Ep. 37 "It's Always Me for Me" with Tweet

tweet things. I'm doing great, I'm getting good. I'm doing really really good. Um recorporating from the weekend, but I'm okay. Party girl with single. I had the party, uh you know, my my wine came out to have something humber wine, something kind of starmu stattle, and my new single came out, so we were partied a little bit. I love the new single. Let's let's talk about that single. So when I first read the name, I thought the song was

gonna be just about heartbreak. But as you listen to the song, you realize that it's more about self care than it is heartbreak. So how how did you. How did you create that? What was the process for it? Uh? Well, the last relationship I had was exactly what it was. He pretended like he loved me. He gave me all of the the negative things that a relationship can give you insecurity, all of that. Um, so I decided I

was done with it, you know what I mean. So it just came out of life experiences of not allowing um another person to make you feel less and the value devalued. And that's where that song came out of just loving myself like come on, I'm going through this, Yeah, exactly the title I was like, is she saying, uh am, I, I'm never going to hurt me again? You know what I'm saying because a lot of times when your relationships with people, you got the dig really deep. What it

is about me? Right? That caused me to even attract this type of energy? Right? So is it like that person hurting you again or you hurt you allowing somebody else to hurt you again? Now that you now that you said it, it's probably both. But when I wrote it, it was about him, because sometimes you can even break up and it's really not a breakup. But I ain't talking to you for a week, then you get back together, and then you back into that same mode of hamster.

Wh Yeah, he's really doing the same thing. He ain't changing. So every time you do that, we take our heart is getting broken again, you know what I mean, Because you can't go a good month or two or three in love. Whatever you find out he's the same type of purpose and so you break it in your heart again. So that to um, I let him. I would never let him do that again. To me, what sign I want to give it away? Honey Capricorn, bless your heart. So let me ask you this, do you still believe

in love? Do you want to love be in love with someone again? Like I find myself after breaking up with someone, like now I'm in this space where like funk that ship. I don't even know if I want to deal with that no more. You know, some days, some days I'm like that. But then when I watched certain movies that could be a romantic movie. If I'm scrolling through Instagram and see all these beautiful black couples,

you know, black love is just so strong. And that new song by What's the Girl naing Um somebody sung learned me that's my joints. So that keeps me. Um yeah, because I deserve. I deserved to be in a great relationshipsolutely shout out to Mama D I deserved, have you stupid, Look, it's relevant. We all deserved. So I've been a fan of you since. So my honest to God, full transparency. The first time I ever masturbated was to your song girl like that. I got comfortable with you know, with

myself in that way. I was like, I said, I can't do it, I can do it. I'm gonna go do it. But then there was a hiatus from you, and we didn't hear a lot of things from you. And I read this article that you did with the l A Times in two thousand and sixteen, and it said that you had hit a very low place of rock bottom and it was your spiritual journey that brought you back to music. What was that like for you? Like,

what did that look like? Well? After the second album, I completed the second album, um It's Me Again and turned it in Um Atlantic was now a lecture. I was signed to a lecture, so severe room, everybody that knew who I was and where I was coming from turned into Atlantic. Atlantic was this big hip hop stage,

I mean UM label. So I turned and turned in the whole album and they made me turn take off like six So it's depressing to turn in something that I know my fans and my people wanted to hear, but then have me take it off a do you know. Still good songs, but it's not what I wanted. So I felt like I compromised a lot. And then the label, you know, a lot of management wasn't really didn't have my back at the time, Like it was a whole lot of not doing anything. I would go up to

a meetings about my album. Oh okay, your album's not coming out next you know. Ago they was skipping over me or pushing me, you know. And so I got depressed because I came from being in a group with Devantage from Joacin, so I was in Sugar and so

we went through a whole lot of stuff. So that just made me remember everything that was going on, and I just got tired and I just said, you know what that I was watching UM the e t S Gospel and Tony was sitting the Lord made me over And at that point I was drinking like every day all the day, just drinking every day and smoking like three or four packs a day. That's how depressed. It was depressing. And I saw that and I fell to my knees. And that's just exactly what I did. I

had to cut it off. I had to hit rock bottom in order to be built again. And that's why there were birth Yeah, it was a really birth thing. Have you ever thought about being independent? Because I feel like tweet ms Charlene Keyes has a numb loyal fans because I listened to all your albums like they came out yesterday, I swear to guy. So if you were to create a website or a platform where you're selling

on your music there, I would buy it. So have you even thought about becoming independent as opposed to you know, having these big machines behind you. It's always good, but then sometimes they'll show you. Yeah, because I'm on independent label now even one is independent, uh in that way, but not that way, you know what I mean. But I thought about that. I thought about turning in this this EP that I'm going to turn in and then definitely going that route, you know, and have even my

own my only fans. I would do a station and just do all of my music or performance, you know, special things for people that have really had my back this whole thing. You know, less singer like he has a platform for his music, so he taps into the market with the people who funk with him. Yeah, I think personally I do too. I really did, because you get really tired of this industry. Yeah, it's it's it's something it would drag you down and leave you there period,

you know what I mean. So yeah, I want to because I know what my fans want. And I've been lucky enough though, um, even since that second album to be able to put out whatever I want it. So that's not a problem to have to creative control. But it's just like when I want to move, I'm ready to move, and then we gotta, you know, do the business thing, and it's just just like, Okay, I'm I've been sitting on this album since two thousand eighteen, you know what I mean. Content may not even be really

at this point, thank you. Yeah, so yeah, that's definitely the next move. It's side to still keep doing it, though, girl. You're gonna keep saying, girl, come on, you don't do that like that, because I will send a nigga a tweet song real quick that I'm too it's me again. Oh yes, yeah, I don't need to say that at the end of this interview. Also, thank you just running little sections. I'm a sound like very white as earlier. My boys don't wake up about five, do you. Girl.

I've been smoking I listened to smoking cigarettes. I'll be smoking weed though, but I've been listening to smoking cigarettes all the time. So all right, you have that new one, the Southern Hummingbird with scottle How did you get involved with that? Like, how did that come about? Yes, ma'am, you need to tell us where we can get it too. Yeah, well you can give you that www dot scott Old dot com. So it's a star Nostato dot com. Um, but I just was approached by someone. Um her name

is Hope. She's in charge of signature SIPs and she gives a whole lot of people opportunities to create their own taste, their own brand or whatever. She's from Houston, and um, we just connected one day and I was because I really always wanted to do a wind or a liquor, and you know, God just started sending stuff to me. You know, yeah, absolutely, that's exactly what it's saying you have to. You got to. You got too. So I'm excited. We were doing really good. We're gonna

do a red wine for the holidays. So that's another one's gonna come outside, just gonna keep things, you know, moving. Well. I'm definitely gonna order me about it because I'm definitely a wine drinker. Yeah, made me feel depressed sometimes, I me too. But you can do. You can do a mixed drink. You can put this, We'll put some Saint Germain in it and the splash of gin or whatever liott of your choice with this to make you a nice mixed drink. Okay, that sounds good too, So go ahead.

All the holidays, you're gonna be fucked up. Why not? Look anyway, exactly right. They been in the house hold on tam Let's stay some bills. So we're gonna play a little game with you to get to know you. It's called this or that, and it's just a couple of questions, right and you just kick you if you don't want to ask to say pass, it's fine, alright. So so the first one is monogamy or open relationship, which one, Okay, um, fucking why just because I would

like to share. You know what I mean, I think just this hard that should be, that should never be. I mean, it's your choice, but for me, that's never a question. Right. Um, I'm not open too many things out there. You're right. Sometimes I feel like that, like I want a monogamous relationship. But then other times I'd be like, Nigga, just go that way, go over to her house. Hey, what's she doing today? She's not free today because you're getting on my motherfucking nerves today, sir.

So ready, I don't know what I want? Okay? Alright? So home cooked meal or fine dining? Can I can I say either? Or get not? Not recently? No, I've endored and doing something now. I just kid now I've been eating a lot of fruity salad. So that's what I'm just trying to because I gave like twenty pounds pemmic. The pandemic gave me a chin I didn't have before the pandemic. It's a new one at the bottom, right, and the pandemic. Yeah, I don't like that accordion that

that's not okay. So in a in a movie, would you be would you rather be the villain or the hero? I like to be the villain. I don't want to be the villain that don't die, you know what I mean. It's just always there. Yeah, I like that saying okay pit or Frenchy, Uh, frenchy, Frenchy. Yeah, but they're switch on. You don't passy. They're cool when they little, but when they get big, that's not true. Are not all the time. But I grew up. We had a couple when I

was younger, and one of them flipped on us. You had to put them down. Yeah, so I'll say French frenchy. They ugly as him, but they are No, he's gonna eat somebody. My next dog on your big dog. Do you read them? The thing is you can't be hitting them dogs. He will be hitting them dogs, man, and one day they just be like, nah, you can't hit me today. That I come from the old school. So we were speeding the dogs we have left over us. They were right. So he was like mad, you know,

like I cram legs and came in the house. You know it's cold outside. He looked the window. I don't blame him. That's why you want to fight um drink or smoke. If I could smoke, I think I would smoke, you can, nah, because I had true story. I had smoked some chocolate tie back in the day and it made me a little loopie, and I was like, I'm never smoking more. You know, when you get to that level of paranoia, you know what I mean, you can't really smoke like that number one. So I didn't start

smoking until I got into my thirties. And when I was younger, like fifteen sixteen, like early twenties, like I would smoke and be like super funked up. I really feel like your mind has to be like kind of steady. The type of stimulants. Yah, that's probably why you had a bad experience. I was putting the palm in my head at the time too, so I'm high and like this. Y. Yeah that was a bad combination. Yeah, that was a bad combination. Perm and weed. That don't go together. Friend

the time, I don't even heard about that. Nowadays, you don't even had that, no more strand right, steak or seafood. I don't eat seafood, so steak and I don't even eat red meat like that, So so you're more like a vegetarian or vegans of sorts. Well, I don't eat vegetables either. That crazy, So I'm like almost like, um, I don't know. I only eat chicken. And when I do eat meat, either chicken or turkey or tuna fish or something like that. And fruit, yeah, fruit and salad.

That's good. But I love me a good Califlier pizza. I love that. Oh see you ag can get along with that ship. I need my I need bread on my pizza. But it's good. It's just like, no, it does, it does take. It tastes like bread. If you ain't eating no vegetables, now you gotta drink some chlorophyll. Yeah, that's what makes the vegetable green. So yeah, and cucumbers like I do a cucumber and lemon water, lime water, I do, But far as eating like tomatoes and that,

so no colar greens for you at Thanksgiving? So would you rather be happy and poor? Are rich? And said? I have to take that rich and sad and I can buy my hat. No, I'm just playing on. That's what most people say, like put me on the yacht, I cry on the yacht. Yeah, I'd rather be I'd rather be rich, m hm and sad and we should be yeah all right, yeah, I don't want to be poor, so uh right, in fact, we're manifesting right now. Okay, vaccine or trust your own immune system. That's my own

immune system. That sea moss in there, the Elderberry and all of them, good old page. Yeah, I'm doing I agree. Heaven our reincarnation Heaven Heaven. Yeah, I think I'll be coming back. I really are we inclinated that thing? I think we because we're spirits. Yeah, we we don't know what's gonna happen once we die. I mean we don't. I mean we we we we assume something that, yeah,

but we don't know what's really gonna happen. You know, once we get to have it, it could be a you gotta come back down here and do it again. That's re incarnation, you know what I mean. So I just hope it. When I come back, I'll come back as a rich white man. I ain't going back that ship. Go give me that please, right? All right? So two more? All right? Are you an early starter or a night owl? I can be an early starter if I have to get up and go like early flights and stuff, I can,

but I really like to start my day later. But I can't get up all right. And last one, what are you in your car? What are you listening to right now when you're riding down the street right now? I told you my favorite song is that I came out with some Taiwa t I w A. She got the song with Brandon, somebody let me that. Um. I listened to a lot of v J to Chicago kids, Pandora his Pandora page, um Um, I listened to blow Um. I listened to a lot of gospel quartet um um

groups too. So and now I listened to me sometimes yeah, sometimes they only listened to their music. They only listen to their music. Yeah. I don't want to hear your music no more right, yeah, yeah, so I I saw uh and it wasn't it was. I think you might have went live with your daughter and he was talking about um, how are you done with the church? Mm hmm. You're wanna talk about that? I we could talk about it,

because I think have you went back to the church. No, I completely understand, because you know a lot of times people don't tell you, um, especially people who are in the church. In the church, they don't tell you to be cheerful with anything else. I mean they tell you to be cheerful with everything else. They don't tell you to be careful with the church about Christianity like everything else, be careful with it. But man, everything in moderation. Yeah,

I want to talk about that a little bit. Okay. See, So what happened was they thought I was just coming after the church at that point, you know, at that live conversation, it was literally her calling me and telling me that some guy that she dated in the church tried to sexually abuse her. So I was going off of the emotions of what she told me, you know. And then they thought I was attacking Joan mar at the time, which we weren't even together, you know what

I mean. So that was just my emotions which I didn't control because I was just tired at that point, you know what I mean. And found out that he was still working at the church and nobody said nothing to him about what had happened. It was a situation that happened with her. So but I still feel the way I feel, I mean, that hasn't changed because I feel like me and guy got this, you know what

I mean. I got a relationship with him that I don't need no middle man at times to tell me how to talk to him or to read my word or whatever um thing I do. I'm not religious, I'm spiritual, So it's all a spiritual thing with me, you know what I mean. So I don't have to go to the four walls to find him. He's already waiting, you know what I mean. So it hasn't changed for me. You know, So when did you get to that point? Because I know you grew up in the church, right yes,

was that when you you hit that rock bottom? Um you started going within you know spiritually? Is that when when you you know, because I mean we can have church right now, I can have church by myself, Like I don't necessarily need somebody else to tell me how they interpret the word as it pertains to my life, you know. Gota, yeah, you gotta make sure you're getting

that information first in absolutely right, all right? Um, once I started back to doing my music and the church that I was going to in Atlanta got dispersed, everybody just left, you know. Um, I think I just started to follow what the pastor used to tell us. Anyways, even after I preach a word to y'all, go and make sure this is what God really said, you know what I mean. So that was a test for me to say, Okay, that is gone, that crutch is gone. You can't go back to that co inside they were

talking to me. So that's where it started happening. Being data that pastor. It was yeah, you know what I mean, And I didn't mean that to him, but I'm just saying there was not nothing that I ever really wanted to do. And it just turned me off to see a lot of times being a certainly vincent just seeing how church people act, you know what I mean, Like this ain't what I could go home and take that

ask off. Yeah, sometimes they don't go home to do it, know they they take their mask off in the church and be in the church. Absolutely, And it's not nothing against the church. But that's the let me just clear that up. It's just this is my walk, so I don't I don't choose to do that right now, you know what I mean. He was to say, I might be church, you know what I mean, the right way though, Yeah, because if I if I could find somebody who's a

real human being, like, I'll probably go to church. You know. I mean when I said real human human being, like stop acting like, just live your life, because I'm pretty sure God wants you to still live your life rightly. Sometimes people become so godly that they're not worldly anymore, and and then you can't relate to them. You said it, you said it earlier. You said everything in moderation. Because he never said we couldn't have a drink, you know,

he turned water into you. Never said we couldn't do certain things that they don't. Don't poured in our heads growing up in church. We can't do this. You can't wear skirts, you can't wear jury, you can't really make up what that's not even nowhere in the Bible, you know what I mean. So I look and look at those things. A lot of those things control women. Ask

me what I'm saying women in particular. You gotta be careful with all religions because I mean, you have to take into consideration why it is that the word is focused that much on women, Because we are all a lot of power. Yeah, and some might say we are a god. So you're gonna the word is written by man. At the end of the day, it's written by man. Absolutely, Yeah. So I'm good. I'm good where I'm at. God is happy.

With me, I don't think because when they preached how God's donna do, they're preaching out of the Old Testament, which they don't know. And we ain't living by law. We're living by grace right now, so you know what I mean. So right, he's not mad at me because I'm not going in the full ball right because what I'm doing, I can still bless somebody without being you know,

saying church stuff. I can just sit and talk to somebody and say, God, bless you today or how are you doing that could bless because what they say, God is not dwelling and mad mean temple, no rights are blessed on which I'm music this song that you just you can bring somebody through a hard time and remind them that self love is the best love. Baby. That's God energy right there. Absolutely everybody is different how to

use you in different ways. So this is where he used to me, and this is how I'm talking to him now. I don't need to go to the church and look how blessed you are. That's how it is, right now, That's what it is. Okay, hold that thought one second. Let's pay some bills so we have a segment, right, it's called dumb bitch stories are dumb bitch advice dumb bitch stories because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice, so we actually have a dumb

bitch story. You want to get your advice on that came in from a listener, but I want to know, we want to know do you have any dumb bitch stories you'd like to share? And not saying that you're a dumb bitch because oftentimes just this other person took advantage of a good person, right, that's what happens. Sometimes you end up the situations where you just you feel stupid, but hey, they're lost, So tell us the time. I know you got a story. Come on, now, everybody never

has a story. A story. I have a story that I um was going to visit my boyfriend at the time and he said, the hotel room key is at the good front desks. Go get it and you see your name and I'll see you later. He was doing something. I went to the room that they may didn't clean the room, so the room was trashed as far as the bed was was occupied, yes, with underwear and a note on the side of the bed. Well it was a nice night. I had a great night. All of this,

all of this in the bathroom. It was a tissue with um red. She made sure she wore red stick to wipe it off and put it in the trash. I asked him what it was, Oh, this, that's just my assistant guy, and I stayed after that. That was my dumb dumb dum And that wasn't the only time that happened. I know how that feel them. There's more time than that. I showed up to an event with him that same night, like, hey, m h, listen, girl,

I've been there. But nigger, you stupid, like you're not gonna make sure the rule clean before And I feel like that's all we want. We just want you to like not let me find out if you aren't here doing some I should never ever know. But dogs leading shoot out for you to see cats covered up, and that's why they you got the bitch lipstick. Come on. Intuition will always let us know when something's not right,

you know what I mean. Sometimes it's overthinking for some women, but to know, beep down in your heart with something right, you know it. And it depends on it depends on how you how you and that person are intimate, like let's just say, y'all are yeah, I said, I call it doing a nasty like without a condom. When you are connected with somebody in that way, you almost feel like what is happening? And I feel like they could

feel it too. Anytime I try to creep is like my phone started blowing up all of a sudden, like god, damn happening. Then had that situation too. It's kind as strong as ours, though I don't think you know right, I'm gonna read this this dumb bitt story we got in from a listener. I don't know. It's kind of messy, but right, so um hi aj and tam bam. I'm messaging to get get your advice on the current situation. I'm in love with a man that could probably never

be with me. When we met about a year ago, he told me he honestly, I'm sorry. When we met about a year ago, he told me honestly that he was married, but he and his wife had an arrangement. Basically, he does his thing and her the same. I have never been with the married man, but I gave myself permission because of how the situation was presented to me. They have two kids and a business they run together.

I admit that I've been on some stalker ship and visited their business a time or five, but you're trying to get your ass killed too much, exactly. Um. The wife is usually there as he has a couple other businesses he runs. I have had conversations with his wife and she seems really nice. I really just wanted to see what she looked like initially. So here's my issue. I'm twelve weeks pregnant and when I I have mercenyesus girl. When I read this, I was like, what the fuck?

All right, So here's my issue. I'm twelve weeks pregnant and when I shared the news with him, he was not enthusiastic about it at all. I'm thirty six and this would be my first child. I will admit that I did consider an abortion, but throughout all my relationships, I have never gotten pregnant. I never actually checked, but for the most part, I thought I couldn't have kids,

and I thought I couldn't get pregnant. She says, Okay, so now it's happening, and I can't help but to feel that this is my one and only chance at motherhood. Um conversation. Conversations with him lately have been really dry. It's like he's not that interested. I still see him and we have sex maybe one or two times a week, but he literally acts as if I'm not pregnant. I really want to tell his wife, but I don't know how he'll act. What do y'all think I should do?

She said, I'm completely capable of taking care of the child and raising the child on my own. I just never thought this would be my life at this age. I really like, God, damn, I can't read. What the hell I really feel like? I really feel like a stupid ass eighteen year old. I know this is some ship for therapy, but I feel a tiny bit better telling someone. Wait, did you say how old she was? Thirty? No? She says she felt like she's so no kids. This

is her first time being pregnant. Tweet think. I just I would never tell nobody to abort any because the baby has nothing to do with it. You know what I mean? Pro choice? Uh, don't you know? Um, she's got herself in a pickle. Uh, hell of a pickle. Hell of a pickle. Uh, she's just gonna have to to listen. She put herself in this position, but she cannot destroy she's already kind of destroyed the family. Um. But it's not in her place to tell the wife anything.

I don't think at this point. Yeah, let the let that man handle that. But I don't know if I'm right by saying this. But if he decides that he don't want to mess with her no more, then that's just the chance that she took and messing with a married man, you know what I mean. And just make sure he takes care of the baby. But at this point I was Scott even nothing with the man like that, And just make sure your child is number one priority. At this point, I just don't. I don't like that

type of thing. That just my grid. Yeah, yeah, why you want to tell the wife after this? You don't want to tell right right? You want to go see you at the place of business and stuff? Come on, man, I want some shoes. Can I try it on the size eight like you and all of the business like going to see the w Yeah that's great, so dumb, you are really good. I mean I hate it for you. Yeah, but there's nothing you can do or don't don't don't

tell that wife. That's not your place, not like now you should can find out eventually, And I need more information, like what's your thought process? Why do you feel like you need to tell her the wife? Why do you feel like that that's your place? That's what I want to ask the listener. Why do you feel like it is your place to tell his wife? Yeah, because you're not getting the validation wants validation, right, because she's not

getting the response she wants out of him. Which I don't see how you thought that he would be happy about this even though he you know, he told her like maybe they we're in an open relationship, like they do their thing right, but we only said that right. That might not even true. So should she punish him then for lying? Then? I don't know. I mean his wife should his wife? I just feel like that just

oh god, that's so terrible. That's ah. Then he got a baby involved, I mean, you know that's kind of making worse. Definitely, she should definitely have her baby. Yes, I agree, there, keep your baby, but now gotta worry about him having these siblings where the mother of those siblings resists the child and don't want the child to come over and just all these ugly situations that that that will affect that baby. You know that sucks. We'll still keep that baby. Keep keep your legs close to

married men. Man, you're a wife like me, and a wife yet, but you're gonna write into a wife like me, and I'm gonna beat your ass about my husband. I fight about a boyfriend, but I just might because to me, women keep cheating going. Your man cannot cheat. It wasn't somebody always willing to cheat with him. Yeah, but here's the thing. You you're not making him responsible for the vows everybody when you say that, you know everybody is responsible because the home record is the nid's in the

home or the woman that's at home. So I'm not saying that they aren't responsible. But if the man makes the decision, because cheating is a a choice, So if you made a choice to leave out the house and go sleep with somebody else, it should be a woman that says, nah, you're married or no, I know, I

know you got a baby. Especially like celebrities and stuff like that, you see these people's lives, you see who they're with, and then you still sleep with them, and then you want to expose them like it doesn't make sense to me, So you should get beat up. I'm sorry, yeah, on the beat up part. We took grown to be out here fighting women about our new Okay, then I'll pay somebody to beat that ass. She just randomly got beat coming out of Hope Foods. I don't know what happened.

She can't get beat up. I have a breaknant woman. Get her right out a little, but I'm asked for about nine months. Okay, but this is probably He's never gonna be your man. Just know that he's never gonna leave his wife for you, right unless his wife says I'm done with the marriage, then maybe, But then he may regret that you even his fault too though, right, he gonna resent you then potentially mm hmmm. Yeah. So I'm sorry that you didn't know, because it wasn't your

fault that you didn't know. Well you did, no, she did no, she knew that she knew what she signed up for. And this is just the consequences. You know, it's a situation, but that goes for all all our listeners. You out here fucking somebody, husband, you gotta suffer the consequences of what might come with that, and if it's a j husband, you might get your ass beat outside of her damn right, like boyfriends is fair game. But I spad God, if I get married my husband, everybody

getting beat up. He getting beat up too, Like I don't really being for real, I'm gonna do something. I might put roots on your ass. I might put your ass in the freezing might I might put you your ice. Okay, hereful, we don't have a problem with my husband. That's sad. I'm so sorry. So what's nae? Because I know I know you've done some uh some some acting. Yeah, I want to do more that I want. I would love to do mahogany um the Dina Ross movie over that's

been I've been saying that for years. I would be love to do that. Um, doing more music, getting into more of the products, you know, like I want to do a hatline I've been doing. I'm saying that for years, yes, yea, and things like that, you know, clothing maybe you know, just other things and um, yeah, you could do it. That's so. One last question from me, what advice would you give women who are going through a heartbreak and there in the lowest place, what advice would you get there,

I would say, because I've been there. I went through it, through the pandemic. So I would say, um, live in the moment of whatever emotion that is and let it move, go through it, you know what I mean, And so you can come through it, you know what I mean. But do not allow whatever situation that got you here to make you feel like you are hard to love, that you're not value, that you're not special, that you're not I don't care what it feels like now, a month,

I mean a year later or whatever. You don't be like, I don't know what I was thinking thinking, What was I thinking? So go through it, go through the fire, go through the pain, live through it. But as you can come out just as beautiful as you was when you got in there, it's gonna be more beautiful. So yeah, you're definitely gonna look back and he's gonna be so ugly to you. Is going to be like they what why are you even opening your mouth? Like what are

you saying? Like he's not even gonna be able to see your couchie girl in a year, You're gonna get over it. Yeah, cry crying out, laughing out, talking about whatever that substance, the thing that you go to. But just go through it. God, you got to You got this too. Now. You know, women when they're going through stuff, they sit and they listen to tweets, they listen to marriage, they blige, they listen to all of hurt for music.

I always say when I have kids, like, if I have a little girl, she can't listen to R and B. Like you can't listen to no style. You're gonna get you a man. He's gonna be great. But like when you hear like, do you think it's a subconscious thing. It's a subconscious something. When I tell her that, you better tell the truth. So when it does happen, because it will, right, Yeah, it's something. Somebody's gonna break your heart.

That's what's gonna happen, you know. But when you prepare her, you won't be because I was naive as I don't know what coming from from the church. You know you're not supposed to do that. Yeah, you know nothing about it, y'all. Listen, I know now, and then it happens, you know, Yeah, prepare her. But the bullshit because the bullshit, Like I feel like families need to focus on raising boys more like everybody always focusing on women. All keep your legs,

shout and do this and that don't look right. But we have to teach her the boys that little girls are special, so they don't spending a whole running through women and breaking hard, especially with the music, because some of the ship these rappers are saying in these songs towards women, but all balls. And then I'll be right the cub it's the it's the beat at the time, right, it's not the lyrics, it is the beat. And then

I'm growing enough to have discernment. These young kids they don't under stand and that's why they here eating booty like groceries because they and I want to just say this right now for everybody listen, that's a dukie home. Don't put your friend salmonella poison. But you still gotta be careful because some of these dudes got salmonella on their things from having been a thing. Alright, And that's a whole another episode right there. Who trade show the

moral story, y'all be careful. Man a man, We're really really enjoyed you tweet. I'm so happy, I am so thankful for coming on our show. Problems, I text all my friends, like, girl, I'm interviewed. Tweet to my girl. Yeah, everybody like they're jealous to us, look, one, you got one of the best boys like you. To me, you're underrated, Like you've got one of the best vote voices in the industry. Like I don't know what people are, but listen, I enjoy. Thank you so much. Please come back on

the show when you drop your red wine. Please come back. Love to have the album. Yeah, I definitely would, thank you. I will. Okay, okay, thank you y'all. We got tweet on, we talked back. We appreciate you for coming. Thank you right