Click here to send us your victory and vices! What happens when two social drinkers ditch alcohol for a week and try every trendy alternative on the market? From $80 mushroom-infused sparkling waters to THC-laced "spirits," we embarked on a quest to find something—anything—that could replicate the social ease of alcohol without the next-day regrets. The results were surprising. While most expensive alternatives left us unimpressed (and occasionally with upset stomachs), one unexpected winner eme...
May 14, 2025•58 min
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Kaleb and Kyle bravely unpack what it means to return to Knoxville, Tennessee and Sonoma, California as gay adults who've built lives elsewhere. Their contrasting experiences highlight the psychological weight of hometowns for LGBTQ+ individuals. As Kyle notes, "There's a lot of trauma stored in hometowns for gay people." The hosts explore the fascinating psychological shifts that happen when returning to spaces that once felt limiting. They share vu...
Apr 30, 2025•1 hr 10 min
Click here to send us your victory and vices! What happens when a sommelier stops drinking for a month? Kyle shares their experience giving up alcohol for Dry January, revealing surprising insights about social anxiety, habitual cravings, and the cultural normalization of drinking. As a Level 2 sommelier whose job literally requires tasting wine, Kyle found themselves drinking every night – a glass after work that often led to more. The experiment wasn't just about health but about breaking auto...
Apr 16, 2025•54 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Welcome to Season 3 of Unfamously Unwell! We're kicking things off with a bang as we dive into what might be our most chaotic episode yet. Remember when Kaleb dabbled in witchcraft to help me land my dream job? The spell worked so well that I not only got the position but also scored a raise before even starting. We're talking candles, crystals, milk offerings, and magical aftershocks that apparently got me everything I asked for. Should I be worried...
Apr 02, 2025•57 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Music isn't just background noise—it's the soundtrack to our lives. On the last episode of 2024, we chat about our top-played songs and how they reflect pivotal events, from energizing gym sessions to emotionally charged concerts. Join us as we explore the magical resonance of favorite artists like Pink and Jess Glynne, and debate Spotify's algorithmic quirks. Listen to how these melodies have become intertwined with our memories, shaping our daily r...
Dec 25, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 21
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Inspired by the wildest, most unhinged moments of our year, we're bringing the drama with the Unwelly Awards. From our best (and worst) spending habits to hilariously awkward romantic encounters, get ready to hear the juicy details that shaped our year. We're promising you nothing less than a riotous recounting of our adventures, complete with the quirky charm of color stories and cornichons. Money talks, and boy, do we have some stories to share abo...
Dec 18, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 20
Click here to send us your victory and vices! What if a single holiday could become the compass for your personal transformation? Kaleb reflects on how Halloween became the unexpected marker of life's twists and turns, sparking joy, heartbreak, and self-realization. As we share experiences of personal growth, heartache, and new beginnings, you’ll hear about Kaleb's journey from a rocky relationship-fueled move to Cleveland to the bright opportunities awaiting in Seattle. Halloween serves as a ba...
Dec 11, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Season 2Ep. 19
Click here to send us your victory and vices! What happens when you mix modern dating misadventures with the magical world of Broadway? After a Thanksgiving filled with reflection, "Wicked" had us thinking about defying gravity not just on stage but in our own relationships. This week, Kyle's sister, Isabella, joins us to share what it's like navigating the dating scene as a Gen Z woman in Washington DC. Our conversation bounces from her humorous takes on dating apps to the quirks of gay culture...
Dec 04, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 18
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Happy Kylesgiving! This week, Kyle is giving us 9 things he's learned about life in the last 36 years. Why nine? Because his aunt was abducted by aliens, that's why! As we explore life's most spontaneous moments, we also peek into universal insecurities and the empowering force of confidence. The episode delves into the complexity of emotions, particularly anger, and celebrates the importance of self-acceptance and growth over the years. Relationship...
Nov 27, 2024•51 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Ever had a bathroom encounter that spiraled into an escapade worthy of its own episode? We certainly did, and we're here to spill the hilarious details! Join us as we recount an unexpected midday adventure that segues into a vibrant Pride kickoff party in Palm Springs. Meet the man who might just be Kyle's future ex-husband and enjoy a digital-age proposal via Grindr, all while brushing shoulders with RuPaul's Drag Race royalty, Mayhem Miller. It's a...
Nov 20, 2024•48 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Prepare this week to laugh as we recount the chaotic pre-Halloween preparations that include makeshift costumes and unexpected party advice. From turning into Lara Croft and a grandma to cash-only drinks and unexpected encounters, the night proves to be a whirlwind of spontaneity and friendship. As if the night wasn’t eventful enough, a surprise hookup among friends adds a juicy twist with an unexpected bath-time snack of corn. Our journey doesn’t en...
Nov 13, 2024•52 min•Season 2Ep. 15
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Picture yourself in Austin, Texas, caught up in the whirlwind of the Austin City Limits festival. We recount our wild nights and amusing mishaps, from charming local encounters to humorous language barriers at the local club scene. Get ready for tales of pacing ourselves through unforgettable performances, all while navigating Austin's vibrant nightlife and the delightful chaos it brings. But life's adventures aren't just about festivals and probioti...
Oct 30, 2024•57 min•Season 2Ep. 15
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Ever found yourself trapped in an embarrassing situation where your dignity is on the line, all thanks to an ill-timed bowel mishap? We certainly have, and we're not holding back! Here on our latest episode, we're sharing uproarious tales of fried food and unfortunate car accidents, all while reflecting on the tragic loss of pristine white Calvin Klein briefs. But fear not, dear listener, because these anecdotes are just the start of our informative ...
Oct 23, 2024•58 min•Season 2Ep. 13
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Get ready for a candid trip through our personal alcohol journeys, beginning with some raw confessions. This episode is a spirited exploration of our evolving relationship with alcohol. Childhood curiosity meets teenage awkwardness as we recount our initial encounters with alcohol, painting a picture of the social dynamics that shaped our perspectives. Join us for laughs about trampoline mishaps and the humor of high school parties, where a crush who...
Oct 16, 2024•47 min•Season 2Ep. 12
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Rewind to the days when balancing school, odd jobs, and taxes felt like a full-time circus act. We reminisce about our first jobs and the quirky tales that came with them, from mastering grocery store shifts to dealing with the unexpected at the zoo food stand. Ever wonder how a female tortoise's antics could lighten up a summer job? We've got stories that do just that, highlighting friendships that blossomed alongside bizarre yet endearing work expe...
Oct 09, 2024•58 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Tyler and Isaac, our fellow Seattle podcasters from "There Are No Gays in Montana," drop in this week to share their wild experiences; from working in Las Vegas hotels to their brushes with celebrity. We dive into how growing up gay has influenced our adult relationships, shedding light on the often comical and poignant moments that come with it. Journey with us through the touching story of two college friends from Montana who evolved from friends t...
Oct 02, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Click here to send us your victory and vices! WARNING: This week's podcast contains discussions of violence and rape. These topics can be triggering for some listeners. Listen with tissues and caution. Our discussion begins with at-home karaoke practice and a Tori Kelli concert and unfolds into an unforgettable night of encounters. A dramatic reunion and a humorous run-in with a familiar face from the past set the tone, but things took an emotional turn when we found a man grieving his recently ...
Sep 25, 2024•46 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Find out this week if Kaleb ever made his Dentist appointment and which celebrities Kyle ran into in Provincetown (spoiler alert! It was Tammy Brown and Billy Eichner). Ever wondered why gay vacation spots like P-Town or Puerto Vallarta hold such a special allure? We get real about the affordability, the unique dynamics in personal and romantic relationships, and the emotional rollercoaster that sometimes comes with these trips. With candid discussio...
Sep 18, 2024•1 hr
Click here to send us your victory and vices! This week, we're diving into the world of skincare, with Jamil as our honored guest and skincare guru. If you're like Kyle, and know next to nothing about skincare, then tune in for easy, affordable, and accessible tips and tricks to take care of your skin. In the episode, we reminisce on our acne struggles, share our current skincare routines (or lack thereof), and discuss our favorite products. We also dive into the pressure of looking young—especi...
Sep 11, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Have you ever sniffed out elk scat or found yourself illegally pocketing rocks from a national park? Join us as we recount our quirky and adventurous road trip to the Hoh National Rainforest, filled with memorable moments. From practicing baton routines to recounting the hilarity of "Big Mama's House," our mutual love for music serves as the soundtrack to our escapades. This episode is a heartfelt and humorous exploration of the songs that made us, r...
Sep 04, 2024•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 6
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Join us as we set up shop in our makeshift, beach studio in La Push, Washington, as embark on a whimsical journey through "Twilight" obsessions, the power of nature, and our dependence on technology. Do you rememberthe days of dial-up internet and the thrill of early gaming consoles? We take you back to those simpler times by sharing our fond memories of childhood outdoor adventures and evolving technology. We reflect on how these experiences shaped ...
Aug 28, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Relive the joy of childhood sports, on this week’s episode, as we recount our vastly different athletic upbringings. Picture one of us picking flowers on a soccer field while the other took on a demanding roster of sports from baseball to gymnastics. Our tales of family influence, competitive spirits, and the occasional misadventure—like a dramatic fall from a 40-foot rope—offer a humorous and heartfelt look at how sports shaped our lives. You'll hea...
Aug 21, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Click here to send us your victory and vices! We're keeping things light-hearted this week and talking about Death & Dying. This week's episode shines a light on the complicated emotions that emerge when you lose someone. We dive into the emotional, practical, and sometimes mystical aspects of death and dying and share our own personal experiences and struggles on the topic. This episode highlights the invaluable role hospice nurses play—from managing comprehensive patient care to being a so...
Aug 14, 2024•57 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Ever wondered how a wild photo shoot in Mexico could lead to a profound conversation on financial wellness? You'll hear hilarious anecdotes about Kyle's sister's spontaneous spending habits and her love for girl math, while we balance the importance of saving for the future with living in the moment. From 401k rollovers to retirement accounts, this episode offers a blend of humor and practical advice. Growing up with varying financial resources shape...
Aug 07, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Click here to send us your victory and vices! What makes a night of karaoke more than just singing? Join us as we dive into a night filled with laughter, unexpected talents, and memorable moments with the No Gays in Montana crew. This episode kicks off with an unforgettable karaoke night, where the lack of pressure turned everyone into a star. From Isaac and Phil's stunning "Red Wine Supernova" to David's energetic "Sex is on Fire," we relive the performances that left us awestruck. And who coul...
Jul 31, 2024•57 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Click here to send us your victory and vices! In this week's episode of Unfamously Unwell , join our fabulous trio on their journey to higher health as they sit down with the inspiring Lynsey Cole, the visionary behind the new clothing brand, Peace. Love. Local. Follow her on Instagram at @peace.love.local . In a world obsessed with defining who we are, Lynsey flips the script by sharing how understanding what you aren't can be even more empowering. We delve into her unique brand-building journe...
Jul 17, 2024•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 9
Click here to send us your victory and vices! On this week's episode, the Unfamously Unwell trio catches up over a double serving of Victories and Vices. Kyle recounts adventures and near misses from his trips to LA and Puerto Vallarta, and tries Chilis for the first time! Kaleb talks about his favorite recipe, adventures in Mexico, concerts and crafting. Send your victory and vice to unfamouslyunwell@gmail.com ! Follow us on Instagram at @unfamouslyunwell...
Jul 10, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Click here to send us your victory and vices! This week, the hosting baton has been picked up by Kaleb. He runs us through a series of questions about the nuance of dating as a gay man in the world. Send us your listener mail and/or victory and vice to unfamouslyunwell@gmail.com !
Jul 03, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Happy Pride Month, friends! This week, in continuation of the coming out stories, you'll get to hear from Kaleb and Kyle. It's a long one. We know. And we decided to make it longer by recording a fresh victory and vice. Send us your victory and vice to unfamouslyunwell@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @unfamouslyunwell You can find the boys on Instagram as well: Kyle - @kyleprydeweber, Kaleb - @bruce_kaleb. Thanks for tuning in!...
Jun 26, 2024•1 hr 13 min•Season 1Ep. 6
Click here to send us your victory and vices! Hey there, Unfamous Crew! Happy Pride Month! In celebration of this gay holiday month, we are telling our coming out stories in two parts. This week you get to hear about Kyle's journey along with some fun tidbits along the way. Tune in to learn why one of the gayest places in the world is a lockerroom full of straight men, some different ways to find your next therapist, and how religion might keep you in the closet longer than you'd like. Thank you...
Jun 19, 2024•44 min•Season 1Ep. 5
