On this episode, I explain why you absolutely must be willing to experience the whole spectrum of emotions if you want to use the Think, Feel, Act Cycle as a tool for changing your drinking. We cover the three main reasons why people avoid feeling certain emotions and how understanding this can help you take control of your desire to drink. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/30
Discover why you beat yourself up, the detrimental effect that has on you, and why beating yourself up is doing more to keep you stuck than to change your actions. Tune in to find out how you can stop beating yourself up so that you can understand why you sometimes drink more than you want and how to change this habit. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/29
Today, we're talking about why so many of us are constantly hunting for relief and turning to a drink to feel better. We'll explore exactly why you continuously need “something” to lessen the discomfort of your day-to-day life and why drinking to take the edge off is not sustainable. Listen in to find out what you can start doing today to change the habit of drinking as means of relief without succumbing to stress, anxiety, or frustration. Get full show notes, full transcript, and more informati...
Tune in and find out why the human brain is uniquely equipped to change habits and why it feels as if you are at odds with yourself when it comes to drinking. You won’t want to miss this opportunity to understand why your brain works the way it does and how you can use this information to create meaningful change in your life. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/27
This week, we explore what exactly happens to us when we escalate our discomfort into chaos and how that creates seemingly irresistible urges to escape the negative emotions that come with it. Listen in to discover the process that you can use to not only to manage your desire to drink but also apply it to any problematic situation in your life. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/26
Today, we dive deeper into the topic of fun and explore one of the main reasons why people feel like they are missing out if they don't have a drink in their hand. Tune in as we talk about a routine that most people develop as they get older – consuming entertainment without much or any effort on their part . The habit of passively consuming fun prevents you from being able to generate fun on your own. Join us as we look at the difference between creating and consuming fun, how shifting from con...
So many people feel like changing their drinking means signing up for a life without fun. You might even think, " I'm no fun when I don’t drink" or " This event will be unbearable without a booze ." On this episode, we’re taking a look at these two thoughts and how they are keeping you stuck. Join us as I explain how to stop outsourcing the perception of fun to alcohol and learn how to start having actual fun using the Think, Feel, Act Cycle. Get full show notes and more information here: http:/...
This week I am excited to show you exactly what happens to your brain when you think, “What if I fail?” and why you need to learn to deal with this thought, Join me as I explain how you can change your perspective of failure, set yourself free and keep moving toward your vision on a new you and a life that excites you. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/23
On this episode of Take a Break , I’m going to show you the missing piece preventing you from moving forward with your life and feeling fully in control. I’ll explain what you need to sustain you when you run head first into resistance and motivate you to keep taking action and moving forward even in you feel uncomfortable. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/22
This week, we’ll explore how one thought, "I just can't drink," can hold you back and keep you stuck in the never-ending cycle of feeling miserable, powerless, and probably pouring yourself a drink to escape. Tune in to find out how making a subtle change to your thinking can help you get closer to your goal of taking a break. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/21
On this week’s episode of Take a Break , we delve into what exactly creates everything you currently have and experience in your life. We cover how easy it can be to get into a pattern of turning to alcohol (or other distractions) to feel better when you look at your life and you don’t like what you see. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/20
On this concluding episode of our mini-series on the Think, Feel, Act Cycle, we’re tying it all together by talking about understanding your actions and why you do the things that you do in your life. Tune in to get the complete picture of how our thoughts drive our feelings and, in turn, our feelings drive our actions. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/19
This week, we uncover how emotions differ from our thoughts and why grasping this distinction is crucial to understanding why you drink more than you want and rely on alcohol in certain situations. I also explain how you can tell when you’re experiencing a feeling and what you can do to intentionally change how you feel. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/18
This week, I explain what your thoughts really are, how to separate yourself from your thoughts and why that is so crucial to changing your thinking and unlearning your desire to drink. Tune in to discover this episode’s important tips and strategies that will help free you from societal and cultural conditioning, increase your awareness, and get you unstuck on your journey to taking a break. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/17...
In this episode, I talk about how keeping your brain on autopilot and only doing the familiar, easy things in life, keeps you stuck and stunts your growth. Listen in to discover exactly why it is challenging to do difficult things and how they help you in the long run. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/15
Listen in to find out why I believe letting go of the concept of being on or off "the wagon" is crucial if you want to stick with your commitment. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/15
In this episode, we focus on the importance of questioning your thoughts, the ones that you hold on to as the “truth,” to determine whether or not they are holding you back from achieving your goals. I explain how holding a light to your thoughts and challenging them can help you begin taking small steps toward progress and living a life that you truly deserve. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/14
This week, we revisit a few important concepts we’ve talked about on previous episodes with a focus on one of the best ways of creating lasting change in our lives. I share my personal favorite way of looking at your drinking – an exercise that will help you get the complete picture of the issue and gain a new perspective beneficial to positive change. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/13
Listen in as I explain why so many of us use pouring a drink to hide from perfectionism and people pleasing and why it’s so difficult to cut back. Discover how you can break the cycle of having a drink when you “need a break” from the relentless pressure of doing everything right and trying to keep everyone happy. Get full show note and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/12
On this episode of Take a Break , we look at the difference between physical and emotional deprivation and how understanding this difference can be the key to making a lasting change in our lives. I explain what deprivation is all about, what creates it, and why you don’t have to constantly tell yourself, “I’m just going to have to live with this for the rest of my life.” Get full show notes, transcripts, and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/11...
On this episode of Take a Break from Drinking, we explore how feeling shame over our past creates a vicious cycle of staying in the dark and continuing to drink even more. We also look at the sticking points of cutting back when we focus on the past and what we can do to “change our past,” as impossible as it may sound. Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/10
Join us as I explain why it’s so important to examine how alcohol is helping us in our daily lives and how we use it to “solve” our problems quickly and easily. If you’re considering taking a break and want to start feeling like you're making headway rather than missing out, you won’t want to miss this important episode! Get full show notes and more information here: http://www.rachelhart.com/9
Listen in as we pull back the curtain on why we feel urges and why that desire to drink may feel so strong to us. We cover why using willpower may not be the best way to deal with urges and what you can start doing today to best deal with them. Get full show notes, transcripts, and more information here: http://bit.ly/2mhOPC4
Today, I share three unexpected benefits of taking a break from drinking that are going to prove that not only can you enjoy the emotional and physical perks you're already looking forward to, you can also learn to face your fears and enjoy an even better life than you have now! Get full show notes and more information here: http://bit.ly/2lvOboM
Today, we cover the four main reasons why we get stuck in this state of not being able to make up our mind, we explore the detrimental effects of indecision, as well as what we can do to move past it. Join us to discover the tools you can start using today to rid yourself of indecision and give yourself the best, most liberating gift that you can ever give yourself. Get full show notes, transcripts, and more information here: http://bit.ly/2l5BOe1...
Today, we explore what confidence is all about and why it’s so easy to fall into the trap of thinking that we need a drink to feel more self-assured and at ease in social situations. We take a look at the 4 important elements that contribute to the confidence deficit and how being aware of them will help you become more self-assured. Get full show notes, transcripts, and more information here: rachelhart.com/4
On this episode, we cover the absolute best solution to dealing with questions about not drinking that will but also fuel your commitment to staying away from alcohol. Get full show notes, transcripts, and more information here: http://bit.ly/2lBblqN
On this episode of Take a Break , we’re talking about a common thread among people who like to drink – using alcohol to “take the edge off.” Join me today as I explore why we use alcohol to unwind and what we’re teaching our brain when we do so. Listen in to discover a game-changing tool that will help you find the underlying problem and what is really going on with you rather than fighting with your often overwhelming desire to drink. Get full show notes, transcripts, and more information here:...
Today, I share with you why using willpower to try to drink less is not the answer. We also explore how our thoughts drive our feelings and why it’s important to understand that our thoughts are not always an accurate representation of reality. Get full show notes and more information here: http://bit.ly/2kIbQNz
In today’s episode, I explain the 4 key pieces to my approach to taking a break from drinking, starting with how the story of alcohol is so enmeshed in our opinion of ourselves whether we decide to imbibe or not. Listen in to learn how we’re going to work through the process of unraveling everything you think you know about why we drink and how we can control our desire for alcohol. Get full show notes and more information here: http://bit.ly/2lCH7GA...
