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Decisions, Decisions

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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Episodes

You've Got Decisions: He Gave Me Herpes! How Can I Trust Again?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Jan 07, 202619 min

EP 454: Flights & Expectations

Mandii and Weezy are back in 2026 for another year of Decisions, Decisions, kicking things off by recording fresh in front of an audience and immediately diving into chaos, questionable gifts, and unmet expectations. After the gift exchange, Mandii & Weezy catch up on finding new family members & canceling a Turks & Caicos trip over keeping principles. We find out if all of the nice guys are married, why a pastor is going around farting on the congregation, proving the theory that al...

Jan 05, 20261 hr 19 min

You've Got Decisions: Homie Hopping

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Dec 31, 202522 min

EP 453: Our Favorite Moments Of 2025!

Join us in this special year-end wrap-up episode of 'Decisions. Decisions.' as we celebrate our first year as a rebranded podcast. We revisit our top favorite episodes from 'Decisions. Decisions' and 'Whorible Decisions,' share our personal highlights, set goals for the future, and discuss memorable moments from the past year. From sex clubs and unique love stories to hilarious and revealing celebrity interviews, we’ll take you through the laughter and lessons that defined our 2025. Don't miss t...

Dec 29, 20251 hr 29 min

You've Got Decisions: I’m Developing a Crush on a Married man...But Hear Me Out

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Dec 24, 202530 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep.43 | Christmas: Capitalism, Christianity & The Claus

In this holiday edition of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez for a layered, reflective conversation unpacking the cultural, emotional, and commercial realities of the holiday season . The episode opens with a warm introduction to the holidays and the shifting energy that comes with this time of year [00:00], setting the tone for a discussion rooted in nostalgia, cultural awareness, and modern-day realities. The hosts reflect on chil...

Dec 23, 20251 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 43

EP 452: I Need Me A Criminal (feat. OMG Girlz)

This episode of Decisions, Decisions features the OMG Girlz as they stop by for a wide-ranging conversation covering their growth into womanhood, zodiac signs, ice breakers, and the realities of motherhood. The group talks about DMs, celebrity crushes, fanning out over famous faces, and the artists that shaped their sound, before jumping into playful moments like a dare with an acapella nursery rhyme and a quick-pick debate between finances and “sizes” (IYKYK) . The discussion continues into dat...

Dec 22, 202559 min

You've Got Decisions: Two Bold Empowered Women Helped Me Find My Freedom

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Dec 17, 202529 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 42 | 2025 Year End Wrap Up (Sort Of) Part. 1 feat. Deante Kyle, JoJo Alonzo & Jason "Jah" Lee

In this 2025 Year-End Wrap-Up episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by a special roundtable featuring Deante Kyle , Jason “Jah” Lee , and JoJo Alonzo for a wide-ranging reflection on the defining political, cultural, and personal moments of 2025. The conversation opens with a sweeping review of the year’s political climate and cultural shifts [00:52] , setting the tone for a thoughtful breakdown of how public policy, media narratives, and social movements shaped everyday life. From...

Dec 16, 20251 hr 5 minSeason 1Ep. 42

EP 451: Our Poly Family Getaway (feat. Tahir Moore )

This week the ladies are joined by comedian Tahir Moore for a conversation covering everything from food debates and big group dinners to navigating parenting moments like his daughter bringing a boy home. Tahir shares his experience living in an open and poly relationship, including how it started, traveling with partners, dealing with jealousy, going to therapy, and the reactions from his therapist and his children. The trio also talks about the dynamics within multiple-partner households, bou...

Dec 15, 202558 min

You've Got Decisions: How Should I Feel? He May Have a Baby!

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Dec 10, 202525 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 41 | AI vs. Autonomy, Decade Old Tweets & Non-Apologies feat. Jason "Jah" Lee

In this expansive episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B sits down with super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a deep, multilayered conversation that bridges culture, technology, ethics, and identity. The episode opens with Mandii’s intro and book promo [00:00] before the crew dives into the evolving intersection of sci-fi and reality [00:54] , exploring how futuristic concepts—from AI to virtual identity—are rapidly becoming part of everyday life. They qu...

Dec 09, 20251 hr 49 minSeason 1Ep. 41

EP 450: The Pettiness (feat. Chy & Winter)

This week on Decisions, Decisions , Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Chy & Winter of the Behind The Likes podcast to talk break-ups and make-ups, how reading the signs and picking up the energy on tour affects relationships,the moments when advice given on the mic goes left, and why 86% of married men are married. The ladies tap into their playful side with a round of Heauxtry , where they guess songs and let their inner heaux sing through, before diving into their favorite parts of “corn” a...

Dec 08, 20251 hr 3 min

You've Got Decisions: Side Chick-ship

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Dec 03, 202529 min

Selective Ignorance : Ep. 40 | Public Outrage: Blowing Bubba, Guilt &"The Files" feat. Jason "Jah" Lee

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King , journalist Jayson Rodriguez , and special guest Jason “Jah” Lee for a sharp, unfiltered deep dive into politics, celebrity accountability, cultural contradictions, and personal moments of ignorance. The conversation kicks off with a breakdown of the newly released Epstein files, as the crew explores their political and cultural impact [00:52] —from what the revelations mean for public trust to how power and pr...

Dec 02, 20251 hr 25 minSeason 1Ep. 40

EP 449: Drink Water & Mind Your Business (feat. Dr. Donna Oriowo)

This week the ladies are joined by author & sex therapist, Dr. Donna Oriowo to talk all about her new book Drink Water & Mind Your Business and the real-life choices that inspired it. From unpacking “texturism” and Weezy’s hair salon horror stories to the dangerous narratives around “fat body genocide” and why health has become just another weapon to judge people, the trio gets into how our bodies, beauty standards, and self-talk shape the way we move through the world. They also dive in...

Dec 01, 20251 hr 1 min

You've Got Decisions: Plug Or Nah? (feat. Eddie Della Siepe)

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Nov 26, 202528 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 39 | Thanksgiving: Pumpkin Pie, $5 Indians and Football

In this Thanksgiving-themed episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez for an insightful, humorous, and culturally rich exploration of the holiday’s deeper meaning, pop culture impact, and evolving traditions. Kicking things off with context and vibes [00:00] , they set the tone by unpacking what Thanksgiving represents today—beyond turkey, football, and family photos—for Black and Brown communities, touching on gratitude, identit...

Nov 25, 20251 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 39

EP 448: Bump Bump Bump (feat. Ryan Mitchell)

This week the ladies are joined by Ryan Mitchell of HighKey! The trio dives into the need for more queer identity represented in media and whether gay men actually watch football. From there, the ladies jump into Truth & Dare, being anti-ponchos and brunch boots, true-crime date energy, and diving nose deep into “Bump Bump Bump”. They also unpack circling back after ghosting, navigating religious fears, and the honest moments where we listen and we judge. Ryan breaks down the landscape of ga...

Nov 24, 20251 hr 5 min

You've Got Decisions: Dating While Broke

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Nov 19, 202537 min

EP 447: Finding Love & Sharing Results (ft.Danielle Campbell & Raheem DeVaughn)

This week, Mandii & Weezy sit down with Danielle Campbell and Raheem DeVaughn for an open, judgment-free conversation on HIV prevention, testing, and how to make sexual health talks feel a lot less awkward. Danielle joins the ladies to break down the importance of PrEP , how to ask a partner for their test results without killing the vibe, why Planned Parenthood asks so many questions, and the real framework people need to feel comfortable getting tested. The crew gets into the nerves that c...

Nov 17, 20251 hr 18 min

You've Got Decisions: Is Our RacePlay Going TOO Far?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Nov 12, 202520 min

EP 446: The Box Theory (ft. Jodie K. Taylor)

This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy sit down with the magnetic Jodie K. Taylor for an insightful, funny, and brutally honest conversation about dating, confidence, and knowing your worth. The ladies dive into everything from red carpet elegance and finance bro fantasies to how women are navigating modern expectations in love, money, and identity. Jodie breaks down “The Box Theory,” exploring how people categorize potential partners — and how to get out of the box someone’s put ...

Nov 10, 202558 min

You've Got Decisions: Help! I'm Failing as a Bull!

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Nov 05, 202535 min

EP 445: Let Me Get In Your Unruly Womb (ft. Shelah Marie)

This week the ladies sit down with author and Curvy Curly Conscious movement leader Shelah Marie for a conversation packed with transparency, accountability, and a whole lot of softness. Shelah opens up about her new book “UnRuly,” the importance of emotional safety in relationships, and how healing isn’t always gentle but it is necessary. They get into navigating public perception in marriage, when “pick me” energy is intentional, and why Black women deserve tenderness without having to earn it...

Nov 03, 20251 hr 3 min

You've Got Decisions: Is My Boyfriend Gay?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Oct 29, 202531 min

Ep. 444: Bringing Your Sub Outside Of The Bedroom (Ft. Kasha & Christopher)

This week on Decisions & Decisions, Mandii and Weezy sit down with Kasha and Christopher for a deep dive into ethical non-monogamy, power dynamics, and what it really means to share control. From using submission for structure and rewards, to role-play stories (yes, including a wild nurse fantasy 👀), this episode blends humor, honesty, and insight into how trust and communication shape their unique relationship. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ ...

Oct 27, 20251 hr 8 min

You've Got Decisions: This White Guy Kept Me On Read?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Oct 22, 202525 min

Ep. 443: The MF Read

This week ladies are SOLO in ATL with Mandii figuring out her next moving plans, Weezy getting into Cartography and the status of NYC real estate. After figuring out buying an apartment, the ladies break down the problem with the “American Dream”, women ruining their own dating expectations, and Weezy’s horrible journey finding a replacement braider. Get ready, because Mandii & Weezy go into the comment sections, and show you why you gotta stop playing with them. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A ...

Oct 20, 20251 hr 10 min

You've Got Decisions: Am I a Hater or Bitter? (ft. Eddin & Wolf)

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Oct 15, 202532 min
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