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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytorkenandtabatha.com

For over 20 years now, we’ve fought the good fight of faith, and along the way we have learned so much about living a God-first life. Before Jesus, Tabatha was diagnosed depressed for over 12 years, we had $100,000 in debt, and we were headed straight for divorce. But when we started living for God, our lives radically changed. Tabatha was healed, we prospered financially, and we became best friends. With God's help, we learned how to do life well. And that’s exactly why we’ve created this Podcast – to help you do life with us and do it well. We will help you unlock principles for doing life God’s way, which will lead you to more joy, more peace, and true freedom. 

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Episodes

4 Easy Steps to Become More Generous with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Have you ever wondered how generosity can transform every facet of your life? Join us on "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" as we unfold the powerful influence of giving on relationships, finances, and spiritual well-being. We'll take you on a journey through our 25-year marriage, revealing how we overcame selfishness and pride by embracing a spirit of generosity. This episode promises to ignite a desire for giving, especially during the holiday season, and inspire you to strengthe...

Dec 05, 202458 min

Grounded in Gratitude with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Imagine transforming your darkest moments into opportunities for gratitude and growth. This episode takes you on a heartfelt journey of thanksgiving, as we reflect on the power of gratitude, even when life throws its toughest challenges our way. We explore how a thankful heart can redefine our perspective on life’s trials and triumphs. Our chat is filled with the warmth of family traditions and the joy of sharing cherished Thanksgiving memories, honoring the spirit of togetherness...

Nov 28, 202452 min

Navigating Boundaries and Submission in Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text We answered all your questions in this episode. For example, can setting boundaries with in-laws rejuvenate your marriage? Discover how prioritizing your relationship and applying the biblical principles of leaving and cleaving can create a sanctuary of respect and comfort. We unpack the power of words and the strategies spouses can employ to nurture their most important relationships, ensuring that love remains unfazed by toxic dynamics. By fostering supportive spaces, couples ca...

Nov 21, 202434 min

Sex Starts in The Morning | What a Wife Really Wants with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Join us as we delve into prioritizing both physical and emotional connections amidst the chaos of daily life. Through personal anecdotes, we explore how shared responsibilities and intentional communication can nurture intimacy. Whether it's addressing everyday acts like household chores or understanding the impact of health and self-care on a relationship, we've got you covered. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to strengthen their bond and create a more fulfilling partn...

Nov 14, 202439 min

Should your Kids Sleep in Your Bed? with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Curious about the ongoing bed-sharing debate? Listen as we dive into this hot topic sparked by a viral social media clip. We explore the varying perspectives on whether children should sleep in their parent's bed, debating the emotional bonds it can create versus the potential impact on marital intimacy. Drawing from our own experiences and those of our listeners, we share how setting boundaries around sleeping arrangements has strengthened our marriage and suggest ways couples ca...

Nov 07, 202441 min

How to Stop Being Selfish with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Selfishness can be like a chokehold, stifling your relationships and potential, but there's a way out. Picture the fierce determination of a mixed martial arts fighter breaking free or the resilience of WWE legends like Hulk Hogan facing down their greatest challenges. That's the spirit we're channeling as we explore how embracing selflessness can breathe new life into your marriage, business, and everyday interactions. Drawing from personal stories and biblical lessons, we vividl...

Oct 31, 202441 min

Should a Christian Celebrate Halloween? With Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text How should Christians approach Halloween? Join us as we unpack this thought-provoking question, sharing personal stories from our 25-year journey of faith and marriage. Our exploration isn't about offering definitive answers but rather about nudging you toward considering your own beliefs and how they align with cultural practices. We reflect on our transitions from Halloween-loving children to new Christians wary of celebrations, and how we’ve since learned to balance cultural no...

Oct 24, 202443 min

Sex & a Sandwich | What a Husband REALLY Wants with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text We believe it's time to break the silence on sexual liberation within Christianity without shying away from the tough conversations. Through open and honest dialogue, we reflect on past mistakes, sharing how faith and mentorship have guided us towards a healthier, more fulfilling sexual relationship. We'll explore the importance of reclaiming language around anatomy and celebrating virginity without judgment, all while equipping you with a godly perspective on sexuality to navigat...

Oct 17, 202450 min

How to Overcome Challenges with Faith | Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Does the societal pressure to have children right after marriage feel overwhelming to you? Hear our personal stories and insights as we discuss why it's essential to make decisions based on your unique timeline and needs, rather than succumbing to external expectations. Plus, we address a listener's heartfelt concern about navigating intimacy when health complications make sex challenging, sharing ways to maintain deep connection and understanding within your marriage. GET THE BET...

Oct 10, 202438 min

Benefits of Humility with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text In a world dominated by self-promotion and social media bravado, finding the right balance between humility and confidence is more crucial than ever. We dissect the fine line that separates healthy self-assurance from destructive pride, exploring why humility is not about devaluing oneself but about recognizing and giving glory to God. By contrasting the appealing nature of a humble heart with the repellent effects of prideful behavior, we offer practical advice on how to cultivat...

Oct 07, 202440 min

How to Vote in 2024 as a Christian with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Thinking about how to vote in 2024? We guide you on voting with a Godly perspective, emphasizing the responsibility and privilege that comes with it. Understand the importance of focusing on policies over emotional reactions, and how to discern the truth amidst media manipulation and negative ad attacks. We also address critical issues such as the sanctity of life and aligning your vote with biblical principles. Join us for a thoughtful discussion on making informed, faith-based d...

Sep 26, 202449 min

How to Know if They're the One with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Is there really one soulmate out there for everyone, or is finding a lifelong partner more about choice and effort? We dive into this intriguing question, shedding light on God’s role in our relationships. From the importance of recognizing leadership potential in a partner to the sometimes controversial topic of women proposing to men, we draw from scripture and personal counseling experiences to offer a fresh perspective. Hear our thoughts on how God guides us toward the right p...

Sep 19, 202443 min

Common Relationship Mistakes and How to Avoid Them with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Neglect can set in when you put your relationship on cruise control, so we’ll discuss the importance of regular check-ins, date nights, and educational activities. We’ll also open up about rekindling intimacy, emphasizing the need for open communication and mutual understanding. By valuing and investing in every aspect of your relationship, you can ensure it remains strong and fulfilling even as years pass. Tune in for practical wisdom and encouragement that can transform your rel...

Sep 12, 202438 min

Heart of The House / How to be a Faithful Leader with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text In our insightful discussion on spiritual mentorship, we focus on the responsibilities of both mentors and mentees. We emphasize the importance of gratitude, support, and alignment with church leadership, reflecting on the mutual growth that comes from honoring and valuing spiritual leaders. Through our own experiences, we highlight how becoming great followers through faith and patience can ultimately lead to becoming capable leaders. Tune in for practical steps on how you can ac...

Sep 05, 202452 min

The Power of Positive Living with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Have you ever wondered how a positive perspective can transform your life and relationships? Join us as we share our personal stories of growing closer to God and each other by embracing traits like patience, self-love, joy, and peace. We discuss our commitment to living joyfully regardless of circumstances, while we also open up about our quest for greater patience and self-compassion. Together, we debate who is more positive and how we can improve, aiming to inspire you to enhan...

Aug 29, 202437 min

Dating Do's and Don'ts with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why some relationships thrive while others falter? Unlock the secrets to building lasting connections in our latest episode. Through our 25 years of marriage and 23 years in ministry, we share five essential dating dos and don'ts that could transform your relationship approach. Rooted in practical wisdom and spiritual guidance, this episode promises to leave you feeling more confident and equipped to navigate the complexities of dating, whether you're single...

Aug 22, 202441 min

How to Build My Faith with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text What if your faith could transform your life into something miraculous? Join us as we celebrate our 100th episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, where we discuss the essence of faith and its profound impact on our spiritual journey. Tabitha passionately shares why faith is indispensable for pleasing God and living a Christian life, while Ken delves into the divine timing of discussing faith at this significant milestone. Our practical advice, prophetic insights, and personal ...

Aug 15, 202451 min

How to Believe God for Something with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Ever wondered if God's promises are more than just comforting words? What if they are guarantees meant to transform your life? Join us in this episode as we explore the profound impact of truly believing in and claiming God's promises. We kick off with heartfelt personal stories and scriptures that reveal how recognizing these divine assurances can lead you to the abundant life Jesus promised. Learn how to move beyond mere salvation and start actively seeking and experiencing the ...

Aug 08, 202447 min

Growing in Jesus with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Have you ever felt like your spiritual growth has hit a plateau? You're not alone. Join us as we share their deeply personal journeys—Ken from a Christian upbringing and Tabatha from an unchurched childhood—illustrating that growing in Jesus is a lifelong adventure marked by highs and lows. Whether you're a lifelong believer or just starting to explore faith, this discussion provides valuable insights into how our diverse experiences shape our spiritual paths and the importance of...

Aug 01, 202446 min

Strengthening Your Marriage with Faith with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Ever wondered how to reignite faith in a marriage where one partner seems less committed to God? Or what to do when disagreements find your spouse on the couch instead of beside you? We dive into these poignant questions, offering heartfelt advice on fostering respect, prayer, and open communication. Join us as we share personal experiences and strategies to help you nurture a more harmonious and spiritually connected relationship. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE: Better Mar...

Jul 25, 202432 min

Help for New Moms with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Have you ever wondered how faith and resilience can transform your pregnancy and early motherhood journey? Join us on Doing Life with Ken and Tabstha as we recount our deeply personal experiences, from the struggles of conceiving our first child, Hannah, to the unforeseen joys and trials of pregnancy. We dive into the heart of our journey, emphasizing the importance of faith, prayer, and self-care. Tabatha brings her vast knowledge and personal insights, providing new moms with in...

Jul 18, 202456 min

Building a Godly and Intimate Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Have you ever wondered how to navigate the tricky waters of a marriage where faith and commitment levels differ between partners? In this heartfelt episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha," we promise you'll gain actionable insights into enhancing your relationship and finding fulfillment. We open up about the importance of self-examination and living a godly lifestyle to influence your spouse positively. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE: Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandt...

Jul 11, 202430 min

Freedom from Fear with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Can fear be the root cause of our deepest insecurities and limitations? On this special episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, we confront fear head-on, reimagining it as false evidence appearing real. Through the lens of faith, we uncover how fear tries to paralyze us, while faith propels us forward. By sharing personal anecdotes and reflections, we reveal the often-overlooked ways fear infiltrates our lives, misleading us and keeping us from God's plan. It's time to liberat...

Jul 04, 202453 min

Lessons from 25 Years of Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Ever wondered what it takes to sustain a loving, committed marriage for 25 years? Join us on this special anniversary episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, where we share 25 essential marriage principles that have helped us thrive. From navigating the turbulent early years to developing spiritual maturity, we reflect on our journey and offer insights that can help you deepen your relationship with both God and your loved ones. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE: Better Ma...

Jun 27, 202453 min

How to Live a God First Life with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Ever wonder how prioritizing a God-first life can transform your everyday experiences? Join us for an inspiring journey as we share the story behind "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha," from the initial spark of an idea to the heartfelt decision to make it happen. We reflect on the profound impact of living with a God-centered approach and how it has enriched our lives, providing valuable insights that go beyond our weekly sermons. You'll hear about the motivations and processes tha...

Jun 20, 202452 min

3 Keys to a Better Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text When we tied the knot, we never imagined that our road to happily ever after would include detours through depression, communication breakdowns, and a near-divorce. But here we are, 25 years later, sharing not just our lives but a bond tighter than most. Today's episode peels back the curtain on our own marriage, revealing that even the rockiest of relationships can evolve into an extraordinary love story. We've distilled our journey into keys that unlock continuous improvement, w...

Jun 13, 202440 min

Bible Study Made Easy with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text In this episode, we provide an array of practical tools to help you delve deeper and personalize your Bible study experience. From the convenience of digital platforms like BibleGateway.com to the intimate guidance offered by our Better Marriage Devotional, these resources support a robust and introspective engagement with the Word. Join us and be inspired to create that serene study space where you and God can meet, leading to boundless spiritual growth and an even deeper connect...

Jun 06, 202437 min

5 Things you Must Know About Generosity with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Have you ever considered the ripple effects your generosity could create? We've committed to a 'God First Summer,' and it's revolutionized our lives in more ways than we could have imagined. Our latest episode takes you behind the scenes of our personal journey with giving, exploring the spiritual and practical dimensions of generosity. We share stories of financial miracles and deepened faith that have emerged from our dedication to tithing and supporting God's work, inviting you...

May 30, 202439 min

The Hard Work of The Heart Work with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text If you've ever been told to "follow your heart," prepare to have that notion turned on its head. In our latest episode, we take a hard look at the biblical wisdom of guarding your heart, with Proverbs 4:23 as our compass. We're not just talking theory here; we delve into the nitty-gritty of everyday life, from the challenges of traffic jams to the complexities of personal relationships. Whether you're single or paired up, this episode is a must-listen, revealing three essential st...

May 21, 202454 min

5 Things you Must Know About Women in Ministry with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text In this episode we unpack scriptural interpretations and personal testimonies, diving into the importance of women's voices, callings, and spiritual authority within the church. We tackle the tough discussions, from the complexities of female pastoral leadership to the joys and challenges accompanying our leadership roles in our faith community. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE: Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com) Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional: 90 Day Better Marr...

May 09, 202453 min
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