Husband Material

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

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Episodes

Sexual Dreams

If you've ever been troubled by your sexual dreams, this quick episode is for you! Here are my favorite Bible verses to keep me safe from spiritual attack while sleeping: Psalm 4:8 "I will lie down and sleep in peace for You alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety." Psalm 63:6 "On my bed I remember You. I think of You through the watches of the night. Because You are my help, I will rejoice in the shadow of your wings." Check out The Sexual Fantasy Framework here: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/...

Feb 07, 2020•5 min

Six Myths About Masturbation

I'll share 6 myths about masturbation, 3 truths to hold onto, and my #1 tip on what to do! Wondering if your version of masturbation is healthy or not? Take my new free quiz: The Masturbation Meter https://www.husbandmaterial.com/m What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Materia...

Feb 03, 2020•11 min

Why You May Have Lost Your "Streak"

I'll tell you about my worst relapse ever, and how I avoided another one when my son died. This episode was recorded LIVE in the Husband Material Community! Want to join us for the next one? Get notified about future LIVE episodes by joining our community here: http://www.husbandmaterialmen.com What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podc...

Jan 30, 2020•9 min

Five Ways Your Phone Can Help You Quit Porn

Have you ever felt like your smartphone is holding you back from quitting porn? In this episode, you'll learn 5 ways your phone can actually help you quit porn. You'll transform your phone from part of the problem into part of the solution! Five Ways Your Smartphone Can Help You Quit Porn: 1. STAY ON TRACK 2. CALL A FRIEND 3. JOIN A GROUP 4. TAKE A COURSE 5. HIRE A PRO For more ideas, check out my Top 10 Tools To Quit Porn In 2020: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/top10tools What are you doing th...

Jan 27, 2020•9 min

Redeemed Sexuality (Live at Messiah College)

Here's the message I delivered at Messiah College Chapel. Culture inside the church promotes "repressed sexuality." Culture outside the church promotes "released sexuality." Jesus offers us something different: redeemed sexuality! You can buy the book, Redeemed Sexuality, here: https://www.amazon.com/Redeemed-Sexuality-Sessions-Transformation-Community/dp/0830821279 Check out my old Redeemed Sexuality Podcast here: https://soundcloud.com/redeemedsexuality What are you doing this Saturday? Come t...

Jan 23, 2020•29 min

What To Do When You See Attractive People

Download your free prayer guide here: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/4 What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!...

Jan 20, 2020•8 min

Should I Use Accountability Software?

Question: What accountability software should I use? Answer: Replace your stressful sexual surveillance with holy sensuality! But what about you... What's your #1 question about how to quit porn? Share your suggestions here: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/idea You might just be featured on a future episode! What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Liste...

Jan 16, 2020•8 min

Three Steps To Smartphone Safety

Get the video, blog post, and free worksheet at https://www.husbandmaterial.com/3. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!...

Jan 13, 2020•10 min

Drew's Story Of Freedom

Here's the interview with Patrick Carnes that helped me overcome sexual self-hatred: www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1pQfGD_MQI Here's the book I published, Redeemed Sexuality: https://www.amazon.com/Redeemed-Sexuality-Sessions-Transformation-Community/dp/0830821279 What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join...

Jan 09, 2020•13 min

How Long Does It Take To Quit Porn?

After sharing 3 ways to accelerate your freedom from porn, at the end of the episode, Drew will share his #1 secret to long-term sexual sobriety. Download The FREE Porn-Free Path Checklist here: https://husbandmaterial.com/2 What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Commu...

Jan 06, 2020•8 min

Replace Your New Year's Resolutions

In this episode, I'll help you replace your new year's resolution to quit porn with something better... a small-yet-powerful action step you probably haven’t been doing! Along the way, you’ll hear my personal predictions for 2020, and some wisdom from Star Wars Episode IX. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTub...

Jan 02, 2020•12 min

How To Rebound From Relapse (Without Shame, Stress, Or More Relapse)

In this video, you'll learn what a relapse is, and how to handle it in a healthy way! FREE Worksheet - How To Respond To Relapse: https://husbandmaterial.com/5 What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step ...

Dec 30, 2019•9 min

Introducing: Husband Material

Welcome to the Husband Material Podcast, where we help Christian men outgrow porn so you can change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship. My name is Drew Boa, and I'm here to show you how. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take...

Nov 12, 2019•2 min

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