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Decisions, Decisions

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

Episodes

You've Got Decisions: Is He A Certified Freak Or Is He Being "Careful"? (Ft. Eddin)

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

Jun 04, 202520 min

Ep. 423: The Right Questions To Find Your Future Companion (Ft. MatchMaker Maria)

This week, the ladies sit down with the one and only Matchmaker Maria for a deep dive into the wild world of modern dating. From the surprising ways Cosmo Magazine tried to shut down matchmaking to what really happens when people apply for a match, nothing is off limits. Maria shares the personality traits that make her hit the brakes on a potential match and why some men think skydiving is a flex. The conversation moves into the complexities of matching people from different religious backgroun...

Jun 02, 20251 hr 3 min

You've Got Decisions: How Do You Find Motivation When Everything Feels So Uncertain?

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

May 28, 202526 min

Ep. 422: Luck of Dating (Ft. Les Alfred)

This week the ladies are joined by Les Alfred, of the “She’s So Lucky” podcast! The show kicks off with the crew revealing their dream podcast guests, debates movie fairness, and it gets real about mixing investments and romance.Things heat up with a candid discussion on relationships and future family plans, followed by an unfiltered look at menopause and the complexities of the female body. Divorce stats and teen pregnancy rates take center stage next, before shifting to bold moves and green-l...

May 26, 20251 hr

You've Got Decisions: How Do I Battle My Negative Thoughts On Dating? (Ft. Mama Jewel)

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

May 21, 202515 min

Ep. 421: The History Of The D

This week the ladies are going SOLO (with Eddin) at the studio. After a quick catch-up, Mandii opens up about needing space, and the duo dives into one of life’s trickiest questions: Are you a bad person, or just going through it? . They switch gears with a must-watch list of Black cinema classics , then Weezy shares a braces horror story you won’t forget. Mandii and Weezy then go into an excerpt of their upcoming book. Then it’s time for a fun Would You Rather? —see or talk on a date? Followed ...

May 19, 202555 min

You've Got Decisions: I Want to Stay, But He Doesn't Please Me!

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

May 14, 202521 min

EP 420: Finding Love....Again! (Ft. Tank)

This week the ladies are joined by R&B legend, Tank! Fresh off his Broadway Debut in Hell’s Kitchen, Tank gives the ladies an insight behind the prep for his role and how he felt finally hitting the Broadway stage. After the showtime talk, the ladies get into Tank’s take on new R&B , how Tank feels about the next generation, what is the “NEW” R&B era, the perfect baby making music, and his Mount Rushmore of Rnb ALL TIME. After Mandii’s icebreaker, we get to read an excerpt from the u...

May 12, 20251 hr 4 min

You've Got Decisions: Reverse Stealthing?

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

May 07, 202520 min

EP 419: Dating Woes For High Achieving Women (Ft. Alison Wellington)

In this powerful episode, certified dating and relationship coach Allison Wellington joins Mandy and Weezy to break down the realities of modern dating for high-achieving women. From income gaps to non-monogamy, political dealbreakers to long-distance ultimatums—no topic is off-limits. Whether you’re swiping through apps or managing a million-dollar business, this episode Alison delivers strong advice and hard truths for navigating love, relationships, and self-worth. Help us become a New York T...

May 05, 20251 hr 3 min

You've Got Decisions: I Feel Guilty For Ending My TOXIC Relationship

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

Apr 30, 202519 min

Ep. 418: Once a Cheater Always a Cheater (Ft. Tone Bell)

This week the ladies are joined by one of the stars of Netflix’s “Survival of the Thickest”, Tone Bell! After starting the episode with the classic “Ice Breaker” we get into intimacy on set, working with a coordinator, and how different directors handle “steamy” scenes”. Are you too friendly? Weezy and Mandii breakdown different instances where their friendliness was taken as “flirting”, while Tone gives his plea of why charm can cause confusion. For the reactionary of this week, we are getting ...

Apr 28, 20251 hr

You've Got Decisions: Career Choices: Do I Move Back in with My Mom?

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

Apr 23, 202518 min

EP 417: Putting A Limit On ‘Quality Time’ & Insecurities Vs. Boundaries

This week Mandii & Weezy are SOLO! First the ladies deep dive into the limits of quality time with their own partner with Mandii limiting a vacation to only 4 days with a significant other or friend. After that Wolf joins the conversation by giving an insight of how a man feels when their girlfriend has a male “best friend” ,why another woman shouldn’t be cooking for a man who is in a relationship, and why the male/female dynamic in a friendship could be finicky. Then Mandii & Weezy give...

Apr 21, 202554 min

You've Got Decisions: Am I A Bad Friend?

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

Apr 16, 202518 min

Ep. 416: The Ups And Downs Of A 20 Year Marriage (Ft. DJ Envy & Gia Casey)

This week the ladies are joined by DJ Envy and his wife Gia Casey to discuss their new book, “Real Life, Real Family: A Guide To Raising Empowered Children”. After starting off with Envy’s Cybertruck problems, Casey gets into the difference of being a wife and being a mom, abstaining from intercourse, why pregnancy “cookie” is the best, and what is one chapter from their book that they wished they never shared. After our hypothetical of the week, the ladies along with Casey & Envy get into t...

Apr 14, 20251 hr 9 min

You've Got Decisions: How Do I Prove I Didn't Outgrow Him?

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

Apr 09, 202519 min

Ep. 415: Meeting Black Men Who Don’t Date Black Women (Ft. Lex P)

This week we got the one and only Lex P from Pour Minds on the show to discuss her new (and old) relationships, and her brand new show: “Love, Lex P”! The ladies get into the world of content creators turning into comedians, figuring out how to handle your date forgetting his wallet, and going on a date with a man who’s never dated a black woman. Then for the reactionary of the week the ladies breakdown Omarion’s comments on Kofi Siriboe’s views of Non-Monogamy. Help us become a New York Time's ...

Apr 07, 202549 min

You've Got Decisions: I'm Desperate and She Won't Sleep With Me!!!!

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

Apr 02, 202517 min

Ep. 414: If He Wanted To, He WOULD

This week the ladies are going SOLO starting off with a catch-up where we hear about how Mandii’s man did THAT and sent her some lovely flowers, got an EMAIL from her ex out of the BLUE, & how she watches movies with her boo from home. Weezy talks about having a partner who “gets you” and someone who knows how to balance your strengths and weaknesses. After that the ladies break down an excerpt of their up and coming manifesto: “No Holes Barred” and get into men who don’t go into long-term r...

Mar 31, 202557 min

You've Got Decisions: Am I a Cheater?

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this...

Mar 26, 202524 min

EP 413: Going Through A Glow-Up, An IVF Nightmare, & The History of Brothels

Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link This week the ladies are going SOLO, breaking down a “letter” that a man sent his girlfriend about what is his “ideal” partner. After Mandii talks about her man her man her man, the ladies get into “time wasters” and how some people only get into relationships to kill time. Grabbing...

Mar 24, 20251 hr 6 min

You've Got Decisions: Mandii B on No Holes Barred (Ft. Tempest X)

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Order Here Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think o...

Mar 19, 202530 min

EP 412: No Holes Barred (Ft. Tempest-X)

Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299 This week Mandii & Weezy are joined by Tempest-X, author & co-writer of the ladies’ upcoming book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power.” Starting off the episode we get to...

Mar 17, 20251 hr 7 min

You've Got Decisions: WeezyWTF On No Holes Barred (Ft. Tempest X)

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Mar 12, 202523 min

Ep. 411: Reproductive Justice, & Women's History Month (Ft. Monica Simpson & Kendrick Sampson)

Help us get a New York Time's Best Seller! Pre-order Mandii & Weezy’s first upcoming book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299 This week the ladies are joined by two fantastic guests who are striving in building a powerful conversation on the intersection of Black Culture and Reproductive Justice. We’re excited to have Monica Simpson, Time 100 influencer, reproductive j...

Mar 10, 20251 hr 10 min

You've Got Decisions: Could Tattoos Be A Deal Breaker

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Mar 05, 202524 min

Ep. 410: The “Fun Girl” Theory

Help us get a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s new upcoming book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299 This week the ladies are going SOLO with the ep, but Mandii debuts her new BOYFRIEND. The ladies breakdown Mandii’s date that started her new relationship, and how Mandii almost had her man snatched at the aquarium....

Mar 03, 202555 min

You've Got Decisions: I Caught My Wife Kissing My In-Laws (Ft. Jacob Willis)

Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

Feb 26, 202519 min

EP 409: Quiet Queers

This week the ladies are going SOLO starting with terrible accents, wondering how to handle people with Tourette’s Syndrome in the bedroom, and asking their significant others what they would do if they were turned into a worm. Weezy then gets into her RUDE neighbors, and what rules should be embedded amongst tenants. After that, the ladies enforce their one universal law that must happen in the bedroom. For the reactionary video of the week, Mandii & Weezy discuss if queer people lead their...

Feb 24, 202558 min
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