What if we could find relentless joy and hope even in the face of profound loss? This episode is a heartfelt tribute to Rebecca, the inspiring host of "Love Is Not Dead Just My Husband," who recently passed away from cancer. Join me, Tiphany Kane, Rebecca's podcast coach and dear friend, as I share cherished memories and the profound impact she had on my life. Together with some of her podcast friends, we remember Rebecca not just as a vibrant force in the podcasting world, but as a person who m...
Nov 06, 2024•20 min•Season 5Ep. 4
In this episode, I talk about the complexity of the phrase "You are so strong" and the varied emotions it can evoke for Widows navigating the grieving process. Initially, it can feel more like a burden than a compliment, especially in the acute stages of grief. It's easy to interpret these words as pressure to hide our vulnerability and minimize our pain for the sake of others. However, as time passes, we may come to see this phrase in a more positive light. It's not about pretending to be stron...
Oct 21, 2024•8 min•Season 5Ep. 3
What happens when you're faced with the dual trials of terminal illness and profound grief? This episode is a deeply personal update of my journey through Stage IV Cancer and the emotional echoes of losing my husband, as I grapple with confronting my mortality and the complex layers of grief that come with it. This is a great example of feeling like you are finally moving forward in life and how moments of intense grief can still linger, casting shadows over your achievements. Join me for an hon...
Jul 02, 2024•16 min•Season 5Ep. 3
Have you ever felt like the weight of grief could define your entire existence? In this episode, I'm here to shake things up and challenge the traditional narrative of widowhood. It's time to reclaim the journey as our own and recognize that being a widow doesn't solely revolve around our deceased husbands. Yes, we honor their memory, but we also have a life to live. Widowhood is a chapter, not the entire book of your life and being a widow doesn't define us; it propels us forward into the next ...
Apr 29, 2024•6 min•Season 5Ep. 2
Join me on the Season 5 premiere as we finally get down to business on what it means to "Widow Your Way" In this episode we are going to talk about the Widow Journey, emphasizing one crucial truth: You are not dead, just your husband! It's time to embrace your loss, your life, and your purpose! Whether you're still in the depths of grief or ready to explore new possibilities, this episode is a reminder that the widow journey is about YOU. It's about evolving into the person you were always meant...
Apr 08, 2024•5 min•Season 5Ep. 1
The microphone feels different this time! As I struggle with my ongoing battle against cancer, I'm reflecting on this podcast and direction it's taking. I feel the need now more than ever to be more clear with my message and purpose. So far Widow Your Way has been more of an expression or feeling of empowerment for Widows, but not put into clear words. I have never wanted to be someone who gives Widow advice. There are no step-by-step guides here, no one-size-fits-all remedies—just the honest, o...
Apr 01, 2024•5 min
Growing up, I struggled with the concept of gratitude, feeling pressure to be thankful without truly understanding its depth. As a widow, this struggle intensified when faced with societal pressure to be grateful. I share personal experiences of downplaying my grief and masking my emotions to appear strong. This is a common struggle among widows – feeling the need to put on a facade while silently battling with our grief. Reflecting on my journey, I realized the importance of finding balance bet...
Feb 27, 2024•6 min•Season 4Ep. 8
In this deeply personal episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on a relationship journey that's been anything but easy. Over the past few years, I've stumbled, learned, and grown through the rollercoaster of love, loss, and self-discovery. From swiping right to clinging onto hope, I'm sharing the raw, unfiltered moments of navigating romance amidst grief. It's a candid look into the messy reality of dating after loss, where red flags are waved, boundaries are blurred, and self-worth is tested. Bu...
Feb 19, 2024•11 min•Season 4Ep. 7
A Valentine's Day Special ✨💖 Today's episode is all about love, laughter, and a little bit of magic – because sometimes, love finds us in the most unexpected of places. Join me as I share a heartwarming love story that holds a special place in my heart. In a two part series, I'll take you on a journey through my experiences navigating the complexities of dating and relationships as a widow. Though the road may have been bumpy at times, each encounter has taught me invaluable lessons about love,...
Feb 12, 2024•11 min•Season 4Ep. 6
My recent trip to Podfest has ignited a shift in my perspective! Podfest, a haven for podcasters, exposed a truth—I've been holding back. I believe fear of rejection has tempered my honesty, and it's time to change that. I'm recalibrating the way I fuel our conversations from behind the mic. Expect to hear the unvarnished truth, the kind that might ruffle feathers or challenge comfort zones, as I commit to a podcast that's as real as the life I'm living. As we move forward, I'm thrilled to unvei...
Feb 05, 2024•7 min•Season 4Ep. 5
When dreams are deferred, what does it take to revive them amidst life's harshest trials? Embark on a journey with me in the latest episode as I share the twists and turns of my life! From sidelining dreams as a wife to discovering my own strength as a widow, and now navigating a Stage IV cancer diagnosis. All the while trying to make a difference in the world of grief, one widow at a time! My story isn't just about survival—it's a masterclass in crafting a legacy that dances with hope, touching...
Jan 14, 2024•9 min•Season 4Ep. 4
You know that feeling when you give the best advise but don't take your own? Well, I've been struggling with my recent cancer diagnosis and how I'm supposed to be handling it. I'm just going to take my own advise and tell people how I feel and do what's going to make me happy! This podcast makes me happy and I want to dedicate as much time as I possibly can to it. I want it to be a positive reminder that life after loss can be beautiful and you should always, always widow your way! Because you m...
Dec 11, 2023•5 min•Season 4Ep. 3
Ever thought about what it's like facing your own mortality while dealing with the loss of a loved one? In this emotional episode, I share my personal journey as a Widow battling an incurable cancer. Join me as I navigate the ups and downs of grief, denial, and acceptance, shedding light on how tough it is to share this heartbreaking diagnosis with family and friends. This episode is a testament to my friendships and a reminder of the delicate beauty of life and the strength we have to find hope...
Dec 07, 2023•9 min•Season 4Ep. 2
Imagine life just starting to get good, feeling like things are finally falling into place. Seemingly worry free and looking forward to starting a new year off with a bang! And then the unexpected happens or should I say the unexpected returns! Just 6 weeks after my husband died in 2018, I was diagnosed with a rare eye cancer with no cure, Ocular Melanoma. As hard as the news was to accept then, it's even harder now with a new diagnosis of Stage IV Metastatic Uveal Melanoma. Out of all my journe...
Dec 04, 2023•13 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Life has a way of surprising us with unexpected twists that force us to reassess everything we once held close. Life just threw me a curveball – my Cancer has made a surprising return, taking me into an uncertain chapter of my life, a terminal diagnosis of Stage 4 Liver Metastatic Uveal Melanoma. I find myself grappling with the profound emotions that come with living with an incurable disease and the heart-wrenching realization that my journey has an impending end. As I step into this new seaso...
Nov 27, 2023•6 min
A year ago I announced I was starting a podcast. What some people don't know is that my brother Donnie gives me the courage to speak my mind. In this episode I'm baring my soul about losing my brother. As this grief is still fresh, I share the rollercoaster of our relationship, my guilt and regrets, realizing the very things that would drive me crazy are now cherished memories. This episode is a raw, unfiltered journey through sibling love, a tribute to the impact Donnie had on my life. If grief...
Nov 26, 2023•17 min•Season 3Ep. 12
What if Thanksgiving doesn't have to be a full-throttle, joy-filled celebration? What if it's okay to shuffle the traditions, to feel a little less than festive, especially when you're wrestling with grief or loneliness? This episode is a heart-to-heart conversation, acknowledging that it's absolutely fine to have an 'Unhappy' Thanksgiving. We challenge the idea that gratitude must be monumental, instead, inviting you to celebrate the seemingly small things you are grateful for. And above all, w...
Nov 22, 2023•5 min•Season 3Ep. 11
In honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, lets shine a light on the often unspoken and deeply sensitive topic of abuse, especially concerning surviving Widows of domestic violence. We explore the intricate layers of grief and healing that these survivors go through, and how their journey to recovery differs from traditional widowhood. These brave women may experience relief and even happiness after their loss, emotions that can be challenging to understand from the outside. It's a reminder tha...
Oct 25, 2023•10 min•Season 3Ep. 10
When we lose someone we love, we're often told that the first year is the hardest. But what happens when that first year is over, and we're still grappling with the void that person has left behind? After the first year Widows may find themselves feeling increasingly alone in their grief. Yet amidst the pain, there is hope and healing. As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the show You can now sign up for a small monthly subscription to support the show. Click the link above 👆 I would love to he...
Oct 19, 2023•10 min•Season 3Ep. 9
Grief is like an onion! There are so many layers! In this episode we unravel the multi-layered journey of a widow, and an often overlooked topic of widowhood: the grief for the loss of one's former self. It's not just about mourning a spouse; it's a journey of self-discovery and transformation. The message is simple: it's okay to embrace change and let go of who you once were. During grief and loss, there is also a chance for rebirth and growth. This episode celebrates the courage to redefine yo...
Oct 04, 2023•7 min•Season 3Ep. 8
In this episode I have a candid conversation with Divorcee, Josie Falcon of the Heavy Pages Podcast, and what unfolded was truly eye-opening! We found ourselves marveling at the similarities between the journeys of Widows and Divorcees. The only difference was my husband is dead and hers is not! While the circumstances of widowhood and divorce are unique, the emotional rollercoaster that follows is surprisingly alike. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that loss is painful for everyone, n...
Sep 27, 2023•31 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Are you ready to hear the unfiltered thoughts that often whirl in a widow's head? Lets talk about the cliché comments and thoughtless questions that are often thrown at widows. You know the ones: "How are you doing?", "They are in a better place", the list goes on. I'm going to give you authentic responses many widows may harbor and are just too polite to say outload. Just wait until you hear the most insensitive question asked! This episode is a gentle reminder that finding the right words to s...
Sep 21, 2023•9 min•Season 3Ep. 6
Grief is a universal, yet deeply personal experience. Like many of you, I've had my fair share of losses and not just from people dying. So for me it's not about comparing losses, but about acknowledging that each loss hits differently for each person. They all hurt in their own way. So why do we compare our grief to others? We are not here to compare scars; we're here to learn how to cope with our feelings. We should be supporting each other through the pain, no matter what form the loss is in....
Sep 06, 2023•15 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Have you ever wondered about the many ways grief can impact your life, not just emotionally but physically? Losing a partner is one of life's most challenging experiences, and as widows, it's easy to neglect our own well-being while navigating this overwhelming grief. Join me for a raw and honest conversation of how grief not only impacts one's mind, but the body as well. Through my own story, I hope to inspire you and remind you that self-care, however small, is a crucial part of healing from l...
Aug 26, 2023•12 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Few of us truly grasp the financial devastation Widows may face following the death of a spouse. In this episode we shed light on the realities of Widows having to adapt to a single income or no income at all. We discuss the misconception about everyone having life insurance and the tough choices that must be made to adapt to a new financial situation. However, it's not all grim. This conversation also uncovers ways we can lend our support to widows, both financially and emotionally. Perhaps you...
Aug 16, 2023•11 min•Season 3Ep. 3
As a widow, I needed a roadmap to navigate the chaos of grief. There were no clear steps, no printed guide, but I made it through the darkest times - and my experiences can help you, too. This episode is a raw exploration of my journey through the stages of grief. I share my struggles with acceptance, my evolving beliefs about the afterlife, and my quest for understanding the nature of death. In this emotional journey through widowhood, we also examine the confusion surrounding the stages of gri...
Aug 02, 2023•9 min•Season 3Ep. 2
What if being a widow was less about holding a marriage certificate and more about the journey of healing and self-identification? What about those who have lost a significant other but never had the 'husband' or 'wife' title? This episode is dedicated to challenging the traditional definitions and understanding of widowhood. Lets recognize the the complex web of scenarios that stretch beyond the dictionary - women who were in committed relationships but not legally married. Lets propose a new p...
Jul 26, 2023•5 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Ever felt misunderstood in your grief? Tired of the stereotypes and judgments that come your way as a widow? Well, Season 3 of Love is Not Dead is officially granting you permission to grieve in your own damn way. As your host and fellow widow, Rebecca, I'm here to provide a safe haven for you, where we can share our stories, challenge age-old misconceptions and erase discrimination from within and outside our community. Get ready as we tackle topics that you, our listeners, have suggested. Expe...
Jul 19, 2023•6 min
Taking a little break between seasons, I hope you enjoy this hilarious parody theme song created with my best friend's husband, Tyrone. Not only is he a constant source of support for Angie during her grief process, he also makes the time to check on me as well. I would have never made through the first year if it wasn't for Angie and Tyrone. The upcoming third season of the podcast is to challenge the norms, misconceptions, and stereotypes around this intense emotional journey. This season prom...
Jul 01, 2023•9 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Can you imagine the strength it takes to move forward after losing your spouse and battling cancer? That's exactly what I had to do over the last five years since my husband, Tom, passed away. Through the immense pain and struggle, I chose to live for our son, dedicating myself to helping him succeed and find happiness. In this raw and emotional episode as I share my journey of grief, growth, and rediscovering happiness. As I navigated through my own grieving process, I realized that I may not h...
Jun 22, 2023•13 min•Season 2Ep. 13
