EP. 33 “Side Knegah Sunday’s” with Orlando and Tahoe

is why y'all haven't started. Know why you got your shirt on. It's the question why don't you have Because I'm not and you're not. Baby, you got because this is the side nigger episode, not the side bit naked side to somebody and them things heavy too, So I want to we are here cheating. We're gonna cheat together, y'all. So we have two lovely gentlemen on the show today. We have Orlando and Tahoe from the Hardest of Podcastle's

Properly Fling today my favors. I really just don't like how naked my partner is, but this is him living in his freedom. I can't hate. But it's it's all good. That's the cover of y'all podcast. Like this nake is naked, so it's he's always naked. He's always rubbing his legs and talking about his curved dick. It's ridiculous, bir Like, I'm from Brooklyn. I'm not used to this behavior. I'm not what burrow you from, Orlando, Venus from Venus. Yeah, I was born in Jamaica, raised in Brooklyn. Is that

where you are now? Brooklyn? Both of you? Well, I'm in best Yeah, I'm in best side whenever he's at thank God doesn't have to WiFi. So so all right, tell us a little bit about how you became a signing to some woman or some wife. That's how we're gonna start. I want to hear about it. Let's get into it the ship. Yeah, I want to hear about it. Orlando, just talk, just get um. I live in the realm of being a side that I actually love it just

like more reward less risk. Um, and you get treated much better as a signing and than having to worry about like maintaining your women. Um. And I'm good at sex. So they just have me around for that as far as around put me on the shelf and take me off when they were whenever they're ready for me. Um. I was even a signing or to a woman that was married, and that was my favorite because she flew me out. She pulled me out to Miami. Um. We linked up. She left her husband at home with the kids,

and we just had an amazing night. We cuddled, we had sex on the balcony. It was all on her. And then after we had done, she went back to her family and I went back to being a side nigger women. And they say women have to get their things. Orlando was one of their things. Okay, nothing about that makes you feel like devalued at all. No, you don't have no pride. Look at them. Don't talk about my friend like that. It doesn't listen, It doesn't bother me.

Or when I was young, Um, I used to hear stories about women like having bad sexual experiences, and I said, I'm going to take it upon myself to make sure that any woman that I sleep with or I haven't experienced with, has an amazing time and nothing to complain about. And sometimes the women that I have to help already be in relationships. So I'm here to be a shoulder for you to lean on, and air to listen to you,

and dick for you to sit on. So you're just like a superhero did the same who are unfulfilled in life. So basically, Orlando is the ten percent the woman and may be missing in a relationship. So it was like Orlando would be times, which is just marrying niggas. That's not sucking the shift out them. That's right, would be happening. They're good providers and they're good fathers, but they did game trash or they've been with him forever and enable

postibility and streets. It out that a lot of women don't go through whole phases young in life and they get used to you know, a high school sweetheart or whoever they met in college, and they find out, especially now with the Internet doing what it's doing, it's showing you old types of ship that you ain't seen before. Women was now buying them black label porns in the nineties and ships and now hold on squirt in it. The other thing is it's using floggers and walking people

around on dog chains. Hold on, I want to walk around like a dog. Oh yeah, baby, yeah, yeah, that was a situation with me. Um so funny. As Orlando said, I also met a young lady that was married. Um. We wore all that crunch and she was gorgeous and I was so attractive to her. You know, you ever get into a brunch situation where you, of course you're all talking across the table. Everybody's talking some people and their friends. You don't know them, so it's just a

bunch of people you're getting together. I'll start playing games whatever. And she said something along the lines of my husband, and I was just like a boy, she's married, so you know me in me immediately, I just crossed it off like it's nothing gonna happened. Towards the end of the conversation or the end of brunch, when Mayor was paid for and I believe I was going to the bathroom, she must have been leaving, and she like stopped me and was like, oh, you know, I'm interested in your show. Um.

I really enjoyed our combo. And she gave me her number, and I was confused, like why don't you married? Like what why would you give me your numb right? Um. We were talked for about two years. No sex just linking up wild up, started kissing and rubbing and you know, just meeting in weird spaces. That was very um, no sex for a while. The line right, but what I'm telling been started cheating two years prior because he was

cheating the whole time. Because I'm drinking the popping she jerking me off in the hooka spine like we wow, but she would never let me in there. And then um and then I would. You know, she became right, we became really close because I hate her husband, the things that she would tell me about him. I hated that nigga. One time she told me. I remember we went for a walking the park one day and she was like, yeah, my husband he came to me last night. I was like, what getting this car? We went, goe

to car. I went right to seevs, walked it out to the plan be out, grabbed the signing out the shelf, throwing I put it on her tongue right, take this water, you know you gotta drink all, I said, drink it all. I hated that dare he coming up coming? My big wrong with this nigga, that nigga something um. And that was still before I was even fucking man. Damn niggas always thinks some pussy on reserve for him. Had um y'all, like did you catch feelings for her? Like genuine? That

was like, yeah, that was my shorty and dad. You know. Over time we got to the point where she took me on vacation and we wind up having sex. We wind up going crazy. I was wound her body out in ways that she is never well, that she told me she had never experienced. I was bounding her body out like I was taking her in the sight clone too. Na, I got too many kids just coming to people my ship, the thought of coming and somebody just turns me the off like I'm just not that's not for me. I

got too many kids. Um. But yeah, it's so crazy because we don't talk anymore. And the reason we don't talk anymore, it's because she hit me. We had both gotten a relationship and she wanted Oh I had gotten a relationship and I had spoken to her like eight months, nine months, and then she hit me one day and I was like hey, whatever, whatever and told me that she had had a baby. And I was like, huh, like what you mean you had a baby? You had a baby with the nigga, and she was like, yeah,

I didn't want to tell you. I was like, so you're telling me that we was seeing each other and he was pregnant by that nigga and you never told me, and I felt so betrayed. I just stopped talking to Is that crazy? You felt betrayed by the married woman who had a baby for her husband. I was. I was totally turned off, but I could not believe it. I felt like disgusted. Why do you seeing like I'm bunny, It's kind of crazy that you was feeling away about

a woman getting pregnant by her husband. Just the thing is, all right, it was more than nine months. It was more than nine months. You gotta imagine that me and this woman had a relationship for five years. You hid an entire pregnancy from me and now have a baby and never once reached out to me to tell me anything about it. You feel like you feel like she

told you that. You told me that, like you it was you lied to me like I was the lying, probably perfectly because she was sucking your husband and get pregnant. But that's her husband. She probably never stopped sucking him, right, she was sucking him the whole five years. That's fine, But lying to me about a pregnancy and a baby that felt like I was now him and he was me, except he didn't know he was. She didn't lie to you, She just omitted the truth. Are your grown ass man? Alright?

She'd be thinking like a nigga oftentime. You don't. You don't hide a whole nigga, a whole little baby. You alight? How do you She's already deceitful. You know that because she's deceiving her husband right well, loyalty that she's not giving her own husband that she made bounce to the nigga Because I'm the person that you're supposed to be telling the truth to. I'm the personal to why are

you like me? For I've accepted every single thing about you, Like why the fact that you have now changed positions and now I'm in the space that you're hiding from me? That that's the loyalty. So if she had told you from the beginning that she was pregnant, would you still be her friend? Pregnancy ways that that nigga probably wasn't even doing because I know how he is all that ship. I would have been there with her walking her in with her planning parent announce planning. Um, I would have

worked exactly. That's what I was thinking. I was down her throat. She couldn't die. Nigga chronicles not SIMP series. It's all in the same gang. Okay, the same gang. But yeah, man, that was my boot, like you don't hide much of it like that for me. Yeah, we women better at being a side person, a woman or a man. I don't think I can do that by general. I don't think I can do that by gender. But because if they don't care, they don't care. It's once

feelings get involved. Once feelings get involved. A man is a horrible side that nigga showing up to your door and they're blowing up your phone and get popping up on your places with your man. You're looking across the table like yo, just nig sitting there like get your kind of my crib after while your man out man up starting the conversation with your man for no reason. The nigga man looking at the nigga like, don't even know this nigga? You know what I mean? The women

are wild as well. A woman left her ring under my girl's pillow once like I'm like, why would you do that? Why would you take off your ring and leave it under my girl's killer that she was marking her territory. That's like panties behind the bed. I'll be pulling your hair out and leaving it all over the crip. No, but I'm not like I've done that to me though, Nick, especially Nick with beers, like why are you leaving all this fucking bear and pew beer in my bathroom? Like

that's hating that. If my hair came out, it was an accident. I need all these pieces that need all my strings. Man, so frustrating. I had a girl do that before, and she had red hair. I went to go pick up my shorty. She had a short cut. She pulled out that long red hair and she was like, who's is this? I looked before I left their hand said I ain't got no excuses. I don't know how

to explain it. So whatever's on your mind, just assume you're like women, and I would have came up with something good, like yo, I went to my man house. This girl got that here. It must have been on the bottom of my shoes. Thing like, I don't know what the women have, like a built with like magnifying eyes. For she could walk in the house. Nigga, your girl walking the house over here and be like, what's that? Pick up some single glass sitting there? Like? How the like? Yo,

this is not my texture what you're talking about? How did you tell from one strand of hair? How did you tell that this is for seeing? This is not for seeing? Bro. I ain't never left bed here though, but I know women have left panties. Women. I leave some lash a lash How the fun? You don't healed your whole ile and threw it somewhere. I will do that. And y'all must know women, because women always see it before the nigga steal. So y'all must know that she's

gonna look like y'all leave it next to the bathroom. Shit, crazy, bro, Like I couldn't believe it. So I'm sleeping this crazy because if chick came to my crib when I had a girl and my girl didn't come to the creep for like two days, I never looked under that pillow. Who two days? That Christian sitting? You put your girl in the same she's as the other girl. Yes, oh my god, the ship, this is the ship, right here you have your girl laying in another woman's juices. Yeah,

I didn't think about it like that. Why do y'all really think, like what happens with the juices? Like what happens? I don't want to lay in another girl's nut stain. So you've never had a nigga, a new nigga come home? I'm probably I'm sure I probably had nigga. No, No, you buy new sheets, just wash them, wash them. But do you buy new sheets if you get a new relationship? So you were sucking the nigga in these sheets regardless whether you wash them or not. This is you don't

get that blue like the come stains is all. No, it's not. You use some tie. You'll be good at a little nigga babies. Wash the babies out, It says it on the box. Look at it, wash the babies away, not black that right in the bottom black babies. I refuse to believe that it's a lie. Yeah what so, so you're saying nigga's be wilding out too, because that was under the impression that men are are the better side niggas because women, you know, the feelings get involved

and it start off cool. They accepting it, but then they want to be the main So women, um when they have a sideman, like I feel like women are more honest, like you said, old girl was telling you about what the hell she had going on until the pregnancy, right, so that allows and they got to play their part. But men be pillow talking with the side bach. So now the sidebage, you know, all the negative shit about you whenever she's ready with the ammo, is she hitting

your ass up on Instagram or literally? She told me everything about the thing. I knew where he worked, I knew his schedule. I know what, Jim, But are you more more? Who's more liable A while out though? The man or the woman? Personal feeling okay, because what if her pussy? What if she hit him with that that got if he's not getting that action like that he started depending on how to be there now that feelings

start rising, it's all about who catches feelings. I'm gonna tell you right now, whoever catches feelings first loses bro. But is it because he wants the bitch ma? Like? Is it because he wants this bitch now? Or is it because somebody else got her? So if the nigga leaves his wife, right, do you still want his wife? That's a good question because has become wives all the time.

Side bitch has become main bitch all the time. But in my mind, like any time I've ever been with somebody who I thought was with somebody else's like, I don't want I don't want you to because I want you to make the conscious decision and leave her for me. For me, So that's not what's happening. I can't participate, right,

I'm not going to be the consolation prize nigga back. Yeah, But so for your point, to your point, I was happy she was in the relationship with the nigga like that was it was good that I was able to hate him and she was able to go back to him. That was our situation. If she left him, like hey, I left him, I'm coming over, I'd have been like, oh my god, did you don't even like you? Like that? But that's not like the unavailable you. Yeah, the unavailable you.

That might be like the experience the unavailable you. I don't know. I've had to check myself sometimes from like get my emotions, like caught up with women even has

a side nigger. I have a girl who um, I could always tell what her what her boyfriend does something right or like takes her oute or surprises her or some ship, because she'll go from like complaining, will be on facetom master being together on FaceTime, and then the next day I don't hear from her like that, and then the day after she's like short with me the whole day, like good morning, queen, She's like morning at

like twelve oh one. I try to talk about the day. Yeah, he he surprised that with flowers and ship like that. Now she's tweeting about night. She feels guilty. She felt guilty. He did something right exactly. So now that's I'm seeing it just like this nigga does something. He got flowers, probably cheap. She treated She treated you like you know if you watch porn and you close the lamptern out there,

just disgusting. Why am I hurt? What about doing? I mean almost immediately like so did you call me like you know I'm a nasty He was like good more and she was like I don't think right, stay away from me and my family. Really fun, shut out your bitch last night. So she's gonna she's gonna treat me like that. That that means he really put that working on her last night. Because for a woman to cheat on her man, her husband like that, for me, he really got to be a funked up type nigga, or

she a funked up person. We're not just just out just out doing. While she liked that, a lot of times I'll judge a woman for cheating if her niggas I remember, oh my god, remember. But sometimes sometimes because I remember this one time, this chick I had known another her whole life, and I met up with her later in life after we hadn't seen each other in five or six years or whatever, and um, she was in the relationship. But I ain't anunk about that, nigga.

I didn't know me, you know what I'm saying. So I remember she came to my crib with the whole ox tail platter of food and ship, gave it to me, and like, I'm on one hand, I got like the ox tail over here. She's laying in my lap sucking my ship while I'm beating the oxtail. I'm like, yo, she's bad good. The nigger calls the phone and I hid. She literally got my hand, my ship in her hand and the phone and the other hand, and I get head and because she right here, thank you, my thank

you so much for this food. This tastes so good. This that the other the bitch brought him food first, the same play of food, brought it to him and then came to me with the same play of food over here right. So I'm like, Wow, this nigga really love her because he called her, he telling her how much he appreciates it. He telling her how much he loves her. And I can't hear the niggah when she literally my ship in her hand while this nigga, you know, blessed,

you know, talking so good to her. So I'm sitting there really like, wow, that's crazy. This nigga really showing appreciation like that. That's crazy, because no, niggas don't be caring niggas. You don't take you out for granted and ship, which is why I would think a nigga a chicken is chicken because nigga taking up granted. I wind up seeing them out and amongst a friend circle, and I got to know the nigga, and the nigga was mad who working man worked like two jobs? This nigga was

like doing everything having empathy. She ain't have no job, She's like living her dreams like failed business. At the failed business. He's just financing everything, working all of these jobs. And I grew to have a real disdain for this moment, like, Yo, you're foul last bitch, like the nigga loves you and you just out here doing whatever the funk you want. Yo, you're a real scum. You started working with her absolutely.

I started working one of that day that day because I heard the love of his voice and I was just like, that's corny like that, like this nigga loves her man. I just imagined like the box of oxtails on her head and he was bobbing up and down while you're eating out of the box and ship like. And then you just stopped working with her right after that. Now he came first, though he facts I did not come.

I did not come, damn, because I tried to after the nigga hung up, and I just wasn't into it, like it was so you feel good about sucking vies who niggas ain't ship though, Yes, okay, go ahead, now that was it? Yes, I do. I don't feel bad about it. If they any ship, yeeh, I could go

for that a little bit. I don't think I feel good about it, but I'll make allowances for it because you know, a lot of times you be in a relationship for a long time and you're not getting what you want, and so I feel like kind of like I'm saying, even you know what I mean a little bit. I remember this one time I was working a little bit, you know, one time I was sucking chick and I knew, you know, she had a man, and she finally came to me after her man. I guess they had broken up.

And I'm sucking up from the back and I look over and she's crying, and I'm like, damn, what happened you all right? And she's like, you know, I just I just really love him and I can't believe this. And I'm just like, oh shit, some we ain't gotta do this, you know. She's like, no, no, finish. You know what I'm saying. I want you to finish, you know. So after I finished, I was like, yeah, you know, you know, if you could come over any times one, you know, you could just chill. We ain't got to

do nothing. You know what I mean, But I did. I did feel bad, but I definitely kept going. Pussy was all right, bro, what's sucking the sad pussy? Pussy? I could have to make it winter, make it okay. Hold that thought one second, Let's play some bills. I don't think I've ever been a side bag, so I used to one of my I consider him an ex boyfriend anyway, but I didn't know like the situation with him and his kid's mom initially until a bitch called me at work one day. So I feel like, at

that point, did you know what it is? And I know what it is? So we both got a choice to make right. That's our at this point. So did you kept him? Yeah? I kept working with him for like two more years, and then I finally was like, you know what this is? It? So that no, no, no, no, I could have I could have called her the same way. You see what I'm saying, because he had me feeling

like I was this girl too. I could have called her to say I could have went through his cell phone and saw what the funk he had going on. I could have hit her up. Could have been the same thing. I just don't go through nigga ship, but they're not calling. Did they have a family living at my house the same way he was living at her house? This is younger. I'm from Charles, South Carolina, South Caronla okay,

country towns. Niggas be having time. They could be out like it takes forty minutes to drive somewhen ship like bad, like keep me out all day? You only know because you can't sit in the house. There nothing to do. So you know the nigga over there over there, you know what I mean? Yeah, but sleeping out? Like if this your nigga, how come he be he don't be

at your house at night? Yeah? Come home? So that's why I just I never knew at that night they just be in the strict Is it just understood that the cub Like, I don't know what he was selling her. I don't know if he told her he worked a third shift job. I just knew he was at my house. So when she called me when I was at work, I'm like, damn, well, I didn't know anything about you asked him who I am? Because she was like, who are you to him? I'm like, ask him. They can't

answer that you've been a side check before. That is not a side chick. I don't think you know. It's a side chick. And he was spending more time with you than you was the side chick because he was trying to get away from his real girl. Because obviously you was the side. It was RUSI to be with you, he was the side. This is the math is just mathive right now? So is that how it goes? And the girl, Wow, don't want to be around that girl. I mean you could just pick another girl like what

he did and he had his Yeah, that's the difference. Okay, So that goes into a whole another thing. So men, men will go out and complete their happiness. Like women, we may be more um inclined to tell you what the problem is. Men don't tell you what the problem is. They just go find somebody else. You can't complete their

happen is, Yes, you can can. Women moves on the board the moment I'm telling you all the ship I don't funk with about you, like you should be coming back with some ship so we could then fix it. But you're going on and do some side ship because you can't communicate. Basically, I'm gonna get into some they're

not gonna want it. Like just this morning, I woke up to some random woman posting my dams with her nigga on her Instagram page and going off, like going off me and like seven other women he's been in all our d ms. Me and him was just chit chat and the rest of these women here talking about, Oh, I'm gonna pull up on you as soon as I get that. He's on the birthday trip with the bitch, like for her birthday, and he's messaging other women how he about to get with them as soon as he land,

as soon as you land. God damn, he at the dinner table with the bitch texted me talking about you want me baby, and all this ship like he's sitting with it, Like why do men do ship like that? Why was she and his phone on her birthday trip? Why what you're doing your birthday like that? I would have had that nigg in the mall racking ship up and then I'm going out my ass crazy. But when yeah, I wouldn't. Let's just think yeah, because let's just think about this. If if she was in his phone, I mean,

she already I don't know who he is. She already knew who it was first exactly why would you take him with your home girls on a trip? Were just girls anyway? No, it's just deal on the trip, right Sam her on the group, it's a whole group. So why did you invite this nigger that's gonna stres you out anyway? Because now you don't know what he's doing. When he walked out the group, this nigga be on

the beach trying to suck it to you. You might as were just left that nigga South Carolina and you went off to fucking Cobo with your home girls and got your ship together, right right, don't make my my d ms on your page. I ain't got nothing to do with that. And there's a couple of niggas I talked to follow her like you're blowing up my spot. Now, let's be real. Let's be real, ladies, let's be real. Monogamy society. You know where I'm going, Oh, favorite topic,

Hold me that monogamy and society. You really think I want a general scale that a man can say, Listen, I love you, I want to be with you forever. I'm gonna take care of you. But I want to suck them bitches over there too. You can do that, but and you let's I'm gonna tell you a hundred percent a man can say that to me. But I'm then gonna say that's fine as long as we have that understanding. Now, how do you feel about me doing

the same things? And that's the thing. Okay, that goes into a whole bigger See me personally, I'm in a relationship with and I don't want to put my ladies business out there, but with a Gemini want to. I want to. I want my lady to be happy with me as a life parton, not as a subservient or anything like that. So whatever she means in life, I want to be able to provide. That's just who I am, period, That's who That's the role that I choose to play. Now.

So now if she comes to me and she says, hey, that's the situation that we're gonna have to deal with, Like if she want to go fun tim or whoever, I don't know if I'm able to deal with it. But I know that she understands certain desires that I have and she tries to provide. So I'm trying to keep my mind open for the same thing. Thank God, she ain't doing that yet, thank you. I was gonna

say so. My objection to that is whenever a man says something that benefits him in some type of way, and we're not just talking about y'all, we'll tell generally women overall, there always has to be a well I want to do that too, or there has to be some kind of transaction with it. But if a woman were to come to her man and say, oh, you know, I want you to do more things around the house, it's it's always comes across as like you're a man,

you're supposed to do that. And if I'm asking, you're supposed to do these things already, because that's what we're expecting it from you as a man. As a man. But if a man were to say, all right, I'm gonna do these things around the house, I want you to start picking up and paid half the rent, half

the mortgage, Sandy Popper sending the mortgage. Now, now if he makes it transactional, it becomes a matter of like, oh, you're a pitch ask nig I can't believe you would ask me to do something just because I'm asking you would to pick up some kind of slack. But in the essence in the sense of we're saying, like, yo, this monogamy thing isn't really working for me. I kind of want to open it up. It has to be transactional to where a woman has to want it the same.

So okay, So so you're camping more pussy to washing the dishes, And the thing isn't that women want to have sex with you and other people just is just about the same amount. But we have a little bit more. Never on your mind to fuck the mother niggas until I said I want to funk other women. Not true, but that is not true. I'm telling y'all, fu y'all fucking women that's got husband, so obviously that's not true.

You would like to be open. So you mean to tell you while he's in a relationship, you was thinking about other niggas some days. Very well, what happened to think about telling you? It's not the same. I don't believe this is the same. So y'all don't think about smashing another woman. This is the thing you just said. Oh, we was fucking married women. They was sucking just us.

They wasn't out at the club. I'm not saying I want to be I'm not saying I would like to be in a relationship where I'm just if you meet somebody organically, I feel like it's okay at that point. But at the end of the day, do y'all realize that there are differences between men and women and our sexual urgencies, like the way that we instinctively, the way that we are. I believe it's different. Women have the urges, but I think that women have a different I think

that also the way that jealous science. I think that the way that society raise y'all towards wanting to be play house Barbie Ken dollhouse. Yeah, like that's kind of the way women are raised, whereas men are raised that way. We're kind of raised to be out there, do whatever. And I think that instinctively we are meant to appropriate. I think that, and I was saying this today on Twitter. I think that it starts the room once it once it kind of no. I think that once it lessons.

That's why, actually older, you're able to fight the urgers when you're when you're young and you're dumb, you do mad dumb ship because you did get hard. You're just dumb. You're just out in the street run around because you take hard, you take card, you take hard. But that's because your stars room is crazy, your instinct is crazy. Just appropriate. As you get older, that lessons a lot past. Now that's why you have to wait for man, but

women when it increases, and that's crazy. But that's science. And I don't understand why it's like that. I can only think about men and how my body is and how it has also defected my mind age to stop her own sex drivee instinct, choice and these things. I'm like, Okay, as I've gotten older, I'm able to push it back, say all right, I'm not gonna sunk up my whole life for this urge. I'm also a lot more confident with financing and not fit, not faring judgment for my partner.

And then I'm able to provide, so I'm not worried about calling me abomass nigger. If I say, hey, I do want to fun somebody, You know what I'm saying, I'm able to. I have a lot more confidence and having that conversation. When you're younger, I don't believe that

you have that confidence. I don't believe that you have that emotional intelligence to be able to express what you're feeling and in an adequate way to be able to really have that conversation with women who are superior and thought processing superior, and emotional intelligence superior, and almost any and everything when it comes to family or conversations, like men don't know how to do it. We're literally like a daring headlights with these conversations about our body and urges.

We we're like lost. And women will run a mile around you trying to have a conversation as most of y'all. Both of y'all have already done with maybe one sentence. The nigger said, Oh, it's transactional. Oh so you're comparing pussy the dishes like, it's very easy to shut us down. It's very easy for y'all to shut us down because y'all are smarter than us, y'all are better arguers than us, and you have been training for this relationship your whole life,

whereas men have not. We usually fall into relationships. We're usually be in a relationship where it's like we was just oh, I ain't I ain't ready for all that right now, And next all of a sudden, you asked me to marry that's your girl, girl. You wasn't ready for that. You're scared to tell your boys you actually have a girlfriend. Your girls. Your boys be like, oh, that's your girl. You'd be like, nah, bro, like that's

your girl. I definitely was in a relationship, and I didn't realize I was this girl until his cousin he hadn't seen for some years, came over and he was like, yeah, that's my old lady, a j whatever. And I'm like, oh, yeah, I never knew, nigger. I never knew. That's another thing, like men expect commitment without asking for a commitment. How do y'all feel about that? Do you feel like a woman should just fall into a committed role with you she continued to date until you asked her to be

in the committed situation. I feel like it's a lot of entitlement to assume that women should um just be only committed to me. I like attention from who I like attention from, so I would like if I was the only one. But if I'm being I'd like to also be fair, so i'd rather her be dating also. But it also gives me like the drive and motivation to show her why I should be the only one.

If she was dating multiple, multiple people that if I was the only one, then I'm like a little bit more lax, Like I know I'm good enough for her to stay right here and she's not gonna go venture out. But if she's dating more people other than me, it's just like it's me, why would you? Yeah, so it motivates me to keep going and show her like, yeah, I'm gonna break your fucking back, I'm gonna wear your ass. Soundn't let you know you can't be going nowhere else?

Let you know where home. I don't think that women, did you feel like this? It's crazy now word from our sponsors. I don't believe that women understand how much ego's in with men and sex and relationship. Our ego is everything, even coming down to having sex with you. It's more about our ego. How well we fucking you? If we made you come like are you? Am I able to pull your head? Choke you, spank your ship? Like?

Am I even to dominate this pussy like that? Like that's all ego serving because spanker, you really don't do nothing physically for me right you're here, don't do nothing physically for me. It's the ego is to how it serves my ego that she's allowing me to do these things? To now, what happens if she's allowing anybody to do that, How does that serve my ego? It's like, oh, ship, it's not about me. It's not about how much she cooks with me. It's not about like my my opulence.

It's literally just who she is. And now I have to look at her as a physical sexual person, which is like, oh my god, because that's not what what drives men. And it's it's it's it's because we haven't had these type of conversations where men don't have the intelligence that we think we have when it comes to the ship, like we're learning now and this generation is social media has opened the doors so we have to

learn ourselves all over again. And then you got the older ones that cut of my age and older to be like, I'm not trying to hear none of that ship out of here, right, But ego drives a lot of this ship, bro so um and I don't I don't really have no big ego, especially when it comes to people I love. You know what I'm saying, Like men will let their egos drive the ass to the grave, which is why I say that when men and women are doing differently when it comes to relationships, man, women

get different things from relationships their men get. So it's not about y'all. Of course, I think for women, loyalty it's more important than their personal ego when it comes to relationships. But that's just um. You know, I'm nurturing to you. I'm pouring my heart into you, my my God complexes to give life. I'm actually here to build this home for you and violent and me it's like slap in the face. That's that's what drives most, right, um.

But that's completely different when it's man, because the conquest came from me and that's the divide and that's where we can't stay together. We can, but the conversation exactly comprehension bottom line. You know what I'm saying. If you've got two people and y'all can effectively comprehend whatever each person,

here's what I feel like. It's wrong. Women have ego too, because you could come to her and be like, baby, I love you and I do everything for us and I'm gonna be with you, but I just what's some extra pussy on the weekend. This is is not going for that. They're not really going for that. They don't want to share you. That's the problem. We don't want to share you with nobody else either. But that's you hate women. I love women. I love women, man, until

you don't. Yeah, women could walk through the room and something about women women where the hairy y'all back in y'all neck just goes up and y'all just like, I don't like that. Those are hating bitches. We hate love women, especially when she looks good. I'm like, okay, so that's exactly that's my energy is like we definitely ain't your man say yes, she looked good. Your man says she looked good to point out that, yeah, look look, and he'd be acting like he can you see it before me.

I definitely don't care about women in that way. YEA find it so interesting that women, Um, my understanding of respect for women has a lot of times has to be forced by women. Um when I'm explaining, like my girl, right, I remember, you know, she and I were dating for a long time and I was like, listen, I want to do me, but I can't. I ain't gonna suck with you like that if you just out there doing you like we you know, we were just dating at

the time, you know what I'm saying. I was like, listen, you're my main chip. I take your trips, I buy you stuff and all that, but I ain't really ready to be in a relationship. I'm out here in these streets, I'm living really well and I'm just not ready to be in a relationship. And she was like, so you could do you and I'm just gonna be your main chick and I can't do me or you're not gonna suck me. And I was like basically she was like

back and she went and did her. She was like, Okay, you hold all the power, so you're not gonna allow me to be an equal partnership in this situation. You're not gonna allowing because you hold all the powers. You know. You know I'm in love with you. Your hold all the power. But what you're not gonna do just treat me like a sucker. When I found out, I was like I was first, I was felt betrayed. Oh my god, you funked up. You could have told me just on

the oven. And she was like, what you expected me not to take care of myself first. I had to take care of you, like I do everything for you the same way you do everything for me. But you're taken care of yourself, expecting me not to take care of myself first, Like that's what you expect, that's what you want out of a party. And I had to realize that I was being selfish and I didn't respect her as a human being. I did not respect her. I thought that she was under me. How did she

find out? How did you find out that she was doing her? Because you would have never found out with me? Why not? Though? But I think she told me. She told me it was she told me after some time, and then after that I made him my girl after she told me. Why do men? Why do men have to be heard into submission in that way? Though? Why do I have to? Why do I have to because I've been in the same similar situation? Right? Why do I have to basically like play you hurt you into

being the NYE attentive, showing intimacy like not cheating? Why I gotta go make you think I fucked somebody else for you to act right? WHOA? Why Why is it such a game? It goes back to like our ego, to where we feel like once we have you, once we conquered you, like we feel unstoppable. We feel like the sense of ownership. Y'all are like our castle and we have y'all are like our indestructible castle. Nobody can get in, and then once somebody gets in, then we

start paying attention more. Now we gotta we gotta line of defenses, we gotta know what's going on, who's walking where. That's how we feel, y'all are men's men's mind state is about conquering in all different aspects. And once we feel like somebody has infiltrated anything that we've built, then we just pay attention more than before when we felt like, YO, know what, I can trust that over there, I could

trust it is going right. And once things just don't go right, that's when our senses get high end and not like women, where your senses are high end all the time. And then you already talked about it. I had to look at myself and figure what was more portant to me. For me, I had to look at it like why am I chasing and see the street when I have it right? Why am I forcing her back? Out into the street. What like she's giving me everything? What am I looking for? You know what I'm saying.

I was playing boyish games with a woman, so I chose my woman. I'm smart. How long has every good man? It's fire too, I'm in love. Oh congratulations, that's beautiful episode. Now Orlando is still out here. You still out here saving lass, still out here currently saving life. I am want to be saved though here a little younger, Sam, I'm a young thirty years old. But it's more so like I wouldn't mind. I'm open to and I wouldn't mind being in a relationship. It's just I'm just waiting

for that person. I feel like I bring so much um that I could bring so much the relationship that I want somebody that I feel like has equity in it, that I can feel like, you know, I can look at you and be like, you know what, we have some kind of equality to where I have all these things going on with me, and you're gonna help whatever I'm going through, help ease it and ease my mind

by being this relationship. I don't want to feel like I'm coming to the relationship and it's even more work or it's harder work than already what I'm I'm doing. I enjoy the hard work, but I don't want to be working and not enjoy and it it feels like more pressure. No, no, no, don't want no. I don't need you know, I don't need you to like do my work for me. What I'm saying is, I want to work on the relationship, but I don't want to. I don't want to work to not be enjoyable. I

enjoy working. I enjoy working on my relationship. But if I feel like the work that I'm doing is more pressure or it's harder than when I was single, it's like I just might as well be single for all of that relationship. Yeah, we would you be open? Would you be open to a non monogamous relationship? Yeah? I believe. I believe in the fairness um of relationships. So if I'm gonna sit here and be like, oh, you know, I want to suk with other people, I'm going to

allow you to also do that. Or we could just communicate and like have some type of like whatever stipulations we need for our relationships to for our relationship to like move along. Really, well, have you ever been in love? Twice and you would have been were you open with them. No,

I was younger then. So now you feel like, if you were in love with a woman, you could let her suck some dick and have tears coming down with her eyes because he's choking her in the back of her that would be okay, and come kiss you in

the mouth. I mean I wouldn't. I wouldn't know. But if if, if I feel comfortable and we're in that type of relationship, it's not gonna bother me because honestly, there's gonna be some girl sitting on home, sitting on my face with her pussy juices, like just covering all my whole nose support, Crispy cream, donut, make me look like Christ, some water. Just what's going on? Something up?

But yeah, we gotta wrap it up, all right. So y'all, this is It's Tahoe in Orlando from the Hardest Off Podcast. We definitely enjoyed you guys for joining exactly alright. You can follow the Harder Soft podcast on Instagram and Twitter at Hardest Soft Pod. We are the first podcast with adult content on only Fans which is still up and running, so you can go to that as only fans dot

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