This is one of the most commonly asked questions: How often should married couples be having sex and what is ideal to achieve the greatest happiness? In this episode Nick and Amy share the poll results from their audience asking this question, and also share what MANY experts and studies have shown to back it up. We think this episode can be a great help to finding a balance in your relationship that works for you both. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app st...
Oct 06, 2023•30 min
There are so many things that keeps couples from "connecting" in their marriages. To find that connection, we often need to "disconnect" from the things in our marriage that are causing the disconnections. In this podcast, we delve into the intricate web of factors that can hinder couples from truly connecting within their marriages. To uncover that elusive connection, we often find ourselves needing to disengage from the various elements in our relationships that contribute to disconnections. H...
Oct 03, 2023•36 min
A while back, we did a poll and podcast on how a lot of husbands have at sometime in their marriage felt like their wife just wanted them for a paycheck. As we talk to couples all the time, we often hear how some women feel like their husband just wants them for sexual intimacy. So of course we had to do a poll and podcast on this subject because if many women feel that way, we need to talk about it. We also felt like this was a great time to do the episode as we just did the previous podcast ep...
Sep 29, 2023•41 min
Too often, we view sex as a mere physical act, overlooking the emotional intensity and connection it offers for both spouses. If you follow our polls we do, MANY men state that sex is so much more than just sex! It is the way they feel loved.. and show love, and many more reasons which we share. Many women (or lower desire spouses) complain about the high sex drive. In this podcast episode we dive into the reasons why husbands (or the high desire spouse) desire to be sexually intimate is so stro...
Sep 26, 2023•23 min
Have you ever felt like you're the only one seeking emotional connection in your relationship? You're not alone. We, Nick and Amy, get real about the dynamics of pursuers—the ones actively seeking intimacy—and withdrawers—those who prefer a bit more distance in relationships. Drawing from our own experiences, we're looking at how personality types and situational factors can switch these roles. More importantly, we're breaking down ways to strike balance in relationships that carry the weight of...
Sep 22, 2023•35 min
In this episode we will guide you through avoiding and addressing toxic behaviors that can seep into even the happiest of relationships. From our personal experiences to our insightful discussion on important issues like gaslighting and financial control, we lay the groundwork for fostering healthier relationships. We also tackle issues like jealousy, silent treatment and constant criticism. Our conversation highlights the vital role that boundaries, trust, and open communication play in confron...
Sep 19, 2023•36 min
DISCLAIMER - We are not responsible for your actions, or any arrests due to your actions, so use wise discretion when applying these naked date ideas to your date nights :) Please do them in a private place because no one wants to see that. Ready to ignite sparks of intimacy in your relationship? We guarantee you will find that flame in this episode as we venture together through the favorite naked date night ideas that won't (or shouldn't) get you arrested. This is a fun episode that should not...
Sep 15, 2023•29 min
We have been watching a show called “Married At First Sight” where 3 relationship and marriage experts/therapists match up couples who then get married without ever seeing each other prior to getting married. One of the reasons we wanted to watch the show is a couple of the couples from previous seasons in the show, who actually stayed married, have been proponents of our app and have promoted it. It also intrigues us to see couples who haven’t been married before, that are usually in their late...
Sep 12, 2023•40 min
There are many types of sexual intimacy within a marriage and a time and place for each of them. Many couples only experience sex when the time is right, they are both in the mood (or the lower desire spouse approves of it) and the experience is typically the same each time. But sexual intimacy in a relationship doesn't have to be that way! There are MANY ways to experience sex in a relationship and in ways that can make it much more enjoyable, and foster a deeper connection between a couple. In...
Sep 08, 2023•43 min
Are you a wife that gets frustrated because your husband can't read your mind, doesn't know your thoughts, how you are feeling, or even what you expect of him? Are you a husband that lacks mind reading abilities and doesn't always know what your spouse is thinking, feeling or wanting? It's normal to hear comments from women like "my husband should know how I feel.. I shouldn't have to tell him" or "he should be able to see that I am frustrated!" Image the pressure this puts on a husband to have ...
Sep 05, 2023•52 min
In this insightful podcast episode, Nick and Amy dive into the intricate relationship between parenting older kids and teens, and intimacy within a marriage. We hear from many couples who are struggling with kids and express how their marriage is negatively affected in so many ways because of it. As parents, we invest tremendous effort in guiding our kids toward success and happiness. However, the evolving dynamics can sometimes lead our children down unexpected roads, causing strains on a marri...
Sep 01, 2023•44 min
It's time for Sexy September YAY! Are you ready to join us and dive headfirst into a month of intense romance, fiery love-making, and unbreakable connection? We have all tried a new diet or set a new goal, and have laid out a plan and agenda for this goal right? It helps to have structure and plans... and this is exactly what we have created for your marriage! It is an entire month plan and it's not just a recharge; it's a Relationship Revolution that's guaranteed to ignite fireworks no matter w...
Aug 31, 2023•10 min
We have had many couples we know personally, as well as others from our app and content messaging us, stating that they are losing physical attraction to their spouse or that they no longer feel physically attracted to their spouse for various reasons. The common questions are, "What can I do to regain physical attraction to my spouse again?" or "What can I do to make my spouse feel physically attracted to me again?" "What if I don't feel attractive anymore, and it is affecting my desire to be i...
Aug 29, 2023•39 min
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the 10 things couples need to start normalizing in their marriages. We tend to think that certain things are not normal such as setting boundaries, having conflict in the relationship and many other things so we try to stay away from doing them. This can be very unhealthy for our relationships. Normalizing these 10 things in your marriage will greatly enhance your intimacy and relationship. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in th...
Aug 25, 2023•40 min
There have been many times in our marriage where we have been doing something just because we do it, that we later recognize it has had a profound positive impact on our relationship. We weren't doing it because we were trying to fix or improve anything, but just doing it because we enjoyed it, and then realize the benefits have been amazing! For example, we take a lot of showers together at night. It is a time where we can relax at the end of the day and not be disturbed, get cleaned up before ...
Aug 22, 2023•28 min
For most couples, it is the little things that they stop doing that cause the big things to snowball in their marriage.. and often times even lead to divorce. We ran across a great news article that talked about the 2-2-2 rule that couples say is the key to a happy marriage. After reading the article.. we agree. If couples can do these 3 simple things in their relationship, they will most likely see their marriage thrive. We are one of those couples that have seen our marriage transform because ...
Aug 18, 2023•45 min
We men drive ourselves crazy wondering why our wives don't crave sexual intimacy as much as we do! After all, most of us are good-looking, romantic, great fathers, and awesome husbands! It's baffling how they can keep their hands off of us! In one of our recent conversations, Amy dropped a truth bomb about one of the reasons she doesn't crave intimacy as much as I (Nick) do. Her explanation made total sense to me, and we found a great solution. We agreed that we needed to do a podcast and share ...
Aug 15, 2023•40 min
In this episode, Nick and Amy cover a lot of subjects from many of the polls they have done over the past few years and discuss the various subjects and thoughts they have on the polls. This podcast was recorded at 12am so they might be all over the place... Sometimes they have to work the night shift. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Fi...
Aug 11, 2023•36 min
Husbands, if you want to know where and how your wife wants to be touched to get turned on, then you have found the right episode. In this episode, we share the poll questions and answers we asked the wives... and we also touch on other fun questions as well relating to women and sexual arousal. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" for your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out ...
Aug 08, 2023•32 min
Most men are afraid to tell their wife where and how they want to be touched, but we got all the low down from the husbands in our social media poll. So ladies, if you want to know where and how your husband wants to be touched intimately, and what drives him crazy... and have some good laughs as well, then you should listen to this episode. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. I...
Aug 04, 2023•34 min
After engaging in conversations with a lot divorced couples, many whom are relatives and friends, a common theme emerges: Many of them now have a deeper understanding of what went wrong in their relationship and what they could have done differently. They gained clarity on the factors that contributed to their divorce. Interestingly, some of these individuals acknowledge that by making certain changes or adopting different approaches, their marriage could have not only survived but possibly coul...
Aug 01, 2023•45 min
The longing for perfection, both in ourselves and in our spouses, is a common theme that arises in couples and marriages. It's natural to desire perfection, thinking that if we achieve it, it will lead to bliss in the relationship. The truth is, longing for perfection will destroy intimacy in your relationship. Experience has shown that the more people chase perfection in life and marriage, the more they fall short and feel dissatisfied in the relationship. The thing about trying to achieve perf...
Jul 28, 2023•53 min
In this podcast episode, Nick and Amy share how these certain products can literally change your marriage. They also share the reason behind each product they have designed or sell in their online store, and why they believe it can help your marriage. Whether your a couple that struggles with communication, emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, or have barriers that keep you from having the marriage you desire, this episode can help you find the tools or products that can enhance your marriage. I...
Jul 25, 2023•34 min
Do you wish your husband was more romantic and affectionate in your marriage? Find out what other women just like you said in the poll we did and in the questions we asked our audience! Nick and Amy discuss what women wish their husbands would do to be more romantic. They also talk about how couples can navigate these differences instead of letting them cause conflict in the marriage. Husbands, this is an episode you will want to listen to! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intim...
Jul 21, 2023•31 min
Oh, the complexity of the female body. It is enough to drive a sane man crazy! For many husbands, trying to understand the female body is like trying to understand quantum physics, or someone speaking a different language. What works for her one night, doesn't work another night. What feels good one time doesn't feel good the next. In this episode, we put a poll on instagram and asked the husbands what they wanted to know about the female body and women. So if you are one of the many billions of...
Jul 18, 2023•32 min
Are you (or your spouse) an introvert or extrovert? Are one of you a thinker vs feeler? Do you plan things out or are you spontaneous? Do you have an assertive or accommodating personality? Imagine the frustration if one spouse is an introvert and wants to stay at home all the time and the other spouse wants to get out of the house and be around friends and family, or one spouse is spontaneous while the other likes to have things planned out. These differences happen all the time and can cause i...
Jul 14, 2023•31 min
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into "The things your wife wants you to know when it comes to sex. Husbands often tell us they have no idea what their wife wants (and sometime the wife doesn't even know what she wants). For the men feeling this way, this podcast episode will help you understand what your wives want when it comes to sex as we share many answers from our poll we took from many of the wives that do want to have better sexual intimacy. If you have...
Jul 11, 2023•27 min
Sex is an area where many couples struggle to find balance, often with one spouse having a higher desire for sex and the other having a lower desire. This struggle can contribute to problems and even divorce among married couples. It's important to recognize that men often feel loved through sexual intimacy, while women often feel loved through emotional intimacy. Finding the balance between these forms of intimacy is key. Many women may mistakenly believe that men simply want sex, but for men, ...
Jul 07, 2023•33 min
There are SO many reasons couples stop having sex. The problem is when sexual intimacy stops happening for whatever reason (or is less frequent), then couples start disconnecting both sexually and emotionally, and growing apart, because sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy go hand in hand. If you listen to our podcast regularly, you know the importance of sexual intimacy in marriage that we continually talk about. In this episode, we talk about the most common reasons couples stop having sex a...
Jul 04, 2023•32 min
In most relationships and marriages (whether done intentionally or unintentionally), women have complete control and say so when it comes to sex. They typically determine "if" a couple is going to have sex, "when" they are going to have sex, and everything related to sex in the relationship. Many husbands are scared to initiate sex with their spouse for fear of rejection, having it cause an argument or conflict, and many other reasons. Because of this, and the fact that most women have a respons...
Jun 30, 2023•44 min
