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Decisions, Decisions

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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Episodes

EP 390: Monetizing Our Love in the Bedroom (Ft. Jade & Jamal)

This week the ladies are joined by OF extraordinaires, Jade & Jamal! Starting easy with the duo, the icebreaker gets into their OF origins, rating their “first time”, and even seeing which friends they’d bring in the bedroom. For seggs in the news, the ladies get into the SECOND most popular kink the US, and it smells. For the Heaux D’oeurve, Jade & Jamal get into their favorite angles, and how they got better with camera work in their videos. Heaux mail gets interesting as Jade and Jama...

Oct 07, 20241 hr 10 min

Whoreible Decisions: Olympic Dating ft. Anwar The Dating Coach

The Black Effect Presents... Whoreible Decisions! This week the ladies are joined by Anwar The Dating Coach! They start the episode off by defining the two types of women in a relationship, 3 boundaries to help secure a successful relationship and even attracting certain men to get into a relationship with. After figuring out the “investment” date, the ladies and Anwar get into giving gifts on the third date, interracial dating, unfulfilled relationships with our fathers, and much more! @DatingC...

Oct 05, 20241 hr 10 min

Ep. 389: Manifesting Love

This week the ladies are hitting back to back solo episodes, and manifesting LOVE. First they recap their outings together, seeing fans on the street, and sending love to every listener and viewer that says hello. After that, Mandii lets Weezy know she sees a good change in her after starting her relationship. For the Vanilla Ish, the ladies get into really bad dating tips, couples therapy on the plane. After getting into manifesting love, the ladies get into the heaux mail, and much more! Follo...

Sep 30, 20241 hr 14 min

EP 388: Good Dad, Bad Dad

TRIGGER WARNING /// Mentions Of R*pe & P*dophila @28 Mins This week the ladies are SOLO starting off with the troubles behind Love Is Blind UK, having the Florida coming out of the girls, and even why YG’s height doesn’t make it to Mandii’s hall pass. Trigger warning for the Vanilla Ish being based around new laws in Louisiana involving surgical castration laws. Weezy eventually gets into tips in the bedroom with braces & gauging what is a true “active” parent in this day and age. After ...

Sep 23, 20241 hr 23 min

Ep 387: The Root Of Gayness & Homophobia (Ft. Jay Jurden)

This week the ladies are joined by Jay Jurgen! Starting off with homosexuals in medieval times, gay people being washed away from the history books, & white people coming from lizards. After getting into Mandii’s MMF factive call, Jay & the ladies get into black men & queer activity, respecting lesbians, black men coming out to black women, and why HIV rates are high within heterosexual black women. Finally we get into pretty privilege paying bills & Gabrielle Union being conside...

Sep 16, 20241 hr 10 min

EP 385: The Quirks Of Joining A Throuple

Back to back SOLOS for the ladies, as we get into why Wolf has static for the ladies. Then we get into Dr.Umar’s tip for women that have a cheating spouse, followed by making sure to have good communication with your partner. For the Whoreible Decision we get into Mandii’s Throuple situation, and why she feels like we shouldn’t try to lead a life of monogamy, plus much more! Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pages I...

Sep 02, 20241 hr 24 min

EP 384: Weezy’s Bedroom Extravaganza

This week the ladies are going SOLO. Starting off Mandii lets us in on her official move to ATL this year, & why she’s trying to get out of New York. After that, for “Vanilla Ish” the ladies get into how often happy couples get intimate, gang wars (somehow), and being too invested in relationships. Before Weezy lets into the bedroom for her extravaganza, she gives us a tip of SELF LOVE. Then we finally get into Weezy’s first foursome with her man, ideal scenarios, how to properly prep and mu...

Aug 26, 20241 hr 10 min

EP 383: Figuring Out The Mount Rushmore Of The Black “Industry” (Ft. Anna Foxx)

This week, Mandii & Weezy are joined by the legendary Anna Foxx! Weezy breaks the Ice with asking Anna her favorite between her first scene and her last scene, getting into girl on girl and Weezy even gets into a first time experience with a seggs club. After that Anna tells the ladies about how she got into the “industry”, her first butt experience, potential alternative career routes, and even her ’Mount Rushmore” of Black C0rn! Anna surprises the ladies about her favorite way to make mone...

Aug 19, 20241 hr 9 min

EP 382: Why Romance Is The Bare Minimum (Ft. Mike The Poet)

This week the ladies are joined by Mike the Poet and start the episode hot with debating the issue of the “boyfriend phase” before marriage. After that Mike & the ladies get into compromising freedom with a relationship, love bombing, and the foundation of loyalty. After the Vanilla ish, Mike & the ladies get into why Mike doesn’t go into Women’s houses anymore, dating pet peeves, and why men and women don’t ever “listen”. For the Whoreible Decision, the ladies get into Mandii’s ghosting...

Aug 12, 20241 hr 32 min

EP 381: How To Have The Talk With Your Kids (Ft. Tara)

This week Mandii & Weezy are joined by seggspert Tara and get into seggs education for the youth and combating societal norms. First tackling the number one question that kids ask, info on PREP and DoxyPep, analyzing the lifestyle of kids who have parents that are in seggs work, and even going into the first thing that the ladies learned in seggs ed. After that the ladies get into classroom norms, the appropriate age to teach kids about seggs, the timeline of kids discovering theirselves, he...

Aug 05, 20241 hr 14 min

EP 380: Heaux Depot

This week Mandii and Weezy are going SOLO for this ep. They start off the ep going off on Chris Brown and the capacity of the “double back”. After that, the ladies get into Grindr outages, the state of politics, and the 8 benefits of eating a bit of kitty. Mandii lets us know of her recent adventure at the seggs club involving pipe cleaners and other tools, getting off on sounds, and so much more! Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whor...

Jul 29, 20241 hr 8 min

EP 379: Over 1,800 Moans (Ft. Mr. Marcus)

This week the ladies are joined by the c0rn legend Mr.Marcus. First the ladies and Mr.Marcus go into his 1,800 tapings, moments when business become personal, doing rough scenes, and even why Mr.Marcus wrote a book. After getting into his favorite c0rn scenario, Mr. Marcus gets into which stars got the best kitty, getting hit on set, setting boundries, and watching his own work. Lastly the ladies and Mr.Marcus get into going back into the business, proper budgeting for the set and cast, Icebreak...

Jul 22, 20241 hr 15 min

Ep 378: God-Fearing Freaks (Ft. Jozzy)

This week the ladies are joined by singer & songwriter, Jozzy! First they all start gauging each others gayness, getting into talk box and being someone’s first lesbian girlfriend. After that the ladies get into piercings in the bed room, why women are a lot more to deal with in a relationship, finding out Jozzy’s type, pushing sexuality acceptance on our parents, & getting off from tickling. Then the ladies get into Mandii’s Jujitsu photoshoot when she was younger, Jozzy’s opinion on be...

Jul 15, 20241 hr 15 min

Ep 377: Sittin’ On The Toilet (Ft. Mero)

This week Weezy & Mandii are joined by 7PM In Brooklyn & Victory Light’s very own Mero! First the ladies and Mero get into butt stuff after earning your red wings, why fingers are always fun in the bed room, pubes on veneers, and Weezy’s Wild Wizz story. After that, Mero gives us an in-depth look into his toilet journeys, and why men take forever in the bathroom. Mero’s starts questioning his kids’ futures in eggs work, why being late isn’t a big deal, and much more!Make sure to follow o...

Jul 08, 20241 hr 33 min

EP 376: Needles, UTI’s, & Turtlenecks

This week the ladies are going SOLO, starting off with your hate comments & why Mandii thinks some ppl should !@*U#!@( from the back. Then the ladies get into self-growth & the benefits of realizing potential PTSD from past relationships. After getting into the devil canceling your plans, the ladies get into male birth control and why you should be giving your man head. Lastly Weezy lets us in to why she really really really hates BIG NEEDLES plus more! Follow the hosts on social media W...

Jul 01, 20241 hr 8 min

Introducing: Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions

Hey, Whoreible Decision listeners! We wanted to share a really fun new show we think you'll love, Sniffies Cruising Confessions from iHeart's Outspoken network in partnership with Sniffies. Fiercely sex positive and deeply entertaining, Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is the queer sex podcast you’ve been waiting for. Every week, hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso invite you to explore the sublime world of queer sex, cruising, relationships, and more. See omnystudio.com/listener for pri...

Jun 29, 202455 sec

Ep. 375: Crimes Of Passion (Ft. Sistas Who Kill)

This week the ladies are joined by MaRah & Tax of the “Sistas Who Kill” podcast! Starting off the show strong on who of the two hosts would commit the “crime of passion”, then getting into how exactly they’d take their partner out. For the vanilla-ish the ladies get into the cases of Necrophilia & the crimes of “WOMB RAIDERS”. After that, the ladies get into the craziest cases that “Sistas Who Kill” pod have ever covered, even with one involving a man literally melting on the street, plu...

Jun 24, 202457 min

EP 374: Shallow & Spoiled (Ft Oloni)

This week the ladies are joined by Oloni across the pond to discuss the biggest red flags of dating in 2024 & even men living with their parents. After getting into the “Girth Master”, the ladies and Oloni break the ice with the best first date locations and the vanilla ish on insecure men. Then the ladies get into why black women date outside of their race less than black men, Oloni’s book “The Big O”, what you should be texting your boyfriend, how to be shallow and much more! Follow the ho...

Jun 17, 202448 min

EP 373: Fake Timbs On Set (ft. Nat Thurner)

This week the ladies are joined by c0rnstar legend, Nat Thurner! First the ladies and Nat get into requirements of men in c0rn, life after jail, and wearing other men wearing fake timbs on set. After getting into Nat’s start into c0rn, the ladies get into how he made extra bread outside of the set, getting tricked on after jail, and even a PR problem he saw on set involving interracial! Lastly Nat gets into handling a relationship while doing c0rn, tips for GangB’s, male fluidity in c0rn, strang...

Jun 10, 20241 hr 15 min

EP 372: Ozempic Is Getting Y’all Pregnant

This week the ladies are going SOLO. To start off we get into how wonderful Weezy’s hair looks, Mandii’s first time going overseas, and why the timeline has been so quiet about Palestine. After that the ladies get into why content creation can hurt real-life experiences. Then tensions rise on the discussion of how the average person still doesn’t get regularly tested. We got the vanilla ish spilling the tea on Ozempic and how it’s affecting you in the bed room, why you should have good liquor at...

Jun 03, 20241 hr 17 min

Ep 371: Right In The Bum (Ft. ShxtsNGigs)

This week the ladies are across the pond with James and Fuhad from the ShxtsNGigs podcast! Lubing up with the ice breakers, the ladies get into being in jail, getting pegged, never have I ever, and how to put a rubber on. After that the ladies ask James and Fuhad about their love lives after the fame & how the bedroom was like when they were roommates. Once they finish the differences between American & UK girls, the ladies get into standard kinks, smash or pass in the anime world, and w...

May 27, 20241 hr 19 min

EP 370: Squeeze Me Daddy (Ft. Vinny Guadagnino)

SUN MAY 26TH TwoGether Land! We are coming to Fair Park in Dallas, Texas! https://twogetherland.com/ This week the ladies are joined by Jersey Shore’s very own, Vinny Guadagnino. We find out off rip that Vinny loves black women, why being quiet is better in bed and how he got into smells. After shoots his shot at Weezy, Mandii gets into her oral 3zum & Vinny dives down the path of not liking condoms anymore. Then Vinny gets into spitting in mouths, being a voyeur, and his the size of his shm...

May 20, 20241 hr 8 min

Ep. 369: Finding Certified Tricks

SUN MAY 26TH TwoGether Land! We are coming to Fair Park in Dallas, Texas! https://twogetherland.com/ This week the ladies are riding SOLO & are getting ready for the summer. First Mandii and Weezy get into no-drinking dates and going out with a man who’s being BEGGING in the DMs. After Mandii’s surprise date going extremely well, Weezy goes in on her homegirl who ruined her own perfect trickin’ scenario in Malibu. Since heauxs don’t wanna look like heauxs no more, Mandii & Weezy give tip...

May 13, 20241 hr 14 min

EP 368: Catching Trans Chasers (Ft. TS Madison)

This week the ladies are joined by the one and only TS Madison! As soon as they’re done channeling their Florida roots, the ladies & TS get into experiencing life as a gay male and then as a trans woman, the culture of OBT & street walking, along with TS’s name change. After that TS gets into her dealing with Silicon poisoning, the culture of “Trans Chasers”, even TS getting into Feet. Finally the ladies get into TS, moving on from c0rn, why having a man with no social media can be a RED...

May 06, 20241 hr 12 min

Ep 367: Fixing The G Zone (Ft. Dr. Michael Reed OBGYN)

SUNDAY, MAY 5TH 2024 EartH Theatre! London, England. We are coming for our final show! So get off your fanny, spend some quid, and come see the bloody show mate! http://tinyurl.com/wun2p8v3 SUN MAY 26TH TwoGether Land! We are coming to Fair Park in Dallas, Texas! https://twogetherland.com/ This week the ladies are joined by Dr.Michael Reed who is a male cosmetic gynecology. While not only talking about his start in the medical field, the ladies get into how Dr.Reed builds his personal relationsh...

Apr 29, 20241 hr 14 min

Ep. 366: Blood, Ghosts, & Spirit Husbands (Ft. Juju Bae)

This week the ladies are joined by Juju who is a educator, historian, and Osun Priest. First the ladies talk to Juju about her dropping our school to pursue her “calling”, and some of the first spells & paranormal actives that Juju experienced. Then the ladies get into the meanings behind weird dreams & the potential use of blood magic. After using magic in the heaux lives, the ladies get into sleeping with a ghost, having a horny ancestry, and even making shrines. Finally, we get into a...

Apr 22, 20241 hr 20 min

Ep. 365: Full-Time Lesbian (Ft. Mal Glowenke)

This week the ladies are joined by Mal Glowenke, who just recently dropped her new podcast named: “Made It Out”. The ladies get into Lesbian love, Mal’s last time being with a man, Lesbian slurs, Lesbian wage Premium & why lesbians make more than other women. After figuring out the premium, Mal talks about what makes good “kitty”, personal preferences in women, having your first time with a woman, favorite toys, and much more! Follow Mal & Her Show: @Malglowenke @MadeItOutPodcast SUNDAY,...

Apr 15, 20241 hr 2 min

Ep. 364 Compromising Kinks

This week the ladies are playing SOLO, and start with trying to cut down on the cussin’. After the catch up, Weezy gives us a little “tip” on how to save money on parking tickets while taking back shots. The heauxdearve this week not only gets into compromising kinks, but also into those who love the “unalive”. The ladies then get into being touch starved & the importance of a cuddle buddy. Finally they touch on the benefits of a casual partner and much more! SUNDAY, MAY 5TH 2024 EartH Theat...

Apr 08, 20241 hr 11 min

EP 363: A REAL Voluptuous BBW (Ft. Julie Ginger)

This week the ladies are joined by Julie Ginger, the BBW Extraordinaire! First the ladies go into what is truly considered as a "BBW" in the content world along with the "Pick-Me's" that try to hop on the "trend". After talking about her weight-loss journey, Julie explained her line of content and the fun she has making it. "Big Back Behavior" is then questioned after the topic being brought up on the Breakfast Club. Then the ladies and Julie talk about the stigma of black men loving bigger whit...

Apr 01, 20241 hr 9 min

Ep. 362: Couple to Throuple (Ft. Maximo & Ash)

This week the ladies are joined by Ash & Max from the Peacock Orignial: "Couple to Throuple". First the ladies talk to Ash & Max about their experience on the show and meeting the singles/couples. Then they get into the Ethical side of Non-monogamous relationships. While talking about sharing People, Ash & Max get into the first person they ever brought home together. After Vanilla Ish, the ladies with Ash & Max talk about a recent hook-up ending with an ICK plus much more! Follo...

Mar 25, 20241 hr 5 min
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