This week Beth and Aaron talked about masturbation! Wait...that's such a clinical word...this week Beth and Aaron talk about: choking the chicken, rubbing one out, badgering the witness, playing five-on-one, taking a trip to Palmdale or just jerking off. Whatever your favorite euphemism is for self-pleasure they talk about if it is or isn't cheating when you have a committed partner. We also discussed: Addiction to porn and/or masturbation Different reasons people rub one out Physical benefits t...
Jun 21, 2023•33 min•Ep. 132
This week Beth and Aaron dive into some men lacking confidence and how to re-gain it while becoming a 5-Tool Lover. Lack of confidence in the bedroom is the number one cause for bad sex and can lead to issues for couples. A man that is confident, NOT cocky, in the bedroom can make his partner's toes curl and leave her satisfied and wanting more. We also discussed: Being willing to try new things Men lying vs. Women lying Asking for honest feedback from your partner and being vulnerable Aaron's s...
Jun 14, 2023•38 min•Ep. 131
Elizabeth Dell is back this week to talk with Beth and Aaron all about sexting! What used to be dirty penpals that evolved to naughty phone conversations and now with just a few strokes of the keypad on your phone you can have a sexy conversation with someone through text messages. The founder of the Amorus App and nicknamed the "Sexting Ninja", Elizabeth gives her tips and tricks on having a sexy conversation with your partner via text message. We also discussed: How Elizabeth became the "Sexti...
Jun 07, 2023•36 min•Ep. 130
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by Elizabeth Dell, the founder of the Amorus App! Elizabeth is a filmmaker and producer who realized that couples need an app to help spice things up or turn the spark back up and the Amorus App does just that! Amorus is for already paired couples and features messaging, sexy games and even prompts for sexy chat topics. We also discussed: How Elizabeth came up with the idea for Amorus Finding intimacy via phone during the pandemic There wasn't an app on the ma...
May 31, 2023•46 min•Ep. 129
Viking is back again this week to talk with Beth and Aaron about why women cheat on their partners. Having been on the receiving end of a cheating situation, Viking offers his perspective to the conversation. We also discussed: Not being able to force a partner to love you Using cheating to bring an end to a relationship How much more difficult it is to cheat in 2023 than it would have been in 1950s and 60s Male partners not showing attraction to their wife or girlfriend Aaron tell his story abo...
May 24, 2023•33 min•Ep. 128
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by Viking ( you may remember him from our talk about pegging ) to talk about penis pumps! Viking was gifted one from Beth awhile ago and has found a fun new tool for his sexual adventures. He teaches Beth and Aaron about using a penis pump and the process of getting used to the suction along with the benefits he noticed. We also discussed: Having the pump on while playing video games The increase in cock size from pump use Taking a dick pick while fully swolle...
May 17, 2023•33 min•Ep. 127
This week on Come With Us Beth and Aaron take the sexy fun outside! What better way to expand your sexy repertoire that explore the outdoors with your partner? Whether you throw back to your teenage years and have fun in the car, decide to play in your own backyard or get a little more daring, bringing the naughty outdoors will definitely spice things up! We also discussed: The logistics of having sexy fun outside Beth having sex on a catamaran Aaron's sexy fun adventure outdoors What point in t...
May 10, 2023•30 min•Ep. 126
This week on Come With Us Beth and Aaron talk about foreplay! Sometimes overlooked, foreplay can be such a fun and adventurous part of the sexy fun! They talk about stereotypes of men not enjoying foreplay and how wrong that is according to Aaron. We also discussed: Women getting bored with the same foreplay routine Talking to others about sexy fun Using four minutes of foreplay with your partner The numbers reflecting how many women cum from PIV sex Foreplay is the drum roll to the main event B...
May 03, 2023•33 min•Ep. 125
Dr. Steve Bodansky joins Beth and Aaron for another week to talk about self pleasure tips and exploring the pleasure from the female anatomy. Steve studied to get his doctorate with Lafayette Morehouse in sensuality where he learned about human sexuality. We also discussed: Which part of the clitoris is most sensitive Always using lube when pleasuring your partner Using long strokes on her clit and labia Steve writing a book on self-pleasure due to his wife's Alzheimer's diagnosis Sex and orgasm...
Apr 26, 2023•33 min•Ep. 124
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by Dr. Steve Bodansky to talk about Extended Massive Orgasms! Steve studied to get his doctorate with Lafayette Morehouse in sensuality where he learned about human sexuality. We also discussed: Having time for a one-hour orgasm What is a Morehouse and how Steve studied sensuality Taking his first course at Morehouse Women in Morehouse needing to orgasm 100 times per week Learning how to pleasure a woman The anatomy of the clitoris and dividing it into quadran...
Apr 19, 2023•31 min•Ep. 123
Beth and Aaron respond to a listener email this week and delve into Adult Nursing Relationships or ANR. Plenty of couples find enjoyment in a breastfeeding relationship between the man and woman and some find more intimacy through ANR. We also discussed: Chemicals in breast milk Beth's proud of her boobs is ANR weird? Intimacy through ANR vs. Intimacy through sex Breastfeeding is not a weird act Using Fetlife to find an ANR partner Dangers of using hormones or drugs to begin producing milk Breas...
Apr 12, 2023•38 min•Ep. 122
Suzannah Weiss is back this week to talk with Beth and Aaron about "secret" languages couples share with each other as their relationships grow. Every couple you know has their own code words they use when communicating with each other and Suzannah talks about how they develop for couples and they delve into the orgasm gap between men and women. We also discussed: using different code words to replace sexy words terms Aaron and his wife use with each other stopping using code words could mean te...
Apr 05, 2023•30 min•Ep. 121
Beth and Aaron are joined by Suzannah Weiss to talk about the Four Lust Languages. Suzannah is a writer and certified sex educator and talked about how lust impacts our relationships. We also discussed: Erotic blueprints How knowing your lust language and erotic blueprint helps couples communicate Men's lust languages vs. Women's lust languages Erotic themes Using erotic writing to identify your core erotic theme AND MORE! Check out Suzannah Weiss on Instagram ! Questions, comments or topics you...
Mar 29, 2023•26 min•Ep. 120
It's the episode talking all about vibrators this week on Come With Us! Beth and Aaron delve into so many of the different kinds of vibrators and the different uses from each of them. We also discussed: Beth quizzes Aaron on the different types of vibrators The most popular vibrator being the Magic Wand Accountants being wild in the personal lives Vibrators shaped like dicks Sci-fi themed vibrators and toys Rabbit vibrators Cock rings and how long is too long to wear them Rechargeable vs. Batter...
Mar 22, 2023•46 min•Ep. 119
This week Beth and Aaron talk about how your sexy life plays a positive impact on the other aspects of your life including your professional life! Studies have shown over the years that those who engage in sexy fun regularly are more productive at work. We also discussed: Women feeling the benefits of sexy fun in their personal life more than men Both oral and PIV sexy fun making your feel good Taking the confidence you get from sexy fun over to your attitude in the workplace the old Enzyte comm...
Mar 15, 2023•24 min•Ep. 118
This week Beth and Aaron talk about date night and how to plan a memorable and sexy one with your significant other! No matter how long you have been together date night's and prioritizing alone time helps the best relationships thrive. We also discussed: Prioritizing your spouse before your kids Not making planning a hassle Taking turns planning date night Playing with power roles throughout the date Finding out what turns your partner on about date night Embracing PDA while out on the date Bui...
Mar 08, 2023•44 min•Ep. 117
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by friends of the show Mark and Ava! Mark and Ava are a married couple who decided to open their bed and bring in a 'unicorn'! Beth and Aaron talk with Mark and Ava about the process of not only deciding to bring in a third person but how they went about it. We also discussed: Mark seeing Ava make out with another woman for the first time Instant viagra seeing two women make out debriefing after each play session missteps during play and how Mark and Ava have ...
Mar 01, 2023•44 min•Ep. 116
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by friends of the show Mark and Ava! Mark and Ava are a married couple who decided to open their bed and bring in a 'unicorn'! Beth and Aaron talk with Mark and Ava about the process of not only deciding to bring in a third person but how they went about it. We also discussed: Ava was the one who wanted to bring in another woman How long were Mark and Ava into their marriage before they decided to open their bedroom When Ava's desire to play with another woman...
Feb 22, 2023•31 min•Ep. 115
This week Beth and Aaron talk about erotica! Maybe you've enjoyed reading sexy stories, but have the itch to write your own! They give you tips to help you get started put the sexy thoughts and fantasies in your head on the page. We also discussed: How Fifty Shades of Grey changed the views on erotica Stories that Aaron has written Getting turned on by your own writing Bad lessons on BDSM from Fifty Shades of Grey Don't try to write a porn script, write a story Using the slow art of words Not ov...
Feb 15, 2023•37 min•Ep. 114
This week Beth and Aaron answer a listener email about what to do when she loses her confidence. After getting settled in a relationship one listener, who shall remain anonymous, says his wife has lost her confidence due to changes in her physical appearance. We also discussed: How a smiling confident woman brightens every room everyone likes different things seeing body positivity at kinky parties different places to see different body types being celebrated finding reassurance on Reddit when s...
Feb 08, 2023•44 min•Ep. 113
This week we have part two with Stephanie from "Talk Dirty to Me Podcast" joining Beth and Aaron! Stephanie talks all about spanking and being a "spanko" including getting her spanking kink fulfilled outside of her marriage. We also discussed: Why she has play partners for spanking and not her husband finding a community to explore spanking on advice from her husband getting actually punished when being spanked respecting the boundaries of her marriage it's never to late to find what you feel yo...
Feb 01, 2023•39 min•Ep. 112
It's another member of "Talk Dirty to Me Podcast" joining Beth and Aaron this week! Stephanie joins the show to talk all about spanking and being a "spanko". Stephanie talks about finding her love of spanking, coming out about it to her husband and getting her spanking kink fulfilled. We also discussed: What is a spankophile How Stephanie discovered she was a spankophile growing up being a rule follower Stephanie getting spanked by her parents separating sexy fun from spanking Stephanie's histor...
Jan 25, 2023•35 min•Ep. 111
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by Kacey Samiee from the podcast "Talk Dirty to Me"! Kacey and her co-hosts on Talk Dirty to Me explore the world of kink and sexy fun and today they continue to Part 2 and dive into Kacey finding her first slave and becoming a domme and trying different things through her podcast. We also discussed: Meeting her first slave via social media different definitions of 'worship' Kacey's kinky life and sexy life not being connected Kacey's experience with Fetlife g...
Jan 18, 2023•34 min•Ep. 110
This week Beth and Aaron are joined by Kacey Samiee from the podcast "Talk Dirty to Me"! Kacey and her co-hosts on Talk Dirty to Me explore the world of kink and sexy fun and today she talks about how she and Beth met and how she ended up exploring kink on her own and starting a podcast. We also discussed: How having a podcast has affected Kacey's life sounding and the exploration of more intense kinks stapling body parts Kacey trying new things for the podcast being judgmental over other people...
Jan 11, 2023•40 min•Ep. 109
This week Beth and Aaron talked about the issue plenty of couples face, why doesn't she want to have sexy fun? Whether the flame has dwindled or completely gone out, they talk about what causes the drop in desire for sexy fun. We also discussed: Scheduling sexy fun distractions that lead to less sexual encounters between partners the different reasons or excuses given when she turns you down finding intimacy with your partner and exploring Beth's 5 Kinds of Intimacy birth control diminishing her...
Jan 04, 2023•53 min•Ep. 108
This week Beth and Aaron talk about the breeding kink! Breeding has become more popular in the world of sexy fun lately and they break down potential reasons why and how to have fun with breeding. We also discussed: How Aaron stumbled upon the breeding themed play the animalistic and primal urge that may lead to breeding being a turn on Beth's experience with breeding play in her past trying to get pregnant alien impregnation and fetish having a vasectomy to enjoy the kink without the risk using...
Dec 28, 2022•36 min•Ep. 107
Tina is still out this week, but Beth and Aaron are still here to talk about spanking! It's part two talking about the spectacular sensation that comes with sexy spanking! They go through a great how-to on exploring spanking with your partner. We also discussed: Not bailing out on spanking after the first experience Using safe words and making sure they are easy Best positions for spanking Going for a controlled sensation Aftercare for your partner AND MORE! Questions, comments or topics you wan...
Dec 21, 2022•46 min•Ep. 106
Tina is still out this week, but Beth and Aaron are still here to talk about spanking! One of the most popular sexy ways to play, they talk about how to bring up and explore spanking with your partner. We also discussed: different types of spanking how Aaron feels about spanking Beth's exploration of spanking in her marriage and out of it the history of humans using spanking for sexy fun bigger butts are better to receive a good swat! getting a high from being spanked the power aspect of spankin...
Dec 14, 2022•35 min•Ep. 105
This week Beth and Aaron talk about Santa's "Naughty List" and having sexy fun during the Christmas and Hanukkah holidays. What better way to get into the spirt and end the year with a bang than to explore with your partner? We also discussed: Is 'naughty' a better word than 'dirty' Couples file for divorce more in January, how to make sure you keep the spark going throughout the holiday season prioritizing your relationship with your partner ways to make Santa part of the sexy fun sexy fun puts...
Dec 07, 2022•38 min•Ep. 104
This week Beth and Aaron go through some of your emails and talk about what to do when your partner: acts 'crazy'; gets defensive; or stonewalls you in your relationship. What is the best way to remedy a situation when there is tension in your relationship with your partner? We also discussed: how to slow down the situation when your partner acts "crazy" being encouraging and engaging with your partner can help the situation using kindness, curiosity, and generosity to show your partner you care...
Nov 30, 2022•45 min•Ep. 103
