Mother-daughter duo Christine (PhD, Psychology) and Shannon Curley (MA, Communications) discuss all the things that sex ed (and your parents) never told you. We will debunk myths about sex by discussing sex education for life, affirmative consent, sex positivity, gender roles, sexual communication, hookup culture, and what all those letters in the LGBTQIAA spectrum really stand for.
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On this week’s episode, Christine and Shannon talk with Love Not War CEO and co-creator Will Ranscombe about sustainable toys, the adult retail market, and what it means to go green in the evolving adult toy industry. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon interview Bennie Falvey (he/him) about his journey with gender – from gender presentation to transitioning, and eventually detransitioning and understanding his truest self. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon address several myths (and stigmas) around sexuality and aging, including performance, creativity, and body image. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon chat with Dorothy Kolb, host of Thriving in the Chaos and Oh Sh*T What Now? podcasts, about raising 4 boys, how to initiate sex talks, and why the same-sex dyad might not be the best approach to educating your kids on sex. References Mother-Son Communication About Sex : Exploring Associations with Emerging Adult Sons’ Sexual Self-Esteem, Anxiety, and Satisfaction Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
In lieu of a full-length episode this week, we wanted to post a quick perspective on the Don't Say Gay bill (and similar bills) and debunk some of the myths around inclusive, identity-supporting education in the classroom. Please tune in and share. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon are joined by Mel Thibeault of RI Queer Hikes, where they talk about building communities, pre- and post-pandemic social groups, and the importance of sharing safe spaces with like-minded folk on the journey to understanding and affirming identity. Follow RI Queer Hikes at @ri.queer.hikes on Instagram! Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]
On this week’s episode, Christine and Shannon bring it back to basics with the conversation around gender – why there are more than 2, the relationship between biology and socializing, and especially in the wake of “Don’t Say Gay,” the importance of respect, acceptance, inclusion, and conversation around gender. Resources Tell Florida Lawmakers to Oppose Don't Say Gay Guide to Understanding Gender Identity & Pronouns Email Signature Swap Gender Experiment Follow us on social @sexeddebunked o...
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon are joined by sex and relationship writer Ryn Pfeuffer as they discuss the basics of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism) and Ryan's personal experience with using BDSM and other forms of sexual connection to process her trauma and reconnect with her body. References Chronic Pain as Fluid, BDSM as Control Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss perceptions of "cougarism," age-gap (and age-hypogamous) couples, and some of the double standards when it comes to dating, marrying, or partnering with someone outside of your age bracket. References Cougars on the Prowl? New perceptions of older women's sexuality Sleeping with Younger Men & Sexual Interplay in Age-Hypogamous Relationships Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon talk bisexuality – what the term means, why it's often contested, and the popular (and wrong!) belief that bisexuality is just a "phase." References The Double Closet – Why Bisexual People Struggle with Mental Health Bi-Negativity and Bisexual Stigma Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
On this episode, Christine and Shannon chat with Jason Silvia of The Creative Capital Show about sex in the media, addressing diversity & inclusion in corporations, and performative allyship. Come for the conversation about corporate allies, stay for a variety of perspectives on OnlyFans. References Understanding Sex in Advertising Performative Allyship – Forbes OnlyFans to Remove Sexually Explicit Content Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss the origins of "monogamy" as the relational ideal, and current studies that suggest that "opening things up" can lead to better overall satisfaction and even trust. References The Ethical Slut – as covered by Rolling Stone Upending Traditional Monogamy – Terri Conley Sex at Dawn - Christopher Ryan & Cacilda Jetha Open Marriage: A New Life Style for Couples – George & Jan O'Neill The Evolution of Desire – David Buss Dolphins and the Ev...
In this week's episode, Christine and Shannon welcome back Lukas Hawthorne from Mister Sister Erotica in Providence, RI to talk about kink community, kink safety, and some common misconceptions about what it means to be "kinky." Resources Agreed Upon Fet Life Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]
On this week’s episode, Christine and Shannon talk about the orgasm gap, why some folks might think it doesn’t exist anymore, and the extant research that says otherwise. References : Sexual Satisfaction: Lit Review When Harry Met Sally clip Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
On this week’s episode, Christine and Shannon discuss Christine’s UCONN research regarding sexuality, wellness, and the relationship between sexual satisfaction and life satisfaction. References Shere Hite – The Hite Report Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]
Christine and Shannon break down what's to come in the Spring semester and review some of the most interesting takeaways from season 1. References ACE: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]
On the last episode of the first semester, Christine and Shannon tackle the holiday classic-turned-villain, "Baby, It's Cold Outside," and recap affirmative consent (FRIES), sexual scripts, and what it means to be sex positive. Episodes return in January for the second semester! Follow us at @sexeddebunked on IG, Twitter, and FB, or shoot us an email at [email protected] with questions, comments, or feedback! Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon talk sensual (and sexual) mindfulness this holiday season, and the balancing act between the season of joy and the season of STRESS! By focusing on different types of happiness and gratitude, you can continue to feel pleasure and relief this holiday season! Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon chat with Lukas Hawthorne from Mister Sister Erotica in Providence about adult retail during COVID, gift-giving during the holidays, and why what's "trending" might not be what's best for you – and that's okay! References Gaia Eco Vibrator Massage Candle Recommended online stores: Kinkly Hello Cake As You Like It Shop Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
In this week’s episode, Christine and Shannon discuss goals of sex, “bad orgasms,” recent studies about sex and orgasms, and the relationship between sexual love languages and erotic blueprints. References Pamela Madsen – Focus on Sexual Arousal, Not Orgasm Kinsey Institute Study – "Bad Orgasms" Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
On this week’s episode, Christine and Shannon discuss healthy communication with your partner(s) and the importance of being open and honest about your evolving needs. You don't want to get stuck in a satisfaction rut, and your partner doesn't want to leave you disappointed! The truth is, better intimate communication leads to better relational quality! Resources Long-Term Desire (Ted Talk) – Esther Perel Love Languages & Sex Sexual Communication for Better Relationships Follow us on social ...
or, The Myth of Spontaneous Desire. On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon talk about factors that get in the way of being "turned on," spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire, and what it means to have "arousal non-concordance." Which is all to say: being turned on is neither purely physical nor purely mental; so talk to your partners, and be clear about your attraction and desire! Resources Masters & Johnson Research – Masters of Sex, Sex Studies Dual Control Model of Sexual Respon...
On this week's episode of Sex Ed Debunked, Christine and Shannon talk about sexual communication, the benefits of being clear about what you want in the bedroom, and how to know what you "like." As promised, check out the links to the Erotic Blueprint and Sex Love Language quizzes below. Thanks for tuning in! References Erotic Blueprint Quiz What's Your Sexual Love Language? Girls & Sex - Peggy Ornstein Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon talk about the difference between "no"-based consent and affirmative consent, and why the latter can lead to better overall sexual health and satisfaction. They also discuss the FRIES model of affirmative consent: Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific. Resources: What is Sexual Consent? What does it mean to ask for consent? Active consent and pleasure Consent Toolkit for all ages Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us ...
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon talk about what it means to be "sex positive" and some of the misconceptions around the term. In fact, being sex positive is less about "having sex," and much more about having a healthy, positive understanding of yourself and your body, and what will make you feel safe and satisfied. References What does "sex positive" mean? NYT article on sex positivity & anti-feminism Sex Positive Parenting Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a messa...
On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon talk to Bill Shaner, an independent journalist from Worcester, MA, about the new sex ed curriculum in Worcester school systems and the school committee candidate running on the "Opt Out" platform that would allow parents to pull their kids out of comprehensive sex ed. Read more about the Three R's Curriculum and check out Bill's coverage here . Additional resources: Age Appropriate Info on Puberty for Tweens - Amaze.org Healthy, Sex Positive Conversa...
On this episode, Christine and Shannon apply some theory to why coming out (episode 4) can be so difficult, and touch on important theoretical models including: minority stress model, the Kinsey Scale, contact theory, and the reclamation of "queer." Resources below: Understanding the Minority Stress Model What does Coming Out mean? How to Come Out The Contact Hypothesis The Kinsey Scale What Does Queer Mean? Follow us at @sexeddebunked on IG, Twitter, and FB, or shoot us an email at sexeddebunke...
Myth: Coming Out Can be Easy. On this week’s episode, Christine and Shannon discuss coming out, media representation, the reclamation of “queer,” and how to create space for people of all identities. Tune in weekly on Wednesdays and follow us @sexeddebunked Resources: PFLAG: Support for When a Loved One Comes Out The Trevor Project: Guide to Coming Out Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at [email protected]...
Myth: You Only Need One Talk. In this week's episode, Christine and Shannon talk about the different sex "talks" you should have with the young people in your life, from toddlers through teenagers. They'll also cover where babies come from, and why it's better to tell the truth than lie about a magical Stork. Timestamps to talking points are (6:51) not the talk, but a series of talks, (18:36) boundaries and consent, (21:02) cross-generational, and (24:01) personal stories. Resources: Scarleteen:...
Myth: The Birds and Bees Are All There Is. On this week’s episode, Christine and Shannon talk about why teaching anatomy – even proper anatomy – doesn’t constitute comprehensive Sex Ed. We’ll also touch on the recent abortion decision in Texas, and the origin of the phrase “birds & bees” (spoiler: it’s not good). Tune in to Sex Ed Debunked weekly on Wednesdays, and follow us @sexeddebunked on FB, IG, and Twitter. Resources: Sex Education Laws and State Attacks Comprehensive Sexuality Educati...
