Get all the delicious visuals plus extra on OnlyFans Darian and I met on Instagram a few months ago and hit it off right away. He's got such skills for the logistics of sex, and I love the mental and emotional side of sex. Together, we're a perfect complimentary pair. And I think you'll hear that in this episode. We share some of our insecurities, and our real reactions to the discomfort of standing up for ourselves. Plus, we made a big mistake in the recording process and decided to leave it be...
Oct 08, 2024•39 min•Ep. 117
Get all the delicious visuals plus extra on OnlyFans Adrian and I have known each other for a couple years. And there's always been an underlying sexual tension. So when he agreed to be on the show, I was so excited to finally get naked and vulnerable with him. We share some of our insecurities, and how we've worked through our body image issues. And although we usually wait till the end to get handsy, we couldn't keep our hands... or our mouths off each other! You'll hear 😏🔥 Follow Adrian: In...
Aug 27, 2024•33 min•Ep. 116
Get all the delicious visuals plus extra on OnlyFans Kai and I get naked and vulnerable with you. We share some of our insecurities, and how we've worked through our mental health journeys. Kai also shares some insight on his experience being an Asian American and trying to live up to impossible beauty standards. (you really should check out the video for this one 🔥😏) Follow Kai: X OnlyFans Get on the best email list for building your confidence, sign up and receive my free 21 Sassy Affirmatio...
Aug 13, 2024•29 min•Ep. 115
Get all the delicious visuals plus extra on OnlyFans Saw and I get naked and vulnerable with you. We share some of our insecurities, and how we've grown. I'm especially impressed by Saw's willingness to be vulnerable with us about his transition and body dysmorphia. On top of all that, he still strips all the way naked. (you really should check out the video for this one 🔥😏) Follow Saw: Instagram OnlyFans Get on the best email list for building your confidence, sign up and receive my free 21 S...
Jul 30, 2024•27 min•Ep. 114
Get all the delicious visuals plus extra on OnlyFans Jabarri and I get naked and vulnerable with you. We share some of our insecurities, relationship mistakes, and how we've grown. Follow Jabarri: Instagram X OnlyFans Get on the best email list for building your confidence, sign up and receive my free 21 Sassy Affirmations for Confidence Got a guest nomination, question, or topic idea? Email [email protected] Get the inside scoop, join the Instagram Broadcast Channel 🦄 Instagram | TikTok...
Jul 16, 2024•33 min•Ep. 113
Get all the delicious visuals plus extra on OnlyFans Welcome to the first episode of NAKED, an erotic series where I and my guests strip down metaphorically and literally. Follow Jeremy: Instagram X OnlyFans Get on the best email list for building your confidence, sign up and receive my free 21 Sassy Affirmations for Confidence Got a guest nomination, question, or topic idea? Email [email protected] Get the inside scoop, join the Instagram Broadcast Channel 🦄 Instagram | TikTok | coachal...
Jul 02, 2024•37 min•Ep. 112
Get on the best email list for building your confidence, sign up and receive my free 21 Sassy Affirmations for Confidence Got a guest nomination, question, or topic idea? Email [email protected] Get the inside scoop, join the Instagram Broadcast Channel 🦄 Instagram | TikTok | coachalexray.com...
Jul 02, 2024•34 sec
Can't wait to be on this new journey with you! See you on OnlyFans for all the hot visual action. Get on the best email list for building your confidence, sign up and receive my free 21 Sassy Affirmations for Confidence Got a guest nomination, question, or topic idea? Email [email protected] Get the inside scoop, join the Instagram Broadcast Channel 🦄 Instagram | TikTok | coachalexray.com...
Jun 25, 2024•20 min
Taking a break. It sounds great! By why is it so filled with guilt? By the end of this episode, you're going to reclaim your right to rest. Feeling guilty about resting? Caught up in the grind of endless productivity? Our capitalist society has us believing that our worth equates to how much we're doing, but it's time we debunked this myth. This episode explores the importance of taking breaks without guilt and letting go of the pressure to make rest another form of self-improvement. Through a r...
Nov 28, 2023•11 min•Ep. 111
What happens at the intersection of spirituality, sexuality, and unapologetic queerness? We're about to find out, as we chat with the one and only Kaelan Strouse, a.k.a Ecstatic Self. As a tantra and spirituality coach, Kaelan shares the wisdom he has gathered on his personal journey, igniting a path for us to explore our own spirituality and sexuality without judgment or fear. In this episode, Kaelan guides us to a deeper understanding of human connection, intimacy, and vulnerability. He advoca...
Nov 21, 2023•44 min•Ep. 110
Get ready for a journey into the life of Morgxn Thicke, a queer, femnasty individual with Butch Queen tendencies who's making waves the gay porn industry. Morgxn's real, raw, and riveting insights about life behind the scenes and beyond the spotlight will transform your understanding of this industry. From their queer persona to the highs and lows of their private life, Morgxn's authenticity will leave you captivated. Your gonna love Morgxn's insights on open communication in intimate relationsh...
Nov 14, 2023•49 min•Ep. 109
This episode is on embracing vulnerability to foster connection and love. Dropping the armor is about allowing yourself to be human, and following the advice you give to others. It's empowerment through imperfection. This is what authenticity looks like. Mentioned in this episode: Brené Brown on The Tim Ferriss Show Podcast Instagram Clip Listen to the full episode here: Brené Brown — Striving versus Self-Acceptance, Saving Marriages, and More (#409) or watch on YouTube Get on the best email lis...
Nov 07, 2023•22 min•Ep. 108
Flamy Grant is the first drag queen to ever top the iTunes Christian singles and albums charts! Flamy's story isn't just about music; it's about resilience and authenticity in the face of adversity and online trolling. It's about refusing to compromise on true identity despite societal pressures. If you grew up evangelical christian, you won't want to miss this episode. It this episode Flamy takes us deeper into her personal life, exploring her battles with religious trauma from evangelicalism a...
Oct 31, 2023•56 min•Ep. 107
This episode is all about cover coming the fears, embarrassment, and discomfort that hold you back from being authentic. We all know what it's like to be judged or shamed simply for being your authentic self. I was just eight(ish) when my passion for the Princess Jasmine dress earned me shame rather than applause. This childhood encounter and similar episodes throughout my life taught me that authenticity often comes with a price. Today we're taking that embarrassed boy who loved a princess dres...
Oct 24, 2023•17 min•Ep. 106
Have you ever wondered how your upbringing and identity shape your financial journey? My guest, financial planner Melissa Gonzalez, shares her inspiring story of shifting from viewing money as a negative force to understanding it as a tool for empowerment and opportunity. Raised in a predominantly female household, Melissa provides a unique perspective on the impact of family and identity on one’s financial journey. Melissa openly discusses her experiences as a queer woman in the financial indus...
Oct 17, 2023•50 min•Ep. 105
Are you trapped in the vicious cycle of self-sabotage? Imagine turning your perceived flaws into your greatest gifts. This episode is all about breaking free from that negative pattern, shedding the shame that's been holding you back, and learning to love and appreciate yourself, scars and all. In this episode you'll learn a unique four-step process to help you see your flaws as your super powers. Do you find yourself avoiding confrontations or procrastinating? These behaviors, deeply rooted in ...
Oct 10, 2023•23 min•Ep. 104
Welcome to a hilarious behind the scenes chat with Quincy Bazen, the multi-talented stand up comedian and co-host of the Dom Pop podcast . Take a peak into his world growing up a Navy brat, to co-creating a hit podcast, and making the daring move of relocating to sunny Los Angeles. There's never a dull moment as Quincy humorously shares his experiences, whether it's about his desire to pretentiously add accents to his name or his personal journey with ADHD. This episode takes a deeper dive into ...
Oct 03, 2023•1 hr•Ep. 103
Have you been feeling like you just don't know how you can possibly handle all of life's stressors? Feeling like you just don't got this anymore? Tired of faking like you have it all figured out? That's what we're talking about on today's episode. Join me as I share my own story of grappling with accepting help. We cover everything from anxiety episodes to understanding how dependency, codependency, independency play a part in your overwhelm. I reveal in my personal journey how acknowledging the...
Sep 26, 2023•21 min•Ep. 102
Today we sit down with Christynne Wood, a national trans and civil rights activist, and 2023 San Diego Champion of Pride winner. Christynne shares her vivid memories of growing up in Springfield, Ohio, dealing with gender dysphoria and the impact a single understanding kindergarten teacher had on her life. Together, we explore the courage and resilience it takes to be true to oneself, amidst the challenges and adversity. Imagine being in the Navy in 1974, and dealing with your own internal battl...
Sep 19, 2023•43 min•Ep. 101
Ever felt the crushing weight of anxiety and longed for an effective tool to manage it? Well, there's no need to feel alone or overwhelmed anymore. Lay back and enjoy as this audio guides you to new and healing sensations. This episode is designed to be your guide whenever anxiety strikes. The best part is, you can do this while sitting or laying comfortably. It's not just about "managing" anxiety, it's about connecting with it, accepting it. Through this practice you'll prove to yourself that y...
Sep 12, 2023•18 min•Ep. 100
Have you been curious about how to bottom better or even at all? Do you have questions you're afraid to even ask? Are you nervous about what you might find out? Strap in (or strap on) for an honest discussion as Alex Hall aka The Bottom's Digest lays it all out there. In this episode you'll learn nutrition techniques, booty hole exercises, and perhaps new information on douching to help make bottoming the most delicious, magical, pleasurable experience possible. Alex debunks the myth of the 'bot...
Sep 05, 2023•55 min•Ep. 99
Have you ever been sitting in front of your birthday cake just about to blow out the candles when suddenly, on the other side of the window, your car explodes? Yeah... me neither. But my boyfriend has! And today he's joining the podcast to share some funny stories from his life. There's no big life lesson to learn today. Instead, I hope you have fun just hanging out with us and laughing along. Come meet my boyfriend! Join the Instagram Broadcast Channel to ask my boyfriend and other future guest...
Aug 29, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 98
Ever found yourself stuck in a mental rut filled with negativity and can't seem to shift gears? This episode is all about how to work through that, but not in the typical 'love and light' bullshit way. Getting stuck in a negative spiral is part of being human. In today's conversation, we explore how to navigate these mental slumps, not by rushing through them, but rather embracing the experience. We discuss the importance of allowing your emotions to be felt and expressed, and how changing your ...
Aug 15, 2023•22 min•Ep. 97
What happens when an entrepreneur steps back from their podcast for eight months due to a whirlwind of life events? A mini identity crisis YAYYYYYY 🎉 This last year has been nuts, moving across the country, experiencing a breakup, hiring a new assistant, and juggling part-time work, just to name a few things I've been up to. This period of intense change sparked an identity crisis and compelled me to reassess my entrepreneur identity. Hear about the invaluable lessons I've learned about the imp...
Aug 01, 2023•29 min•Ep. 96
This week I have an interview to share with you. While media has improved in the way it represents queer people, there are many groups of people still missing from the scene. There are large areas of America that are not as devoid of queer life as it might seem. So today I'm chatting with my assistant. He chose to be queer in rural America. I hope you have as much fun getting to know him as I have. Enjoy. PS. If you need help in your business with things you'd just rather not do, he can help. Re...
Nov 24, 2022•43 min•Ep. 95
The holiday season is upon us. And with it, the stress of family dynamics. So let’s talk about it. I’ve got a framework that’ll make it much easier for you to set boundaries. Let’s make that difficult conversation with mom, dad, grandma, whoever a bit easier so you can clear that elephant out of the room and enjoy their company a bit more. Enjoy! Get full show notes and more info here: https://coachalexray.com/podcast/94 Get on the best email list for building your confidence, sign up and receiv...
Nov 17, 2022•23 min•Ep. 94
Weather you're using social media to connect with people or as a way to make money, it's still requires you to put in labor. So how is this free labor affecting your overall "work load"? Can you spend time online without getting closer to burn out? And is the pressure to put on a show online eroding your authenticity? In this episode, we're exploring all that and more. If this is important to you, you're going to love the workshop I'm running called Off Stage. We're going to actively work on man...
Nov 10, 2022•21 min•Ep. 93
Today you get to meet my friend Chelsea Dickinson aka The Sabotage Queen. Every time we’ve FaceTimed we said, “why the heck did we not record this? People would PAY to listen in on our conversations! This shit is gold.” Sooooo now you do get to listen in, but for free! On today's episode we talk about how you should be more of a bitch on the internet, how to survive overwhelming amounts of attention, and how to set boundaries in the increasingly less private online world. It’s the unfiltered con...
Nov 03, 2022•56 min•Ep. 92
Today we’re going to wrap up this series on sex work. I’m going to talk about a particular experience I had while Gogo dancing. (So being a gogo boy isn’t exactly sex work but it’s still in the erotic industry, and the lesson still applies.) We’re going to look at how trauma holds you back from accepting support. We have all had trauma, it’s part of being a human. We also all deserve support. So I'm going to shed some light on what happened to me and how I’ve been working through it. With all th...
Oct 27, 2022•30 min•Ep. 91
I’ve got another episode for you from the porn industry. This time I talked to Nico Nova, a model with a mission. I can’t wait for you to meet him. Nico understands that humans have a complicated relationship with themselves and shame gets in the way. He is out here creating porn to help people feel less alone and less shame. Combining porn and self development? I’m absolutely here for it. I think you’re going to love meeting Nico just as much as I did. Enjoy. Get full show notes and more info h...
Oct 20, 2022•51 min•Ep. 90
