In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign take on a dynamic that many women have experienced but few openly name. Pick-Me women are NOT your friends. Together, they unpack how male centered women shape their identities around validation, approval, and proximity to men, and how that mindset impacts the women around them. The hosts explore the emotional toll of these friendships, the social conditioning that creates them, and why distancing yourself from pick-me be...
Mar 09, 2026•2 hr 5 min•Ep. 70
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by special guest Sierra Thompson , also known as BLKGRLBLKGRL, for a sharp and necessary conversation about a controversial question. Are men socialized to cheat? Together, they unpack how patriarchal conditioning shapes male identity, how infidelity becomes normalized in male peer groups, and why women are often taught to endure betrayal rather than demand accountability. Sierra brings cultural analysis and so...
Mar 02, 2026•1 hr 47 min•Ep. 69
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by special guest Lizzy B for a powerful conversation about the hidden costs of being male centered. Together, they unpack how male centered thinking is socialized into women from childhood, how it masquerades as empowerment, and why it ultimately becomes its own punishment. Lizzy shares her personal journey of unlearning validation seeking, breaking free from patriarchal expectations, and reconstructing self wo...
Feb 23, 2026•2 hr 1 min•Ep. 68
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign confront one of the loudest cultural talking points of the moment, the so called male loneliness epidemic. They break down why women are increasingly being asked to care, nurture, rehabilitate, and emotionally support men who refuse to evolve. The conversation examines how patriarchy created male dependency on women for emotional regulation, social connection, and purpose, and why women are no longer willing to sacrifice ...
Feb 16, 2026•1 hr 44 min•Ep. 67
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign tackle a question many women quietly wrestle with their entire lives. Are you over invested in men? This discussion will break down how women are socialized to pour time, energy, emotional labor, and identity into men and relationships at the expense of their own safety, growth, and fulfillment. The discussion also explores how over investment shows up emotionally, financially, sexually, and psychologically, and why so ma...
Feb 09, 2026•1 hr 50 min•Ep. 66
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign invite listeners into a provocative thought experiment. What if women treated men the way men currently treat women? By flipping gendered power dynamics on their head, the hosts explore how normalized violence, entitlement, sexual double standards, and media narratives suddenly become absurd when the roles are reversed. The episode exposes how deeply ingrained misogyny shapes public reactions to harm, accountability, sexu...
Feb 02, 2026•1 hr 48 min•Ep. 65
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome special guest BurbnBougie for a clear eyed conversation about the future of women’s rights and whether they are built to endure. Through the lens of Gen Z culture, shifting political divides between young men and women, declining birth rates, and emerging social trends, the discussion explores how younger generations are reshaping power, labor, relationships, and resistance. Together, they examine how trad wife cu...
Jan 26, 2026•1 hr 54 min•Ep. 64
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome special guest Abby Eckel for a deep dive into why women are still expected to do everything. From domestic labor to emotional labor to the invisible mental load, the conversation unpacks how women, especially mothers, are systematically conditioned to carry responsibilities men routinely avoid. Together, they explore how this imbalance impacts women’s health, relationships, financial security, and sense of self, a...
Jan 19, 2026•1 hr 48 min•Ep. 63
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign dive into the tension between feminism and Christianity, unpacking whether the two can truly coexist. They examine how patriarchal power structures within organized religion shape women’s roles, beliefs, and expectations, and question the growing trend of women promoting “traditional values” while benefiting from feminist progress. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss updates on the felony strangulation charges against St...
Jan 12, 2026•2 hr 1 min•Ep. 62
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign explore what womanhood looks like when it is no longer shaped by patriarchy, the male gaze, or the need for male approval. Together, they break down how women are conditioned to perform, shrink, and self police, and what it actually means to live authentically, freely, and on your own terms. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the killing of Imani Smith, a Broadway actress best known for her work in The Lio...
Jan 05, 2026•1 hr 46 min•Ep. 61
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by special guest Queen Sovereign for a direct and unfiltered conversation about the fragile male ego and the ways it shapes men’s behavior, relationships, and reactions to women’s autonomy. Together, they examine how ego, entitlement, and insecurity often drive harm, control, and disrespect toward women, and why those patterns are so rarely challenged. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign break down a cha...
Dec 29, 2025•1 hr 58 min•Ep. 60
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign take on one of the most persistent myths men love to repeat: that they are simple, low maintenance, and easy to please, and that women are the ones who make life complicated. Together, they unpack how this narrative functions as a form of gaslighting that shifts responsibility, emotional labor, and accountability onto women. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss the tragic passing connected to Rob and Michele Reiner and wh...
Dec 22, 2025•1 hr 43 min•Ep. 59
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast , hosts Lisa and Sovereign sit down with special guest Mel Hamlett to explore what it really looks like for women to survive and succeed in male-dominated fields. Mel shares the highs, lows, and hard-won lessons from her adventurous career, revealing the unspoken rules, power dynamics, and emotional labor women are expected to navigate. But first, in Tea Time, they break down a new poll showing teen girls are losing interest in marriage, why older...
Dec 15, 2025•1 hr 55 min•Ep. 58
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast , hosts Lisa and Sovereign explore what it looks like for women to decenter men in everyday life and relationships. Decentering men is not a single action but a result of prioritizing women's autonomy and needs while deconstructing patriarchal norms. This episode breaks down practical steps, mindset shifts, and the empowering outcomes of putting yourself first. But first, in Tea Time, they respond to a listener voicemail about women taking their h...
Dec 08, 2025•1 hr 47 min•Ep. 57
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast , hosts Lisa and Sovereign dig into the cultural lie that women can “have it all,” breaking down how this expectation was built for women to fail. From impossible workplace standards to the emotional labor of relationships, the hosts unpack how patriarchal systems shape what women are told to value and why more women are redefining success on their own terms. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss far right podcaster Andrew Wilson losing control whe...
Dec 01, 2025•1 hr 30 min•Ep. 56
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast , hosts Lisa and Sovereign sit down with special guest Therese Lee to unpack her new series, Witches, Whores, and Rebels, which explores how history repeats itself whenever powerful systems begin to break down. Again and again, women become the targets. From early witch hunts to modern political scapegoating, Therese examines how economic collapse, social panic, and patriarchal control create the same cycle throughout time. But first, in Tea Time,...
Nov 24, 2025•1 hr 40 min•Ep. 55
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast , hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome special guest Amarachi , a viral “villain era” dating coach who’s redefining what it means for women to date on their own terms. Together, they unpack how embracing your so-called “villain era” isn’t about being heartless — it’s about rejecting people-pleasing, prioritizing your happiness, and refusing to apologize for your standards. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts break down the Democrats caving to Trump on t...
Nov 17, 2025•1 hr 52 min•Ep. 54
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast , hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack how religion has long been used to control women, and how deconstructing those beliefs can lead to empowerment and freedom. They dive into how patriarchal interpretations of faith shape women’s roles, self worth, and choices, and what it takes to spiritually and emotionally reclaim your voice. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss the world’s first AI government minister, Mariah Carey’s controversial new Chris...
Nov 10, 2025•1 hr 48 min•Ep. 53
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast , hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the cultural shift around the term “girl’s girl”. Once a symbol of loyalty and sisterhood, now sometimes used as an insult. They explore what happened to “girl code,” how patriarchy and social media pit women against each other, and what real female solidarity looks like in 2025. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss the viral TikTok “EBT Lady” on SNAP benefits expiring, the backlash to Megan Thee Stallion’s n...
Nov 03, 2025•1 hr 42 min•Ep. 52
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign sink their teeth into the world of emotional vampires — the people who drain your peace, your joy, and your energy. They explore how to recognize these emotional leeches, the red flags of covert narcissism and drama addiction, and how to protect your energy with healthy boundaries and self-awareness. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss the new “full bush” underwear from Skims, Mackenzie Scott’s major donation to Bla...
Oct 27, 2025•1 hr 38 min•Ep. 51
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the “Cool Girl” archetype; the effortless, chill, low-maintenance woman who always puts men’s comfort first. They explore how this myth was built to serve patriarchy, how it pressures women to suppress their emotions and identity, and why rejecting it is a radical act of self-love. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss Ayesha Curry’s viral comments about not wanting marriage or kids, the Texas State Fair backla...
Oct 20, 2025•1 hr 38 min•Ep. 50
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome back special guest The Public Offender to unpack what it really means to perform masculinity, and how this performance shapes men’s behavior, women’s safety, and the structure of society itself. Together, they explore how cultural scripts of “manhood” are reinforced by patriarchy, peer pressure, and media, and how redefining masculinity could free everyone from toxic expectations. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts...
Oct 13, 2025•1 hr 52 min•Ep. 49
What happens when a society has more men than women who want to partner with them? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the concept of “surplus men” — those left out of relationships, social life, and purpose. They explore how this imbalance impacts dating, marriage, politics, and even global stability. From radicalization to authoritarianism, the hosts reveal why surplus men pose one of the most overlooked social challenges of our time. But first, in...
Oct 06, 2025•1 hr 37 min•Ep. 48
Have you ever heard a man drop some bizarre terminology when talking about women? Words that sound more like a conspiracy than a conversation? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign break down the language of the “Red Pill” and decode the toxic phrases that reveal insecurity, misogyny, and control. They unpack where this manspeak comes from, why it’s dangerous, and how women can recognize the red flags early. But first, in Tea Time, they get into Jimmy Ki...
Sep 29, 2025•1 hr 44 min•Ep. 47
Have you ever felt like you're losing a piece of yourself in a relationship? Like the 'you' before your partner slowly fades away? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign are diving deep into why so many women find themselves in this exact situation, exploring the subtle shifts and societal pressures that lead to a diminished sense of self when partnered. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss the latest NBC poll revealing Gen Z’s gender divide on what succe...
Sep 22, 2025•1 hr 37 min•Ep. 46
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa , Sovereign , and Gwen are joined by special guest Amber Akilla ! Amber is a DJ, online personality, and unapologetic advocate of living authentically. In this epsiode, Amber shares her philosophy of being hot and having fun , centering confidence, independence, and self-acceptance as tools for empowerment. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts break down Judge Judy’s advice that women should always have their own money, Ciara adding ...
Sep 15, 2025•1 hr 45 min•Ep. 45
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa , Sovereign , and Gwen expose the dark underbelly of the “Passport Bros” movement, where Western men travel abroad seeking relationships with women in countries that often have less gender equality and opportunity. From exploitation disguised as romance to the illusions of “traditional” femininity, the hosts unpack how patriarchy and colonial fantasies intersect in this disturbing trend. But first, in Tea Time, they celebrate Gwen...
Sep 08, 2025•1 hr 37 min•Ep. 44
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign pull back the curtain on the “Manosphere”, the digital rabbit hole pulling young men into misogyny through algorithm driven feeds. From TikTok trends to YouTube pipelines, they explore how social media is shaping worldviews and fueling a growing crisis in how boys and men see women, relationships, and themselves. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss viral clips about women in male dominated fields, Offset blamin...
Sep 01, 2025•1 hr 49 min•Ep. 43
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast , your hosts Lisa , Sovereign , and Gwen ask the question, "Is motherhood a choice, or is it a trap we're all expected to fall into?" For generations, society has pushed a narrative about women’s ultimate purpose. But what if that narrative isn’t just outdated, but actively harmful? This episode unpacks the uncomfortable truth about the “choice” to be a mother. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss a new Chinese pregnancy robot expected to giv...
Aug 25, 2025•1 hr 41 min•Ep. 42
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast , your hosts Lisa , Sovereign , and Gwen are joined by special guest Nikita, also known as "Bimbo University" online. Nikita helps unpack the recent rise of conservatism and its attempts to subjugate women and roll back hard-won rights. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts dive into Halle Berry's ex-husband's latest comments about their divorce, a new male birth control pill, and the Kids Online Safety Act. In the closing Mailbag segment, they respon...
Aug 18, 2025•1 hr 33 min•Ep. 41
