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Decisions, Decisions

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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Episodes

EP 442: Roses & Break-Ups (ft. Serayah)

This week, the ladies are joined by actress, model, singer, and co-lead of Netflix’s Ruth & Boaz , Serayah! The ladies dive right into celebrity encounters—from Babyface sightings to Mandii catching Doja Cat live. Weezy shares a hilarious Thanksgiving moment involving Babyface, and Serayah opens up about recording with iconic figures and the grace that Beyoncé carries in the industry.Things get spicy when Serayah is challenged to give an R&B hook using random words, leading into a hilari...

Oct 13, 20251 hr 12 min

You've Got Decisions: Envious & Inspired but SINGLE AF (Ft. Jasmine)

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Oct 08, 202540 min

EP 441: Back Hair & Seggs Robots (ft. Dustin Ross)

This week Mandii & Weezy are joined by comedian Dustin Ross of The Friend Zone podcast. From debating which city has the “best hoes” to reflecting on gratitude and truth-or-dare confessions about surprising turn-ons. The trio dives into hygiene talk — from back hair and toe polish debates to teaching men how to step up their grooming game. Things get even wilder with the “Dare of the Week” as nursery rhymes get a freaky remix, plus Mandii’s plans for her own seggs robot spark chaotic (and to...

Oct 06, 20251 hr 2 min

You've Got Decisions: Betrayed & Confused

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Oct 01, 202531 min

Ep. 440: Grits & Legs (ft. Deante Kyle)

In this episode, Mandii and the crew dive into the messy, hilarious, and sometimes raw realities of dating, podcast fame, and everything in between. They kick things off with the problems TikTok has created for younger audiences before jumping into those awkward moments at functions when someone you’ve slept with might be in the room. Deante opens up about his own dating life, the pressures of having “pod groupies,” and how fame changes the dynamic. The group debates honesty, bi-sexual men being...

Sep 29, 20251 hr 6 min

You've Got Decisions: Roots, Stones, D***s & Bones

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Sep 24, 202529 min

EP. 439: Why You Need A Medium Ugly Man (Ft. Rosy)

This week the ladies are joined by Rosy of the Say Less podcast! Rosy almost brought Kaz to the show, but instead we kick things off with a fun catch-up—including plans to see Chris Brown live. From relationship status updates to the perks (and pitfalls) of being single, we dive into expectations, emotional availability, and even the chaos of dating rosters. Things heat up with a brand-new icebreaker, “Truth AND Date,” leading to wild dares, fantasies, and more than a few NSFW moments.' OUT NOW ...

Sep 22, 202554 min

You've Got Decisions: The Grind To Healthy Commitment (Ft. Brianda & Wolf)

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Sep 17, 202537 min

Ep. 438: Thick Threads & Three Strokes (ft. Persephanii & Patrick Cloud)

This week the ladies are joined by Persephanii & Patrick Cloud of the Thick Threads podcast! From joking about breasts and body positivity to Patrick’s funniest bedroom stories, it gets wild. The crew dives into awkward moments in the bedroom, BBW party stories, and our truth or dare that has the team perplexed. Persephanii shares what it’s like being constantly sexualized because of her breast, while Mandii and Weezy debate pleasure, relationships, and even the wildest “would you rather" sc...

Sep 15, 20251 hr 4 min

You've Got Decisions: He's an Inmate..I'm a CO..HELP! (Ft. Deante)

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Sep 10, 202532 min

Ep. 437: Spilled Tea & Ex-Flings (Ft. AlexxMedia)

This week, Mandii and Weezy sit down with AlexxMedia to catch up on Mandii’s LA trip, talk about relationships, ghosting, and when to keep it honest. They get into adding a “third,” why nobody was actually looking for a throuple, and a wild session of Truth or Dare. After that the crew gets into the Tea App leaks and how anonymous gossip can stir things up, plus a debate about running into old flings and why you probably shouldn’t send “well wishes” to an ex. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Man...

Sep 08, 20251 hr 14 min

You've Got Decisions: Am I Moving on Too Fast?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Sep 03, 202531 min

Ep. 436: Babies, Breakups & Big Secrets (Ft. SK & MyLin)

Mandii and Weezy are back with a wild, unfiltered episode featuring SK & Mylin. From open relationship debates and cheating scandals to co-parenting struggles, raising kids, and keeping the spark alive after 12 years, this one gets deep, funny, and messy all at once. The conversation dives into love, sex, pronouns, sperm insemination, parenting dynamics, and navigating homophobia, all while keeping the laughs coming with outrageous stories about celebrity encounters, wild birthday drama, and...

Sep 01, 20251 hr 31 min

You've Got Decisions: My Wife Is Holding Me Back

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Aug 27, 202539 min

EP. 435: Truth or Dare, Strippers & Red Flags (Ft. Paul Pierce & Azar)

Paul Pierce and Azar from The Truth After Dark join Mandii B and Weezy WTF for one of the rawest episodes yet. The conversation dives into the controversial clip of Paul Pierce speaking on why athletes date white women, and things only get crazier from there.From Kyrie Irving’s comments about salaries painting a target on athletes, to viral fly-out scandals, to real-life scamming stories from LA, nothing is off-limits in this episode. Mandii and Weezy push the conversation into uncomfortable but...

Aug 25, 20251 hr 19 min

You've Got Decisions: Am I Tripping?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Aug 20, 202524 min

EP 434: Saving Your Marriage & Successful Failure (Ft. KevOnStage)

KevOnStage joins the crew to talk about his new book, “Successful Failure.” Then Kev tackles the struggles of being seen as “churchy” while still being human, and how movie theaters can feel a little too sinful. He opens up about meeting his wife back in 2000, their pandemic rough patch, and the hilarious Madden breakup attempt. The conversation gets wild as they debate wings (blue cheese vs. ranch), pet play, cuckolding, age play, and erotic humiliation—complete with Kev’s unforgettable “Give m...

Aug 18, 20251 hr 16 min

You've Got Decisions: Dry Spell Cure ASAP

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Aug 13, 202519 min

Ep. 433: Captain Hook

In this week’s episode, we kick things off with a reminder to grab our New York Times best seller before catching up on life. Mandii doubles back on past stories before she and Weezy get hilariously candid about “counting their bodies” and debating “how big was the thang?” The conversation dives into feeling like a piece of meat, being called “babe,” and whether ghosting is ever okay.We unpack dating men with baggage, strategies for getting what you want, and Mandii’s surprising take on her ex. ...

Aug 11, 202559 min

You've Got Decisions: From A Threeesome To A Throuple (Ft. Assante)

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Aug 06, 202520 min

EP. 432: Financing Your Friends, Freaky Cosplay, & Furries

This week’s episode dives right in as Weezy shares her experience at the Beyoncé concert and the beauty of everyday life in France. Mandii opens up about her newly single status and what it’s like being back in the mix. The duo talks UNC-tions, navigating transactional relationships, and making sure your man is in check.They also react to the viral B. Simone clip about friends asking for too much, unpack the history of pet play and kink culture, and take a deep dive into the world of furries—fro...

Aug 04, 20251 hr 7 min

You've Got Decisions: He Takes PREP (Follow-Up) Ft. Assante

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Jul 30, 202519 min

EP. 431: The Problem With Ordering Fajitas, Good Nut, & Fertility Rituals

This week Mandii & Weezy are going solo again! Mandii kicks things off with her thoughts on Othello on Broadway. After that, Weezy unpacks the stress of making birthday plans. They also break down “The Fajitas Paradox” (yes, it’s a thing), showing up in a completely different fit, and share a powerful excerpt from their New York Times bestseller No Holes Barred , diving into what a healthy relationship really looks like. Things take a wild historical turn as they explore ancient fertility ri...

Jul 28, 202555 min

You've Got Decisions: My Partner is Ashamed of How We Met

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Jul 23, 202521 min

EP 430: God Helping You Cheat, Recycling Date Spots, & The Kama Sutra

This week these New York Times Bestsellers are going SOLO! Mandii opens up about how things have changed since moving to Atlanta, while Weezy shares her date night plans and gets into a spicy debate on whether it's wrong to recycle date spots. Things take a chaotic turn as Weezy recounts a dramatic choking incident, and the ladies share an exclusive excerpt from their New York Times best-selling book No Holes Barred . The conversation heats up with viral reactions — including being “graced by Go...

Jul 21, 202556 min

You've Got Decisions: Post IUD D

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Jul 16, 202522 min

EP 429: Essence Fest 2025 (Ft. Kandi Burruss)

Mandii and Weezy are back with a wild new episode featuring Grammy winner and TV powerhouse Kandi Burruss! The duo kicks things off with a hilarious Essence Fest 2025 recap, including Mandii nearly getting robbed by some aggressive studs and the thrill of becoming New York Times best sellers. Then, it's a live sit-down with Kandi to talk about balancing motherhood, marriage, and the real tea behind the ladies’ new book, No Holes Barred . OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Explo...

Jul 14, 20251 hr 12 min

Discussing No Holes Barred w/ Passport Cutty

OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for priva...

Jul 09, 20251 hr 6 min

EP 428: Aphrodisiacs, Bone Structure, & Beautiful Baby Daddies

In this week’s episode, the ladies kick things off with some uplifting news about a friend beating cancer, before diving into a candid conversation about IVF and the surprisingly strategic side of choosing a baby daddy with elite genetics. They reflect on bone structure, beauty, and how all of it ties into society’s declining birthrate. A quick political moment featuring Pete Buttigieg sets the stage for a wild ride through toddler drama, social media clapbacks, and an unforgettable reading from...

Jul 07, 202553 min

You've Got Decisions: To Leave, Or Not To Leave?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Jul 02, 202527 min
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