kind of get away from that the more mature you get, because everybody, everybody's gonna give you the best initiative. You know what I'm saying. First date, she gonna get you, She's gonna get her team, get your twil What the fun you look like when you take this makeup? You

know what I'm saying, because I'm getting the team. As soon as I meet you, I meet you, I'm getting a tin. You know what I'm saying, We're going the first thing. I'm getting a version of a team. All right, so this is your best What the rest look like? Let me know if I need to know if I can deal with that. Okay, you might come home, you might come home from work and you look like a six. Cool, but I know we get ready to go out, you're gonna pop out looking like a tin. So I'm cool.

Okay with that? Cool? Got backed me a little bit. Just be good. Let's go figure that out. Okay, I like that. I don't be tri How about some finances. What the finances got to be? Like a woman? I ain't did it with no broke, no brokey brokey. My thing with my thing with finances? This show some effort that if you if your money sucked up and you're working on get your money fixed. Cool. I get that. What do you deal with a brokey brokey? Because you

said women should deal with a brokey brokey? Right? I really don't good? You got money now nothing? So woman doesn't have to bring any money to what? So after my last relationship, I've been like learning what I liked and being honest with myself. And I said this to myself yesterday, like literally yesterday. Um, I really don't because like I like to be of use. I like to feel like you need Yeah, if you needed like so I would love like if you meet them all the

other troubled criteria that I have. If you do, you ain't got no you ain't got no money. That's cool. We could got a way to make some money, you know what I'm saying, Like I could figure that out, So I don't really trip on the money looks, I don't. I don't agree with that. You Like, there's certain things like you got you got to you got to have some type of order your finance, you got, you got. You just got to have the want. If you got

the ambition, I'm gonna get you to know. What I'm saying is like like you can't have a job and then be sucking your money off fucking dumb ship. You know what I'm saying, It can't maintain your money because you miss handling your money. You know what I'm saying. If you're not regular nine to five, you make it, you come on your checko weeks and you ain't paying your bills and you're blowing the money on dumb ship. Then okay, no, I I don't. I don't care about that.

But if you if you come on for work, you pay your bills up and you broke, ain't chilling about that because you're handling your money. We'll see. I don't. I don't, I ain't never had experienced that. But but my thing is like when I like when I first, when I started liking you for real, I'm gonna actually, what's your dreams? Like? What is your what is your

dream anything? Because then because then when you tell me that, I can see where you're at, and I can see where you want to be, and I could see if I could be. And if you say I don't know, and you broke and you're like I don't know, then it's a dog like because you don't, you're gonna be stuck where you at for a long time. So what I'm hearing is you want a woman with ambition. Yeah, she got having, but looks I didn't like. I'm opposite

of Kenny on that. I know what I like. There's certain things I like, um like you have to have full lips, like I can't get full lips. Like I think God was like cold when he made women. So like my pretty is different. Like you, I point out one and you'll be like, you think she's pretty, Like she's pretty as hell to me, Like because it's so, it's gonna be something that God just made about her. That's very pretty. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, that

made me feel good. What the fun? So what I'm hearing is, y'all want intelligence, you want pretty because pretty is in the eyes of the beholder ambition. Y'all want a woman with confidence. Didn't funk Ellen Iverson, So we got to an example hopefully doesn't or money bag, money bag, And like I got a whole thing about niggas who only can get women when they got money. It's like, you know, like when you're making like some instant I don't know, gravy, you add water for gravy, you get

the little powder bag of gravy. Yeah, so some of these niggas be the packets of gravy. So you add water, you add money for instant swag. You see what I'm saying. Because I feel like men should get the women, they should have the women that they were able to get before they got the money. Yeah, you see what I'm saying. I agree, it is good. That's that's that's a great theory. I agree with that. I agree with that. Before we get into anything else, let's pay some bills real quick.

So a woman who's too independent to you is dealing? Oh really, so both of you. I don't like women who are independent, too independent. Excuse me? What does that mean? What's too independent? Too independents? Acting like you don't need a man? Like you can't do like what ship? I don't know. You can't got damn handle TV. Can't hug yourself. You can't hug yourself, you can you need a minute for some ship. So you you've been kind of women who say I don't need you to hug me. I

have experienced that. I think a lot of women want you to know that they want you, but they don't need you, you know, And that's and that's is that a problem now? It's like it's like, like he was saying about kind of responsibility as a man, It's like, there are certain ships that you can rely on me for. I mean, that's that's part of the part of the point of being in a relationship, and so some of the weight gets taken off. You want certain ships vice versa.

So for example, if if your clod break that you know what I'm saying, it is my job as a man. I might not know what the funk wrong, but I'm gonna look upon it hood just to see that's my responsibility. And if you know that I'm doing it, don't don't go behind Like women, I feel like the more and more often, I don't think I've talked about the type of women I like openly, and I'm starting to judge myself. But I don't give because I know what I like.

If I am trying to fix your car and and I'm doing it wrong, as long as they're gonna fucking all the way up, just like, let me go, just let me not if its gonna just if it's gonna like do some some damage, damn to be like babe, hold on. But if I'm trying, don't shoot me it, don't have no nothing, nigga, come behind me and fix it. Like don't call your daddy, basically no, don't call your daddy. Of course, call your daddy. I'm talking about like a whole nother nigga. He be my homeboy, and I got

to look him. No, you don't. Might have stuffed this dick now you don't it too, because how she knew him, how she knew him. I know a guy who didn't like his girl calling her dad to do nothing. That's sick, that's weird. Like I come home and he outside cutting the grass. Why is he cutting the grass? Why didn't you cut the grass? Niggas? Yeah, I see it now, I'm I'm interjected on that one. That's I feel like

as a man, that's how we're so different. If he's cutting the grass, I feel like that to handle it's certain ship that maybe it's because I was raised, I make money. He's gonna cuts it's certain ship. That's that's my responsibility to handle at the crib. You know what I'm saying, cutting the gir getting the grass cut and taking the trash out ship like that. Where you are you are a great man, very traditional man. South Carolinia Kenneth is in touch with his feminine and masculine side.

You see. The thing is that scourtiority. If I'm treated properly, you may be more in touched with just like I mean, we have a yeah masculine and I feel like we have like a distorted vision or idea of what a masculine and feminine should be knda, you know what I'm saying. So it's the whole thing. In a black community, nobody wants this masculine woman, right, But why are we associating

masculine with like aggression. Do you want a woman that you could tell the sky is purple knowing down well it's blue, where she's like, yeah, baby, it is purple. Is that the type of woman you want, Dannie, that's what you want? You know? I don't like no. I think that I'm very in touch with my femin so I think I'm very honest. I think being macho would have been don't like she didn't know. That's not the truth.

Is I care about you are being vulnerable and telling what you like like like, I am not comfortable with that. I don't have to like this is our only life we live like. I love y'all beautiful black women, y'all laughing me talk at this was listening to talk. I don't give a fuck. It's my life. I'm not gonna feel comfortable. Come not watching the god them NBA finals and yourself. I've been in two situations like this in my life. I was never comfortable. I stopped watching them niggas. Bro.

The reason that I am the way way I am is because there's a very good chance you could be in the same situation. She could be in the same situation. She could be, we could be. But it may be a waitress that goddamn but you but you just hit her. See, Okay, this is another thing like so just like A J said, they're not sucking very dick. So if they that's that said too. If they don't suck this dick. But how do you know my mind? You don't know you That's

how women paint the picture. That's why I don't rest on it. If we are, if we are here and and this bit sucking my dick or I fucked her say this? Yeah, and this girls woman, I don't I don't give a funk about her, Like I never cared about her, but I just hit her for I'm more concerned if you've gave this bitch money? Did you? Did you give this bit some money? You cancer? So I think that I think that that's the thing is like women,

and this is the old this is old too. So like young girls, they sucked it way faster than than something before they do anything before anything, So now my theory is probably stated, but if you don't suck this man dick, then it was deeper. So that's why I

ain't really comes definitely outdated. Yeah, but if if if, if it's a girl in the vicinity that I funked with men, we don't really funk with feelings like that in all situations, true, So it's like you ain't even got nothing to worry about, like like I'll tell I, like, fuck her. You know what I'm saying, Like what y'all probably feel the same way, but in my head, it just ain't clicked like that. Let's be honest, all right, So what if if it was it was feeling you

ask is up there? What it was asid like, yeah, they have the chance, you ain't this? There was excuse this woman, then there was I think it's the same thing. I think if you don't ate some masks, then you really funk with that person. Everybody, every dog and hair of that day had the moment I'm gonna think about this and I'm gonna actually contact y'all again, because because after after this, y'all had this on my mind for the rest of my day. No, lie, let me thinking

like damn do I really care? Could I get past it? I'm gonna let you. You should be able to get pants at especially at your age. The age don't don't do nothing. It does. It's just because you're gonna continuously, especially then your age range. Yeah, they have life experiences, so I know they Suth did. The fact that you're su Dick is cool, but it's about I don't like, I do not want to be in close proximity habitually

with somebody who did yourself. That's fair, but see I wanted, like I want, I want to know that you did it, so that I know when I'm walking into the situation I ain't walking in, I ain't walking in blind, and I could that may make it easier. I ain't walking in blind, I ain't walking in. And then and then you walk up and be like, then now I got the process all this in this nick face. I think, now, how would we know? Like, how would I know? You

don't want to tell you that? I mean there's a possibility like if the person you know that you know what type of circles the nigga used to mess with movie then so if a woman likes you, then she'd have to lie to you. If a woman really likes you and wants your relationships advance, she you're not because when when when somebody's not If you're not putting somebody in the position to be comfortable to tell you the truth, what you're doing is putting them in the position to

lie to you. We like each other. You you, you're we're investing in each other emotionally, physically, maybe financially, gifts and ship like that. And now like damn, I did used to work with this person all right, Like like yo, I saw him that up in the club. Like at one point, I ain't gonna say nothing. I ain't see it.

I think that, um, you should be comfortable. I feel like if you don't, if you if you don't tell the nigga, you don't, I feel like, if you can't be honest with that nigga, you don't really fuck like that. But when you have a judge, guy, it makes it hard because I mean, but I'm not just saying you. I don't think it's bad that you that's the chance you take this. I don't think you're a bad person. It's just a woman for you. No, No, you're a great woman. You're still a queen. You're a beautiful I

wish your best. It's not I wish you the best. It's not comfortable for me. It really has nothing to do with the woman. I'm glad you brought it up so I could be clear for the listeners. It really has nothing to do with the woman. The woman is still golden and she is somebody's queen to be. For me, I am not comfort it's what I don't fight what I'm not comfortable with. I'm not the person that's gonna come to your house for your function, and I feel like I got to stay at least an hour. If

I'm ready to leave in ten minutes, I'm out. I don't do nothing all yeah, like yeah, And if you ain't like it, don't fighting back. I don't. I don't live uncomfortable in no situation because life is just too too beautiful. So if I'm gonna be uncomfortable, then no, I want to feel like I know everything about the woman. That look, if I really funk with you, because I gonna be honest, like I don't overlook some ship before that. I'm saying right now that I wouldn't. So if I

really fun with you, I'm gonna overlook it. I just got to note, like Kenny saying, so that whenever that ship come up, he's like, it should don't matter to me, you know what I'm saying. But it's like if you're like solid as hell, it's like it's like a balanced being. Like if you solid as ship, you're loyal and ambitious as hell. But I'm be honest. You know, you know DJ Song, so that you might funck with or whatever. I used to fun with him, then I ain't gonna

give a funk because the other ship is outweighed. That makes sense. So you're wiping up somebody you on the first date? Yeah, because I think I'm so sexy that it wasn't their fault that they sucked me. It was mine. It was my cologne, it was how I walked. I'm just I'm being honest, Bro, I don't blame you. I would me too. The first thing you're talking about, Yeah, it wasn't her fault. She tried, she didn't want to, but it was just something that was too much. So

a lot of your rules are surrounded by sex. It seems like, Yeah, like these folks. The very first thing he said where she got to have sloppy head. So we got to get back to that. So that's important, very important. Head is important. Yes, I don't want to dry. I don't want to te tefe tee explain to our listeners. I just made up. But no, yeah, um, not a lot of teeth like you got to you got to be you know good. I don't even like I watched porn. I don't even watch fucking parts. I only watch slop

your head. So if you met a woman that check your boxes, you met a woman who checked all your boxes in every single capacity. Oh no, don't say it, except except what head is as her mouth just naturally dry? Or does she know the technique, because then if she her mouth is not dry, Oh, it's not if he just doesn't know how. Because let's say a woman, a woman is probably going to give your head the way she gave the last niggerhead how he liked it, until you teach her what you like. Oh my god, you're

just scarding me. I never thought about that. I know, I've never thought of that in my life. Oh I can't do this no more. Man, I mean I am hurt, oh a lot, I'm stressed. I never thought about that. I don't agree that before, I don't always agree with you. I feel like I feel like I've heard from girls that like if they'll ask the big sisters or other cases, they'll give each other advice and exactly, but the man is going to determine exactly what is good to him.

So I feel like, and she's gonna take what she learned between her man into her next But every man don't like the same thing. So like if she do it in the circles, then a lot of spit, then all that was like, but no, but no, but nah. But most women ask how you like it? They're gonna ask that, like I like to, I just need to be quiet. No, just say it. You already said everything. I'd like to talk to sex, so I want to know what I'm getting into. Fight and waste my time,

you know what I mean? So you got to talk about it. You don't feel like a woman can talk. You can talk to the game and be like some being on some bullshut. Some women have that. That's why I'm talking about. You might catch me on the off day. Their mouth don't produce salava. You gotta choke him, you gotta stick all that. We know that trick, but all of them, some of them just don't have it. It ain't in there, and then the ones I stay away from. I'm just trying to figure out. Y'all have like such

huge requirements from here, but what is your head? Like? You know, are you providing the same things that you require? We call it router to the tutor, And like that made me want to poon a little bit. I don't really like them to that. You want the agent, Yes, it's like, please don't no, but no, I mean you got to match it nasty. Would you guys date strippers? Seriously? No one Nigga said no, No, I'm not doing that. She did. I just feel like, I don't know if

I got a problem with that. So you won't date a girl who knows but she can show her asking the pole every day. She can't know. She can't strip up until she meet me, and then I got to change her life. What. I don't care if you'll click. I don't care if nobody understands me. There is the bottom line. You don't understand you. I'm telling you. I get exactly what I'm saying. He knows me. I get exactly. Yeah, you can meet together, take her number and like date

her serious, like like if I took her number. We go out and she's like, you know, I've been dancing, you know, you know. But really what I want to do is I have this whole line of kinds of process and I want to travel. You're gonna tell the quick, You're gonna tell the quarter quick. We're about about to do this talk about have ambition. He was like, what. Now, here's the thing how I feel about women who was stripped.

I feel like the most promiscuous women are not the ones that be stripping anything standards and the bottle girls. It's the bottle girls exactly. The bitches on the pole be having hell of standards. All right, you gott at least how that check something A right? So we have this um segment called dumb Bitch. Stories are SIMP series and it's where a woman or a man shares to tell with us of them being played by the opposite

sex in some type of way. Can y'all share story with us that has happened, because everybody has been played in some way before SI series? How was you a sent one time? Sporty? What's your story? Um? So I think this is what like made me a little colder. It made me just like really tap into what I wanted. It wasn't It was in the eighth grade. In the eight grade. It was a girl. I asked you to go to the eighth grade social with me, and she said yes, and I was on cloud nine and so

she says, We're going to the social. We go to the social. Everything was fine. I wasn't really like fast back there. You know, some niggas was like fucking get hit and ship. So it was like, I think it was a perfect time where I could have fucked I got some head, but I just didn't you know what I'm saying. We was like locked out the house and we sat outside of my house for like an hour, so we could have like snuck off this some ship, but I just wasn't advanced like that, right. So um,

we get back to school, boom. I just feel I'm such that nigga for taking to the to the social and then we get to my nigga. I go to my nigga house afterwards and he's like, man, we've been talking ship, but she's been trying to play you. I'm like, what you mean? He So he calls her on on three way and I'm listening and he was like, yeah, so I know you went to the social with my

nigga's sports. She was like, oh, I just went to the social with him because I felt bad for him for asking me and I didn't want to tell him though, and it broke my heart. It's funked up after that. Fuck you girl, you know when it's nigga for all these other women. Right, I'm better now though you've healed. Yeah, I'm really a great guy, y'all. Story, No, I was cold that now now, y'all not paying for this, But them girls in high school, they paid every bit of

that ship. I have such a better story. Let's hear it, all right, So go back in my high school days. I was an all TC. So that just shows you my live what I would I had back one of the baddest in school in high school, Cloud nine. She was a home and anybody till this is bad. This is what timed to cold I school after that, and it might tell me. So he was kicking. We're on the phone and like I'm getting ready to go over there. Her sister comes in the room and she's like I

want the phone. She's like, no, I'm not getting off the phone. She was like, if you don't give me the phone, I'm gonna tell mama you had that boy over here that I was at home. No, my girlfriend, I was at home. After that, After that, I school, Yo, let you go out last night? No, I ain't go no one. I'm gonna tell mom you had that blow over here last night. I'm like, what I dropped? Huh? Then I started to five out. Then I start No, Niga tried to fight me over that girl, like Nick

that lived down the street. Try to fight me with the girl. It was both of your girlfriend, man, he could have she she was nasty that early. Another thing, remember when I told you this too in high school whenever I accidentally had two girlfriends because I didn't want to break up with the one girl. But she went. Now, I promise it was. It's a long time ago. I would tell y'a if I was trying to be a player. So then my girl, my girlfriend that I really really

liked that within school with me, she found out. So then I spent the whole year trying to get him back, trying to get it back and get it back. We go to the prom right after prim I'm thinking, I'm gonna fuck. Do you know what she said to me? Or? Can you drop me off with my boyfriend? Do you know what I did? You know what I did? I dropped off? I mean what else could you do? Y'all wonder why I got all of these guys there at Nigger. That's a real step story, so dumb. Really, I dropped off.

I don't remember we said by not because that would be weird, but I think she might have just got out the car. You remember they all listen to say, you know, they all come back, and any girl to ever disrespect that they all come back in college. All right, guys, I feel like we got a whole lot of you don't feel like we're coming anything anything. This is this is one we could have said in five minutes, but

he was having fun. Guys just want somebody solid. They want somebody that they feel it just for them, and somebody's gonna hold it down for them, no matter what they got, no matter if we up, were down, if we're down, you're gonna help help me, help us get back up. And if we up, you can help me spend it. And that's just it. That's it. Don't really end she got to have full lips, and and you got to get your head and look look at me in my eyes while you do it. And they're gonna

handstand never full. And I were sending money back, yo, just those two though. It's just those two. You know. That's also all right? Ladies, there you have it. That's your list, So do what you will with that information. I don't know. And just as lost as that was, I feel like it was so clear. Listen. So the bottom line is men are just as complicated as the word, the really common word, but you cannot tell anybody what the definition is unless you use Google. These niggas are complex.

I think that's why I've been talking in circles. I don't know what I want to the calm everything I said, and listen. And also this is what men also do. And I talked to him about this earlier. The women that got away, right, y'all want to take small fragments of them, and y'all want that and one person it's impossible, but like women, you can't do it. You're gonna have to have some things that you don't like, including in the person that you do. So twenties, what you're saying yes, Yes,

where's Kevin Samans when you need him? Women, thank y'all for coming on. Really appreciate it, very very fun. Definitely enjoyed myself. Two women are wonderful your queens and you are a brilli paving a way for the future of the woman. Thank you so much. No problem at all. I love all rappers and NBA players. Yeah, book y'all come to a party. Y'all acting extra sticey towards him, right. I love you guys. You guys, your job is hard, and I understand that. We appreciate you so much. I

have no problem with anyway. A real quick uh Sporty and Kenny, we have yourself plug yourself. Chef Ken Dog Ken Deef is Deef keith rhyme relief. He has a lot of nicknames. He's more than just a chef. He's a he's a he's a therapist. Like when he comes into your home and he does these private cooking sessions. He's gonna talk to you. You're gonna feel very good. Is you get more than just the food experience, you get an overall experience. He's a great friend. He's also

a hell of a businessman. He's one of the brains behind presidential movement, entertainment, who's throwing some of the biggest events in the world. He's an overall great guy, overall great guy. I agree. What's your Instagram? His Instagram is paying me, Underscore prints paying me Underscore prints. Hit him up, hit him up? Um, Yeah, sport on all platforms as P R T, E O D. I follow me so that you can understand a lot of stuff you heard

was just snimmons. I can't fit my life into this out and have podcast a whole lot more to me, so please don't judge. Um and yeah, just follow. You know what I'm saying. Uh, I'm bad at seeing everything that I do, but just a serial entrepreneur. Okay, y'all follow these gentlemen. They have a lot of great things to offer. Follow me at official team band. Everybody follow we talk back podcast. He J what else you got?

That's all I got. I really enjoyed you guys. I love to get the black man perspective because you know, we got a lot of funk up ship going on in the black community. Man. The bottom line is, how we make our relationships better is just a mutual respect comprehension. So if you enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday on the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever the funk you get your podcasts at