Everyone has something to say about gender—but what happens when you're the ones making the content that sparks all the debate? In this episode, we sit down with Chow Jiahui and Nicholas (Hargaohunk) as they unpack the realities of navigating misandry, misogyny, and viral hate. From dating hot takes to dealing with stereotypes, they share what it’s like being at the center of the conversation. Is the backlash ever fair—or just another double standard? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy info...
Jul 10, 2025•32 min•Season 5Ep. 9
They say don’t mix business with pleasure—but what happens when your business partner is also your life partner? Are decisions truly 50/50, or is it a constant battle over who gets to wear the business pants in this partnership? In today’s episode, we’re joined by Jaime and Justin from The Paper Bunny, to break down the unique dynamics of couples working together. They’ll share their challenges, experiences, and, of course, answer the ultimate question: Has working together ever put their relati...
Jun 26, 2025•27 min•Season 5Ep. 8
Have you ever found yourself saying, "Sorry, just a quick question..." or "This might be a dumb idea, but..." at work? If so, you're not alone. Many women unconsciously over-apologize, over-explain, and self-censor in professional settings—but why does this happen, and how can we break the habit? In this episode, we explore workplace communication habits with Nic and Siyu, uncovering why some may feel the need to soften their words while others speak more freely—and what this means for one’s con...
Jun 12, 2025•27 min•Season 5Ep. 7
Society has a lot to say about love and marriage—but do men and women feel the pressure to settle down in the same way? In this episode, TSL Amanda and Bolin join Sonia and Avery to dive into the unspoken expectations surrounding relationships. From the double standards of being single to whether marriage is still seen as the ultimate goal, they’ll break down how these pressures shape our choices, challenge outdated norms, and explore whether settling down is truly for everyone. See omnystudio.c...
May 29, 2025•26 min•Season 5Ep. 6
What does it mean to be the “right” kind of idol—and who gets to decide? In this episode, WhyLucas shares what it’s like joining an idol survival show - ChuangAsia and how talent isn’t the only thing that matters. We dig into how the idol industry defines worth, the unspoken rules around beauty and masculinity, and what it really takes to survive in a space that rarely makes room for difference. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
May 15, 2025•38 min•Season 5Ep. 5
Everyone talks about the hustle of starting a business—but what happens when you’re a Gen Z boss leading a team that’s just as young (or even younger) than you? In this episode, we sit down with Dewy Choo & Rayyan as they get real about the struggles of being a young entrepreneur. From where the money comes from to how to break into the industry —they share what it really takes to lead at a young age. Is being a young boss an advantage, or does it make leadership even harder? Let’s find out....
May 01, 2025•37 min•Season 5Ep. 4
Leadership isn’t one-size-fits-all, especially when you're balancing the demands of work and home life. In this exclusive episode, we sit down with Singaporean politicians Jamus Lim and He Ting Ru as they share their personal experiences navigating leadership in two very different worlds. How do their leadership styles shift between the boardroom and the dinner table? When do they take charge, and when is it time to step back? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Apr 17, 2025•29 min•Season 5Ep. 3
Why do some men 'forget' how to do basic tasks like laundry, cooking, or planning a date? In this episode, Nic and Joie from The Hop Pod join Sonia and Avery to explore weaponized incompetence. Is it a real problem, a gender stereotype, or just laziness? We break down the facts and get to the heart of this controversial issue. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 03, 2025•30 min•Season 5Ep. 2
We’re often told what beauty should look like, but are the standards for men and women different? In this episode, Amanda and Bolin join Sonia and Avery to unpack the double standard in beauty ideals. They’ll talk about how these expectations affect both genders, how we define beauty, and how we can challenge these norms to promote a more inclusive and realistic vision of beauty. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 20, 2025•28 min•Season 5Ep. 1
We’ve done an episode on friendships between opposite genders. However, the lines do get blurred when one or either party gets into a relationship. Should friendship change with your relationship status? In this episode, we invite 2 besties, Atiqa and Khair, to dissect further on situations people find themselves in when managing their partners and best friends. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 01, 2023•45 min•Season 4Ep. 13
People often advise against starting a business with friends or dating within the workplace. But is it really all that bad? In this episode, we invite Kelvin Tan, otherwise known as Mayiduo, to share about how working as a couple has affected his intimate relationship, and weigh in on how he managed the working dynamics with his wife. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 16, 2023•37 min•Season 4Ep. 12
How should one feel about their body? Our attitudes toward our bodies are shaped by various cultural, personal, and biological factors, with sexual anatomy playing a significant role in our body image — it’s even commonplace for people to identify body parts as 'symbols' that affirm their sense of self as a man or a woman. But should that always be the case? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 02, 2023•27 min•Season 4Ep. 11
Are we still using phrases like “gu niang,” or “man up” as insults in today’s context? As a society, most of us are already making large strides away from gender stereotypes but has this changed the way we raised the future generation of men at all? We invite our very own Singapore pride, Fandi Ahmad, who has literally raised 4 sons of his own, as well as his youngest son, Iryan Fandi, to discuss what it’s like to be a man today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Oct 19, 2023•27 min•Season 4Ep. 10
Ever been dumbfounded by life questions like “Have you decided your university major?” “Which company are you considering after graduation?” “So when is your big day?” Whether you’re fresh in your twenties, cruising through your thirties or even rolling into your fifties, we tend to bump into crossroads in life and face moments of important decisions. The real question is - How can I embrace these curveballs in life? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Oct 05, 2023•39 min•Season 4Ep. 9
Being successful is subjective - from being financially comfortable to even achieving milestones in our careers. For professional athletes, the journey to success can be a lot more complicated. Do we underestimate the costs and sacrifices it takes to achieve success in the sporting arena? Let's hear it from the athletes themselves, Clarence and Izaac, on their sporting journey in Table Tennis! This episode is in partnership with the Ministry of Culture, Community and Youth, proudly supporting ou...
Sep 21, 2023•30 min•Season 4Ep. 8
Have you ever had a crush on someone you spotted from across the room of a party or a workplace before you stop yourself and think, “No way, he/she is way out of my league”? Of course, equality and mutual respect in relationships are common values that people strive for, but did you know that it is, in fact, a norm for people to desire/court people who are about 25% more desirable than how we see ourselves? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Sep 07, 2023•32 min•Season 4Ep. 7
When it comes to finding soulmates, most of us focus on finding The One by a certain phase in our lives. But what happens when ‘The One’ becomes two or more, where individuals commit themselves to loving multiple partners at the same time? This brings us to question the idea of monogamy - What does it mean to couples beyond just a social construct? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 24, 2023•31 min•Season 4Ep. 6
Quite commonly, men have been described to be “unromantic” or accused of “not putting in enough effort”. But perhaps men and women are just expressing and receiving love differently. In this episode of Men, Explain, let’s discuss what being romantic means in a modern relationship and how much media consumption has affected the way we perceive relationships. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 10, 2023•35 min•Season 4Ep. 5
It’s been far too long where women have been accused of being the more confusing gender. It’s time we dish out some weird habits among men that women find so relatable yet cannot seem to understand. In this episode, we invite Tiktok’s best judge of character to dissect communication styles, beige flags specific to men and what they mean, as well as how to form a more meaningful connection between both parties. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Jul 27, 2023•33 min•Season 4Ep. 4
Why do nightclubs get such bad rep? Perhaps it’s because it’s known to be the place where anything can happen under the influence of alcohol. People often associate clubbing with heavy drinking, loud music, and promiscuous behaviour. It’s not uncommon that people are against the idea of their partners going to a club when in a relationship. In this episode of Men, Explain, Sonia and our guest MYRNE, who happens to be a club DJ, discuss to what extent is it dangerous for your significant other to...
Jul 13, 2023•30 min•Season 4Ep. 3
Everyone is looking like they have their life together - a career, a romantic partner, and some have already BTO-ed or gotten a resale flat of their choice. And you? You’re in your late 20s and 30s, single, and still wondering ‘Why haven’t you found the one?’ . Is it because of high expectations or are you the problem? In this episode of Men, Explain, Sonia and our guests - Nicholas Teo and Q tackle the problem of dating in our late 20s and 30s and question if being too single means you’re a red...
Jun 29, 2023•39 min•Season 4Ep. 2
‘The independent woman’, a phrase that many women wear with pride but seem to scare off potential suitors. Much talk on social media has been going around saying that dating an independent woman is difficult, or men who claim they want ‘independent partners’ do not seem to match up to dating expectations. In this episode, Sonia and our guests dive into finding out why people are so afraid to date independent women and what expectations are exactly involved. See omnystudio.com/listener for privac...
Jun 15, 2023•37 min•Season 4Ep. 1
“ Netflix and chill? ” – It’s a common stereotype that men “just want sex” while women prefer to “take it slow. When it comes to building a relationship, sexual compatibility plays a big part in the equation but is always left out in conversations due to its taboo nature. Which begs the question: Do men and women view physical intimacy in a relationship differently? What does physical intimacy mean for men and women in a relationship? Is there a gender that always wants more? Let’s find out in t...
Feb 02, 2023•48 min•Season 3Ep. 11
When it comes to proposals, men are still expected to follow the traditional trajectory of planning a surprise proposal: getting on their knees to pop the question. In this episode, Sonia and our newly engaged guests, Nick & Hong Ling share their thoughts on the expectations behind proposals and weddings. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 19, 2023•33 min•Season 3Ep. 10
In the past few years, we have seen more female leaders are being thrusted into the limelight. Be it in the business or political sphere. And yet, most women still suffer from what is commonly known as “Imposter Syndrome”. Is it harder for women to move up? Do we have more to prove? Or are we still living in a man’s world? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 05, 2023•45 min•Season 3Ep. 9
Is PMS (premenstrual syndrome) just a female thing? You may not have heard of it but yes, there is a male version of PMS, also commonly known as Irritable Male Syndrome. Feeling like your man is acting all rude and grumpy? It could be that time of the month. In this episode of Men, Explain, Sonia and Fakkah Fuzz, Singapore’s funny man, discuss the nutty topic of hormones, menstruation, and uncomfortable conversations surrounding men’s health and wellness. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy ...
Dec 22, 2022•41 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Do men have it easy when it comes to personal grooming? Everywhere on the street, we often see guys decked out in the Uniqlo catalogue, sporting the basic QB house haircut. In this episode, Sonia and our guest, Ayden Sng, delve into whether men are just lazy or basic when it comes to their personal grooming. Do guys simply grab the first shirt at the top of their clothes pile? Do they only need 10 mins to get ready? Find out more in this episode! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informati...
Dec 08, 2022•51 min•Season 3Ep. 7
As society has become increasingly progressive and open-minded, we have now come to accept and embrace different types of love and relationships. However, couples in large age gap relationships still face judgement from people who are not privy to the relationship. Is age really that important in a relationship? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 24, 2022•52 min•Season 3Ep. 6
Are friendships among men different from women? In this episode of Men, Explain, Sonia and our guest, Shawn Thia, discuss more on maintaining friendships between the guys and touch more on the unspoken “bro code” and “girl code” that we often find ourselves entangled in. Is it easier for guys to maintain their friendship? Are there certain problematic bro codes? Listen to this episode to find out more! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Nov 10, 2022•46 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Is it still possible to find love after a failed marriage? What does it mean to have committed to your partner only to realise that nothing is working out between the two of you? In this episode of Men, Explain, Sonia and our guests - Carrie and Kevin shares their experiences of picking themselves up after a divorce, finding love again and learning to communicate their differences in their new-found relationship. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Oct 27, 2022•41 min•Season 3Ep. 4
