Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com 00:00 - Start 01:01 - Tip 1: Pace It Out 03:31 - Tip 2: Fears and Expectations 06:17 - Tip 3: Get Uncomfortable 09:05 - Tip 4: Grow and Change 12:40 - Tip 5: Trust 21:34 - Lets talk about cheating... 22:47 - Wrap Up! Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: [email protected] CALL: (916...
Jun 25, 2025•27 min•Ep. 159
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Feeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel from Expansive Connection to talk about what it really means when your desires evolve and swinging starts to feel... different. 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book ...
Apr 17, 2025•57 min•Ep. 158
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever had a night that changed everything? 🤯 We did. One minute we were a normal couple, listening to a podcast... the next, we were plunging headfirst into a secret swinger party we found on Craigslist! 😳 Join us as we reveal the shocking, raw, and completely unexpected story of how we became swingers. We were nervous, excited, and totally out of our depth at this "Share Your Wife" party with total ...
Apr 02, 2025•36 min•Ep. 157
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties to navigating the rules and etiquette, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just curious about what goes on behind closed doors, ...
Mar 19, 2025•45 min•Ep. 156
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com With the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director at OPEN—a nonprofit dedicated to advocating for polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and legal rights for non-monogamous individuals and ...
Mar 05, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 155
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com You're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You’re not alone! In this episode of Swinger University , Ed and Phoebe dive deep into performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction (ED) in the swinging lifestyle . We discuss the psychological and physiological causes of ED, the pr...
Feb 19, 2025•53 min•Ep. 154
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from molecular biology to filmmaking, tackling taboos around sex, drugs, and identity. We explore how better conversations about consent, sexuality, and pleasu...
Feb 05, 2025•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 153
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and why it’s everywhere in the lifestyle. Learn about alcohol's lesser-known classification as a carcinogen, its effects on health (like cancer risks and h...
Jan 22, 2025•37 min•Ep. 152
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection to the surprising emotions that emerged, we explore how our feelings evolved and the lessons we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about the...
Jan 15, 2025•53 min•Ep. 151
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Navigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger University Can New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs and lows of NRE, offering science-backed insights and practical advice to help you enjoy the thrill of new connections without compromising your relatio...
Jan 08, 2025•46 min•Ep. 150
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Discover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe explore transformative topics like mindfulness in intimacy, the role of cannabis in enhancing connection, consent, STI prevention (including the dreaded HSV/Herpes), and expert tips for elevating your sex life. Whether you'...
Dec 25, 2024•1 hr 24 min•Ep. 149
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever been confused about a couple's interest after a party or dinner? Well no more, you'll be masters at approaching, connecting & sealing the deal. In this episode, we dive into the art of reading signals and confidently navigating how to close the deal with new partners. Whether you're new or seasoned, you'll learn how to interpret subtle cues, handle ambiguous situations, and ensure you're alwa...
Dec 11, 2024•39 min•Ep. 148
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are terms like "DTF" or "friends with benefits" shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics? Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the "friends" label? In this video, we explore the complexities of forming friendships within the lifestyle, discuss the challenges and stigmas tied to "DTF" and "FWB," and uncover how labels impact relationships. Whether you're navigating ENM, curious...
Nov 27, 2024•49 min•Ep. 147
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations, double standards, and when sharing experiences might actually serve a purpose—like building trust, creating safety, and helping others find compatibl...
Nov 14, 2024•37 min•Ep. 146
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Ever wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party hosted on a sprawling ranch, complete with a private theater, hot tub, and intimate encounters. Join us as we share the highs, the awkward moments, and the valuable lessons we learned about boundaries, trust, and safer sex practices in the life...
Oct 30, 2024•33 min•Ep. 145
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this powerful episode, we tackle a pressing issue: how segments of society attempt to impose their moral beliefs on others, particularly around the swinger lifestyle. From outdated adultery laws to neighborhood outcries over private parties, we explore the various ways sexual freedom is policed and judged by those who feel they must control others' choices. We also reflect on how societal repression impacts...
Sep 18, 2024•46 min•Ep. 144
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into the unspoken truths about casual sex in the swinger community. 💬 Discover how the quality of sex can vary, why many encounters leave you wanting more, and how you can enhance your intimate experiences. 🌶️ From exploring emotional connections and sexual techniques to offering five game-changing tips for better casual sex, this episode is pack...
Sep 04, 2024•38 min•Ep. 143
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, hosts Ed and Phoebe tackle the provocative idea that swingers are "rule breakers" in society's eyes. They explore how the swinger lifestyle challenges traditional norms around relationships and sexuality, pushing boundaries while maintaining a foundation of consent and respect. Listen in as they discuss the complexities of ethical non-monogamy, the misconcepti...
Aug 21, 2024•29 min•Ep. 142
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Maximize Your Fun at Swinger Events with These 5 Essential Tips! 🎉 Welcome to another insightful episode of Swinger University! Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they share their top five tips for creating unforgettable experiences at swinging events. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or new to the lifestyle, this episode is packed with actionable advice to ensure you and your partner have the best time possible. �...
Aug 09, 2024•18 min•Ep. 141
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Join Phoebe and Ed as they escape to the mountains for a candid discussion on the impact of social media on both regular and Swinger lives. This episode explores the addictive nature of social media, its effects on mental health, and how it shapes our self-esteem and body image. They also share personal stories and practical tips for a healthier balance, including alternatives for a more fulfilling swinging ex...
Jul 24, 2024•23 min•Ep. 140
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Join us in this exciting episode as we recount our mesmerizing catamaran cruise experience at Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica! 🌊✨ Overcoming our initial hesitations due to motion sickness, we set sail on a smooth, scenic journey along the beautiful coastline. From breathtaking sunsets to swimming in crystal-clear waters, this cruise offers a perfect blend of relaxation and adventure. Discover hidden caves, inte...
Jul 10, 2024•7 min•Ep. 139
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com It's not all fun and games in paradise. Phoebe and I discuss the challenges of pool time when trying to connect and flirt when both partners aren't right next to each other... We try out the Italian restaurant, hit the spa, and dance our butts off at a glow party. We also discuss the challenges of how desire is fluid, so matching up with others can be tricky. 00:00 - Start 02:36 - Spa Services 04:23 - Pool Tim...
Jul 10, 2024•13 min•Ep. 138
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Continuing our in-depth review during our week in Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica. Phoebe and I dig into some of the excursions (some of them are free too!). We take a trip on a glass bottom boat looking for Nemo and his friends. We all take a dance class to learn some local Jamaican dances. Spend more time at the pool. We even give you a little comparison with the Bliss Cruises. Did you know you can take a plane...
Jul 10, 2024•13 min•Ep. 137
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Welcome to another exciting episode reviewing Hedonism in Jamaica! Join us as we dive into our second day at the beautiful Hedo Beach resort. This episode is packed with unforgettable moments, including a fun-filled jungle photoshoot, lively poolside parties, and unique evening entertainment. Whether you're looking for a relaxing getaway or an adventurous escape, Hedonism has something for everyone. Don't miss...
Jul 10, 2024•14 min•Ep. 136
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Welcome to Jamaica! Join us for an in-depth look at our first visit to the infamous Hedo II resort. From the moment we arrived, we were captivated by the vibrant atmosphere, the welcoming crowd, and the array of activities that make this place truly unique. In this episode, we share our initial thoughts and tips for making the most of your stay, from travel logistics to packing advice. Whether you're curious a...
Jul 10, 2024•12 min•Ep. 135
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Welcome to Swinger University with Ed and Phoebe! In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the often unspoken pitfalls of the swinging lifestyle. From dealing with the regrets and letdowns to navigating the complexities of consent under the influence of drugs and alcohol, we cover it all with honesty and humor. Discover why it's crucial to understand the darker aspects of ethical non-monogamy, and learn ...
Jun 26, 2024•27 min•Ep. 134
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Do you love your community and want more events? Well, your beloved promoters may not be the event hosts you think they are. We reveal the dirty secrets of the swinging business and how some think it's a zero-sum game. We discuss how some swinging businesses hurt swingers and our community because the drive for money takes priority over doing what's best for the community. Support the show 3 Ways to get your q...
Jun 12, 2024•29 min•Ep. 133
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Phoebe and I have a love-hate relationship with chat rooms. Sometimes chat groups suck! Listen in as we break down all the things we hate about swinger community chats and forums, and some of the reasons why we think you might like them. If you're in swinger chat groups, or want to be, you may want to check this episode out. Be sure to join our growing Patreon community, and gain access to behind-the-scenes, a...
May 29, 2024•53 min•Ep. 132
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com If you've never been on a swinger cruise, adults-only cruise, or only been to resorts... you owe it to yourselves to go on a lifestyle cruise! What makes Bliss Cruises one of the best adult vacations you can experience? Tune in and find out! Interested in Booking Your Own Sexy Adventure at Sea? Choose from any of the cruises we have listed here to start your own sexy high-seas adventure. Enjoy all the amenitie...
May 17, 2024•20 min•Ep. 131
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com It's been a while since you've heard from us... We've been producing our Patreon episodes this whole time, but not our regular episodes. https://patreon.com/swingeruniversity Wonder what happened? Where we've been? What the future holds? Then you definitely want to listen to this episode. Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contac...
Apr 29, 2024•21 min•Ep. 130
