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Husband Material

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

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Episodes

Andrew Bauman: Free To Grieve (Part 2 of 2)

Today we have two Andrew B's on the show! Join us for a two-part conversation on how to handle beauty, how to go through grief, and how these healing journeys release us into greater freedom from porn. Andrew J. Bauman and his wife Christy started the Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma, where they "provide high-quality experiential, narrative-based psychotherapy from a Christian worldview." Andrew is the author of several books, including The Psychology of Porn, A Brave Lam...

May 25, 202018 min

Andrew Bauman: Free For Beauty (Part 1 of 2)

Today we have two Andrew B's on the show! Join us for a two-part conversation on how to handle beauty, how to go through grief, and how these healing journeys release us into greater freedom from porn. Andrew J. Bauman and his wife Christy started the Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma, where they "provide high-quality experiential, narrative-based psychotherapy from a Christian worldview." Andrew is the author of several books, including The Psychology of Porn, A Brave Lam...

May 25, 202036 min

Five Failures of Purity Culture

Discover 5 reasons why I believe purity culture is the number one enemy of freedom from porn. Sexuality Meets Discipleship ebook: https://www.drewboa.com/ebook What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step ...

May 18, 202012 min

Sathiya Sam: Free To Choose

Find out how Sathiya Sam developed emotional fitness, self-awareness, and freedom to enjoy his sexuality! Sathiya Sam is the founder of Deep Clean, where he helps men overcome pornography through a step-by-step process to experience freedom in their relationships, identity and future. Connect with Sathiya at www.sathiyasam.com What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journ...

May 14, 202028 min

Why Porn Is A Pacifier

Learn how porn functions as a pacifier, and how to outgrow it without fighting the battle. Download the Sexual Fantasy Framework here: http://www.sexualfantasyframework.com/ What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outg...

May 11, 20207 min

Why I Bought “Porn For Women”

Listen in on the surprising lessons I learned from a little book called "Porn For Women." Download my free course on sexual fantasies: http://sexualfantasyframework.com/ What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow ...

May 07, 20206 min

Should I Delete Instagram?

Discover if deleting Instagram is right for you. I want you to make this decision with confidence. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thank...

May 04, 20207 minEp. 19

Shawn Bonneteau: Free For Life

Find out how God delivered Shawn from deep self-hatred and saved his marriage. Shawn and Helena Bonneteau are the founders of Secret Habit. Their mission is to help young men and women heal from the effects of pornography. Listen to the Secret Habit Podcast . Connect with Shawn here: https://www.secrethabit.ca/ https://www.instagram.com/secrethabitministry/ What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show ...

Apr 30, 202030 min

Does Marriage Makes It Easier To Quit Porn?

Hint: the answer is no. Learn 3 reasons why marriage is not a solution to sexual brokenness. Visit Dear Young Married Couple for more amazing online content and counseling. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgr...

Apr 27, 20206 min

How to Process Your Past

This one simple shift in language unlocks massive transformation as you heal from porn. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for liste...

Apr 23, 202011 min

What's Your Attachment Style?

Discover your personal attachment style, how it affects your sexuality, and how it can be changed! For much of the content in this episode, I am indebted to The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast , hosted by Adam Young. Download Adam's excellent attachment worksheet here . What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube S...

Apr 20, 202010 min

Trevor Winsor: Free From Secrets

Find out how God healed Trevor Winsor from love addiction! Get the full video interview at husbandmaterial.com/trevor . Trevor Winsor hosts the Pure Desire Podcast. Connect with him on Instagram @trevormwinsor and @puredesirepdmi . What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Materia...

Apr 16, 202035 min

Four Ways To Reparent Yourself

Underneath every sexual struggle, there is a little child who needs love. This episode will show you how to be a father to your younger self. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-...

Apr 13, 20206 min

Same-Sex Attraction

Multiple listeners have asked me to address the topic of same-sex attraction. This episode is my response. It's not a lecture. It's an invitation to listen to your story. Get the Unwanted Digital Workbook here: https://www.unwantedworkbook.com What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Hus...

Apr 09, 202011 min

Where Do Sexual Fantasies Come From?

Your sexual fantasies are not random. They are telling the story of your heart. Listen to that story and your fantasies will lose their power! Watch The Sexual Fantasy Framework Video Series here What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mi...

Apr 06, 20206 min

Frank Rich: Free From Limits

Frank Rich destroyed his laptop to remove access to porn. What happened next? Find out on today's episode! You can connect with Frank on Instagram @thesuperhumanfrank . What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow P...

Apr 03, 202034 min

Should I Tell My Parents I Struggle With Porn?

Learn how to decide whether to tell your parents about porn—and a formula for EXACTLY what to say to them. Get your Top 10 Tools To Quit Porn In 2020 here . What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: ...

Mar 30, 20207 min

The Truth About Penis Size

Get the facts so you can stop believing lies you hear in middle school locker rooms. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listenin...

Mar 27, 20207 min

Four Levels Of Freedom From Porn

Discover your current level of freedom from porn, and how to reach the next level up. LEVEL 1: MISERY LEVEL 2: MOTIVATION LEVEL 3: MATURITY LEVEL 4: MASTERY What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: ...

Mar 23, 20207 min

Rocky Pisor: Free From Shame

Find out how God gave Rocky Pisor deep healing from shame after revealing the sexual trauma he endured as a boy. Connect with Rocky Pisor at www.regener8mentoring.com/ What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Po...

Mar 19, 202017 min

How To Handle Overwhelming Sexual Urges

Stop fighting your sexual desires so you can express them in healthy and holy ways. Watch my new free video series with Jay Stringer: THE SEXUAL FANTASY FRAMEWORK For daily advice, follow me on Instagram What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the...

Mar 16, 202010 min

The F.L.O.S.S. Method

Use this simple strategy to unpack your sexual and emotional triggers at a deeper level. Get the full video and the free F.L.O.S.S. worksheet at husbandmaterial.com/11 What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Po...

Mar 09, 20209 min

Ben Bennett: Free To Be Whole

Ben Bennett was addicted to porn...then he was addicted to sexual purity. Discover how God delivered him from both addictions to experience true satisfaction, intimacy, and wholeness! Ben is a speaker with JoshMcDowell Ministries. He is the author of Living Free and the Flesh Series. Connect with Ben on Instagram @benvbennett . Get the full video interview at husbandmaterial.com/ben . What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.co...

Mar 05, 202036 min

Ten Reasons To Quit Porn

If you're on the fence about quitting porn, this episode is for you. The 10 most powerful motivations to quit porn: 1. For Yourself 2. For Your Brain 3. For Your Body 4. For Your Values 5. For Your Faith 6. For Your Marriage 7. For Your Family 8. For Your Career 9. For Your Calling 10. For Your Legacy Check out more reasons to quit porn by visiting https://www.brainheartworld.org What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/wor...

Mar 03, 20206 min

Your Struggle With Porn Is Not Your Fault

In less than 10 minutes, I will try my best to convince you of this one thing: Your struggle with porn is not your fault. Don't believe me? Start listening... It's not your fault. It's your responsibility. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take t...

Feb 27, 202010 min

Accountability Is Dead

Discover why traditional accountability is dead, and learn 3 ways to transform it! What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!...

Feb 24, 20206 min

Cooper Cadle: Free To Be A Father

Find out how God gave Cooper freedom from porn to prepare him for marriage, ministry, and fatherhood. Get the video interview here: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/cooper Follow me @husbandmaterialmen What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the fr...

Feb 20, 202015 min

Three Secrets To Self Control

When you feel out of control, use these 3 strategies to regulate your brain and body: 1. Oxygen: Breathe Deeply. 2. Attention: Notice Sensations. 3. Attachment: Find A Safe Person. Download the FREE Self-Control Worksheet: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/8 Follow me! @husbandmaterialmen What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or w...

Feb 17, 202010 min

Thirteen Ideas For Incredible Allies

Wondering what you should do with your allies? Here are 13 ideas! Here's the exact worksheet I use for weekly check-ins: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/checkin And here's the book I mentioned: Unwanted, by Jay Stringer https://www.amazon.com/Unwanted-Sexual-Brokenness-Reveals-Healing/dp/1631466720 What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this ...

Feb 13, 202014 min

How To Find Allies (Without Being Awkward)

Learn 10 ways to find awesome allies (online and in-person) WITHOUT the awkwardness. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listenin...

Feb 10, 20208 min
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