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All Out in the Open

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All Out in the Open is a resource for LGBTQ Latter-day Saints and those who love them. Our goal is to help listeners connect with themselves, with their families, with their community, and with God. Hosts Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty help listeners open up to themselves and those around them. Clare Dalton digs into the scriptures and teaches how they can be a catalyst for personal revelation. Iese Wilson takes listeners on a tour of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints all over the Church and introduces us to modern day pioneers. Michael Soto and Liz Macdonald highlight the amazing work of those who are building and strengthening their communities. Learn more at www.alloutintheopen.org.

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Episodes

How do you deal with burnout?

Ben and Charlie do a recap of the episodes they have recorded so far and announce a short break in order to prepare future content.

May 11, 202126 minSeason 1Ep. 61

What do the scriptures say about homosexuality?

Dr. Eric Huntsman, ancient scripture historian, joins Charlie and Ben for a conversation about references to homosexual behavior in canonized LDS scripture.

May 04, 20211 hr 1 minSeason 1Ep. 60

What if I like my straight friend?

Ukiah Reynolds joins Charlie and Ben to talk about what to do if you have a crush on a straight person.

Apr 27, 202136 minSeason 1Ep. 59

Do you keep your covenants?

Ben and Charlie have a discussion about the covenants they have made in relation to their sexual orientations.

Apr 20, 202141 minSeason 1Ep. 58

Bonus: Kissing Girls

Ben and Charlie tell stories about kissing girls.

Apr 09, 202119 minSeason 1Ep. 56

Will God change my orientation?

Charlie and Ben have a conversation about trying to change their sexual orientations through spiritual practice and conversion therapy.

Mar 16, 202141 minSeason 1Ep. 52

How do I figure everything out?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Joey, a current student at BYU, to discuss how they have made decisions in the uncharted territory of being a LGBTQ+ member of the Church.

Mar 02, 202134 minSeason 1Ep. 50

Can I be in a relationship and stay in the Church?

Charlie and Ben are joined by Summer Lee-Corry for a conversation about what it's like to attend worship services while in a relationship that is not sanctioned by the Church.

Feb 23, 202147 minSeason 1Ep. 48

How do I start a support group?

Charlie and Ben go through the logistics of starting a local LDS/LGBTQ+ support group with Michelle Sherwin and Byron Korth, who recently started a successful group in their home Stake.

Feb 16, 202146 minSeason 1Ep. 47

What hurtful things do Church members say?

This week Ben and Charlie are joined by T.J. Thomas, a therapist who identifies as bisexual, for a conversation about hurtful things that well-meaning members of The Church of Jesus Christ might say to an LGBTQ+ individual. They also have a discussion about bisexuality and what it's like for T.J. to be a male, bisexual, Latter-day Saint.

Feb 09, 20211 hrSeason 1Ep. 46

Why do you stay in the Church?

Charlie and Ben talk about why they decide to move forward in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Feb 02, 202146 minSeason 1Ep. 45

How can I safely navigate gay culture?

Charlie and Ben are joined by Derek Lundahl to talk about the moral "pendulum swing" that often accompanies LGBTQ+ individuals raised in religious cultures, and how to set boundaries and stay safe after coming out.

Jan 26, 202141 minSeason 1Ep. 44

What is asexuality?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Tearza Foyston for an in-depth conversation about asexuality.

Jan 19, 202150 minSeason 1Ep. 43

Can I date?

Ben and Charlie talking about their experiences dating while staying active in the Church.

Jan 12, 202154 minSeason 1Ep. 42

How can I help?

Charlie and Ben are joined by Rachel Bloxham to talk about how allies can help support LGBTQ+ individuals.

Jan 05, 202135 minSeason 1Ep. 41

How do I find gay people like me?

This week Ben and Charlie are joined by Victoria Hutchings, group leader of Affirmation San Francisco, for a conversation about how to find community and support among other LGBTQ+ people. Ben and Charlie talk about finding community through coming out and Victoria shares some of her journey becoming more involved with church after stepping away when she was young.

Dec 29, 202024 minSeason 1Ep. 40

Did pornography make me gay?

Among the worries presented to us by gay Latter-day Saints, one of the most common is that early exposure to pornography might have altered their orientation. This week we were joined by Liam Essig, an expert in pornography use and addiction recovery, for a conversation about the myths of pornography use, associated shame, and how to overcome unwanted viewing.

Dec 22, 202048 minSeason 1Ep. 39

What is the gay agenda?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Sarah Kellar Langford to talk about the phrase "gay agenda" and what they hope to accomplish through visible LGBTQ+ advocacy .

Dec 15, 202034 minSeason 1Ep. 38

Is there a place for me in the Church?

Ben, Charlie, and McKay Bryson have a raw conversation about what it's like to be a gay member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Dec 08, 202039 minSeason 1Ep. 37

How do I talk to youth about LGBTQ+?

Youth leaders often ask us how they should approach LGBTQ+ topics in a religious setting. Today we sat down with Dave Smurthwaite to talk about his experience as a youth leader and how he ended up doing LGBTQ+ trainings with seminary teachers in Utah.

Dec 01, 202036 minSeason 1Ep. 36

How can my child be just like you?

We (Charlie and Ben) both get a lot of messages from parents asking how they can help their kids stay In the Church and be just like us. This week we sat down with Jessyca Fulmer, who became one of the first "poster children" of the LDS/LGBTQ+ space when her coming out was featured in a Mormon Message. Jessyca talks about her experience coming out publicly, feeling social pressure from Church membership, and what it was like having her video taken down after she got engaged to her wife Savannah....

Nov 24, 202042 minSeason 1Ep. 35

How do I fit in the Plan of Salvation?

Ben and Charlie are joined by LDS scholar and theologian Terryl Givens to talk about how LGBTQ+ individuals fit into the Plan of Salvation.

Nov 17, 202041 minSeason 1Ep. 34

What are the stages of coming out?

Ben teaches Cass's 6 Stages of Coming Out. Scott Christofferson joins Ben and Charlie to talk about their experiences in each stage, as well as give advice for how friends and family can support LGBTQ+ loved ones throughout the process.

Nov 10, 202041 minSeason 1Ep. 33
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