In this special edition of the Trim the Wick podcast, we revisit an enlightening episode from our previous podcast, "Seeing God in the Everyday," where we explore the concept of real peace. Join us as we discuss how to maintain peace amidst life's chaos, what true peace looks like, and how to rejoice in God regardless of circumstances. Tune in for practical tips and spiritual insights that will help you find and keep peace in your daily life. __________ Like what you heard? Listen...
Aug 13, 2024•25 min•Season 4Ep. 24
In this week’s episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky share an incredibly moving story from their time in Kenya. Despite facing unimaginable hardships, the faith and resilience of a Kenyan village left a profound impact on them. They recount their journey up Mount Elgon, where they encountered a community that, despite losing many of its men to tribal conflict, displayed unwavering faith and joy. This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the strength and hope that can be found in the most d...
Aug 06, 2024•24 min•Season 4Ep. 23
In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky dive deep into the theme of enduring faith amidst life's trials. They discuss the constant challenges we face, from personal setbacks to global crises, and how to hold on to faith and confidence through it all. With heartfelt encouragement and scriptural insights from Hebrews and Romans, they remind us of the importance of perseverance, community, and genuine love. Tune in for a powerful message of hope and resilience. ...
Jul 30, 2024•36 min•Season 4Ep. 22
In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky delve into the transformative power of the Bible. They discuss the importance of engaging with the word of God beyond mere academic study, emphasizing the role of the Holy Spirit in illuminating and applying scripture to our lives. Dan and Becky explore four distinct methods of Bible study—devotional reading, structured reading programs, topical studies, and unstructured personal study—highlighting the benefits and challenges of each. Whether you&a...
Jul 23, 2024•37 min•Season 4Ep. 21
Does it seem like these days the only way to have fellowship and build community you have to do a big event or go to an expensive outing. I wonder if we are missing the point trying to make events and memorable occasions we have lost the ability to just "be" and hang out. This week Becky and Dan discuss this and how to get back to building genuine fellowship. __________ Like what you heard? Listen to more episodes here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trim-the-wick/id1496074089 F...
Jul 16, 2024•31 min•Season 4Ep. 20
In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky tackle a topic that affects everyone: work. They delve into how our daily labor, whether paid or unpaid, can be an act of worship and service to God. Drawing from biblical teachings and personal experiences, they explore the idea that all work, no matter how mundane or difficult, has intrinsic value and can glorify God. Tune in to discover how to find joy and purpose in your everyday tasks and to hear inspiring stories of how God uses o...
Jul 09, 2024•31 min•Season 4Ep. 19
In this heartfelt episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky share their passion project, connecting their church community with the transformative work being done in the slums of Nairobi, Kenya. They recount their experiences with Pastor Steve and Pastor Mary, who are dedicated to bringing hope and change to some of the most impoverished areas. From feeding programs to job training and education initiatives, discover how this incredible ministry is making a difference and how you can be a part of ...
Jul 02, 2024•37 min•Season 4Ep. 18
In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky wrap up their "Simply Parenting" series by discussing the importance of loving others as ourselves, based on Matthew 22:39. They share personal stories and biblical insights, emphasizing the need to parent with love and grace. Key points include understanding child behavior, balancing love and discipline, and teaching genuine acts of love. Key Takeaways: Parenting requires modeling godly love and grace. Understanding behavior ...
Jun 25, 2024•25 min•Season 4Ep. 17
In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky continue their series on "Simply Parenting." Dive into a conversation about the importance of loving God and how it forms the foundation for effective and heartfelt parenting. Discover practical tips on modeling a genuine relationship with God for your children and learn how to instill values that will guide them through life's challenges. _______________ Episode Transcripts: Simply Parenting: Love God Like wh...
Jun 18, 2024•58 min•Season 4Ep. 16
In this episode, hosts Dan and Becky kick off a new series called "Simply Parenting," aimed at breaking down the overwhelming expectations placed on parents today. They discuss the pressures from social media, societal norms, and even government regulations that make parenting feel like an insurmountable task. Drawing from their own experiences of raising four children to adulthood, Dan and Becky share how they navigated through external judgments and internal pressures. They emphasize...
Jun 11, 2024•23 min•Season 4Ep. 15
In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky take us on an incredible journey of faith, family, and international ministry. They share their experiences of saying "yes" to God's calling, which led them to preach in Kenya, connect with pastors, and witness the transformative power of faith in the slums of Nairobi and the villages of western Kenya. Tune in to hear how their family came together to support their mission, the challenges they faced, and the miraculou...
Jun 04, 2024•32 min•Season 4Ep. 14
In this week's episode of Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky delve into the intricate subject of conflict resolution and reconciliation. They explore the complexities of resolving disagreements, emphasizing that separation is not always a failure but sometimes a necessary step to maintain peace. Using biblical references like the story of Paul and Barnabas, Dan and Becky illustrate how even strong relationships can face conflicts that lead to separation while still maintaining love and re...
May 28, 2024•37 min•Season 4Ep. 13
In this week’s episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky explore the power of reconciliation in conflict resolution. Learn how to align your responses with Christ's character, prepare for confrontations, communicate truthfully, and listen to understand. Discover biblical principles for restoring relationships and the ongoing process of reconciliation. Whether facing personal disputes or seeking peace in your community, gain insights to mend and strengthen bonds. _______________ Episode Transc...
May 21, 2024•29 min•Season 4Ep. 12
Every human relationship faces times of disagreement, hurts, and wrongs against one another. How we handle those times can restore the relationship or rip it to pieces. Join us this week as we discuss how the first moments of any conflict need to start with managing our own emotional and physical responses before we can hope to address the other person involved. _______________ Episode Transcripts: Episode 1: Me First Like what you heard? Listen to the rest of the series here: https://podcasts.a...
May 14, 2024•26 min•Season 4Ep. 11
Ok to all our Trim the Wick fans we made it to final episode in our series 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage. This week we finish strong discussing Self Control. Understanding self control more fully as having mastery over you self, emotions, thoughts and actions leads to a more fruitful marriage. Lear more matthew257.com Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
May 07, 2024•34 min•Season 4Ep. 10
Episode 8 of our 9 part series on a fruitful marriage. This week Dan and Becky talk about the Fruit of Gentleness. Being gentle is more than just being soft or even weak around each other. Gentleness requires strength and a standing with your spouse when they are going through troubles. Learn More @ matthew257.com Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Apr 30, 2024•32 min•Season 4Ep. 9
Being Faithfull is so much more than your physical actions. Faithfulness is about your character and does it match God's character. Faithfulness is where you wedding vows become a part of your marriage. Learn more www.matthew257.com Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Apr 23, 2024•32 min•Season 4Ep. 8
I do something for her, she does something for me... I thought marriage was all about give and take... No not really. This we talk about Goodness and how powerful it is to just be Good to one another. Learn more www.matthew257.com Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Apr 23, 2024•32 min•Season 4Ep. 7
So if you don't say anything you are being Kind right? Well not really, this week Becky and Dan talk about the Trait of Kindness in your marriage. Kindness is draws a husband and wife closer together because space is given to grow. You are going to be blessed during this episode. Learn More www.matthew257.com Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Apr 16, 2024•35 min•Season 4Ep. 6
Over the years of being married I think that this one trait keeps the fighting to a minimum. But patience is not about a "grinning and bearing it" mentality. Patience takes work and discipline, and the power of Holy Spirit so that your marriage can endure. Learn More @ www.matthew257.com Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Apr 09, 2024•34 min•Season 4Ep. 5
This week we continue to build on the 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage. We are talking about Peace, but in the words of that brilliant philosopher Fezzik in the Princess Bride. "You keep using that word I don't think it means what you think it means." Peace in a marriage does not mean quiet and enough is enough... Join Dan and Becky as we look into the word Peace, and the beautiful music it makes. Please leave commits or questions in the chat. Lear More @ www.matthew257.c...
Apr 02, 2024•29 min•Season 4Ep. 4
Is there more than just striving after happiness? Is my marriage supposed to hit that dopamine button over and over again? What do I do when times are bad and I'm in a place of desperation? This is where Joy steps in and gives us strength to overcome even in the worst of situations. This week Becky and I talk about having Joy in your marriage and why it is essential. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!...
Mar 26, 2024•26 min•Season 4Ep. 3
Welcome back the the Trim the Wick podcast. This week we start a series about marriage. Becky and I have been married for over 33 years and have a lot of experience of doing marriage right and wrong. We have four children who are all adults and a list of life's ups and downs, from military, college moving across country to being homeless we have experienced a lot. In this series we what to share with you the things that we have learned and to help you to have a fruitful marriage. This week ...
Mar 19, 2024•38 min•Season 4Ep. 2
Welcome to the new Trim the Wick podcast. This is our first podcast where we will be discussing out name Trim the Wick. We will be diving into Matthew 25 as Jesus tells the parable of the ten virgins. We will be sharing about our community and what is to come. Please leave commits and ask questions you would like us to address. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Mar 12, 2024•40 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Join us around the kitchen table for a discussion about having real Peace. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Sep 04, 2023•28 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Becky and I see the gift of determination at work in a friend's baby; even grown-ups can learn from baby steps! Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
May 06, 2021•30 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Years 15 to 30 as We look back at the hard times and amazing times. God is faithful and good. This weeks podcast was recorded during a thunderstorm at the Walt Disney Resort. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Apr 30, 2021•55 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Becky and I are celebrating 30 years of marriage this year. We go back in time to talk about the ups and downs of young married life and how to build a marriage that can last the trials of life. The Chosen update in two weeks, watch it and get caught up. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Apr 16, 2021•53 min•Season 3Ep. 6
A new family favorite show, and how washers and dryers and refrigerators teach some great lessons about what's worth investing yourself in! Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Apr 09, 2021•38 min•Season 3Ep. 5
This week we tie it all together with the 3rd and final episode in our series. Join us as we see how God gives a picture of His promise in the salvation of the Israelites from Egypt...and how Jesus shows Himself as the fulfillment of that promise during His last Passover meal with the disciples. Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!
Apr 01, 2021•33 min•Season 3Ep. 4
