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Knotty Bi Nature

Dr. Casey Sanders / Kari Sanderswww.buzzsprout.com

In the realm of long-term love, where time bends and stretches, where passion and intimacy evolve like a living thing, two guides step forward—Dr. Casey Sanders and Kari Sanders. Together, they embark on an odyssey into the heart of relationships, peeling back the layers of connection, desire, and vulnerability.

This podcast is a lantern in the shadows, illuminating the secrets to lasting intimacy. It’s a journey into the delicate art of keeping the flames of love not merely alight but growing ever stronger. Join these seasoned sex educators as they unravel the mysteries of passion, communication, and erotic exploration, sharing their wisdom on how to nurture desire through the years.

If you’ve ever wondered how to deepen your bond or rekindle the spark in your long-term relationship, Dr. Casey and Kari invite you to step into their world—where love isn’t just a moment in time, but a story still unfolding.

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Episodes

Burning Desires

Send us a text Kari and Casey have compiled a few of the most submitted questions from their listeners to dive into. How can I get my partner to initiate sex? How should I prep for anal? and What are some ways I can spice up life in the bedroom? Mentions in this episode: Nightshade Burlesque Carla Renee Intimates Support the show...

Aug 25, 202356 minSeason 3Ep. 4

Slip Into Some Deadly Nightshade

Send us a text Today we are joined by Violent Lavender and Vivvienne Vermuth of Nightshade Burlesque, a gothic themed and inclusive burlesque show. GET TICKETS HERE Todays guests: Violent Lavender Vivienne Vermuth Venue: The Cicada Support the show...

Aug 18, 202344 minSeason 3Ep. 3

The Road So Far

Send us a text It's our 1 year anniversary! We are celebrating by bringing you some of our favorite episode clips from our most popular episodes. This last year has been a wonderful experience and we cannot wait to see what year two brings. In this episode we have clips from our shows on -who we are and what we do -fantasies kinks and fetishes -how to have anal like a pro -role playing strategies -opening your relationship - and of course our most popular episode.... we went to a sex party. From...

Aug 11, 202351 minSeason 3Ep. 2

Wear a Bra for Jesus

Send us a text Its Season 3 and we're kicking it off with a bang! Let's talk censorship. Since we we recently ran into some censorship troubles on social media, we decided to dive into the topic. What types of censorship are seen within relationships? How can you deal with a partner who is censoring you, and is this censorship boundary setting or manipulative? As always we invite your questions! DM us @CWKC.2 CumwithKC@gmail.com Have you checked out our amazing photographer? @carlareneeintimates...

Jul 28, 202339 minSeason 3Ep. 1

S2:E24 OnlyFans 101 with WrexBabe

Send us a text This week we sit down with Myranda a.k.a Wrexbabe to talk about OnlyFans and how she has made a name for herself. Support the show

Jul 14, 202333 minSeason 2Ep. 24

S2:E23: Regain your sexuality with Leighanna Cure

Send us a text Trigger Warning: In this episode we talk about sexual trauma and how to regain your sexual self as a survivor. We also cover tools for survivors and their partners to have amazing sex while being prepared to handle triggers in and out of the bedroom. You may contact Leighanna directly at Break The Mold Therapy Support the show...

Jun 30, 202349 minSeason 2Ep. 23

S2:E21 Closing with Pride

Send us a text We're closing our PRIDE month with stories from our experiences and some history as to WHY PRIDE is celebrated! Join us this week as we talk Stonewall, Rooftop PRIDE parties, the Target debacle, and minding your own business. In this episode we mention a few of our lovely artists and our wonderful photo partner in crime! You can find them here: Dirty little rejects Angelic Vortex Carla Renee Intimates Support the show...

Jun 23, 202345 minSeason 2Ep. 22

S2:E21 Striking the naughtiest of poses with Carla

Send us a text Lets' talk our new foray into boudoir with Carla! Find her @carlareneeintimates and allow her to help you feel the sexiest you have ever felt on camera. In this episode we talk the WHY of boudoir, how to get comfortable in a shoot, and how Carla turned her garage into a MAGNIFICENT little studio with the perfect lighting. Support the show...

Jun 17, 202330 minSeason 2Ep. 21

S2:E20 Down The Rabbit Hole with Rope Bunny Tess

Send us a text We continue our foray into Shibari this week with @Tempermental_Kitten! Tess is an experienced rope bottom that is talking all about the experience of being tied and suspended from the physical feeling of the pain cycle to the drift into sub-space. You can find Tess on all platforms under @tempermental_kitten Have a question about relationships, kink, or sex? Email us at cumwithkc@gmail.com or DM us @cumwithkc! Support the show...

Jun 09, 202342 minSeason 2Ep. 20

S2:E19 Queer Adjacent

Send us a text In this episode we talk Kari's coming out story and how she recognized she was queer, how it has affected our relationship, and we answer some anonymous questions. Happy Pride month everybody! Support the show

Jun 02, 202353 minSeason 2Ep. 19

S2:E18 Getting Knotty with Jake

Send us a text In this episode we are talking all things Shibari With Jake, aka Gedo_Nawa! This is a great introduciton to the HOW of tying each other up and even icludes some practical application involving shoelaces and pillow cases! Contact Jake through Instagram as @gedo_nawa. DMs are open! mentions in this episode Shibaristudy.com - they offer a free 7 day trial so you can familiarize yourself and start learning, as well as free safety videos Clean Rope Company - for your rope needs As alwa...

May 26, 202347 minSeason 2Ep. 18

S2:E17 An Impromptu Affair

Send us a text What do you do when an interview day goes to shit? You record anyways! So we're answering some common questions around kinky conversations, role play, and masturbation in this weeks episode of Cum With KC! Support the show

May 19, 202338 minSeason 2Ep. 17

S2:E16 Along Came Poly with Kelsey Eisenberg

Send us a text Kari and Dr. Casey are sitting down with Kelsey Eisenberg to talk all things poly. How does an established couple know if it is a good time to open up? HOW can they begin to have discussions around the subject? Where can they go to find a community that isn't filled with predatory partners? And what are red flags to look for? We're answering all this and more on this weeks episode! Support the show...

May 12, 202349 minSeason 2Ep. 16

S2:E14 C**ks Galore!

Send us a text In this episode we are welcoming Cj and Linwood to the show to talk about what it takes to be a long standing couple who participates in ethical non monogamy. We cover quite a bit in a short period of time, so give a listen and as always, send you questions to cumwithkc@gmail.com! Cj can be found at noshamewithcj.com Support the show...

Apr 28, 202349 minSeason 2Ep. 14

S2:E12 Going all the Way With THE Silvia Saige

Send us a text In this very special interview of Cum With KC we are hosting THE Silvia Saige! This woman does it all. Successful stand-up comedian, business owner, podcaster, and award winning star of adult film, Silvia has take L.A by storm over the last number of years. She was recently awarded MILF of the Month by Mylf.com and has been a MILF performer of the year nominee multiple years in a row at the X-BIZ awards. So join us as we talk life, liberty, and the pursuit of sexual freedom on thi...

Apr 14, 202347 minSeason 2Ep. 12

S2:E11 The Space Between

Send us a text In this episode of Cum With KC We're talking about how to maintain connection when a partner is out of town. Casey just got back from a Colorado bachelor party, so Kari and Casey are sitting down to discuss how to still feel close when there are hundreds of miles between you. Then they talk the steps partners can take to have successful nights out without each other. This one is going to give you some great answers! Support the show...

Apr 07, 202344 minSeason 2Ep. 11

S2:E10 Gather Round Kids!

Send us a text Now THIS is a touchy episode. How do you approach the conversation about sex with your kids? What should you tell them? How should you tell them? What should the conversation look like? Today we sit down with Brandie Sellers from Mind Your Heart Counseling to talk all things about "the conversation" If you are a parent and hae any questions, PLEASE reach out to us! Support the show...

Mar 31, 202341 minSeason 2Ep. 10

S2:E9 Wait, What Page Are We On?

Send us a text Let's talk sexual compatibility and WHY it is important in relationships! We are told all the time that relationships require us to be on the same page about careers, finances, family matters and money matters. WHERE. THE. FUCK. Are the people telling us to be on the same page about sexual matters?! In this episode of your favorite sex podcast we're discussing just that: getting on the same page with your sexual compatibility. Enjoy!! Support the show...

Mar 23, 202343 minSeason 2Ep. 9

S2:E8 Getting Kinky With Mistress Cass

Send us a text Kari and Casey are talking all things Kink with THE Mistress Cass Mistress Cas is a public health scientist, Educator and Diverse Relationships Coach who lives with her partners and dogs in San Antonio, Texas. She is a queer Leatherwoman who has been active in kink and polyamory for over a decade. She is passionate about helping polyamorous and kinky folx discover their unrealized strengths and values so that they are able to live their lives more aligned with their true purpose a...

Mar 10, 202336 minSeason 2Ep. 8

S2:E7 Who Knows?? Anyone?

Send us a text In this episode, Kari and Casey talk more about clarity when discussing consent and boundaries. How can you find comfort in determining and developing certainty in your boundaries? Let's find out! Support the show

Mar 03, 202341 minSeason 2Ep. 7

S2:E6 These are the toys you are looking for

Send us a text On this episode of Cum With KC we speak with Velvet box sales associate and toy expert Rashel. Rashel is here to field our questions on toy types and best practices when pleasing those oh so sensitive spots! Support the show

Feb 24, 202346 minSeason 2Ep. 6

S2:E5 So We Went To A Sex Party

Send us a text In this episode, Kari and Casey talk about their experience at their first play party! Come find out how it all came to pass and if they had fun, or things just got weird on this episode of Cum With KC. Support the show

Feb 17, 202358 minSeason 2Ep. 5

S2:E4 Margaux on and Tie Your Rope

Send us a text In this episode we are chatting with Margaux, founder of Coalescent Coaching, Co-Founder of Fuse, and Shibari Expert. Margaux is letting us in on the inner workings of rope play, the philosophy behind it, and the emotions that drive a successful session. Connect with Margaux at Coalescent coaching: https://coalescing.me/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coalescentcoaching/ FUSE: https://coalescing.me/fuse-landing-page/ And Don't forget! Your new favorite lube and hands free di...

Feb 10, 202341 minSeason 2Ep. 4

S2:E3 Maybe It's Me

Send us a text In this episode Kari and Casey are going stir crazy during a winter storm and trying to stay sane. They speak on the use of maybe in a relationship, and if going to a strip club is permissable in a relationship. Have a question? Contact us! Email: cumwithkc@gmail.com IG: @cumwithkc Support the show

Feb 03, 202344 minSeason 2Ep. 3

S2:E2 A Fleeting Exhibition, with Ley David Elliet Crey, PhD

Send us a text Welcome to our first official interview on CWKC! Today we are joined by Ley David Elliet Crey, PhD to talk self identity and challenges faced coming out as a trans woman, walking away from a tenured position at a prominent Texas university, how to gamify BDSM, and proper communication during play. Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD (she/they) is an author, board-certified sexologist, and LGBTQIA+ and BDSM educator, coach, and consultant. She is the founder of Transentience Coaching, a p...

Jan 27, 202353 min

S2:E1 - Allow Us To Reintroduce Ourselves

Send us a text It's the season 2 premier! Cum With KC is back and better than ever because now..... we've got (blurry) video! We are a continuous work in progress but hey, it's all about the content we are delivering to you. In our season premier, we are reintroducing ourselves and giving you our backstory. The in depth how, why, and huh? of US. So enjoy this informal and fun episode as the season 2 premier of Cum With KC! Support the show...

Jan 20, 202348 minSeason 2Ep. 1

S1:E19 Fa-La-La-Labia and a White Christmas (Season 1 Finale)

Send us a text In The Season 1 Finale of Cum With KC, we're answering questions and talking about a balance between maintaining your own identity in a relationship. IT's the season finale!!!! Don't forget to head to lovemypulse.com and use discount code Cumwithkc for 10% off your order on the hands-free lube dispenser. Support the show...

Dec 24, 202254 minSeason 1Ep. 19

S1:E18- A (kinky) Way With Words

Send us a text We appreciate every on of our listeners and wanted to let you all know that we experienced some audio issues during recording this week's episode. We appreciate your support and patience! On this episode of Cum With KC, we are discussing the kinktionary! We cover a few key terms in kink and dive into their meanings so you will never come across a word or phrase that makes you scratch your head and feel out of place. Dont forget to shop www.lovemypulse.com and use discount code Cum...

Dec 16, 202244 minSeason 1Ep. 18
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