During Healing Together Through the Holidays , we had so may amazing speakers, Sabrina Victoria being one of them! Sabrina Victoria is a seasoned entrepreneur and TEDx speaker with a background in door-to-door sales. She brings over two decades of experience of building and co-building multiple 6 and 7-figure businesses to Her Nation, a dynamic media platform showcasing business owners through engaging podcasts, virtual magazine features, and empowering events. Her charismatic leadership style c...
Dec 04, 2024•50 min
Life happens - and the right decisions often are the most difficult. Doing what’s best can disappoint others. That’s different than maliciously or intentionally hurting anyone. On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss my health, the holidays, and the impact this has on Griefhab’s upcoming 2nd Annual Healing Together Through the Holidays - now entirely virtual. From Michigan to Colorado to Entirely Virtual - you’ll still get all of the acclaimed speakers, workshops, and resources. Co...
Nov 26, 2024•29 min
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Nov 23, 2024•52 min
I don't understand how l'm the only one making a fuss about the fact that no one knows there's a National Grief Awareness Week. People (and by people, I mean professional organizations) think it's my made up week. That's a serious problem. On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss uncomfortable conversations. Grief. Mental illness. Coexisting with people who have different beliefs. My nieces and my teenage clients told me that their teachers didn’t discuss any of the chaos and hatred...
Nov 11, 2024•34 min
In this episode of #TheBeRuthlessShow , we’re joined by the multi-talented Katy Owens for a powerful discussion on chronic pain and how it shapes lives. Katy shares her journey from a diverse career background to finding her calling in occupational therapy after an injury in the Coast Guard. She now specializes in helping those with chronic pain and mental health challenges, bringing empathy and expertise to her acute care work and private practice. About Katy Owens: Katy Owens has a long histor...
Nov 07, 2024•29 min
There's something special about being from Detroit!! Tune into this episode of #TheBeRuthlessShow - for an extra special Detroit vs Everybody episode!!! OnePride!! You'll hear allllll about the GRIT you have when you come from The D!! You'll hear allll about the hometown speakers participating in #HealingTogetherThroughtheHolidays Because Detroit cares!! Detroit fans care!! And my BHS and U of M Alumni communities really care The LIVE venue will be announced and the FREE tickets will be availabl...
Nov 05, 2024•38 min
Stigma. Its everywhere. Grief - Mental Illness - Race - Some stigmas carry more weight than others, if that’s even possible. It doesn’t make sense in my brain…. but it is absolutely true in this world. Suicide. Addiction. People run from these conversations while others are living through these real life traumas. Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show doesn’t just fall into one category of these “ double stigma…” categories. She’s the “winner winner” of both world’s: parenting a teenager with #ad...
Oct 30, 2024•44 min
I talk ALL the time about noise. Silence is equally as powerful. I regularly keep my phone in a different room, and some people hear that and look at me like I’m an alien. On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss silence, how you respond when someone is silent, and how you want someone to respond when you’re looking for silence! And remember that you can reach out anytime - with questions, feedback, to work with me, for referrals and resources, and just for support and connection: s...
Oct 29, 2024•42 min•Ep. 362
There’s stigma surrounding mental illness - and then there’s the stigma surrounding men’s mental illness. Because boys don’t cry. And asking for help means you’re “not tough.” Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show knows all about acting tough. Mark Coope is 63 years old, married with 3 children and 3 grandchildren. He is an ex Rugby League player. He’s also a Ju-Jitsu black belt, qualified coach and runs his own club. By trade, Mark has his own business repairing HP Design jet printers. He’salso...
Oct 23, 2024•45 min•Ep. 361
Ch - Ch - Ch - Changes Turn and face the strange Ch - Ch - Ch - Changes! Change is difficult for most people. And things are already pretty stressful in this world right now. On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss some unexpected, but extremely necessary, changes I’m making…… Griefhab’s 2nd Annual Healing Together Through the Holidays is ch-ch-ch-changing locations - because of my health, and most importantly - Sassy’s! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your compassion and...
Oct 21, 2024•1 hr•Ep. 360
Do you have something you’re working on? A project that only you can finish the way you see it? If you’re like me, and many other creative people - you have many! What would happen if you disappeared? Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show deals with unfinished projects. She helps people complete them - which, in the world of loss, is such a beautiful gift! Jen Simonic has been knitting since she was six years old. Her grandmother taught her with steel needles from WWII used for bandage-making. S...
Oct 16, 2024•45 min•Ep. 359
I meditate every day. I write letters to Jim every night. I do something outside every day. Religiously. Plus taking care of my back. But I haven’t been taking the best care of myself this year. Even with all of my routines! On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss really listening to yourself and your body. Tuning out the noise. And being true to you! And remember that you can reach out anytime - with questions, feedback, to work with me, for referrals and resources, and just for s...
Oct 14, 2024•31 min•Ep. 358
There are so many things this world has opinions about - and some things are judged more harshly than others. Bigger stigmas. Addiction. Abuse. Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show discusses both - and how unresolved assault issues actually tie into her addiction. Danielle Miller is just a regular girl from Detroit, Michigan, and today she’s a stay-at-home mom. Danielle feels like she’s jumped through every obstacle that life has thrown at her - good and bad. They have run the gamut. From being...
Oct 09, 2024•40 min•Ep. 357
So much devastation in this world right now - and it’s not over. I don’t know about you, but I’m finding it difficult to concentrate. On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss some of the myths in this world that I reject, such as fake it until you make it. I discuss Mental Illness Awareness Week, and the 2024 theme ‘At Work.’ (I added ‘At School.’) Now more than ever let’s have the conversations. Let’s not pretend things are fine when life is anything but! And remember that you can ...
Oct 07, 2024•29 min•Ep. 356
It has been a bizarre week - to say the least! L’Shana Tova to all who celebrate! 11 years later, and it’s still hard not being in Michigan with my family. To those expecting a live episode with Jen Simpnic today, thanks in advance for understanding. Jen’s episode will be LIVE on 10/16! On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss how to deal with the life lessons you didn’t sign up for. Mistakes. Adjustments. I take all of these as signs from Jim and ways to connect with Jim. Things I ...
Oct 02, 2024•49 min•Ep. 355
Nationwide Verizon Outages. I thought I pushed some button messing up the settings on my phone :D For real, though! It’s been known to happen! Instead, on this last day of September - I’m ready to share news that’s been in the works for almost a year! On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss how I used today’s (literal) SOS. I 1000% believe that Jim is always protecting me! And I ( proudly) announce Griefhab’s fully accredited coaching certification program. Three options to choose ...
Sep 30, 2024•37 min•Ep. 354
Loss is loss and pain is pain. Somehow - you find yourself living life again, after being a zombie and going through the motions for what feels like eons! Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show knows those feelings all too well! Linda Henderson lived it. Linda is a retired nurse who has spent 37 years caring for others. Experiencing the tragic loss of her daughter, Linda became passionate about helping others navigate the journey of grief. Together with her career, Linda was determined to increas...
Sep 25, 2024•40 min•Ep. 353
Resting & Recovering after such an amazing Ruthless in the Rockies (stay tuned for 2025 dates - Shalini is still on her adventures!) It takes its toll - physically and emotionally. For Sassy, too! On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show - I discuss why it’s so important to me to be true to myself. And that you be true to yourself! I discuss the importance of resting and recovering in a world that glamorizes pushing through and faking it until you make it. I discuss why I use my voice and ...
Sep 23, 2024•19 min•Ep. 352
There literally was a full moon - People everywhere have been feeling off track. Please send Tanya Manley your love and prayers. She’s dealing with medical issues and will be a guest on The Be Ruthless Show when things calm down. On today’s episode, I discuss how to use feeling off track to get back on track. Remember that you can reach out anytime - with questions, feedback, to work with me, for referrals and resources, and just for support and connection: sam@samantharuth.com Join the Griefhab...
Sep 18, 2024•31 min
I started this with a lot to say and no idea how to do it. Here we are 3 and a half years and 350 episodes later! Thank you for making it all possible. On today's episode, news hits all too close to home. We hear about tragedies every day. This one took me right back to those feelings. Remember that you can reach out anytime - with questions, feedback, to work with me, for referrals and resources, and just for support and connection: sam@samantharuth.com Join the Griefhab Community: https://www....
Sep 18, 2024•40 min
Full moons. Things in retrograde. Wacky Wednesdays. Friday the 13th. A LOT is going on If you tuned in to The Be Ruthless Show LIVE on Wednesday- you know! If you didn’t - something bizarre was going on with the sound. So here I am again!! On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss all the wackiness - how we cope, how we respond to it, who we lean on - and who we don’t! Tune in for this bonus episode now, and remember that you can reach out anytime - with questions, feedback, to work ...
Sep 14, 2024•46 min•Ep. 349
Did the Miami Dolphins react in outrage, as many of the fans and broadcasters did? NOPE. They said something along the lines of “We don’t know what happened yet. We’re going to make sure Tyreek’s ok emotionally and get everyone’s head in the game.” The way we respond to the events in our lives impacts the outcomes. On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss ways you can add to a problem, and ways you can avoid adding to a problem. Because either way - there’s always noise! Remember th...
Sep 09, 2024•50 min
Certain things in life just change you. And you can start looking for ways to cope. Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show (and Faces of Grief Author!) Jan Jeremias found herself in this position and attributes her entire life today to looking for those ways to cope. Jan Jeremias, a compassionate Health Coach, has a career in health and wellness that spans over three decades and is a Bestselling Author of the book SpOIL Your Pet: A Practical Guide to Using Essential Oils in Dogs and Cats. While o...
Sep 04, 2024•37 min
One of the most common phrases I hear from my clients is “They should have known!” My response? No one reads minds! On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss communication breakdowns - in relationships, in the workplace, in the healing journey. Remember that you can reach out anytime - with questions, feedback, to work with me, for referrals and resources, and just for support and connection: sam@samantharuth.com Join the Griefhab Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7/...
Sep 02, 2024•41 min
Do you ever feel like life is ganging up on you? Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show, Rick Cheatham, certainly did! And then he turned those thoughts around - and everything began to change. A seasoned Life and Career Transformation Coach, Rick brings a wealth of experience from a diverse background as a Fire Captain and Union President in Anaheim, California. With a deep commitment to servant leadership,Rick specializes in crisis management, guidingover 200 union members through some of the m...
Aug 28, 2024•59 min
Noise. Its everywhere. It can influence us. It can drown out our own voices. What or who or where influences you? Positively or negatively? On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss the impact people, places, and things can have. PRE ORDER HOUR COPY OF FACES OF GRIEF NOW: https://buy.stripe.com/9AQ9BL1d882G5Mc3d0 Remember that you can reach out anytime - with questions, feedback, to work with me, for referrals and resources, and just for support and connection: sam@samantharuth.com J...
Aug 26, 2024•37 min
I don’t consider myself the most talented artist, but I absolutely enjoy all things creative. It’s about how I feel during the activity, not about the “success” or outcome of whatever I’m working on. Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show, Sue Sutton, uses her creativity to help others. Sue is the Captain and Cruise Director of Pirate Radio, 93.5, Fort Collins, Colorado. She’s also a community connector, bringing together people who might otherwise never connect. She loves using things she finds ...
Aug 21, 2024•39 min
Feelings. Such a negative word to some! Which I think is nonsense, because we’re not robots. Feelings make us human. On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss healthy outlets for our feelings, as well as why this matters! Remember that you can reach out anytime - with questions, feedback, to work with me, for referrals and resources, and just for support and connection: sam@samantharuth.com Join the Griefhab Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7/ Join Team Ruthless for...
Aug 19, 2024•33 min
I feel connected with anyone who has lived through loss…. But some people are extra special, instant connections. Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show is not just a Faces of Grief Author. Dan Older is a man on a mission. He’s passionate. He wears his heart on his sleeve. And he puts his complete all into everything he does. Dan works as a professional portation provider for people with nonmedical needs. In this capacity, he ushers people to and from their appointments with compassion and grace....
Aug 15, 2024•51 min