Actress and producer, Trace Lysette, joins to play our second-ever game of Real or Faking. Then, she and Brandon dive into having sex outdoors, channeling your sexy avatar, and what it means to redefine how your life plan looks. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected] or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio.com/listene...
May 22, 2025•1 hr 16 min•Season 1Ep. 38
Champion of books, podcaster and Brandon's close friend, Traci Thomas, joins to share some messy stories as a fellow messy mom. After a game of F*ck, Marry, Block, Brandon and Traci read some mail and dive into interracial relationships that come with the pressure of having people talk behind their backs. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at Tel...
May 15, 2025•1 hr 26 min•Season 1Ep. 37
Legendary superstars and fellow podcasters Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle join Brandon for a whole lot of mess. Both Cody and Andrew share their messy stories (and a few extras) before getting into a discussion about what it means to be vers in today's dating world. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected] or call (6...
May 08, 2025•1 hr 19 min•Season 1Ep. 36
Comedian John-Michael Bond joins Brandon to share multiple messy stories after a game of smash or pass. Then, Brandon and John-Michael delve into growing up bisexual in the South, being in a hetero-presenting relationship, and talking about polyamory with parents. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 01, 2025•1 hr 24 min•Season 1Ep. 35
In our first solo episode, Brandon reads and answers Messy submissions from patrons, including questions about mental health, or a shocking story of a DP with no lube. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected] or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Apr 24, 2025•59 min•Season 1Ep. 34
Actor, podcaster, author & wig-wearing YouTuber, Willam, joins Brandon for a tea-spilling episode before diving deep into self-love and self-image. But first, a mess-filled game of smash or pass and some hilarious stories set the stage. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected] or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio...
Apr 17, 2025•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 33
Actor, writer and comedian Joel Kim Booster discusses his triple name and shares a PLETHORA of messy stories. Plus, Brandon and Joel Kim Booster dig into messy mail which leads to discussion on some funny findings on monogamy. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected] or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio.com/listener ...
Apr 10, 2025•1 hr 21 min•Season 1Ep. 32
Writer, director and actor, Clark Moore, shares a mysterious messy story filled with twists, turns, and a little potential revenge. Then, Clark and Brandon discuss the stigma against sides, living life "out of order" and the idea of queer temporality, all before coming full circle and solving the mystery. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 03, 2025•1 hr 21 min•Season 1Ep. 31
Filmmaker, author and podcaster Liz Goldwyn dives right into the deep stuff with Brandon as they talk ex's, healing from being hurt, and of course, a healthy dose of revenge. Plus, some of the wildest submissions of Messy Mail yet! Starf*cker Substack: https://starfcker.substack.com/ https://starfcker.substack.com/p/revenge-is-a-dish-best-served-cold Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/...
Mar 27, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 1Ep. 30
Actress and comedienne Liza Treyger joins Brandon to do a deep dive into Messy Mail focused around getting into trouble and the complicated nature of friendship. Plus, some much-needed Real Housewives talk and a game of F*ck, Marry, Block. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected] or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio....
Mar 20, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 29
DB, aka Danielle Bezalel, shares her vast knowledge of sex toys and informative stories that nobody ever got in sex education classes in school. Brandon and DB discuss de-stigmatizing kinks and masturbation, plus the very important difference between Plan-B and abortion pills, all with a healthy side of messy stories. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or qu...
Mar 13, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Season 1Ep. 28
Brandon gushes over one of their idols as Therapist and influencer Shahem Mclaurin joins to deep dive into cheating. But first, a game of F*ck, Marry, Block and some messy stories about people who aren't really your "friends." Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected] or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio.com/listener ...
Mar 06, 2025•55 min•Season 1Ep. 27
Actor and social media personality, Ian Paget, joins Brandon for a full-on kiki including everything from sex parties to Sex And The City. Ian shares a story of a sexual experience that left him in a vulnerable position, then he and Brandon differentiate between f*ck buddies and hookups. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at T...
Feb 27, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 1Ep. 26
Famed comedian and podcaster, Kid Fury, shares his journey of finding out what pleasure means for him through self sex-ploration. Brandon and Kid play a game of Smash or Pass and read more Messy Mail than ever before. Get ready! Vote for us in the Queerty awards: https://www.queerty.com/queerties/vote/?category_id=2504 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or questio...
Feb 20, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 25
Alex Hall, chef, producer, sex ed activist and creator of The Bottom's Digest joins Brandon to share some top secret insights into bottoming. But(t) first, they play a game of Smash or Pass and share some literally Messy stories. https://thebottomsdigest.com/ Sitz Bath: https://www.amazon.com/Electric-Hemorrhoids-Toilet-Foldable-Postpartum/dp/B0CGB29M8S?th=1 lube applicator syringe https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D6LP7WQP?ref=cm_sw_r_cso_cp_apin_dp_ACAQEWJJ80NVA5NQTK7Q&ref_=cm_sw_r_cso_cp_apin_d...
Feb 13, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 24
Actor, musician and advocate ER Fightmaster shares an absolutely unforgettable Messy Story and some gems during Smash or Pass. Then, Brandon and ER explore what it means to be attracted to energy versus genitals, and non-binary sexuality during Messy Mail. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected] or call (669) 696-377...
Feb 06, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 23
LGBTQIA+ rights advocate, actor and producer Johnny Sibilly shares some deep fantasies during his Messy Story and a game of F*ck, Marry or Block. Plus, Messy Mail highlights the emphasis on growth and communication, which prompts Johnny and Brandon to break down what it means to love yourself. Vote for us in the Queerty Awards! https://www.queerty.com/queerties/vote/?category_id=2504 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brand...
Jan 30, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 22
Close friend, writer and actor Griffin Matthews joins Brandon to share a hilarious and incredibly odd Messy story. A round of F*ck, Marry or Block and then a deeper discussion on what it means to accept who you are makes for a heartwarming episode. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected] or call (669) 696-3779 See om...
Jan 23, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Season 1Ep. 21
Famed author and sex educator, Emily Nagoski, joins the show to break down some deep messages about love and self acceptance that causes Brandon to say, "I want to live like that on my best day." But don't worry, there are plenty of messy moments shared to fill the conversation with laughter as well! Find Emily on IG @enagoski SUPPORT for those impacted by fires Resources to help those impacted (includes list of places to donate) https://www.lahsa.org/newsArticle/resources-to-support-those-durin...
Jan 16, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 20
Emmy nominated host and Culture Expert on Queer Eye, Karamo shares his experiences with a partner who taught him to caress and love himself, which helped open up his sexual and intimate situations. But not before Brandon and Karamo play Smash Or Pass and read some sticky Messy Mail. Find Karamo @karamo Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMe...
Jan 09, 2025•56 min•Season 1Ep. 19
Actor and podcast host, Griff Stark-Ennis, brings an interesting experience on a dating app as his Messy Story for the day. Some underlying toxic masculinity and racism from a potential hookup prompts a deep discussion on what it means to be black and queer. Find Griff on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/griffstarkennis Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own m...
Jan 02, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 17
Brandon surrounds themselves with their chosen fam Kyle June Williams and nicHi Douglas this holiday season in a special Christmas episode filled with laughter and mess. But no holiday is complete without a deep dive into what it means to discover your queerness and being okay with just yourself. Find Kyle June on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/kylejune/ Find nicHi on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/mynameisnichi/ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join ...
Dec 26, 2024•58 min•Season 1Ep. 17
Pop goddess, VINCINT, shares some messy memories with Brandon and dives into some wildly-hilarious Messy Mail. Then, one one submission prompts a deeper conversation, VINCINT opens up with how they learned to love their sexual needs through self reflection. Find VINCINT on IG @vincint Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at [email protected]...
Dec 19, 2024•53 min•Season 1Ep. 16
Blakely Thornton, acclaimed “pop culture anthropologist” and close friend to Brandon joins to tell everyone some real tea on the Messy submissions this week. Then, Brandon and Blakely deep dive into the queer experience, masking and fitting into "diverse" spaces. Allow me to reintroduce myself: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/allow-me-to-reintroduce-myself https://www.instagram.com/p/DDFcqjny__5/?igsh=NjZiM2M3MzIxNA%3D%3D&img_index=1 You can find Blakely on IG @blakelythornton Foll...
Dec 12, 2024•55 min•Season 1Ep. 15
Writer, performer and co-host of the Podcast BITCH SESH, Danielle Schneider, joins Brandon to shed some light on a topic they've been interested in: Having a sex life while raising children. But before they get in too deep, Brandon and Danielle gush about the Real Housewives and rant about bad kissers. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSometh...
Dec 05, 2024•59 min•Season 1Ep. 12
Brandon and bestie Devere Rogers kiki about Thanksgiving with some holiday F*ck, Marry, Block and Messy Mail. Plus, Devere shares one of the most outrageous Messy stories ever before they lean into some heartfelt discussion on found family and moving forward in these trying times. Find Devere on IG at: itsdevererogers Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question...
Nov 28, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 13
Columnist and sexual-health-advocate Zachary Zane joins Brandon to share some hilarious messy stories that raise a few really interesting questions about sexual freedom. Then, a question from the community sparks a full discussion on sex party etiquette. https://www.zacharyzane.com/articles https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00GRQKOF2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Find Zach on IG @ZacharyZane_ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join th...
Nov 21, 2024•56 min•Season 1Ep. 12
Does your butt get bigger from having anal sex? Is cum good for your face? Find out when Brandon plays a game of Real or Faking with their Big Mouth work wife and friend, Mitra Jouhari. Then, as they get into some booty-related Messy Mail, Brandon and Mitra are joined by the one-and-only butt doctor, Dr. Evan Goldstein for a heaux sympheauxsium. Follow Mitra on IG at mitrajouhari Follows Dr. Evan on IG at drevangoldstein Find 'Butt Seriously' at your local bookstore. https://www.amazon.com/Butt-...
Nov 14, 2024•56 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Brandon shares a messy story about their first time having penetrative sex. Then, Brandon's partner, Matthew Raymond-Goodman, joins to play our first game of 'Would You Rather,' including some hilarious moments. And rounding out the conversation, Brandon and Matthew address what's been mentioned in previous episodes: Their non-monogamous marriage. Resources: Ethical Slut: https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Practical-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379 Poly-Secure: https://rep.club/products/p...
Nov 07, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 10
In a hilarious and self-explorative episode, Brandon and guest Zach Campbell dive into what it means to find yourself in the queer community. Plus, a game of F*ck, Marry, Block that has Brandon wheezing with laughter. Find Zach Campbell at: https://www.instagram.com/zachcampbell or https://www.youtube.com/@ZachCampbell Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or questio...
Oct 31, 2024•43 min•Season 1Ep. 9
