It's the most triggering time of the year! Have yourself a healthy little Christmas with tips from Greg Oliver as shares the 4 challenges we all face at Christmastime, the CPR method for staying healthy, and how to redeem the hand you use to masturbate. Greg Oliver struggled for over 25 years with an addiction to sex & porn. Since 2009 he has been on a journey of healing and recovery. Greg is a certified Sexual Recovery Pastoral Counselor and the Director/Co-founder (with his wife Stacey) of...
Dec 14, 2020•39 min
Shame sucks. In this episode, Stephen Thomas shares a childhood story of humiliation, his struggle with porn and same-sex attraction, and how he found lasting freedom through radical vulnerability. Stephen is a husband and father who has had sobriety from porn for over 12 years. He has led multiple Pure Desire groups and is now joining Husband Material as a private small group leader. Stephen is passionate about seeing men who feel hopelessly buried by addictions come alive and realize the stren...
Dec 07, 2020•35 min
How does the gospel speak into sexual brokenness? This episode is all about who Jesus is and who we are as sexual beings in Christ. Free resource: check out my list of Identity in Christ statements with Scripture references included at https://www.husbandmaterial.com/37 Spoiler Alert: In the middle of this episode, there is a rap. Bet you didn't see that coming! In case you're wondering, the song is "The Cross (3 Hours)" by Shai Linne. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop!...
Nov 30, 2020•43 min
What's the difference between lust and love? Hear from Josh Glaser as he shares his story of healing and we talk about what it means to not just avoid lust, but grow in Christ-like love. Josh Glaser is the Executive Director of Regeneration, a Christ-centered ministry that helps men, women, and families to learn and live God’s good, holy, and beautiful design for sexuality. Check out Josh's podcast at regenerationministries.org/podcast Contact Josh to inquire about coaching at regenerationminist...
Nov 23, 2020•26 min
If lust is your lullaby, this episode is for you. Learn the unique reasons why porn serves as a sleep aid and how to find a better solution. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-o...
Nov 16, 2020•10 min
People say Matt and Laurie's marriage is impossible. Laurie's same-sex attraction and Matt's addiction to pornography almost led them to divorce. But this impossible marriage—and all marriages—are made possible by God. Laurie Krieg is a writer, speaker, and ministry leader whose mission is to teach the church how to approach sexuality with the gospel. Matt Krieg is a licensed professional counselor and director of counseling at Caring Well Counseling. Laurie and Matt are the authors of the new b...
Nov 09, 2020•50 min
Behind the scenes of sexual addiction, the inner child is running the show. Porn is his pacifier and lust is his lullaby. So who is this kid, and how can we help him heal? Join me and Eddie Capparucci as we discuss the 9 types of inner child...and why the road to recovery runs through your childhood. Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a Christian therapist who specializes in the treatment of sexual and pornography addiction. He's the creator of the Inner Child Recovery Process (ICRP) and the author of "Goi...
Nov 02, 2020•1 hr 1 min
What does it mean to "be a man"? What is true masculinity? Dr. Doug Carpenter cuts through the clutter and defines masculinity in a way that empowers men to be who we really are. Dr. Doug Carpenter is a clinical psychologist and the co-owner of Insight Counseling Services in Rochester, Michigan. He's the author of "Childhood Trauma and the Non-Alpha Male." Buy Doug's book here: Childhood Trauma and the Non-Alpha Male Doug will be joining us for a Live Q&A Call inside the Husband Material Men...
Oct 26, 2020•50 min
Learn the G.R.O.W.T.H. model for helping men outgrow porn: G = Going First R = Repeating & Rephrasing O = Observing W = Weaving & Waiting T = Telling The Truth H = Having Fun! What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: H...
Oct 19, 2020•42 min
How can we help the next generation develop healthy sexuality in a pornographic world? That's the question Rodney and Traci Wright answer on today's episode. Rodney & Traci are the authors of How to Talk With Your Kids About Sex. They're passionate about helping parents communicate healthy sexuality with our kids. In their work for Pure Desire Ministries, Rodney and Traci share their personal journey of recovery and hope based on 30+ years of experience as speakers, pastors, and counselors. ...
Oct 12, 2020•1 hr 7 min
Does the Sabbath seem like a boring, outdated obligation? It's not when you treat it like sex! Download the free “Design Your Day Of Delight” worksheet at https://www.husbandmaterial.com/design-your-day-of-delight What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3...
Oct 05, 2020•8 min
Guys, we're not the only ones who need to outgrow porn. Shout out to all the ladies following Husband Material even though it's meant for men! Whoever you are, you'll love this conversation with Crystal Renaud Day. Crystal is the host of the upcoming SHE Virtual Recovery Summit for women struggling with porn and unwanted sexual behaviors. Don't worry, men are invited too. Register for this free online conference at shevirtualsummit.com Crystal Renaud Day is the founding director of SheRecovery.c...
Sep 28, 2020•24 min
In this presentation, I'll share the most powerful way to change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship without fighting an exhausting battle. You'll learn: Five reasons why purity culture sets you up to struggle with porn The secret trick to "hack" your sexual fantasies and strip porn of its seductive power How to completely eliminate the risk of relapse (without getting accountability software or giving up your smartphone) And at the end...I'll introduce the all-in-one solutio...
Sep 18, 2020•1 hr 37 min
Men don't get hooked on porn...boys do. In this episode, I'll guide you through an exercise to help you build trust with the young boy in your heart who was originally exploited by porn. This LIVE episode is a sneak preview of my brand-new program, Husband Material Academy (HMA). To learn more, visit joinhma.com Not sure if you want to join HMA? Come to my FINAL free live class this Tuesday night, September 15th @ outgrowporn.com What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Regis...
Sep 14, 2020•30 min
Outgrowing porn is about so much more than eliminating unhealthy behavior. At the same time, preventing relapse is a necessary short-term skill, which you can develop and improve. In this episode, I'll explain three proven tools to help prevent relapse..and my #1 tip for how to use these tools effectively. Download the "Relapse Prevention Toolbox" one-page worksheet here: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/free-pdf-relapse-prevention-toolbox Get more free training at outgrowporn.com What are you do...
Sep 07, 2020•14 min
Do you binge on porn and then purge it all from your devices, promising to never look again? In this episode, you'll learn 2 ways to stop the cycle of sexual bulimia. More training at outgrowporn.com What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the fre...
Aug 24, 2020•9 min
What if you're dating someone while outgrowing porn? How can you support each other effectively? Join us for a conversation with Rosie Makinney on what it takes to save your marriage before it starts! Rosie Makinney is the founder of Fight For Love Ministries and the author of Fight For Love: How To Take Your Marriage Back From Porn . Are you a boyfriend or a husband? Invite your significant other to join Rosie's free confidential group for women, Fight For Love Fellowship: https://www.facebook....
Aug 17, 2020•33 min
In the porn you prefer, who's in charge? If you're usually dominant or submissive, have you ever wondered why? In today's episode, we’ll unpack 2 sexual fantasies featuring power dynamics of domination & submission. Apply for Husband Material Group Coaching at husbandmaterial.com/group What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast o...
Aug 10, 2020•37 min
What if your anger is not a problem, but a prophet with a message that just might heal you? This episode will challenge you to rethink anger so you can stop using sexual behavior as an outlet for eroticized rage. Join this week’s LIVE episode this Thursday (about power & submission) inside our private group for men at husbandmaterialmen.com What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husb...
Aug 03, 2020•8 min
If you're feeling frustrated and exhausted from fighting a battle against yourself, this episode is for you. Join me for a conversation with Cameron Staley revealing the power and practice of mindfulness! Dr. Cameron Staley is a clinical psychologist, porn researcher, and the creator of Life After Pornography, an online program proven to reduce unwanted pornography viewing in adults. Cameron specializes in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), an effective treatment for reducing unwanted porn...
Jul 27, 2020•36 min
This bonus episode will guide you through an experiential exercise in mindfulness. You can download the mp3 meditation for future listening at husbandmaterial.com/cameron . What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgr...
Jul 27, 2020•7 min
Have you ever struggled with ADHD or distraction? When you can't focus, freedom from porn becomes almost impossible. That's why in this episode, I open up about my own journey through ADHD, as well as 4 helpful tips that will take you from distracted to disciplined. Extended Training Video (Free From Day One): husbandmaterial.com/free-from-day-one Resources mentioned in this episode: freetofocusbook.com fullfocusplanner.com habitica.com What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop...
Jul 20, 2020•11 min
Have you ever been sexually attracted to something weird or uncommon? Have you ever wondered if it’s okay to pursue that sexually with another person? In this episode, you'll learn how sexual fetishes develop and what to do if you have one...with plenty of time for Q&A from members of our private group at husbandmaterialmen.com Want to win a free "fetish & fantasy" private coaching session with me? I'm giving one away to a random reviewer of this podcast. All you have to do is write a re...
Jul 13, 2020•29 min
Discover how Nick Stumbo found freedom from porn, even while serving as the lead pastor of a church! Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and Co-Host of the Pure Desire Podcast. He's also the author of Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey Of Grace , and Safe: Creating A Culture Of Grace In A Climate Of Shame . You can email him at nicks@puredesire.org In this episode, we walk a lot about the power of groups. Join a Pure Desire Group here: https://www.puredesire.org Join an ...
Jul 06, 2020•35 min
Learn my formula for finding great mentors who ask YOU to spend time together! Upcoming LIVE Broadcast: Sexual Fetishes. You're invited to participate in the recording of an upcoming LIVE episode about sexual fetishes, inside our private online community for men. Sign up to join us on Thursday, July 2nd at http://husbandmaterialmen.com . There will be time for Q&A, so bring your questions! What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandma...
Jun 29, 2020•11 min
This bonus episode will guide you through an experiential exercise in IFS therapy. You can download the mp3 meditation for future listening at husbandmaterial.com/jenna . Jenna's new book, Altogether You, explains the power of IFS from a Christian perspective. Use this link to buy the book and support her work: https://amzn.to/2TsNWK7 Connect with Jenna and get more free resources at https://jennariemersma.com/ What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In ...
Jun 22, 2020•13 min
Get ready for a magnificent conversation with Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Jenna Riemersma – my former professor and the first female guest on this show! Jenna also recorded an exclusive guided meditation exercise for us, which you can download here: www.husbandmaterial.com/jenna Jenna Riemersma is the Clinical Director of The Atlanta Center for Relational Healing. She is a teaching faculty member for the International Institute For Trauma And Addiction Professionals (IITAP). Her new book, ...
Jun 22, 2020•45 min
What do you do when you get an erection? Use these 3 tips to bless your body instead of cursing it. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Than...
Jun 15, 2020•7 min
Discover exactly what it takes to succeed in achieving total freedom from porn. This episode was recorded LIVE inside the Husband Material Community, a private online group for men outgrowing porn. To join us for future live episodes, visit husbandmaterialmen.com Download the Porn-Free Path Worksheet at husbandmaterial.com/23 What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journe...
Jun 08, 2020•29 min
Most people don’t realize the Bible talks directly about porn. In this episode, I’ll share three New Testament teachings on “porneia” and reveal the beauty and power of each one. What are you doing this Saturday? Come to our free workshop! Register now for HMA In A Day at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To...
Jun 01, 2020•9 min
