Hope. One of my mentors reminds me that when I am hoping, I am not in the present moment. This isn't the kind of hope that I am talking about. I am talking about the kind of hope that occurs when a weight has been lifted. Sometimes, we know that we have been weighed down and sometimes we have no idea how MUCH we have been weighed down. Join me for this episode about hope, listening and truth. Thank you, husband, for the edit and thank you, Joe Seiders for the music. *Apologies for the audio as I...
Jan 29, 2021•21 min•Season 3Ep. 20
This episode Jen talks about some advice her Dad gave her when she was a kid on the golf course and how it is SO appropriate for our current situation. During this uncertain time, it is important to get some exercise and create peace and ease around our thoughts an emotions. FREE Online Yoga on ZOOM with Jen | Monday - Friday at 10a PST | https://zoom.us/j/2775016158 FREE 5 Minute Meditations on Jen's IGTV https://www.instagram.com/jen.yockey/ or on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1490...
Apr 02, 2020•39 min•Season 2Ep. 19
Resolutions, Goals, Intentions... OH MY! Did you set a New Year's Resolution? Have you already abandoned it? Are you feeling guilty about this? Irritated? WHY did you set the resolution? Maybe we need to shift our focus to HOW we want to feel and then set goals/intentions/resolutions based on THAT. Resources: www.daniellelaporte.com www.thriveforeverfit.com www.jenyockey/books.com www.habitnest.com Thank you to my husband for editing this podcast and to Joe for the music!...
Jan 20, 20200•Season 2Ep. 18
Join Jen this week to discuss forgiveness, resentments and why holding on to all of it is bad for YOU. One of my favorite quotes is: "not forgiving is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to get sick." Another favorite quote is by Seane Corn about forgiveness: "You can't bypass the 'f#$! you' to get to the 'I forgive you." I think that many of us confuse forgiveness with condoning. Forgiveness has ZERO to do with condoning and everything to do with our own freedom. Thank you, as...
Dec 11, 2019•40 min•Season 1Ep. 17
Join Jen this week to discuss strategies to survive (and thrive) this Holiday season. Nine ways to thrive this Holiday Season: 1. MOST things you cannot control.2. There ARE things that are in your control.3. ALLOW vs. ACCEPT4. Mindfulness.5. Take charge of your thoughts.6. Breathe.7. Gratitude.8. Self-Care.9. Comparison is a LIAR.I read from a book called Prayers of Honoring Voice by Pixie Lighthorse. If you don't have all four of her books, you should get them. Holiday Support Group on FB: htt...
Nov 27, 2019•37 min•Season 1Ep. 16
This week we talk about doing the hard things. I talk about my recovery journey (briefly) and then I delve in to the idea that we are not at fault but we are responsible; we are responsible for our healing. Brienna Wiest IG: https://www.instagram.com/briannawiest Article that I read: https://thoughtcatalog.com/brianna-wiest/2019/10/trauma-is-not-your-fault-but-healing-is-your-responsibility/?fbclid=IwAR2mEsQUt1m5uP-hvp0yyMcJpaTIwC0_CurCUumr4OcFfnqR6iUco59UV0USHERECOVERS® Teacher Training: https:...
Nov 05, 2019•32 min•Season 1Ep. 15
Peace and ease are not "found", they are created.This episode, I talk about suffering, our shadow side, will power and how it all colors our life experiences.As always, take what you need and leave the rest.Inquiry: Is your will power cup full or empty?What things do you do to create peace and ease in your every day life?What behaviors do you want to adjust or change?Thank you, Jay, for editing and producing this podcast and to Joe for the FAB music!Want to meditate with me?:https://bit.ly/2n1Dc...
Oct 23, 2019•24 min•Season 1Ep. 14
Episode 13 | Contrary Action . Contrary action is simply doing the opposite of what your default response is. . In this episode, I talk about creating NEW neuropathways and how the simple action of just doing the opposite of what you normally do, can create those. . What do you want more of in your life?What choices are you making that are moving you away from that "want"?What ONE action can you take that would be the OPPOSITE of your normal action? . When you make the opposite decision, how doe...
Oct 08, 2019•29 min•Season 1Ep. 13
Are you overhwelmed?This episode, I talk about overhwelm; where we feel it, how to find solution and the truth about it.As always, take what you need and leave the rest.Inquiry: Where do you FEEL uncomfortable?What responses do you have to overhwelm?Are you aware that you are overwhelmed and that you are actually having a reaction?Thank you, Jay, for editing and producing this podcast and to Joe for the FAB music!Want to meditate with me?:https://bit.ly/2n1Dcpn
Sep 30, 2019•32 min•Season 1Ep. 12
The Fall Equinox. A time to reflect, prune what is dead and no longer serving us and plant seeds for the Spring! What area(s) in your life need a little cleaning and pruning? I love the Fall. It is a time of year (even more so than the New Year) to reflect, plan and prune! Join me this week to consider the areas in your life that you are considering change. Is it time to plant seeds or prune? Thank you, as always, to my husband for the amazing production of this podcast and Joe Seiders for the m...
Sep 23, 2019•30 min•Season 1Ep. 11
This week on Gathered Truths, I talk about:*Regrets*Reflections*Episode TEN!*Mistakes, Failures and Lessons Learned*Changing Direction Each micro decision we make has brought us to where we are today. Are you where you want to be? Do you want to make a shift?What decisions are you making right now that are moving your TOWARD or AWAY from where you really want to go? Thank you for listening! Would you leave a review or rate the podcast? Thank you to my husband for his RAD editing skills and to Jo...
Sep 17, 2019•31 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Standing with.Coming alongside.Holding Space. . This week, I talk about how to ask for what we need and how to just "be" there for someone else. . Article: What is holding space? Coaching Resource: Coach Jennie . I love guiding the meditations at the end of each podcast. I hope that you do, too. . Would you leave a written review? The more written ones we have, the easier it is for others to find the podcast. Thank you! . Thank you to my husband for the production wizardry he does and to Joe Sei...
Sep 10, 2019•31 min•Season 1Ep. 9
What do we REALLY have control over?This episode, I talk about square pegs and round holes, controlling behavior, suffering, mistakes and growth.As always, take what you need and leave the rest.Thank you to my ALL of my coaches throughout my life but especially to my current Coach Jennie Mustafa Julock for her continued guidance and support.Inquiry:What situation are you currently in that needs some re-evaluation?Are you staying in something simply because you have invested time and money in it?...
Sep 06, 2019•28 min•Season 1Ep. 8
I Gotta Feeling... "Yet it is no mistake that to suffer means to feel keenly. For to feel deeply and precisely with full awareness is what opens us to both joy and sorrow. It is the capacity to feel keenly that reveals the meaning in our experiences." Mark Nepo Are you aware of how you are feeling?Do you feel overwhelmed? Irritated? Disconnected? Angry? Emotions/Feelings are light houses. They are directional signs for us. They alert us to keep going, change directions or to STOP. Sometimes, the...
Aug 19, 2019•29 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Busy. Busy. Busy. "The day you decide you are more interested in being aware of your thoughts than you are in the the thoughts themselves... that is the day you will find your way out." Michael Singer Is your mind busy? Are you constantly bombarded by negative self talk? Do you analyze things to death? Do you spend copious amounts of time replaying scenarios over and over again? You are not alone. Join me on this week's podcast to discuss ALL the busyness and ways to manage all of the thoughts. ...
Aug 09, 2019•30 min•Season 1Ep. 6
Connection. Disconnection & Reconnection This week we explore the ways that we connect, disconnect and re-connect. AND how do we bring our favorite destination home with us?Join me for a chat about connection and then a brief meditation where the focus and attention is on ourselves.Enjoy.JenAs always, I want to thank my husband who tirelessly & meticulously produces this podcast and to Joe Seiders who created the music that is played. I get choked up each time I hear it.AND, if you feel ...
Jul 31, 2019•30 min•Season 1Ep. 5
When was the last time you were silent?Do you like silence or avoid it?This week on the podcast, I talk about my weekend observing noble silence at a two day retreat. I also discuss how silence makes us better parents, partners, listeners and friends.Join me for a chat and then a brief meditation where the focus is counting to 5. (easy peasy... or not.)Enjoy.JenAs always, I want to thank my husband who tirelessly & meticulously produces this podcast and to Joe Seiders who created the music t...
Jul 20, 2019•32 min•Season 1Ep. 4
One thing that I know for sure, is that change is certain. How we navigate that change, how we respond and interact with it, colors our life experience. If you are like me, you may label change as "good" or "bad", "necessary" or "painful". Maybe you like change.Perhaps you attempt to avoid it, ignore it and do your best to manipulate things so that it doesn't happen. Have you ever had the experience that the thing you so desperately wanted, you didn't get. And not getting it was the BEST thing t...
Jul 15, 2019•31 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Sometimes, we get lost and stuck in a rut. We stop living intentionally and end up living by default. In this episode, learn some language on creating space in freedom while making every day decisions... and how easy it is to overcommit without this valuable phrase. Spend a little time inquiring where and when you feel most free and when and where you feel less free and more restricted. We end with a guided meditation focusing on the details of our personal freedom and how to cultivate more of i...
Jul 08, 2019•24 min•Season 1Ep. 2
Creating space and balance for ourselves so that we can better navigate life's challenges, show up authentically and live a life that is intentional rather living a life from default.
Jun 28, 2019•17 min•Season 1Ep. 1