Send us a text Feeling overwhelmed by the glittering, unattainable ideals of modern marriage? You're not alone. We contrast the humble aspirations of past generations with today's extravagant, social-media-fueled fantasies. These sky-high expectations often lead to disappointment and resentment when reality falls short. Through our personal stories, we shed light on the importance of valuing meaningful moments and relationships over material wealth. By focusing on simpler, more achievable goals,...
Oct 01, 2024•32 min•Ep. 68
Send us a text We give a shoutout to our diverse listeners from bustling metropolises like New York, Los Angeles, and Chicago. We challenge you to tell us where you're tuning in from and to weigh in on the red flags couples therapists say indicate a marriage is on the rocks. Communication is the lifeblood of any successful marriage, and we dedicate a segment to exploring this essential theme. We discuss the importance of mutual support, transparency, and having those hard conversations about fut...
Sep 24, 2024•32 min•Ep. 67
Send us a text We take a moment to celebrate our podcast's success, with 50,000 downloads and nearly 5,000 YouTube subscribers, and ponder whether it's time to shake up our seasonal format. Switching gears, we dive into a hilarious yet telling birthday dinner anecdote that highlights modern relationship dynamics. A boyfriend's sizzling fajita order at a Mexican restaurant leads to an unexpected spat with his girlfriend, who felt the attention-grabbing dish stole the spotlight on her special day....
Sep 17, 2024•33 min•Ep. 66
Send us a text Get ready for everyone's ultimate favorite—it's Q&A Time!!! In this exciting and engaging episode, we're diving into your burning questions that you've been curious about and eager to have answered. From navigating the tricky waters of choosing between two Churches with your spouse, which can often lead to some challenging discussions and decisions, to the hilarious and unforgettable moment when your husband makes a surprise appearance in his birthday suit during your Zoom mee...
Sep 03, 2024•37 min•Ep. 65
Send us a text We discuss the various things that women do that drive men absolutely crazy. From phones, to expectations, to social media interactions, to talking about past relationships, there is a whole spectrum of behaviors and actions that women are engaging in that men simply can't stand. Are you making some of these same mistakes, and if so, what can you do to recognize them and stop them? In this video, we delve deep into the specific behaviors that often lead to misunderstandings and fr...
Aug 27, 2024•36 min•Ep. 64
Send us a text In this gripping episode, we plunge into the shocking and widely publicized case of Laci and Scott Peterson. Discover the chaos of their tumultuous marriage, the tangled web of lies spun by Scott, and the affair that marked the beginning of their tragic downfall. This heart-wrenching tale of murder captivated the nation and left the media in a frenzy. We’ll unravel the timeline of events leading to this devastating incident, the intense investigation that followed, and the crucial...
Aug 20, 2024•35 min•Ep. 63
Send us a text We retell the story of the greatest vow renewal that has even been given. Monica goes to the next level in giving Matthew the surprise of a lifetime. Watch as we tell the behind the scenes story of having our vows renewed on the field at Fenway Park! The Brief All your family’s pressing concerns and questions, answered in one place. Mike... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify...
Aug 13, 2024•31 min•Ep. 62
Send us a text Prepare to be captivated as we delve into the intriguing world of "Roommate Marriages"! Are you headed to divorce? Discover the impact of excessive phone use on relationships and uncover practical tips for achieving the perfect work-life balance. Get ready for personal anecdotes on packing quirks, in-law encounters, and red flags signaling a marriage in trouble. Explore the dynamics of parenthood on couples, backed by eye-opening statistics. Uncover the hidden truths behind marria...
Aug 06, 2024•35 min•Ep. 61
Send us a text Picture this: You're hiding in a closet with your infant son, a gun, and a prayer, facing a life-threatening situation. This was the terrifying moment that served as a catalyst for our profound spiritual transformation. We recount the harrowing experience that led us to seek a deeper connection with Jesus, ultimately finding safety and stability. Through this deeply personal story, we illustrate how divine intervention can guide us through our darkest hours and lead us to a path o...
Jul 30, 2024•34 min•Ep. 60
Send us a text We break down society's perception of marriage as an outdated tradition and delve into why sex remains a taboo subject both socially and biblically. Through candid discussions, we'll challenge common misconceptions and emphasize the value of open communication to boost marital satisfaction and intimacy. Discover the extensive health benefits of a fulfilling sex life—from lowering blood pressure to enhancing your immune system—and learn the boundaries of a healthy sexual relationsh...
Jul 23, 2024•38 min•Ep. 59
Send us a text We take a moment to celebrate our incredible milestone of 25,000 downloads from listeners across 38 countries and 722 cities, with special shout-outs to our top listener locations like Los Angeles, San Jose, New York City, and Miami. Your unexpected support continues to fuel our passion for sharing valuable insights, even as one of us navigates the podcasting world without being a social media aficionado. Navigating the emotional challenges of maintaining household morale when per...
Jul 16, 2024•32 min•Ep. 58
Send us a text Ever wondered if conspiracy theories could tear a marriage apart? We share a heartfelt story of a wife struggling with her husband's flat earth beliefs, which have only intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic. As we navigate the complexities of dealing with a spouse’s extreme views, we examine whether such convictions are grounds for divorce from a biblical perspective. Plus, we lighten the mood with some nostalgic chatter about classic wrestling figures like Razor Ramon and Scot...
Jul 09, 2024•31 min•Ep. 57
Send us a text Ever found yourself haunted by past flames even while in a happy marriage? We dissect a real-life scenario where a newly married woman grapples with lingering emotions for a former friend with benefits, and how social media stirs the pot of jealousy and unresolved feelings. Should she come clean to her husband? We debate the pros and cons and give you actionable advice on fortifying your marital bond. Lastly, we stress the often overlooked yet crucial element of personal hygiene a...
Jul 02, 2024•33 min•Ep. 56
Send us a text Trust and boundaries in marriage can be incredibly complex, especially when business and personal lives intertwine. This episode uncovers the subtle but significant difference between friendly behavior and actions that might erode trust. We emphasize the importance of open communication and discuss the controversial approach of giving a taste of one's own medicine. As we debate the idea of more drastic measures like firing an employee to resolve marital tensions, we also confront ...
Jun 25, 2024•35 min•Ep. 55
Send us a text We share some thrilling news about our podcast's rapid growth—over 20,000 downloads and listeners spanning 36 countries and 713 cities! Can you guess which city has the highest number of our listeners? In our next segment, we dive deep into the heart of relationship struggles and communication issues. Listen to the powerful narrative of a husband feeling overwhelmed by household responsibilities and childcare, while his wife battles depression. We stress the critical importance of...
Jun 11, 2024•39 min•Ep. 54
Send us a text Are men becoming obsolete? This provocative question fuels our heated debate on gender roles and societal perceptions. Using a clip from “The View,” we dissect various opinions on the value of men and women in modern society. We examine how both genders excel in different ways, making each indispensable. Our conversation covers societal expectations, marital dynamics, and the indispensable role of community and friendships in sustaining long-term relationships. Imagine a world wit...
Jun 04, 2024•34 min•Ep. 53
Send us a text Have you ever sat across from someone and wondered, "Is this the pinnacle of togetherness, or are we just ticking societal checkboxes?" Well, buckle up, because Matthew and I are ripping the lid off the marriage box in this unfiltered episode. As young adults increasingly question the institution's relevance, we're tossing in our own stories—from our son's dreams on the baseball diamond to the everyday hilarity that keeps our partnership afloat. Prepare to navigate the twists and ...
May 28, 2024•27 min•Ep. 52
Send us a text Buckle up as we mark our 51st flight through the podcasting universe, navigating through tumultuous debates on whether marriage has lost its sheen among millennials. With a dash of humor, we dissect the everyday oddities that bind us, like the dreaded post-meal teeth check or the silent gym selfie culture. We're peeling back layers of societal expectations, unearthing the roots of marital skepticism, and pondering if the promise of 'forever' is as enticing as it once was. So, pull...
May 21, 2024•28 min•Ep. 51
Send us a text As we peel back the layers of modern relationship dynamics, one man's tale of open marriage regret becomes our springboard into the deeper waters of love, attraction, and the unforeseen complexities they bring into our lives. We pour over your comments, deep-diving into the quagmire of workplace crushes and the steps we can take to fan the flames of attraction within our own marriages. Our personal stories serve as a beacon of understanding, guiding us through the murky depths of ...
Apr 30, 2024•34 min•Ep. 50
Send us a text With a blend of humor and heartfelt discussion, we share a snapshot of our own life as Monica mends from oral surgery, bravely battling the world of soft foods, while also rejoicing in Cody Rhodes's epic victory at WrestleMania. And for those of you who've ever scratched your heads at the frenzy over solar eclipses, we're right there with you, wondering why a few minutes of celestial shadow play seem to turn the world upside down. Ever witnessed the intense gaze of a parent at a l...
Apr 16, 2024•34 min•Ep. 49
Send us a text Buckle up as we venture into the bedroom—where the heart meets the heat. We're candidly discussing the challenges that can arise after infidelity shakes the foundations of a relationship. With a mix of personal stories and listener contributions, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of maintaining intimacy, harmonizing mismatched desires, and—most importantly—the art of forgiveness. It's a fine balancing act between humor and depth, as we navigate the waters of sexual dynamics and t...
Apr 02, 2024•36 min•Ep. 48
Send us a text Have we slapped an expiration date on the institution of marriage without even realizing it? Tackling the weighty question of matrimonial relevance, this episode wades into the perspectives of young adults who label marriage as passé and scrutinizes the significance of lifelong vows amidst the backdrop of soaring divorce rates. As your hosts, we don't shy away from the tough topics. We return from a week-long hiatus, a sabbatical spent nurturing our own marital bonds, only to find...
Mar 19, 2024•39 min•Ep. 47
Send us a text It's one thing to manage your money, but it's another to manage it together. Stick with us as we tackle the gritty, often avoided conversations about fiscal stress and how faith can shine a light in the darkest of times. We're not just talking dollars and cents. We're talking about what it means to be wealthy in love and life. Discover how our own journey through unexpected expenses, and the need to differentiate wants from needs, has strengthened our bond and our belief in a high...
Mar 05, 2024•42 min•Ep. 46
Send us a text Join us as we unpack new research pointing to a generational shift in mindset, and share our heartfelt thanks to you, our listeners, from every corner of the globe—from the buzzing streets of Los Angeles to the sun-kissed shores of Miami. Your voices and stories fuel our passion, and for that, we're eternally grateful. Let's strip back the layers of intimacy, peeling away the physical to reveal the beating heart of communication that defines it. We're here to trade practical tips ...
Feb 27, 2024•33 min•Ep. 45
Send us a text Amidst the bloom of bouquets and Valentine's Day blitz, we're stepping out to question if society's grand romantic gestures are overshadowing the true essence of lasting partnerships. As we navigate through the maze of modern dating, from the adrenaline rush of the first crush to the sobering moment of a breakup text, our discussion lays bare the humor and humanity of seeking connection in the digital age. Sharing our personal misadventures and triumphs, we uncover the truths of G...
Feb 20, 2024•33 min•Ep. 44
Send us a text I can't contain my enthusiasm as we discuss the return of Theo Epstein to the Red Sox and the fresh hope he brings to our beloved team. The story of Joseph has always been a testament to patience and perseverance, but its relevance hits home as we draw parallels with our own relational sojourn. We muse over the enduring virtues that saw us through trials and tribulations, and the profound influence of these qualities on realizing our dreams. Our reflections extend an invitation to...
Feb 06, 2024•31 min•Ep. 43
Send us a text Let's talk about the secret sauce to any robust relationship—taking care of yourself. We're getting real about the sweaty tales from the gym and the quirkiness of our mutual grooming sessions (nose hairs, be gone!). Discover how staying fit together isn't just about chiseled abs but forging an ironclad partnership that thrives through pandemics and life's curveballs. We're getting into the nitty-gritty of how a little discomfort during a workout or a skincare regimen can spell a l...
Jan 23, 2024•36 min•Ep. 42
Send us a text We take a raw and humorous look at the complexities of marriage, serving up our truths alongside a side of laughter, as we unpack what it means to be hitched in the modern age. Now, don't think we've skipped over the bread and butter of married life—the daily grind, the quirks of growing older together, and the surprises that life tosses your way like confetti. From entertaining tales of "fat eyelids" to the less giggly reality of communication breakdowns, we tackle the reasons ma...
Jan 16, 2024•33 min•Ep. 41
Send us a text Ever imagined what it's like to break free from the daily grind and jet off to Hawaii with your partner? Well, buckle up because that's exactly what we're doing! After 15 years of marriage, my wife Monica and I, Matthew, are set to embark on an adventure that includes surfing, volcano exploration and much more! But this episode isn’t just about our exotic plans, we also take a moment to celebrate the success of our podcast. Thanks to you, dear listeners, we've seen a significant i...
Dec 19, 2023•36 min•Ep. 40
Send us a text Imagine being married for 20 years, still sharing laughter and playful touches as if you're back in high school. That's our reality, and we want to share with you how we keep our marriage fun and vibrant. We've learned through our personal experiences that laughter truly is the best medicine. Even when we faced a pushy salesperson, we found humor in the situation and it brought us closer. Have you ever felt the pressure to be perfect? You're not alone. We discuss the impact of soc...
Dec 12, 2023•43 min•Ep. 39
