Get ready! Our latest episode is here, and it's a special one: our 50th! We reflect on our experiences, share heartfelt stories from our recent meet and greet with listeners, and celebrate the monumental milestones in our lives, including the graduations of Keira and Holly's firstborns. What would we tell our newly widowed selves about the future? Tune in to find out! Don't dip out early! Keira gives us fresh material for some good-natured ribbing and it is "sole-ful!" 00:00:00 - Celebrating Epi...
May 29, 2025•53 min•Season 4Ep. 50
In this informative episode of "Every Widow Thing," Lacey , Whitney, Holly, and Keira speak with special guest Cheryl Martin, a retired grief therapist and recent widow. Together, they explore the complexities of grief, particularly the often-overlooked challenges of the second year after loss. Cheryl shares her personal journey of navigating widowhood and the insights she gained from her professional experience as a grief counselor. Throughout the conversation, they discuss the importance of em...
Mar 10, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Season 4Ep. 49
Okay, grab your comfiest blanket and a big ol' bowl of snacks, because the "Every Widow Thing" crew is spilling all their binge-watching addictions! Make sure to stick around until the end for some interesting new trends for those looking for love! They discuss everything from the fun and fantasy of "Younger" to the dark humor in "Bad Sisters" and the emotional rollercoaster of the new Bridget Jones movie, "Mad About the Boy." But it's not all fluff! We're also getting real about how shows like ...
Mar 03, 2025•20 min•Season 4Ep. 48
Every Widow Thing enjoyed a super staycation at the charming Poppy Round Top Airbnb, just an hour and a half from Austin, Texas. Over Valentine's Day weekend, they dove into Mel Robbins' inspiring new book, The Let Them Theory. Listeners can expect a heartfelt and relatable discussion as the podcast explores how this book resonates with the widow community, tackling the pressures of people-pleasing and the importance of releasing control. With personal stories and laughs, they share how embracin...
Mar 03, 2025•28 min•Season 4Ep. 47
Holly shares about a disappointing date with a man who drove a red Porsche. And, no, it wasn't Jake Ryan. ;) After the holidays, it appears that there are more men on the apps, but is the quality better? That remains to be seen. Hear the widows' take on their dating app experiences and dating overall. Keira met her fiancé on Hinge, so maybe there is hope. (We had a few technical difficulties with the microphones. We have addressed it going forward. Thanks for your patience.) 00:00:00 - The Strug...
Feb 13, 2025•37 min•Season 4Ep. 46
The widows come back from a holiday party to share some wisdom on the holidays, dating, and more. "It's the most wonderful time to be widowed. NOT" Topics discussed: -How the holiday funk has changed over the years -Taking a break from widowhood -How Whitney gets dating advice from a reality show called Later Daters -Is it stealing or sharing when you share your grief with those who are grieving? -Advice from our present selves to our past selves Join our insider's group on FB to connect with ot...
Dec 23, 2024•36 min•Season 4Ep. 45
Whitney and Holly do an impromptu recording to discuss holiday cards, a Later Daters obsession and Whitney's boyfriend.
Dec 22, 2024•28 min•Season 4Ep. 44
In part 2, Lacey, Keira, and Whitney continue their conversation about EMDR therapy with Katie Cummings, a renowned trauma therapist with advanced training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Katie discusses the different techniques used in an EMDR session, such as tapping and buzzers, and explains how triggers and targets are an important part of the process. Katie gives listeners tips on what to look for when choosing a therapist and how EMDR can specifically help people w...
Nov 18, 2024•26 min•Season 4Ep. 40
What is EMDR? How does it work? Who does it help? On this episode Lacey, Keira and Whitney speak to EMDR specialist Katie Cummings. Katie is a renowned trauma therapist with advanced training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), a powerful approach to healing trauma. In Part 1, you will observe Katie facilitating an EMDR session with Lacey to address her aviophobia (fear of flying.) Keira will also discuss her profound experience with Emotion Efficacy Therapy (EET). A variety...
Nov 18, 2024•32 min•Season 4Ep. 43
There's a new term for empty nesting! Holly and Whitney talk about their experience with "Free Birding" it now that their youngest kids have gone to college. Whitney shares a helicopter parent fail story and both widows discuss how grief plays a part in this new chapter. In the second half of the episode, the widows share tips on how to find your people. Do you think sitting at the bar in a restaurant is a good or bad idea? Holly just won't let it go. Check out the new Facebook page Every Widow ...
Oct 26, 2024•27 min•Season 4Ep. 42
Many times during the recordings, the widows go off topic and it has to be cut from the final edit. Lucky for you, that creates bonus episodes! Listen in as Lacey, Keira, Whitney and Holly dicuss their experiences of cremation vs funeral. There is also a discussion of how kids want mommy to have another person. You may be shocked by what you hear! A perfect example of when trauma meets humor. www.everywidowthing.com
Oct 01, 2024•13 min
Today EWT speaks with 19-time triathlon competitor and Austin fitness guru, David Garza. A year ago, David and the love of his life broke up, but a friendship remained. Listen in as David shares his personal story of loss and gives insight into how exercise can help you move through grief, and that there are also gifts in grief. This episode is brought to you by Roger Brooks and his team at Strategic Investment Management. As an Austin-based fiduciary financial advisory firm, Roger and his team ...
Sep 23, 2024•39 min•Season 4Ep. 41
Have you ever wondered what it's really like to navigate the complex world of widowhood? Behind the façade of resilience, many widows are keeping secrets. In this raw and honest episode, real women share their personal stories, revealing the unspoken truths that often accompany grief. Join us as they share their confessions, revealing the hidden struggles, unexpected joys, and newfound strength that emerge in the aftermath of grief. Discover that you're not alone and find solace in the shared ex...
Sep 09, 2024•49 min•Season 4Ep. 40
People think about living well, but have you considered dying well? What would it look like if you had it your way? We spend time planning the important moments in our lives- weddings, births of our children, but what about the last moment of your life? Lacey, Keira, Holly and Whitney welcome hospice advocate Arnetta Robinson to the show. They discuss the gift of hospice and how you can create a meaningful experience for yourself or loved one. Spoiler alert: Some plan for everything from roses o...
Jun 17, 2024•47 min•Season 3Ep. 39
This episode tackles the complex issue of compounded grief. Don and Katie Cash share their story for the first time publicly. Don's daughter, Caitlin, found her friend professional cyclist, Moriah “Mo” Wilson, murdered in her apartment. This event, covered by Dateline NBC, brought a wave of grief not only for Mo's family but also for Don and Katie, highlighting the ripple effect of such tragedies. We explore how Don and Katie navigate their own grief while supporting Caitlin through this unimagi...
Jun 03, 2024•23 min•Season 3Ep. 38
As Lacey, Keira, Holly, and Whitney continue chatting with Don Cash, a new face joins the conversation. Don introduces them to his wife, Katie. The conversation takes a turn as Katie offers insightful and heartwarming advice on navigating a relationship with someone who's lost a spouse. This episode is brought to you by Roger Brooks and his team at Strategic Investment Management. As an Austin-based fiduciary financial advisory firm, Roger and his team bring decades of experience and empathy to ...
May 27, 2024•32 min•Season 3Ep. 37
Don Cash was in college when he met his future wife, Elane. There was only one problem, she was already married. That didn't stop love from finding a way, but cancer was not as easily overcome. Their love story was cut tragically short, leaving Don to cherish the memories and battle the emptiness her absence left behind. Listen in as Don shares his unconventional love story with the ladies of Every Widow Thing. This episode is brought to you by Roger Brooks and his team at Strategic Investment M...
May 20, 2024•35 min•Season 3Ep. 36
Holly, Lacey, Keira and Whitney invited Dr. Shieva Ghofrany, M.D. OBGYN, into the widow's circle to discuss all things sex and sexual health! Getting back on the horse, so to speak, is scary after having a long-term relationship! We took your questions to an expert! Everything from sexually transmitted infections (STI), to how to make sex more enjoyable, Hormone Replacement Therapy (now called Menopausal Hormone Treatment), Ozempic, latest grooming trends and much more! Nothing is off limits wit...
May 06, 2024•51 min•Season 3Ep. 35
Happy anniversary to Every Widow Thing! Lacey, Keira, Holly and Whitney look back on the first year of the podcast! They give updates on past episodes, share their favorite moments and discuss what has changed since starting this exciting endeavor! This episode is brought to you by Roger Brooks and his team at Strategic Investment Management. As an Austin-based fiduciary financial advisory firm, Roger and his team bring decades of experience and empathy to help people regain financial control th...
Apr 22, 2024•27 min•Season 3Ep. 35
Grief is a journey, but navigating it after losing your spouse can feel especially isolating. In this episode of Every Widow Thing, we explore the often-overlooked topic of boundaries. This episode is a must-listen for any widow or widower feeling overwhelmed, unheard, or unsure of how to move forward. Join us as we break down the power of boundaries and empower you to reclaim control after loss. This episode is sponsored by meredithschlosser.com Expert real estate agent in Los Angeles and surro...
Apr 08, 2024•44 min•Season 3Ep. 33
The Widows continue their discussion of ashes. You'll be surprised by some of the options out there for your loved ones’ ashes. This episode is sponsored in part by https://www.spiritpieces.com/ Unique and beautiful cremation jewelry and glass art!
Mar 25, 2024•14 min•Season 3Ep. 32
The Widows discuss their experiences with the ashes of their husbands. Keira brings Frank out of the closet for the first time but can't seem to figure out how to open the box. Lacey's husband, Oliver, was buried, so she offers her own unique thoughts on the subject! This episode is brought to you in part by https://www.spiritpieces.com/ Unique creation jewelry and glass art!
Mar 25, 2024•35 min•Season 3Ep. 32
After Tiffany's husband, Matt, died unexpectedly, she began her grief journey with an actual journey. She started small with a trip to Colorado with her 5 and 7 year old, but travel soon became more than an escape; it was a road to healing. Listen in as Tiffany shares her story and some very helpful travel tips. From wedded to widowed to world traveler, she will inspire you to handle your own baggage as you embark on your new path. Tiffany is available for travel consulting and also hosts a Wido...
Mar 11, 2024•44 min•Season 3Ep. 31
Every Widow Thing sits down with author JJ Elliott. She discusses her first novel, There Are No Rules For This, about 3 women dealing with the loss of their best friend by suicide. You'll be touched by the friendship and surprised by their antics. The story is heartwarming, funny, and honest. Get ready for a great conversation about life, loss, and living funerals!
Feb 19, 2024•46 min•Season 3Ep. 30
In this episode, the conversation continues with some of the kids of Every Widow Thing. They were between the ages of 6 and 14 when their fathers died unexpectedly. What these young widowed mothers worried about most was how their children would be affected long term by such a tragic event. Listen in and see what the kids have to say about their lives then and now. Lacey's son- Ryder was 6 when his dad died. Keira's 2 oldest kids- Aislin and Thomas were 11 and 9. Holly's sons - Gabe and Zach wer...
Feb 05, 2024•26 min•Season 3Ep. 29
One of the biggest concerns for Whitney, Keira, Lacey and Holly after their spouses died was the kids. How will they handle it? Will they be traumatized for life? How will they cope? What long term impact will this have on them? Today you will hear from some of our kids. You may be surprised by what they have to say. Lacey's son- Ryder was 6 when his dad died. Keira's 2 oldest kids- Aislin and Thomas were 11 and 9. Holly's sons- Gabe and Zach were 14 and 11. A big thank you to the guest moderato...
Feb 05, 2024•34 min•Season 3Ep. 29
Though partners in every sense, Shellie and Andrew lacked one crucial document: a marriage license. This seemingly minor oversight held immense weight when Andrew was tragically killed in a bike accident. What they'd assumed was "just a piece of paper" suddenly became a barrier to Shellie's rights and protections. Listen in as Shellie shares her story and gives crucial advice to any couple holding off on marriage until the time is right.
Jan 22, 2024•38 min•Season 3Ep. 28
“What punishments of God are not gifts?” When Whitney found Anderson Cooper's grief podcast titled All There Is, she was curious. What would his take be on the grieving process? It was the episode with Stephen Colbert that inspired her to ask the widows to take a listen and discuss the idea of finding the gifts in grief. They had no idea how much they would learn from 2 men who have suffered more than their fair share of loss.
Jan 09, 2024•23 min
Dating 2.0! Why? Because it's too damn funny not to share. Holly, Lacey, Keira and Whitney share some of their not so fun dating tales. From catfishing to fish photos and one sweaty nomad, we cover quite a bit. Take a listen to our dos and don'ts from our own life experiences and learn from our mistakes.
Dec 11, 2023•35 min•Season 2Ep. 26
The holidays are here and that can bring on not so fun feelings. Holly, Lacey, Keira and Whitney talk about how to snap out of the holiday blahs.
Dec 05, 2023•32 min•Season 2Ep. 25
