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Decisions, Decisions

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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Episodes

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 55 | Beers, Buckets & Booger Sugar

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-driven conversation unpacking the controversy surrounding the NBA’s canceled Magic City Night , beginning with a breakdown of what the event represented and why its cancellation sparked debate around women’s agency, exploitation, and optics in sports entertainment [ 01:51 ] . The discussion deepens into the complexities of women’s autonomy within adult ent...

Mar 17, 20261 hr 49 minSeason 1Ep. 37

EP 464: Jezebels

On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions , Mandii B and Weezy talk about a first-class flight experience and airplane etiquette, including a moment involving a flight attendant and confidence in first class, before sharing stories about nightlife and a situation involving a confident dancer. The ladies address fan reactions from the previous episode, respond to comments from listeners, and discuss being called “jezebels,” including reactions to Sarah and conversations around the term. They a...

Mar 16, 20261 hr 10 min

Introducing: If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes

You can’t rewrite the past — but you can learn from it. Amber Grimes did exactly that, going from college dropout to Executive Vice President in the entertainment industry with no map, just mistakes and lessons that turned into power moves. If You Knew Better is where Amber shares that wisdom — alongside artists, creatives, and culture-shifters who open up about the missteps they made, the mindsets that changed everything, and the game they wish they knew sooner. Together, they unpack the highs,...

Mar 14, 20261 min

You've Got Decisions: The Baby is His How Would You Feel?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Mar 11, 202629 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 54 | A.I. Dead Presidents, Epstein DNA & The Angry Black Man

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King , journalist Jayson Rodriguez , and the king of headlines Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation that blends current events, personal storytelling, cultural critique, and conspiracy-laced debates. The discussion kicks off with a breakdown of trending headlines and the crew’s signature “ignorant thoughts” on the week’s biggest topics [ 03:01 ] , before shifting into personal updates, celebrations, and be...

Mar 10, 20261 hr 23 minSeason 1Ep. 36

EP. 463: Letting Go Of Your Boyfriend For Your Husband Pt. 2 (feat. Sarah Fontenot)

On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Sarah Fontenot joins Mandii B and WeezyWTF for a candid conversation about marriage, commitment, and modern relationships. The group discusses whether marriage should be the goal, Mandii’s hesitation around long-term commitment, and what emotional independence looks like in dating. Sarah also shares the story of leaving her boyfriend for the man who became her husband, the speed of their relationship, and how they went from friends to marriage. Later, the...

Mar 09, 20261 hr 19 min

You've Got Decisions: Did Cheating in High School Ruin My relationship?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Mar 04, 202626 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 53 | Missiles, Magic City & Mythical Negros

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B joined by super producer A-King , and king of the headlines Jason “Jah” Lee , deliver a culturally sharp discussion spanning Black History Month, Women’s History Month, politics, reparations, and celebrity influence , beginning with reflections on the importance of honoring Black and women’s contributions beyond performative celebration [ 01:55 ] . The conversation quickly pivots to the controversial partnership between the Atlanta Hawks and Magi...

Mar 03, 20261 hr 19 minSeason 1Ep. 35

Ep. 462: Third Engagement’s The Charm Pt. 1 (feat. Sarah Fontenot)

***TRIGGER WARNING***** Mentions of DV This week on Decisions, Decisions , Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Sarah Fontenot for an unfiltered conversation about love, marriage, and everything they don’t tell you before you say “I do.” Sarah opens up about waiting until marriage, navigating dating in Canada, and the realities of going from friend to wife, plus her three rings and two very different engagements. The episode dives into marriage counseling, gossiping as adults, and whether you should...

Mar 02, 20261 hr 21 min

Decisions, Decisions: From Porn to the Pulpit (feat. Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord)

The Black Effect Presents... Decisions, Decisions! **Trigger Warning: SA, SH, Trafficking ** This week on Decisions, Decisions , Mandii B and Weezy WTF are joined by Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord , author of From Porn to the Pulpit , as the episode opens with prayer before Danielle shares her introduction to ministry, the difficulty of speaking about mental health, and her early experiences with exploitation while underage, including her pregnancy and the moment her mother learned the truth. ...

Feb 28, 20261 hr 12 min

You've Got Decisions: What Did He Say??

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Feb 25, 202632 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 52 | Durags, Wifi Games & Tequilla

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King , journalist Jayson Rodriguez , and king of the headlines Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-forward conversation unpacking race, sports, media, and accountability. The episode opens with reflections on Black History Month and the intersection of sports and cultural celebration [00:55] , before shifting into personal stories and sharp observations about Atlanta culture , identity, and lived experience in the...

Feb 24, 20261 hr 34 minSeason 1Ep. 34

EP 461: So You Think I’m Skinnyyyyy?

Mandii B and Weezy return for a solo episode where they catch up on recent experiences, from being labeled the “Pee Pee Girls” and awkward moments that ruin intimacy to Alexa interruptions and music choices during sex. The conversation moves through nightlife encounters, calling Assante for advice, discussions around gay-baiting, body compliments, and appearance, before getting into tops and bottoms, cities known for threesomes and open relationships, bringing up partners in conversation, and a ...

Feb 23, 202656 min

You've Got Decisions: We’re Non Monogamous But He Made a Baby with Her!

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Feb 18, 202633 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 51 | Bad Bunny, Ballers and Bum Bail

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King , journalist Jayson Rodriguez , and Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation blending pop culture, sports, politics, and music industry insight. The episode opens with current events and trending pop culture moments that set the tone for a lively, humorous, and critical dialogue [ 00:55 ] , before shifting into nostalgic concert experiences and how live music fandom has evolved across generations [ 06:00 ...

Feb 17, 20261 hr 43 minSeason 1Ep. 33

You've Got Decisions: Is it Because I'm Black?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Feb 11, 202631 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 50 | Black History Month: Mr. Morale & The Lemon Pepper Steppers

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King , journalist Jayson Rodriguez , and Jason “Jah” Lee for a timely deep dive into Black History Month, racist laws in America, cultural stereotypes, and modern racism , opening with a frank discussion about the legacy and ongoing effects of racist legislation and why historical truth still faces resistance today [ 00:53 ] . The crew connects these themes to their own personal education journeys and lived experienc...

Feb 10, 20261 hr 14 minSeason 1Ep. 32

EP 459: Anti-Galentine’s Day

This episode of Decisions Decisions is a full chaos cocktail. Mandi B and Weezy are back with takes on Valentine’s Day, situationships, long-distance sex, celebrity mess, and relationship “goals” that are really just lies on Instagram . They kick things off with jokes, hair talk, Atlanta vibes, and confusion over who tf is actually famous anymore. From celebrity All-Star games to Grammy weekend FOMO , nothing is safe. They get into music debates , and why some movies from the 90s just hit harder...

Feb 09, 20261 hr 3 min

I WANNA BOOTY EAT… MY MANS… BUT HOW!?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Feb 04, 202629 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 49 | Hablar Mucha Mierda!

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B, joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee , open with emotional reflections on the current news cycle and its psychological toll on everyday life [ 01:11 ] , leading into a candid conversation about whether shame still has a place in society and how accountability shapes behavior [ 04:31 ] . The trio examine the real-world consequences of inappropriate conduct [ 10:36 ] and the permanence of digital footprints in an era where online ac...

Feb 03, 20261 hr 20 minSeason 1Ep. 49

Ep. 458: The Pee Pee Girls

Decisions, Decisions is back with Mandii B and WeezyWTF going SOLO this week, with Eddin in the building. This episode runs through riding a man you actually start to like, men judging other men for having ugly girlfriends, a wild deep dive into a couple that drinks their own pee (and why that’s dangerous), another round of Heauxetry, the 10 guys women should be with before finding the one, and getting clear on long-term dating goals. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Explorat...

Feb 02, 202658 min

Selective Ignorance: Misogony Economy, Book Bans & Jingles

The Black Effect Presents... Selective Ignorance! In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging, culture-forward conversation that blends humor, critique, and social commentary. The episode opens with reflections on a recent winter storm and the collective panic it caused, including questionable food preparation decisions and general storm-time ignorance [ 00:00–05:05 ] . From there, the d...

Feb 01, 20261 hr 21 minSeason 1Ep. 48

You've Got Decisions: Am I Stupid for Sticking Around?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Jan 28, 202623 min

Ep. 457: Tacky

Mandii and Weezy are riding solo this week and getting straight to the mess. The ladies break down the tackiest moves they’ve ever seen in dating, unpack the absolute worst reasons people have ended relationships, and bring back another round of We Listen and We Judge. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_de...

Jan 26, 202657 min

You've Got Decisions: Update: How Should I Feel? He May Have a Baby!

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Jan 21, 202629 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 47 | Nclecta Carry On's, Higher Education & a Piece of Chicken

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , host Mandii B joined by super producer A-King , journalist Jayson Rodriguez , and Jason “Jah” Lee , deliver a layered conversation that blends breaking news, cultural critique, and sharp humor, beginning with a viral American Airlines emergency landing that sparks a candid discussion about fear, entitlement, and survival instincts as passengers prioritized carry-on luggage over safety [ 01:25 ]. That moment opens a broader examination of common sense in c...

Jan 20, 20262 hr 7 minSeason 1Ep. 47

EP 456: Washed, Wild, & Free

The ladies are back SOLO this week. The ladies are back SOLO this week. Mandii B and Weezy WTF kick things off with Weezy reflecting on feeling washed in her 30s and how outside nights hit different now, before Mandii gets into her Sunday errands and personal routines. The conversation shifts to a discussion about cities with fewer children and more adults, what that says about lifestyle choices, and the types of questions that can reveal everything you need to know on a date. Weezy later shares...

Jan 19, 202654 min

Selective Ignorance: Pulpit Wars, Tartare & Standards | Bonus Episode

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , host Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King , journalist Jayson Rodriguez , and Jason “Jah” Lee for a sharp, culturally grounded conversation that blends humor, social critique, and forward-looking commentary. The episode opens with Mandii recounting an “ignorant moment” at a birthday dinner that spirals into a broader reflection on food literacy, consumer awareness, and how everyday ignorance shows up in seemingly small choices [ 00:51 , 09:30 ], be...

Jan 16, 20261 hr 27 min

You've Got Decisions: My Boyfriend is Homophobic

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions...

Jan 14, 202632 min

EP 455: The Truth About Egg Freezing (feat. Zuri Hall)

Mandii and Weezy are back with their FIRST guest of 2026. Joining the ladies this episode is entertainment reporter, TV personality and producer, Zuri Hall! The ladies kick things off unpacking the realities of egg freezing , why no one was talking about it when we were younger, and the emotional, financial, and relational layers that come with planning your future as a woman. The conversation goes even deeper into questioning motherhood, costs, having kids with a partner, and what choosing a su...

Jan 12, 202657 min
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