Hey Suga, I'm Samia B. & welcome to my world of audio. This podcast is home to the different chapters of my work as a creator, podcaster, and founder of Sexual Essentials. I've been creating for years, and my work evolves as I evolve, so this space brings everything together in one continuous timeline.
At the beginning you'll find the first 75 episodes of Not Just Another Sex Podcast, where a lot of my work around revealing the woman behind Sexual Essentials began, this show has amazing guests and even some solo with Samia episodes. Next the episodes transition into The Bankrupt Millionaire, my current podcast organized by seasons, where I share the deeper story of how I went bankrupt only 3 years after becoming a millionaire. This show dives into how most of us have been bankrupt or a millionaire but we don't recognize it because we aren't looking past the financials. Odds are if you are bankrupt in one area of your life you're probably bankrupt in another.
You'll also hear audio versions of Dear Diary, a present-day reflection series that also exists on YouTube and past tense reflective version on Substack.
If you'd like to go deeper, my Substack offers a premium option that explores my Diary of Sexual Essentials, a collection of intimate short stories & honest reflections of my work with Sexual Essentials. My Patreon is where you'll find my Sexual Essentials masterclasses, 300+ workshops, and our weekly community gatherings that happen every Sunday at 9pm est via zoom.
Depending on where you found me, you might be here for different reasons and this stream is designed to hold all of it in one place.
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Wherever you begin, I am grateful to have you & welcome to my creative portfolio xoxo
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You ever feel like you're not using your free will enough? Sometimes that's how I feel. We complain about how our lives our but your routine though originated from something else isn't required. On this particular week I took my weekend first and honestly it was liberating because I'm realizing more and more everyday I sign these big girl permission slips. Nobody else. Click HERE for all my links and join us on sundays at 9pm est for our weekly community call!...
the holidays rocked my world, let's just say I've always had an element of the grinch to me lol between my family dynamics in the past and the capitalism undertone of the holidays sometimes it's just difficult for me. With that being said this past holiday I believe I started to understand what the other side feels like and why people love the holidays. Click HERE for all my links and ddon't forget to join our weekly call Sundays at 9pm est!...
So many words can be understand on an intellectual level or by definition but when it's put into practice do you really get it? Detachment is one of those words that has been used a loot lately and though we can understand what it means the integration and respect for it in our lives and figuring out how to measure if we are actually doing it can be a whole other task. Click HERE for all of my links and dont forget to join us Sundays at 9pm est for our weekly community call xoxo...
Man, doing healthy stuff sometimes starts off boring. Like I believe you I really dodo but I'm uninterested!! That's how I felt about journaling until I heard this story and then looking back over my first year. 10 out of 10 recommend honestly. We be hard as hell on ourselves during the process but to look back and see how much you have done. Only real way to measure change internally is to keep registering or rereading what your heart was saying. Click HERE for all of my links and I hope that y...
HEAR ME OUT. I honestly feel like I've gotten to the point that none of the signs give me a total and complete ick like I'm to a point that I see and acknowledge the duality not only of each zodiac sign but also understanding how to process whatever certain signs do to trigger or ignite inside of me. It's giving next level adulting because this is me being mad accountable lol but also truly understanding that everything outside of us is just a reflection of ourselves. Sidenote: this doesn't mean...
If you're reading this then you have survived 100% of every obstacle that has come your way. IT may not be easy but somehow it works out even the difficulty is apart of the plan. Recently I had a revelation regarding the timing of this past year and how even though I was dedicated to remaining calm through the chaos and not overthinking I STILL could have stressed less. It worked out, it is working out and I needed the reminder that the only time that matters is NOW. Trying to solve problems a y...
It's that time of the year again when fall is fresh & you get one good chance to see all your college friends in the same place that you met them. A time to celebrate how far you all have come and forget about all adulting responsibilities. Well last years homecoming was difficult for obvious reasons but this year was during my integration phase of trying merge back into some sort of social life...and I had to be honest with myself All my links can be found HERE and please consider this your...
Say it with me "Integration Phase"!!! How can you know how much you've truly changed if you're afraid to actually interact with anyone? You're delusional if you think you're as healed as you seem to be alone without actual proof in the form of relationships with others. I know that the past was hard & you learned some hard lessons but it wasn't for nothing, give yourself a chance. That's just me talking to me. All my links HERE , hope to see you on Sundays at 9pm est when our community meets...
I'm definitely the person that thinks everything has a meaning & though it can be mentally exhausting I've learned to embrace it so when I watch corny movies or the same movies over and over its usually because I'm seeing a lesson that I truly need to learn in the metaphor of the movie. With that being said ...when's the last time you watched Last Holiday yes the one with Queen Latifah lmaoooo Y'all don't block me I think this episode was great and to be honest this is how I process behind c...
This one was so honest, compared to the fearful girl that I was a few years ago sometimes I'm just unrecognizable to myself everything about me has changed, what I believe, what motivates me what I'm afraid of what I take accountability for. For the better, is that the miracle I've been praying for all this time? All of my links can be found HERE
Y'all all this feels so familiar! In this sit down I share about how I realize I go through similar processes when it comes to moving past internal limitations. Ass and abs is not built in a day and neither is your evolution and we talk about it! Last year at this time I was refining my schedule and I held onto that schedule for over 6 months and now I need something more, after I got my mind straight consistently then it was time to say ok how can I turn things up a notch. This is the beauty of...
It's been a while so I wanted to update the trailer for you all aso you can stay connected with my projects! You can watch,listen or read my work and currently you're on my audio stream to listen! Here you can find all of my projects that have an audio option if this is your preferred way to tap in. Here you'll find: 75 episodes of Not Just another Sex Podcast Season 1 of The Bankrupt Millionaire (working on season 2 as we speak) Dear Diary Series (visual version on youtube) Audio from my Substa...
A few situations have come up and based on my responses I realized I've changed. Sometimes it's discouraging when it seems like my physical world isn't changing as fast as I think I would like but true change starts with the foundation if you rally want it to last. If all you have to offer is kindness that is STILL a gift! Checkout my youtube HERE all of my Links can be found HERE...
Recently I've been asked to church by a couple of people that I did not know & so I thought it was time for me to discuss why religion or belief of God is NOT an automatic green flag qualifier for me. I understand who people say they are but I've just learned despite the words people use doesn't mean that their life & actions are actually a reflection of that and with something as sacred as my spirtual practices and routines I prefer to get to know someone before joining alongside them i...
Don't worry The Bankrupt Millionaire is still here just wanted to share my latest series from my Patreon, it's been out for a few weeks & the feedback has been great so wanted to share with you all. You can also WATCH this episode here. Having a clear distinction between TBM (the bankrupt millionaire) & my personal reflections and day to day voice is important to me. I've been building this audio feed for almost 3 years & I like sharing everything audio wise in one spot so lets catch...
The Bankrupt Millionaire Season 1: Episode 6 of 6 (season 2 coming soon) In this episode we discuss the pressing matter of integrating the things you've learned from going 'bankrupt' into your actual world & reality. You thought the hard part was being accountable & starting over? IDK I think the integration phase of who you discovered yourself to be or have become in solitude & healing meets your reality is definitely a process as well. Going through the pain of self discovery is on...
This episode delves into the final "Four Agreements" principle: don't make assumptions. The host explores the duality of assumptions, highlighting how they extend beyond negative judgments to include overly positive beliefs without proof, and the danger of assuming risks or responsibilities that aren't truly yours. She emphasizes the importance of direct communication and setting clear boundaries to avoid misunderstandings, burnout, and unhealthy relationships.
The Bankrupt Millionaire Season 1: Episode 4 of 6 This week I dive into the 3rd agreement & how we get distracted and out of alignment and into confusion by being focused on doing THE best versus being and doing OUR best. I discuss why we struggle with doing our best as well as why we have difficulty expressing and cutting off things that aren't the best for us. If you'd like to skip past the intro story that may be triggering you can jump ahead to time stamp 17:11 I'm doing a series on the ...
The Bankrupt Millionaire Season 1: Episode 3 of 6 Moving on to the next of the four agreements. In this episode we go into ways that I meausure what impeccable means to me. Is it honest, respectful & consistent and not just with me but do you uphold that standard in your own life and do you require that of those who are around you? Did you hear the agreement before this one? dont take it personal? Here it is Ways to support me for FREE: let the Ads play (i know it sucks) Watch the visuals on...
This is a convo that I revisit often. Often times we follow the path that seems crystal clear that shows the next 10 steps but it may not be the path with the most clarity or lack of confusion. I went bankrupt following a plan that was crystal clear. But there was rarely any clarity, I was constantly confused. Support me for FREE: Watch on Youtube Let the Ads play during the episode (I know it sucks) Repost on socials Leave a comment under a video or leave a review I love reading them and read t...
Here's another convo I shared on Youtube going forward I'll share them here as well. If it resonates or you'd like to support me for FREE: Watch on youtube Repost on socials leave a review or comment under the video I read them!!! Let the Ads play on the episode xoxo If you'd like to join my community for our weekly calls and get access to my entire catalog of over 300 videos of content you can checkout all my links here....
I started posting some random downloads and discussions that I've had with myself & thought it would be selfish not to share. These came out on my socials already but adding them here and going forward I will add them here as well. Don't worry a new episode drops tonight its exporting as we speak! Here are ways to support me for FREE: pressing play on youtube or reposting the video to you stories or leaving a comment! Don't forget to leave a review below xoxo. All my Links are here if youd l...
The Bankrupt Millionaire Season 1: Episode 2 of 6 I've been a lover of the Four Agreements for a while but as I'm starting over and auditing my life figuring out where I went wrong and understanding how I overcommitted myself and was consistently creating a sturdy case for burnout ... I had to go back and ask myself what did i miss and did I really integrate the principles entirely? Yes we change often but we aren't just talking about a mistake we are talking bankruptcy. So far gone the only opt...
The Bankrupt Millionaire Season 1: Episode 1 of 6 Co-creating with the universe means you'll never know. All you can do is what you believe is right and if nothing else ask does this align with my soul. Detach from the outcome & give yourself permission to go with the flow. It doesn't have to be perfect but you do have to start. Hey suga's we'll talk soon xoxo This week I answered the question: How Am I ok going from a millionaire to bankrupt You can join my weekly community andd get access ...
To my Not Just Another Sex Podcast Family, on this 75th & Final Episode of NJASP (Please add dramatic tone) You can't really end something that was created in love, it simple evolves. Not Just Another Sex Podcast served & will continue to serve a purpose-- creating a safe space for growth, healing, and real conversations no matter where you are & most importantly furthering the community I've been building for 7 years. I'm endlessly grateful for this community & the patience, gra...
Y'all I enjoyed this episode so much, this sit down with Candyys Love was just as amazing as her book " Remember Who the F*ck You Are " this entire show has been dedicated to my healing journey & so there was no better way to close out this journey than with a guest who makes it known that she takes her healing journey very seriously. Candyys journey started with her navigating & understanding her grief. After a prayer asking God to take all the things out of her life andheal her she los...
If you've been listening to this show or following me then you know how special of a sit down this was for me. My first check came from writing with XONecole and here we are years later. Necole has built brand after brand and has been sharing her stories of success and lessons but her current business is one that women have needed. MyHappyFlo her women's wellness brand has been tackling fibroids and other menstrual and hormonal issues that women are having and the results have been amazing. Neco...
Sitting down with Paul was a great time you may know him on social media as @Pauls.Law serving up raw diets, healing advice and a completely unique look on bringing awareness to sickness that is right under our noses! Paul's spiritual awakening kind of hit him out of no where one minute his life was fine and the next he was painfully aware that this wasn't the life he wanted and thats when change began. Paul's straight forward approach to the truth has grown his social media sites as well as his...
Ever wonder why people accept religion but reject spirtuality? Is it the level of accountability that spirtuality takes? I got a chance to sit down with the Critical Thinking Advocate also known as Jasmine's Garden on all your favorite socials and we recived gem after gem as well some insight into her path into spirtuality. Jasmine has taken her viral posts & not only created community but a platform for herself not only teaching her marketing skills but also using her spiritual gifts to upl...
From JujuMama to the Progressive Love Academy this couple has been in the Poly space for over 20 years, they've built their careers around teaching others the tools needed to build a foundation for any type of relationship that they consent to having. In this interview I got a chance to ask Kenya & Carl questions about their teachings and what I loved was the steps being taught are things that should be addressed in any relationship type. From our session on Patreon to here years later it wa...
