Do you want to make 2025 your best year yet? There are 7 questions to ask yourself that will help you: Step into 2025 with clarity about what you want & with a plan to make it happen Become inspired, energized, and in control again Learn & apply Mel's powerful, life-changing, science-backed, year-end ritual that she has done for over 20 years In this episode, Mel will walk you through the 7 powerful questions, reveal her own answers, and guide you through how to answer them. Your answers will sh...
Dec 26, 2024•52 min•Ep. 247
If there’s someone in your life you wish you were closer to, but it sometimes feels like there’s an unspoken tension between you, this episode is for you. Today, Mel sits down with her oldest daughter, Sawyer, for a raw and transformative conversation about repairing relationships and closing the invisible distance that so many of us feel with the people we love most. Together, they share the story of how writing The Let Them Theory healed their relationship and reveal three powerful tools that ...
Dec 23, 2024•2 hr 39 min•Ep. 246
In this episode, you’ll learn the best expert advice Mel learned this year. Today, Mel has carefully selected the most life-changing, thought-provoking, and inspiring moments shared by her guests in the last 12 months. These are the breakthrough ideas and expert insights that left a lasting impact on her, and they are about to do the same for you. Hear from world-class scientists, researchers, and leaders in their field as they reveal how to manifest success, have better boundaries, the secret t...
Dec 19, 2024•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 245
This episode will change the way you think about every relationship in your life. Today, Harvard’s Dr. Stuart Ablon is distilling 30 years of behavior change research into one hour. Dr. Ablon is the Founder and Director of Think: Kids at Massachusetts General Hospital, which focuses on Collaborative Problem Solving. An award-winning psychologist, Dr. Ablon is also a professor of child and adolescent psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. After listening, you will have a completely new approach to...
Dec 16, 2024•2 hr 33 min•Ep. 244
Confidence is a skill, and today you are going to learn exactly how to build it. Mel is one of the leading experts on the topic of confidence and is tapped regularly by the world’s top brands to teach their leaders how to be more confident. And in today’s episode, Mel is giving you her step-by-step playbook, the same one that she teaches to leaders around the world, that you can use immediately. Mel is offering the guide to believing in yourself (for real this time) in 5 simple steps. If you hav...
Dec 14, 2024•57 min•Ep. 243
In this episode, you will learn how to live a more meaningful and happy life with zero weird tricks. Today, world renowned professor Dr. Laurie Santos is here to give you a crash course on living a happier, more fulfilling life. Dr. Santos is the professor behind Yale’s most popular course of all time, which she then taught as an online course called The Science of Well-Being . 5 million students have taken her semester-long course, but you don’t need to. Why? Because today on the podcast, she i...
Dec 12, 2024•1 hr 28 min•Ep. 242
Today, you are getting the best dating advice out there for both you and your loved ones. Mel sits down with Logan Ury – a behavior scientist, dating expert, host of Netflix’s new dating series “The Later Daters,” and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge – to get her science-backed insights on finding success in dating. If dating apps make you feel hopeless, if you feel like dating is broken, or can’t seem to find “the one,” Logan’s insights will change your approach to finding love forever...
Dec 09, 2024•1 hr 28 min•Ep. 241
If you’re going through a breakup, or someone you love is, this episode is dedicated to you. Mel is sharing the #1 cure for your broken heart, and is here to help you navigate the incredibly difficult process of moving forward after a breakup. This is also a resource to share with anyone in your life who is going through heartbreak. In this episode, Mel is joined by her daughter Sawyer, who recently went through the biggest breakup of her life. They reveal research-backed strategies and the real...
Dec 05, 2024•1 hr 25 min•Ep. 240
In this episode, you will learn the requirements of a good relationship – and the signs your relationship may not go the distance. If you’re wondering if someone is “the one” and you’re not sure if you should end things, you’ll get the answer today. And if you’re struggling through a rough patch in your relationship and want tools and tips on how to make it better, Mel is sharing that as well. Today, you’re getting the skills you need for any healthy romantic relationship. Whether you’re in the ...
Dec 02, 2024•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 239
After listening to this episode, you’re going to understand how to harness the power of your mind in a way you never thought possible. Today, Mel welcomes Dr. Jeff Karp, a world-renowned scientist and innovator, who’s here to teach you simple, science-backed methods to unlock your potential, no matter where you’re starting from. You’ll learn how these tools helped Dr. Karp break free from feeling stuck, reframe challenges, and bring creativity and connection into every area of his life. He’ll sh...
Nov 28, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 238
Today, Mel is sharing exactly what you can do to improve the dynamic within your family. Whether it’s disagreements over politics, someone who always has to be in the center of attention, or just pressure to make the limited time fun, family get-togethers can be hard. You’ll learn Mel’s favorite tool, The Let Them Theory, to stop getting upset, bothered, or angry with your family, and what you can do instead. This episode is a masterclass in how to improve your relationships with your family, so...
Nov 25, 2024•59 min•Ep. 237
If you find that the clutter keeps piling up, this episode will blow your mind. You’re going to learn a foolproof decluttering method that has transformed Mel’s home. The incredible Dana K. White, founder of the hit blog, A Slob Comes Clean, and author of How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind, is here to help you tackle your clutter and the overwhelm that comes with it. Today she shares a five-step process that’s revolutionized the way countless people manage their lives—and it’s not ...
Nov 23, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 236
Today, Mel’s dream guest joins her in the Boston studios: Dr. Gabor Maté, MD. Dr. Maté is a world-renowned trauma expert, and shares things today unlike he has ever shared before. This wide-ranging conversation covers ADHD, autoimmune diseases, anxiety, addiction, people pleasing, and trauma. Dr. Maté will take you on a deep dive into how your early life experiences can shape the way you feel and function today, both mentally and physically. This episode is about unlocking real healing and findi...
Nov 21, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 235
It’s time to get off the hamster wheel that’s leaving you exhausted and overwhelmed. If the idea of “doing nothing” feels almost painful and you feel uncomfortable when you’re not busy, this episode is the wake-up call you need. Today, Mel unpacks one of the most common addictions that you probably have never heard of before: the addiction to busyness and stress. Here to give more research and advice is Dr. Scott Lyons, a medical doctor, psychologist, and world-renowned trauma expert. Dr. Lyons ...
Nov 18, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 234
Today, you’ll learn the #1 money rule to live by to achieve financial success. You’ll also get the secret to stopping fear and anxiety around money for good. In this episode, financial expert Farnoosh Torabi will uncover major money myths that leave you feeling trapped and the steps you need to take to get good with money and build wealth. Whether you want to start saving, make more, or get out of debt, this episode will lay the foundation for greater financial success. This is an open and hones...
Nov 14, 2024•42 min•Ep. 233
Today, you will learn a mindset that will unlock the full power of your mind. Your thoughts are connected to your future. It’s time to destroy the limitations of your mind so that you can unlock greater success, purpose, and possibilities. If you feel stuck, unmotivated, or like you’re falling behind, this episode is for you. Right now, there are 3 lies you tell yourself that are keeping you stuck in negative thinking patterns. Today, Mel, along with four renowned experts, will help you identify...
Nov 11, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 232
In today’s episode, you’re going to learn about the powerful connection between neuroscience and religious experiences. Renowned medical doctor and neuroscientist Dr. Andrew Newberg, MD is here on the podcast today, and you’re going to be amazed at what he shares. Dr. Newberg is a pioneering researcher of “neurotheology,” which is a field of research that studies the relationship between neuroscience and spirituality. He has spent decades scanning the brains of people during prayer, meditation, ...
Nov 07, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 231
If you feel a sense of overwhelm, dread, or uncertainty right now, you need to hear this episode. Right now, so many things are out of your control – whether it’s global events, elections, a health diagnosis, or news you’re waiting on. In today’s deeply personal episode, Mel is sharing her best tools to deal with overthinking and negative thoughts. Your worries are stealing the joy and peace you deserve. And by the time you finish listening, you’ll feel more calm, grounded, and ready to handle w...
Nov 04, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 230
By the time you finish listening, your perspective on death—and life—will be forever changed. Today, Mel sits down with death doula and best-selling author Alua Arthur for a transformative conversation about how embracing the shortness of life can unlock a profound sense of joy and purpose in your life right now. Alua shares three powerful questions you should ask yourself today and reveals an inspiring exercise to perform on your birthday to help you live with more intention and gratitude. With...
Oct 31, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 229
In this episode, you are getting the 6 secrets to a lasting partnership. You will learn how to make love last and the key to keeping your relationship successful and strong. Today, Mel and her husband Chris dive deep into the most important lessons they've learned in 28 years of marriage. Mel and Chris share their real-time reactions to each other’s insights as they dive deep into the keys to a lasting relationship. Together, they unpack how to handle resentment and unmet expectations, how to na...
Oct 28, 2024•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 228
After listening to this episode, your brain won’t be the same. Today, you are going to learn the science behind manifestation and what steps you need to take to manifest your dream life. In this episode, Mel sits down with the extraordinary Dr. Jim Doty, a Stanford neurosurgeon, neuroscientist, and expert on manifestation and visualization. Together, they dive deep into the science behind creating the life you want. Dr. Doty explains why your negative self-talk is holding you back and how you ca...
Oct 24, 2024•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 227
Mel is thrilled to announce that her new book, “The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About” is now available for pre-order. You can order a copy of the book at LetThem.com . If you're struggling to achieve your goals or feel a little happier, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. In this book, you’ll learn how two words — “Let Them” — can set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free ...
Oct 22, 2024•10 min•Ep. 226
If you have trouble getting out of bed, there is one simple hack you need to wake up early, beat anxiety, and kickstart your morning. In today’s episode, Mel shares a technique called slithering that will help you on those tough mornings when getting out of bed feels impossible. Mel reveals how this unique practice, taught to her by her therapist, moves stress and tension out of your body, helping you shift your mindset and start the day with ease. You’ll learn how to use this simple tool to res...
Oct 21, 2024•49 min•Ep. 225
In this episode, Mel is giving you the step-by-step roadmap of how to reinvent your life. Whether you’ve just graduated, you’re an empty nester, or you’re somewhere in between, this episode will provide you with the steps to make a pivot. You’ll learn why reinvention is not about fixing what’s broken, but about tapping into your desires, following your curiosity, and taking bold action. By the end of this episode, you’ll be fired up and ready to take control of your future. This is an encore epi...
Oct 19, 2024•45 min•Ep. 224
When was the last time you said "no" without feeling guilty? Or set a boundary and actually stuck to it? If you can’t remember, today’s episode is the wake-up call you need. Boundaries can protect your time, energy, and mental space, and yet for so many of us, boundaries are hard to make and almost impossible to keep. Renowned psychiatrist Dr. Pooja Lakshmin is sharing the 3 surprising signs that you lack boundaries and how to take control to reclaim your life. By the end of this conversation, y...
Oct 17, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 223
In today’s episode, you’re going to learn how to turn your comfort zone into a powerful tool that fuels your success. Your comfort zone is not a place of weakness—it’s actually a place for growth. Today, you’ll discover how and when to use it so you can feel more calm, confident and optimistic about your life. You’ll know when to press pause in your life so you can recharge, and build the strength to take on your biggest challenges. Based in science, Mel will explain how everyday comforts—whethe...
Oct 14, 2024•53 min•Ep. 222
If you struggle to make new habits stick, you are not the problem. You've just been missing the right tools and strategies to make real change happen. In this episode, you’re going to learn the simple ways to break bad habits and form new ones. Mel is revealing the 3 biggest mistakes you are likely making when trying to change your behavior and why it’s not about willpower. She is breaking down the science of habit formation so you can finally understand why your bad habits keep holding you back...
Oct 12, 2024•56 min•Ep. 221
Do you have a family member, a boss, or even a close friend who constantly drains your energy or makes everything about them? In today’s episode, you’ll learn how to protect yourself from toxic, self-centered personalities that can make you feel exhausted and frustrated. Dr. Ramani, a world-renowned expert on narcissism, gives you the playbook to navigate even the most challenging personalities. She will break down the signs of narcissistic behavior and arm you with the strategies you need to ma...
Oct 10, 2024•53 min•Ep. 220
If you’ve ever failed, made a major mistake, or wish you could take something back, this episode will teach you how to let go of regret and move forward. Today, Mel is sharing her breast implant story and how everything went horribly wrong. Even though she can now laugh at some of the things that happened, she also faces the truth: how this one decision left her with regret and shame for years. This episode is a masterclass in turning your pain and past failures into straight-up rocket fuel. Mel...
Oct 07, 2024•57 min•Ep. 219
This episode will change your brain forever. World-renowned neuroscientist Dr. Wendy Suzuki is here to share new research around the brain-changing benefits of exercise. Dr. Suzuki is the Dean of the College of Arts and Sciences at New York University and is a leading researcher known for her areas of memory, psychology, and neurobiology. She's a pioneer in researching how moving your body and exercising improves your brain health, and today she is here to teach you the best exercise is to impro...
Oct 03, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 218
