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Heart of Dating

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The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.

Episodes

S13 MM67: Why is it so hard to be a single guy in 2024?: Gender roles, Turnoffs and Feminism

Today JJ Tomlin and a panel of bachelors tackle the challenges of modern dating, from gender roles to financial dynamics! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further...

Sep 06, 202430 min

Physical Touch and Wandering Eyes (Patreon Bonus August 2024)

Today Kait and JJ are diving into your burning questions. We're talking about 14-year age gaps, physical intimacy, and expectations in exclusive relationships. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resourc...

Sep 05, 202410 min

S13 Ep240: Girls CAN Make a Move: Double Standards and Fear of Rejection

Today Kait and JJ explore the fears and double standards around women showing interest in men and highlight the importance of courageous communication in dating! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resou...

Sep 04, 202439 min

S13 MM66: 12 Month Rule: Get Married or Break Up

Today, JJ Tomlin tackles the choice: get married or break up after dating a while. Tune in for some candid and wise advice! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to furth...

Aug 30, 202430 min

S13 Ep239: Male Headship and Submission: Is this for modern marriages? What about Abuse victims? with Nika and Emeka

Today we have Nika and Emeka sharing their journey with headship and submission in marriage, and how the Holy Spirit redefining their relationship! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-sho...

Aug 28, 20241 hr 14 min

S13 MM65: Find Your Spouse Here: Where to Find a Quality Partner

Today we're diving in with JJ as he tackles the scarcity mindset in dating, shares practical tips for finding godly people, and opens up about his own dating challenges. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.c...

Aug 23, 202429 min

S13 Ep238: Christian Single Men CRISIS: Shortage Of Good Men, If They Exist, How To Find Them

Today we’re asking: Where Are the Good Single Christian Men? Join us to deep dive into social media’s impact, emotional maturity, and the need for discipleship in the church. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdat...

Aug 21, 202444 min

S13 MM64: Can I Miss The Spouse God Has For Me?

Today, JJ dives into aligning our will with God's desires and emphasizes wisdom's role in daily decisions, especially in relationships. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest W...

Aug 16, 202446 min

S13 Ep237: No Such Thing As A Soulmate with Deb Fileta

Deb Fileta sits down with Kait and JJ to debunk the myth of soulmates, dive into the importance of soul care, and share wisdom on cultivating healthy, God-centered relationships. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.hearto...

Aug 14, 20241 hr 4 min

S13 MM63: The Person You Really Need To Marry

Today, JJ's diving deep into the loaded topic of purity, breaking down why it's so much more than just sexual history and who you should really marry! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-...

Aug 09, 202426 min

S13 Ep236: Should I Only Marry A Virgin? With Daniel and Elles Maddry

In this juicy ep, JJ, Kait, Daniel, and Elles dive deep into the sticky subject of marrying a virgin and how purity culture can really mess with your head when it comes to relationships! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://ww...

Aug 07, 20241 hr

S13 MM62: If You Sleep Together, Break Up ASAP

Adam Weber is here today talking about mixing grace with truth, why sinners were so into Jesus, and how leaning on God and your crew is clutch for making smart moves in dating and marriage. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https:/...

Aug 02, 202437 min

S13 Ep 235: Relationship anxiety or God's warning: Should you break up? With Joy and Mathieu Rossignol

Joy and Mathieu spill the tea on relationship anxiety, dishing on past baggage, toxic thoughts, and the wild ride of finding true love and peace! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-...

Jul 31, 20241 hr 13 min

How Love Languages Make You A Better Partner ( Patreon Bonus July 2024)

Join Kait and JJ as they talk about how love languages are important, how you can be a better partner if you listen to how your partner best feels love, and the boundaries around each one. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://...

Jul 29, 202411 min

S13 MM61: Why Girls Choose the Bad Boy

Today we’re diving into why women often go for the bad boy instead of the nice guy, with JJ Tomlin and special guests, who spill some juicy stories and real talk! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/reso...

Jul 26, 202441 min

S13 Ep234: Date The Boring Guy with Jess Cheung

Today we're diving in with Jess Chung as she gets real about dating the "mysterious guy" and discovering genuine connections through faith and self-awareness! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource...

Jul 24, 202457 min

S13 MM60: Date Your Friend

Today, we're jumping into where JJ Tomlin talks about the perks of dating friends and shares tips on transitioning smoothly from friends to romantic partners! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource...

Jul 19, 202439 min

S13 Ep233: Date the Unexpected

Today we’re with JP Pokluda, chatting about why over-spiritualizing dating can be tricky—all sprinkled with personal stories and solid advice! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-int...

Jul 17, 202459 min

S13 MM 59: Please Don't Spiritually Lead Your Girlfriend

Today, JJ Tomlin chats about taking a six-month break from dating, building strong friendships, and how to lead spiritually without jumping into things too quickly! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/re...

Jul 12, 202444 min

S13 Ep232: Christians Over-Spiritualizing Dating... “God Told me You’re my Spouse" with JP Pokluda

Today we’re with JP Pokluda, chatting about why over-spiritualizing dating can be tricky—all sprinkled with personal stories and solid advice! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-int...

Jul 10, 20241 hr 18 min

S13 Ep231: Third Wheeling Doesn't Have to Suck with Ryan Wekenman

Today we’re joined by, Ryan Wekenman as he talks about feeling like a third wheel, embracing singleness, and building strong relationships with married friends, sharing his healing journey and insights. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show inte...

Jul 03, 202457 min

S13 MM58: You Always Marry The Wrong One

Today, JJ Tomlin busts the myth of the "right one" and dives deep into love and forgiveness! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check...

Jun 28, 202437 min

S13 Ep230: Yes, You can be a GAY Christian with Greg Coles

Today, we chat with Greg Coles about his life as a single, gay Christian, why words matter, and how we can all show more love in the church! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-inter...

Jun 26, 202453 min

S13 MM57: Nix The Coffee Shop Date

Today we’re diving into another mini mansode where JJ explains why we should skip the coffee shop date and gives creative first date ideas! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-intere...

Jun 21, 202431 min

S13 Ep229: Don’t Date for Marriage with Jayme Vainer

Today we're diving into dating history and chatting with Jayme Vainer about her switch from hyper-attachment to casual dating! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to fu...

Jun 19, 20241 hr 1 min

S13 MM56:Being a Player vs Dating Multiple People with Alec Bevere

Today we’re diving into another mansode where Alec Bevere joins JJ Tomlin to unpack his dating challenges, share his journey with Maddie, and reveal the importance of communication and honesty in dating relationships! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on h...

Jun 14, 202457 min

S13 Ep228: You’re the Reason You’re Still Single with Dr. Henry Cloud

Today we’re diving in with Dr. Henry Cloud, who’s dismantling the myth of "the one," sharing insights on navigating dating pressures, and giving us a glimpse into his own story of resilience and growth! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show inte...

Jun 12, 20241 hr 1 min

S13 MM 55: Men Won’t Date Women They’re Not Attracted To

Today, JJ Tomlin dives deep into the essential topic of attraction in dating, discussing the balance between physical, emotional, and spiritual connections while sharing insights from Paul's teachings! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show inter...

Jun 07, 202441 min

S13 Ep 227: I wasn’t Initially Attracted to My Husband

Today Kait Tomlin opens up about not being initially attracted to JJ, as they explore the complexities of physical attraction, societal standards, and the importance of godly character in dating! . . . . . Check out this week's sponsors: Better Help: This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self. . . . . . Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on P...

Jun 05, 20241 hr 3 min