Join Dan and Becky James on Trim the Wick, the podcast that's igniting hearts and strengthening relationships. With over 25 years of ministry experience and a passion for helping believers thrive, Dan and Becky share biblically sound advice on marriage, family, relationships, and life. Tune in for practical insights, inspiring stories, and tips to keep your flame burning bright. Don't miss out - subscribe now and trim away the distractions to focus on what truly matters!
This week Dan and Becky share about the struggles of dealing with disappointment when this go awry. Sometimes you just got to be honest in sweat paints and slippers. They share about what helps them through the tough times. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
This we have a special episode of the Trim the Wick podcast. Dan is teaching at Connection Church Clermont FL. The Leadership Qualities of Jesus in Matthew 14 the feeding of the 5000. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Is there more than just striving after happiness? Is my marriage supposed to hit that dopamine button over and over again? What do I do when times are bad and I'm in a place of desperation? This is where Joy steps in and gives us strength to overcome even in the worst of situations. This week Becky and I talk about having Joy in your marriage and why it is essential. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!...
Welcome back the the Trim the Wick podcast. This week we replaying our series on marriage. Becky and I have been married for over 33 years and have a lot of experience of doing marriage right and wrong. We have four children who are all adults and a list of life's ups and downs, from military, college moving across country to being homeless we have experienced a lot. In this series we what to share with you the things that we have learned and to help you to have a fruitful marriage. This we...
Happy Valentines Days everyone! This week is part 2 of our series how to have a Strong Marriage. This week we talk about the importance of intimacy and sex, and how to build unity in your decision making process. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Welcome to the season of LOVE, Becky & Dan wanted to help you start this season off right. We have a 2 part series on how to have a Strong Marriage. This week we are focusing in the importance of communication in your marriage. Everything in a relationship lives and dies with communication but so many couples don't take the time to really connect in their communication. We hope this is a lesson for you to foster better communication. Learn More about the Maxwell DISC Assessment : https:...
This week Becky and Dan finish their series on Living Whole. They discuss the surprises and benefits of personal development. From increased confidence to being prepared for the things of life, focusing on personal development will be your key to better living. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Becky and Dan are live from Podfest 2025. They share insights and lessons learned about the importance of personal growth. Join us as they stories of what they saw at Podfest 2025. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Would you like to life as a whole person? Being able to balance your Personal and Spiritual Development or should you only focus on your Spiritual Development and everything else will fall in line. Also isn't it sinful to focus on yourself? This week Dan and Becky start a 3 part series on Living Whole. We dispel some myths, give encouragement and share practical helps to move forward. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!...
Have you ever taken a personality assessment? This week, Becky dives into the Maxwell DISC Assessment, and we unpack the results together. Was it accurate? What surprising insights did she uncover? Did it leave her pulling her hair out—or was it totally worth the time? Tune in as we explore Becky’s experience and discuss whether the DISC Assessment might be a game-changer for you too! Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!...
This week Dan and Becky look at the lesson learned from 2024. Over the course of a year the you understand that God has a plan and He has a process. They share some insight to what 2025 will be bringing. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Welcome to our home as we celebrate Christmas. Sit around the Christmas tree with us as we read the Christmas Story from Luke chapter 2. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
This week Dan and Becky do a podcast ripped from the today's headlines!!! Are we safe? Are we seeing an alien invasion? Probably NOT! but do we see the small things and miracles that God performs around us everyday? Dan and Becky talks about how God proves to us on a daily how we can trust Him. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, hosts Dan and Becky discuss the importance of intentional living. As they reflect on the rapid passage of time, they emphasize the need to prioritize tasks that align with one's purpose and spiritual calling. Through engaging anecdotes and practical advice, they explore how to manage life's demands while focusing on what truly matters. Don't miss this insightful conversation on living a life of purpose and intention! Chapters: (00:00) ...
You might have your plans made. You prayed, considered, and asked friends for advice, but God redirects you. What do you do? How do you deal with the embarrassment and frustration. Over the last few months Dan and Becky have been dealing with this issue. In this episode they share what they did and how a redirect from God is for our good. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
This week Dan and Becky sit down and talk about Thanksgiving and how to focus on the blessings of your life. There is so much noise out there about how to stick it to your family members or avoiding fights around the "Thanksgiving" table that we sometimes forget the the joy of being thankful. Our prayer is that you and your family have a wonderful and blessed Thanksgiving. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!...
Join Dan and Becky on this week's episode of Trim the Wick as they explore the multifaceted qualities of leadership through the teachings of Jesus. Discover how compassion, teaching, challenging, and empowering others can transform you into an effective leader in any aspect of life. From the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000 to personal anecdotes, learn how to inspire and guide those around you. Tune in to uncover the essential elements of leading with purpose and intention! Chapters: (00:00...
Join Dan and Becky in this heartfelt episode of the Trim the Wick podcast as they explore their passion for the mission work in Kenya. Discover the profound impact of a simple message, "Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life," on the lives of those living in the slums of Nairobi. Hear inspiring stories of transformation and hope as former gang members, addicts, and more embrace a new path. Learn how Pastor Steve and Mariam Becky are changing lives through the Nairobi Faith Rescue Mi...
Join Dan and Becky in the final installment of their three-part series on "Simply Parenting." This episode dives into the profound connection between Christian living and parenting, emphasizing the importance of modeling godly behavior for children. Discover how to love your children as God loves you, addressing their strengths and weaknesses with compassion and guidance. Explore the balance between obligation and genuine love in parenting, and learn how to cultivate a heart of service...
In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky continue their series on "Simply Parenting." Dive into a conversation about the importance of loving God and how it forms the foundation for effective and heartfelt parenting. Discover practical tips on modeling a genuine relationship with God for your children and learn how to instill values that will guide them through life's challenges. _______________ Like what you heard? Listen to more episodes here: http...
In this episode, Dan and Becky kick off a new series called "Simply Parenting," aimed at breaking down the overwhelming expectations placed on parents today. They discuss the pressures from social media, societal norms, and even government regulations that make parenting feel like an insurmountable task. Drawing from their own experiences of raising four children to adulthood, Dan and Becky share how they navigated through external judgments and internal pressures. They emphasize the i...
Join Dan and Becky in a special edition of the Trim the Wick podcast as they navigate life without power after Hurricane Milton. Discover how preparation and faith can help weather life's storms, both physically and spiritually. Listen in as they share practical tips for hurricane preparedness and draw parallels to spiritual readiness, offering encouragement and insights on finding peace amidst chaos. Chapters: (00:00) Introduction (02:00) Preparing for the Storm (10:00) The Experience of H...
Join Dan and Becky as they take you on a vibrant journey to Kenya in this week's episode of Trim the Wick. Discover the unexpected beauty and rich culture of Kenya through their stories and experiences. From the bustling streets of Nairobi to the lush landscapes of Mount Elgon, get a glimpse of the warmth and hospitality of the Kenyan people. Whether it's exploring city streets or sharing heartfelt moments with locals, this episode is a celebration of discovery, connection, and the joy...
In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky dive into the overwhelming impact of constant news and social media updates on our mental health and spiritual well-being. They discuss the aftermath of Hurricane Helene, the emotional toll of being inundated with global crises, and the importance of focusing on what we can control. Join them as they explore how to navigate this information overload by trusting in God, staying true to our purpose, and finding peace amidst the chaos. Chapters: (00:0...
In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan revisits a cherished discussion on determination, inspired by the simple yet profound actions of a ten-month-old child. Listen in as Dan recounts how watching a baby navigate their home sparked reflections on resilience, God's calling, and the importance of continual striving despite setbacks. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural insights, this episode offers a heartwarming and motivating look at how we can learn from the determination of a child t...
In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky delve into the challenges and growth that come with stepping out in faith. They share personal stories of trusting God through uncertain times, moving forward in their spiritual journey, and the importance of not becoming stagnant in one’s faith. Tune in to hear about their experiences with financial uncertainty, the lessons they’ve learned, and the books that have inspired them along the way. Chapters: (00:00) Introduction (02:00) Life...
In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky continue their series on the person of the Holy Spirit. They share personal stories and insights about how the Holy Spirit works in the natural world, performing miraculous signs and healings. From breaking fevers to restoring hearing, they discuss the awe-inspiring power of the Holy Spirit and the importance of faith. Tune in to hear about their transformative experiences and the lessons they've learned about trusting in the Holy ...
In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky share their transformative experiences from mission trips, focusing on the vital role of the Holy Spirit. They discuss how stepping out of their comfort zones in places like Kenya has deepened their reliance on God and strengthened their faith. Tune in to hear amazing stories of divine intervention, the power of prayer, and the joy that comes from trusting the Holy Spirit, even in the most challenging circumstances. ________ Like what y...
In this special road edition of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky take you on a journey as they delve deeper into the topic of the Holy Spirit. Broadcasting from their car, they discuss how the Holy Spirit manifests in our lives, debunk common misconceptions, and share personal experiences of spiritual awakening. Join them for an enlightening conversation about receiving and recognizing the Holy Spirit's presence in your life. __________ Like what you heard? Listen to more episodes h...
In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky explore the transformative difference between religious Christianity and Spirit-filled living. They discuss: Pitfalls of focusing on worldly church success metrics The Holy Spirit's demand for genuine life change How Spirit-filled living can be counter-cultural Personal experiences transitioning from religious routine to Spirit-led life Biblical insights on embracing the Holy Spirit's power Join them to discover how moving beyond religiou...
