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Men, Explain

Men, Explain is a bold, unfiltered podcast where two men and two women come together for candid, thought-provoking conversations about gender, relationships, and the realities of modern life. Hosted by MediaCorp Radio DJs Sonia Chew and Avery Aloysius, each episode explores a different theme—from career ambitions and financial independence to dating, societal pressures, and navigating love in the digital age. By tackling real, relatable issues, we aim to bridge the gender divide and leave listeners with fresh perspectives, new insights, and maybe even a few mind-changing moments.

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Financial intimacy: How to talk to your partner about money?

Money and love are two things that don’t necessarily go well together. Couples can fight about anything and everything - but arguments about money have the tendency to be particularly complicated. Having the financial talk with your partner might be daunting, but could also be deeply bonding as well. In this episode, financial experts Wei choon and Rui Ming give their two cents (haha) on tackling one of the most important conversations every couple should have. See omnystudio.com/listener for pr...

Oct 13, 202240 minSeason 3Ep. 3

Are we more open to dating older women?

Is it still a stigma to date older women or younger men in today’s day and age? The modern dating scape has changed drastically and people are now more open to meeting people from different backgrounds, cultures, and ages. In this episode of Men, Explain, Sonia and our guests, Brandon and Kaykay, will share their experiences and views on dating older women/younger men, and how they navigate the stigmas and stereotypes of such relationships. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Sep 29, 202239 minSeason 3Ep. 2

Should men always pay on the first date?

With the advent of dating apps, dating and meeting new people has changed drastically over the past decade. However, traditional dating expectations such as how men should pay for dates have not changed much in the last century. In this episode, Sonia and Ze Liang will attempt to answer the age-old question of “Should men pay for first dates?” and discuss how dating expectations may affect our dating life and consequently, married life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Sep 15, 202237 minSeason 3Ep. 1

On fertility issues, unplanned pregnancies and male birth control

The legalisation of social egg freezing in Singapore and the male birth control pill have been hot topics lately in Singapore. In this episode, Sonia and her male guest discuss fertility, male contraception, social egg freezing, and how these can affect family, life and career. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 19, 202226 minSeason 2Ep. 10

Jamus Lim on choosing between love and career

Love can bring together two completely different people with different backgrounds, professional goals and personal aspirations. But what happens when those goals are wildly different?2 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 05, 202231 minSeason 2Ep. 9

30s, get married, have kids – The societal pressure to settle down

Ever heard about the “Singaporean dream”? Common connotations of success in Singapore always seem to echo around these key aspects: Education, stable career, settle down before 30, buy a BTO. While women are very much recognised for their ambitions and careers in modern day and age, marriage and motherhood seem to still be a vital part of the equation for women to seem “complete”. Do men get the same pressure to settle down? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Mar 08, 202239 minSeason 2Ep. 7

Are men simply terrible listeners?

It’s no secret that guys and girls communicate differently with their closest friends. But why does it always seem like both genders have such a hard time communicating with each other? In this episode, we want to explore the science of it and the myths that surround it. From one-word replies to looking uninterested, we invite a male guest to dissect the thought process and the meaning behind their words – or lack thereof. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Feb 22, 202233 minSeason 2Ep. 6

On the chore war between men and women

Multiple surveys and studies have documented men’s changing attitudes toward women in recent years: There is almost universal support for women to pursue careers and political office, and attitudes have become far more accepting around gender identity. But when it comes to the home front, traditional values still dominate. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 08, 202227 minSeason 2Ep. 5

Would you marry a woman who can't cook?

Cooking for women is often seen as the ultimate act of domesticity. It means we’re mature and capable of nurturing—maybe even wife material. 2But today, women are pursuing other interests outside of the kitchen. It’s no longer surprising that some modern women don’t even know how to properly hold a knife. And so, we question: do guys really mind if their female spouse can or can’t cook? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Jan 25, 202237 minSeason 2Ep. 4

Protective or possessive? — The invisible line in relationships

All healthy relationships have boundaries — from friends and family to colleagues and acquaintances. You can’t see them, but these lines help you retain your personal identity and maintain mutual respect. In relationships, one of the fine lines is about being “protective” of each other. But at which point should this behaviour be considered a red flag? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 11, 202230 minSeason 2Ep. 3

Are friends more important than lovers?

If you’d murdered someone, who would you call to help you bury the corpse? Is it your best friend or your significant other? In recent decades, people have broadened their minds to what constitutes a relationship — with themselves, their friends, and their romantic partner. Studies have shown people get married later than ever, and young adults are opting to share a home rather than a marriage license with a partner. What if friendship was at the center of our lives? See omnystudio.com/listener ...

Dec 28, 202123 minSeason 2Ep. 2

Getting help in toxic and abusive relationships

When and how does an abusive relationship take root? When love is in the equation, things get complicated. In this episode, Sonia and guests discuss toxic relationships — different types and signs of emotional and/or physical abuse that one may experience with their partners. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 13, 202125 minSeason 2Ep. 1

Are Men Intimidated by Alpha Women?

Most people are familiar with the concept of the “alpha male” – typically the physically strong, socially dominant man who is more often than not successful in their career and life. On the other hand, the alpha female is only a more recent phenomenon thanks to the feminist movement. However, women still often feel the need to tone-down or apologise for their success or dominant traits to avoid getting misunderstood. In this episode, we explore the concept of being “alpha” and how it affects the...

Aug 24, 202128 minSeason 1Ep. 10

Does appearance help you get ahead in your career?

We often hear that appearance doesn't matter, it’s what’s on the inside that counts. But it’s only natural for humans to be drawn towards good looking things. Studies have consistently shown that your physical appearance can have a significant impact on your career and professional advancement. In this episode, we invite an industry veteran to explore what the local media landscape currently looks like, and how the glimpse of change might turn into something more. See omnystudio.com/listener for...

Aug 10, 202137 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Are Beauty Standards More Attainable for Men Than Women?

It’s no surprise to most that women face a ton of demands in order to be considered stereotypically attractive in society. What’s more uncommon is the unspoken expectations that men face to be deemed attractive as well. In this episode, two beautiful specimens of a man and a woman discuss their insecurities and how they deal with them. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 27, 202133 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Why Do Men Feel the Need to Hide Their Emotions and vulnerability?

Traditional ideologies of masculinity have been thrown around for decades, in which terms like “macho” and “red-blooded” are used to describe the kind of hulking masculinity that men were, somehow, expected to embody. These notions of manhood are now commonly known as “toxic masculinity.” In this episode, we invite a guest to discuss and reflect how it can affect the mental and physical health of both men and women.1 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Jul 13, 202134 minSeason 1Ep. 7

Trans Man Confronting Gender Roles and Discrimination (Ft. Chris Khor)

More often than not, gender stereotypes (conditioned by society) are the catalysts for gender bias and/or discrimination. This notion takes form in sexist remarks, casual sexism, and in worse cases, workplace gender inequality and sexual assault that both men and women face on the daily. In this episode, we invite a transgender male guest to delve deep into common gendered narratives and find out how he feels about them. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Jun 29, 202133 minSeason 1Ep. 6

On Loyalty, Temptations, and Maintaining A Healthy Long-Term Relationship

Falling in love is the easy part. The actual challenge, for most couples, is how to rekindle the fires of romance even after the “honeymoon period” is over and cultivate a mature, trusting love that is the key to a lasting relationship. In this episode, we invite a guest to find out if men are more likely to cheat on their partners and what it takes to stay committed. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 15, 202130 minSeason 1Ep. 5

How Do Men Deal with Emotions, Texts, and Arguments?

Gender differences between men and women are not just a sweeping generalisation, but observations analysed over centuries of human behaviour. These fundamental differences exist in the way in which men and women function, think and most importantly communicate. In this episode, we invite a male guest to dissect the thought process and the meaning behind their words (or lack thereof) in times of both endearment and arguments. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Jun 01, 202134 minSeason 1Ep. 4

Can Men and Women Be “Just Friends?” (Ft. Sonia Chew & Joakim Gomez)

Straight male-female friendships shouldn’t be such a complicated relationship in today’s modern world, yet some still continue to perceive the line to be blurred. In this episode, two friends of the opposite gender have an honest conversation about where they stand on this topic. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 18, 202133 minSeason 1Ep. 3

New Dads on the Truth About Pregnancy, The Postpartum Body and Sexy Time

Stretch marks; body weight; body hair; postpartum body changes — These are a few of the many insecurity issues that reach a woman's subconscious daily. But how do our male partners really feel about them? In this episode, we invite a male guest who has been with his female partner through the different stages of her life to weigh in on his honest thoughts. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 04, 202131 minSeason 1Ep. 2

Would men date a woman who earns more than him? (ft. Keiji Umehara)

Are men prepared to be house-husband? Traditionally, When looking for potential partners, men tend to look for “housewife material.” But in the modern century, research has shown that 87% of men said that they would date a woman who earns more than they do – but would they marry these women, and sacrifice their pursuit of a career if hers is more viable than theirs? In this episode, we invite a male guest to dig deep into what men really think of women’s success. See omnystudio.com/listener for ...

Apr 27, 202131 minSeason 1Ep. 1
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