Sometimes, the weight of life's events calls for a pause, a deep breath, and a heartfelt reflection. Today, I'm holding the space to share a significant update about 'Come With Us' and to honor the profound impact my co-host Beth has made, as she deals with the unimaginable loss of her beloved daughter, Kaia. While Beth has stepped back to navigate through her grief—a journey with no roadmap or timeframe—we remember her warmth and wisdom through her countless contributions to the podcast and inv...
Jan 24, 2024•15 min•Ep. 162
Ever felt the allure of the unknown, the mysterious spark that tingles more than just your curiosity? Dara from the effervescent Pink Kink podcast returns to our audio haven to explore the electrifying realm of electro play and sensation play. Strap in for an episode that's charged with the vibrant energy of a violet wand and the insightful tips on how to safely incorporate these buzzing practices into your erotic explorations. Dara's expertise is not only invigorating but also educational, as s...
Jan 17, 2024•33 min•Ep. 161
Ever find yourself sweating at the thought of sharing your deepest, kinkiest desires with your significant other? Fear not, my fellow explorers of the risqué, because this episode of Come With Us is here to navigate the choppy waters of BDSM revelation with none other than Dara from the Pink Kink Podcast. Together, we're demystifying the intricate dance of introducing FemDom to your partner, sharing the ins and outs of how to approach it with both sensitivity and a dash of daring. Buckle up for ...
Jan 10, 2024•39 min•Ep. 160
Ever wondered if those 'beer goggles' are real or just a myth? Let me regale you with a tale from my own adventures in the land of libations and love interests. As we bid adieu to another stellar year of the Come With Us podcast, I go it alone, diving headfirst into the science and stories behind alcohol's notorious matchmaking skills. You'll hear how a study by the University of Portsmouth sheds light on the blurry line between buzzed affection and sober reality, and why you might just want to ...
Dec 27, 2023•20 min•Ep. 159
Struggling to find that perfect last-minute holiday gift? I've been there, and in this heartfelt episode, I go solo to give you the inside scoop on picking presents that truly resonate. It's a bittersweet moment as Beth is away, mourning the loss of her beautiful daughter Kaya, and I, too, am on the mend. Despite these challenges, I'm here to share the warmth of the season through thoughtful gift-giving—from season tickets to the ballet that show you've been paying attention, to avoiding those a...
Dec 20, 2023•18 min•Ep. 158
Are you in a committed relationship but feel like the romance is dwindling? Ever felt underappreciated or complacent in your relationship? Well, this podcast is for you! We have a phenomenal episode today where we tackle the big issue: how to maintain the spark in your relationship. We will walk you through the common pitfalls couples often face, such as complacency and feeling of underappreciation. We will also share some winning strategies like alternating date nights planning between partners...
Dec 13, 2023•35 min•Ep. 157
You remember Vivienne Rose from two years ago, right? Our favorite squishing smothering goddess graced our podcast with her presence once again. Vivian gives us an intimate peek into her glamorous life as a SSBBW model and her love for New York. With tales of her work trips and her preference for taking road trips over flying, she paints a vivid picture of her exciting modeling journey. We also got an update on her health after her illness during the recent holidays, and we’re thrilled to report...
Dec 06, 2023•38 min•Ep. 156
Join us for an enlightening journey as we uncover the profound impact of mental health on relationships and sexual well-being, alongside our esteemed guest, Dr. Stephanie Sigler, a renowned clinical sexologist and licensed professional counselor. We're taking a deep dive into the intricacies of the mind-body connection, unveiling how therapy can alleviate underlying issues such as trauma, abuse, and mental health disorders, ultimately enhancing overall well-being and sexual function. Navigating ...
Nov 29, 2023•46 min•Ep. 155
Get ready to shatter some taboos! Together with Erin, we're diving headfirst into the rarely discussed territory of sexuality and aging. Shedding light on the common misconceptions, we hold a frank conversation on the importance and benefits of maintaining an active love life at any age. Spoiler alert - age is not just in the mind, but also in the body. You might find yourself chuckling or nodding along as we share personal anecdotes and the silly things we did when we thought we were invincible...
Nov 22, 2023•28 min•Ep. 154
Ready for a tantalizing journey into the world of pleasure? We've got Sarah Tomchesson, Love Honey's resident sexual wellness advisor, on board this week! Brace yourselves for a raw and unfiltered dialogue that will leave you feeling empowered and liberated. From a fascinating walk-through of Love Honey’s cheeky advent calendar to an in-depth discussion on sexual wellness and sex toy usage, we have all bases covered. We’re sharing some playful tips that’ll help you spice up your festive season w...
Nov 15, 2023•44 min•Ep. 153
Step into the fascinating realm of psychedelics and their transformative potential with us, as we welcome Joe Moore, co-founder of Psychedelics Today. Together, we tackle the macho culture in professional sports and ponder the shifting perceptions around psychedelics, brought to light by athletes like Aaron Rodgers. Psychedelics could be the paradigm shift in mental health and sports psychology, enabling athletes to face mental health issues head-on. But how? The second half of our conversation ...
Nov 08, 2023•36 min•Ep. 152
Imagine a world where psychedelics are not just substances, but tools for healing, wellness, and sexual experience enrichment. Welcome to today's intriguing episode where we sit down with Joe Moore, co-founder of Psychedelics Today, who has devoted his life to exploring the potential of these powerful substances. We journey with Joe as he takes us from his days in software development to studying LSD psychotherapy with a Prague-based psychiatrist. We uncover how psychedelics could potentially re...
Nov 01, 2023•30 min•Ep. 151
Have you ever felt trapped in your relationships, yearning for change but unsure of how to achieve it? Meet Heather Claus, also known as Nookie, the author of 'Take No Shit,' who transformed her life by taking control and setting powerful boundaries. Heather's journey, from an abusive relationship to self-discovery and empowerment, hinges on her understanding of the undeniable power of personal boundaries. In this episode, she unravels her enlightening experiences, including her remarkable 127 f...
Oct 25, 2023•33 min•Ep. 150
We're thrilled to welcome the extraordinary Heather Klaus, aka Nookie, who has an array of life experiences that are as colorful as they are inspiring. Hitchhiking across the country, joining the carnival, becoming a successful author and entrepreneur, her journey is a testament to resilience, self-love, and the power of the human spirit. Together, we peel back the layers of her story, from her time as a carney to her unexpected experiences with ADHD. Heather shares her challenges and triumphs, ...
Oct 18, 2023•41 min•Ep. 149
Are you ready to embrace the unconventional? Come With Us as we explore the charged, fascinating world of unique sexual fetishism - we're talking everything from nasolingus to climacophilia. We don't shy away from these taboo topics, and neither should you. We've all had those sick days when we're not feeling up to intimacy, but what about sucking your partner's nose? Does that sound appealing? This is your chance to understand the good, the kinky, and the ugly of sexy stuff. Ever wondered about...
Oct 11, 2023•31 min•Ep. 148
Ever wondered if cheating can truly be "accidental"? This episode delves into that thorny topic. No judgement here, but we explore the boundaries that define fidelity, and how they can be blurred due to unforeseen circumstances, including intoxication. We're trying to bring a better understanding of how these incidents occur and the accountability needed in their aftermath. We proceed to peel back the layers of cheating, exploring its physical and emotional facets. Ever heard of a 'dry drunk'? W...
Oct 04, 2023•39 min•Ep. 147
Imagine the shock when a recent study revealed that nearly half of all Americans have thought of someone else during sex. What are the implications of this confession for relationship dynamics and gender inequalities? Are we on the brink of a sexual revolution or is this merely a reflection of our primal instincts? Join us as we expose, analyze and challenge the sexual thoughts and behaviors of the modern American. We uncover truths about why men tend to engage in sex, even if they're not in the...
Sep 27, 2023•33 min•Ep. 146
An electrifying journey awaits you as we venture into the enthralling world of pup play with our esteemed guest, Pup Cooper. We journey down the fascinating intersections of the pup community with impact play, unearthing hidden aspects of role play that can profoundly amplify diverse relationships. Listen in as Pup Cooper shares his wisdom on how role-playing can act as an extraordinary stress-buster while also providing a safe and consensual playground to unleash your wild side. This episode ta...
Sep 20, 2023•37 min•Ep. 145
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by Support Pup Cooper. Cooper is a Dr. Justin Sitron who coaches and councils those looking to explore puppy play. Puppy play involves adults acting and sometimes dressing as dogs to let out their inner canine. We also discussed: How Cooper found puppy play and other kinks Feeling confident while wearing masculine sports attire Cooper's first introduction to "puppies" Dressing as an athlete feeling good to Cooper after not being an athletic child Puppy play be...
Sep 13, 2023•39 min•Ep. 144
This week Beth and Aaron talk about ways to renew that spark in your sexy life! Every relationships goes through lulls in the bedroom, but knowing ways to come out of them with your partner brings strength to the relationship. We also discussed: Sexy drought in Aaron's marriage Self-pleasuring for women Men turning down their partner during a dry spell for revenge Holding out from sexy fun due to your pride Communication is ALWAYS key Aaron talks about watching the Netflix show "Sex/Life" and an...
Sep 06, 2023•40 min•Ep. 143
This week Beth and Aaron go over some sexy businesses that already exist for your patronage AND their own original sexy business ideas. Would you book an Air BNB that includes a basket of sexy toys and games for you and your significant other? What is a somatic sex coach? We also discussed: Pro Dommes Professional face sitters Financial Dommes Air BNB rentals for porn shoots Jizz Face Facials Naughty greeting cards AND MORE! Have a sexy business idea? Make sure you email it to us at comewithusco...
Aug 30, 2023•27 min•Ep. 142
Beth and Aaron are LIVE at Splash Takeovers Houston and are joined by Sex Goddess, educator, author and spankophile Taylor Sparks! Taylor has a background as a corporate speaker and since leaving that world has become a sex educator, sex goddess and author with her new book An African-American Guide To Ethical Non-Monogamy The How, Why and With Whom To Explore Your Expanding Love Styles. We also discussed: Taylor's enjoyment of spanking How Taylor began making organic products for athletes which...
Aug 23, 2023•38 min•Ep. 141
Beth and Aaron are LIVE at Splash Takeovers Houston and are joined by Krystal from Upside Down Creations! Krystal, her husband, boyfriend AND girlfriend are in a polycule and have also begun their own business Upside Down Creations making fun shirts, hats, tumblers and more for folks in the lifestyle and not in the lifestyle! We also discussed: Krystal and her polucule relationship Splitting the family between Tennessee and Florida Men having sensory overload the first time in the lifestyle Krys...
Aug 16, 2023•36 min•Ep. 140
Beth and Aaron are LIVE at Splash Takeovers Houston and are joined by Kim and Luke from Deviate Network this week! Kim and Luke are a husband and wife power couple that created the Deviate Network and they make their own lifestyle party games! We also discussed: How Kim and Luke got into the lifestyle Not experiencing jealousy of your partner in the lifestyle The Deviate Network is there for people to ask questions and learn more about being in the lifestyle the Boutique in New York that carries...
Aug 09, 2023•29 min•Ep. 139
This week Beth and Aaron decide to go over some of the more interesting sexy toys that are out there for your enjoyment! Would you use a pocket pussy that is in the shape of a human foot? How about a dildo shaped like the Eiffel Tower? Tune in and learn about what adventurous sexy props you can use to spice things up! We also discussed: Would fake feet work for someone with a foot fetish? Fake feet being in the same category as a dildo Insect shaped toys A plug for the hole of your cock Dick ext...
Aug 02, 2023•33 min•Ep. 138
This week Beth and Aaron are joined again by Bobby from Splash Takeovers. Bobby began throwing swingers (and lifestyle) parties because there weren't any close enough to where he lived and has expanded and grown into throwing some of the biggest parties for the lifestyle across the South U.S. and he talks about what it is like at a Splash Takeover Event. We also discussed: Splash Takeovers use 12-15,000 square feet of space at the hotels they book Security is a high priority at Splash and there ...
Jul 26, 2023•39 min•Ep. 137
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by Bobby from Splash Takeovers. Bobby began throwing swingers (and lifestyle) parties because there weren't any close enough to where he lived and has expanded and grown into throwing some of the biggest parties for the lifestyle across the South U.S. We also discussed: Bobby wasn't always in the party and lifestyle scene Bobby's first wife taking him to a swingers club How Bobby and his second wife, Jamie, knew enough of each others' backgrounds before gettin...
Jul 19, 2023•36 min•Ep. 136
Just before her trip to New Orleans Beth received a BIG shipment of dildos and she and Aaron explore and talk about the fun that can be had with them! Dildos can provide plenty of adventures for couples and are one of the most popular sexy toys on the market. Why should you own at least one? Listen in and find out! We also discussed: Shoutout to Blush Novelty for hooking up Beth with dildos for Naughty in New Orleans Beth enjoys using dildos for sword fighting The differences between a dildo and...
Jul 12, 2023•36 min•Ep. 135
Beth and Aaron are joined again this week by former Studio 54 DJ Rockin' Ronnie! Ronnie has come a long way since his days spinning on the 1's and 2's at Studio 54 and this week he talks about becoming one of the top DJs for Swingers Cruises, parties and other lifestyle events(like Naughty in New Orleans!) We also discussed: What does it mean to be in "the lifestyle" Working at a lesbian bar under cover of anonymity Meeting John Travolta What it's like to DJ on a swingers cruise How Aaron knew o...
Jul 05, 2023•41 min•Ep. 134
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by former Studio 54 DJ Rockin' Ronnie! Ronnie was one of the original DJs at the infamous Studio 54 night club in New York City and he has plenty of stories from his time in the DJ Booth. We also discussed: The history of Studio 54 Movies and documentaries about Studio 54 Cover charge to get in the club Doormen at the club having the ultimate say in who got in and who didn't Celebrities that Ronnie saw at Studio 54 Sexy fun and drugs being consumed at the club...
Jun 28, 2023•47 min•Ep. 133
