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Sex Upgraded

Taylor Johnson - Sex Coach for Menwww.taylorjohnson.life
Helping men and their lovers experience the best sex and relationship lives possible.

You'll hear wild personal stories, interviews with guest experts, and practical how-to episodes as well.

TLDR: In each episode you'll get practical tools & insights you can start using today to improve your sex life AND entire life.

Why?

Because I (Taylor) used to struggle massively with sex. I never had a good mentor, and my struggle negatively impacted my entire life. Now after a huge journey studying sex around the world, I'm thriving, and I want to help you thrive in your sex life too. Why? Because it feels amazing! AND because the world needs more men who can embody their sexual power with confidence and integrity.

Thank you for being here!

-Taylor

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Episodes

Classical Tantra VS Neo Tantra - with Hema Ganapathy

What is the difference between Neo Tantra and Classical Tantra? What do they have in common, and what can we learn from them both, to implement into our own lives? In this episode, Taylor explores tantric wisdom and history with Hema; a gifted mentor and teacher offering unique perspective from her upbringing and life full of experience with tantric traditions. Press play to learn about the historical complexities of Tantra, its cultural branches, the way it challenges societal norms, and can gu...

Dec 11, 20231 hr 4 minSeason 3Ep. 47

Tantric Sexual Mastery for Men - with Shawn Roop

Tantra is a spiritual system that invites you to experience sex and life in a more powerful way. Your sexual energy can be rocket fuel for your entire life, but most men waste it - and waste their lives away in the process. In this episode you'll learn how to harness it so you can truly thrive in sex AND life. Shawn Roop is an expert on both classical and modern Tantra (Neo Tantra), and he focuses on helping men thrive in both sex and life. In this episode you'll learn about Tantric sex, ejacula...

Dec 04, 20231 hr 10 minSeason 3Ep. 46

The Energetics of Porn (BE CAREFUL) - with Tyson Adams

Have you ever watched porn on psychedelics? Tyson has, and he has some VERY interesting things to say about it. This is one of my favorite episodes so far, and I think you'll get a lot out of it IF you've ever watched porn or if you're in relationship with someone who has watched porn. Check out the episode topics below, and please share this episode with a friend if you get something useful from it! 🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube. EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS: 00:00 Intro 03:3...

Nov 13, 20231 hr 4 minSeason 3Ep. 45

Online Dating Secrets to Optimize Your Profile - with Koen Geron

If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how. ⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize your dating profile, AND how to excel once you've matched with someone. 🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this epi...

Nov 06, 20231 hr 7 minSeason 3Ep. 44

Creating Sexual Polarity in Long Term Relationship - with Yuval Mann

Is sexual polarity bullshit? Masculine VS Feminine conversations are huge these days, but in the context of sexual polarity, is it actually helpful to use these terms? Is there a better option? That's what we'll talk about today 🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube . IN THIS EPISODE 00:00 Welcome 02:07 Yuval Introduced 04:04 Traditional Sexual Polarity Questioned 07:46 Embracing Authenticity 09:11 Living a Life of Authenticity 11:30 Societal Myths & Masculinity / Femininity 19:...

Oct 23, 202359 minSeason 3Ep. 43

Why Spiritual Men (New Age) Often Fail in Life & Dating - with Jasper Brown

"There aren't enough good men!" said the woman after ecstatic dance... She couldn't find any at the cacao ceremony or didgeridoo sound healing either... why? What makes a man actually DESIRABLE? That's the real question here... And in this episode you'll hear some of the steps both Jasper and I took to change our lives from being sensitive, and ultimately undesirable new age guys, to being men who have happy and thriving lives and relationships. 🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube. ...

Sep 25, 20231 hrSeason 3Ep. 42

Season 3: What is a Healthy Sexual Man?

What is the healthy masculine? What is a healthy sexual man? How can men thrive sexually in a way that improves the lives of ALL people? These are the kinds of questions we'll dive into in season 3 of this podcast. Why? Because it's both important AND it will help you become a better lover, partner, friend and overall human. We can't become our best selves just by learning techniques... we also have to look at the systems and contexts we're part of, and how we relate to and interact with those s...

Sep 25, 20235 minSeason 3Ep. 41

Semen Retention & Sexual Health with Urologist Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord

Is Semen Retention legit or fake? In this episode you'll hear Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord's perspectives on the crossover of western medicine and esoteric wisdom (semen retention from a western medical perspective). In the second half of this interview (around the 30-minute mark), we get into an really inspiring conversation about conscious monogamy too. It's definitely worth your time if you ever want to have a monogamous relationship. 🔸 You can also watch this episode on youtube. One of my favorit...

Jul 03, 202356 minSeason 2Ep. 40

The Best Masturbation Techniques for Men - with Simon Paul Sutton

Few men have realized the true power of masturbation, and this episode will help you become one of those men. If you DO want to learn the best masturbation techniques possible, and how to masturbate in a way that will blow your mind, improve your sex life AND improve your entire life, this episode is for you. 🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube. When most guys masturbate, they just sit still, without breathing deeply, with their hand moving up and down, usually staring at porn on a scr...

Jun 26, 20231 hr 18 minSeason 2Ep. 39

Voyeurism, Porn, Prayer & the Power of Words - with Rambo Strongheart

Words are powerful, and the right words during SEX can massively improve the experience. In this episode you'll hear how YOU can use the power of words during sex to exponentially increase pleasure and connection for all. We also talk about porn, and whether or not friends should watch each other have sex (instead of watching porn). IF YOU HAVE EVER WATCHED PORN, you should listen to this episode! *The youtube version of this episode will be released this week. --------------- 🔱 CONNECT WITH RA...

Jun 19, 20231 hr 10 minSeason 2Ep. 38

3 Years of NoFap = Problems (AKA Semen Retention Flatline)

After 3.5 years of NoFap, without porn, masturbation, sex or ejaculation, a man reached out to me last week after he realized NoFap was hurting him. He had been experiencing what is called the NoFap Flatline for years... 🔶 You can also watch this episode on Youtube here. Nofap flatline is a term used to describe when a man is feeling low, dull, lackluster, lethargic, bored and unmotivated - INSTEAD of experiencing all of the benefits that are supposed to happen while practicing NoFap. In this e...

Jun 12, 202313 minSeason 2Ep. 37

Stop Limiting Your Sex Life - (5 Things to Change)

Most men limit their sex lives without knowing it... I've done this too... But the good news is that it IS possible to change, and if you change the 5 things mentioned in today's episode, your sex life will improve in massive ways. 🔱 SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES: 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023) 🔸 Semen Retention Mastery 🔱 FREE GUIDES: 🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge 🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide 🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkj...

Jun 05, 202328 minSeason 2Ep. 36

BDSM 101: Intro & Fundamentals with Andre Lazarus

Andre recently taught a BDSM 101 class in Asheville (where I live), and I wanted to attend but couldn't because I was out of town. Some of my friends went though, and their feedback was great, so bringing Andre on the podcast seemed like the next best thing. 🔸 You can watch this episode on Youtube too. IN THIS EPISODE: An introduction to BDSM (Bondage, Dominance & Discipline, Submission & Sadism, and Masochism) How to practice BDSM in a safe and highly pleasurable way How to create a BD...

May 29, 20231 hr 10 minSeason 2Ep. 35

Juno's Polyamory Story - Love, Jealousy & Compersion

In this episode you'll hear Juno's personal story of going from monogamy into polyamory. We talk about the very real struggles of doing this (jealousy and lack of societal support), AND the benefits of this kind of relationship structure too. This episode is unique because Juno isn't a sex or relationship coach. She's not trying to "sell" you a concept or lifestyle. She just wants to share her authentic experience so others can benefit. THANK YOU Juno! You'll even hear some personal stories from...

May 22, 20231 hr 8 minSeason 2Ep. 34

Healing Sexual Trauma in Men - with Therapist Papillon DeBoer

Sexual trauma happens to men too, and it's important to talk about it. In this episode we're joined by licensed therapist Papillon DeBoer, who specializes in helping men work with and heal sexual trauma. You'll learn how trauma affects men, how women are a common cause of trauma in men, what trauma actually is, how generational trauma works, plus techniques and resources to help heal trauma too. We even talk about circumcision trauma. You can find the topics & times below: 🔸 You can also wa...

May 15, 20231 hr 3 minSeason 2Ep. 33

My Second Sex Party + (How MDMA Opened My Heart)

This episode is about the SECOND time I went to a sex party. I actually participated here, and it changed my life in a big way. We all took a micro dose of MDMA, and what happened might surprise you... 🔸 Watch this episode on Youtube here. 🔸 Watch the FIRST Sex Party episode here. 🎙️ View All Podcast Episodes Here 👇 (Free guides & resources below) THOUGHTS ON MDMA: Just to be clear - I'm not saying that everyone should go out and take MDMA to have a therapeutic experience. There are lots...

May 09, 202328 minSeason 2Ep. 32

My First Sex Party... (Personal Story)

This episode is about the first time I went to a sex party. It happened over 10 years ago in Asheville, NC, USA, and it blew my mind - in ways I wasn't prepared for. 🔺 Watch the episode on Youtube here. People often ask me to share personal stories from the past, and this is one I've thought about sharing for a while. It's more of an edutainment episode, because there's not a big lesson or takeaway from this episode other than pure fascination and entertainment... which is definitely a worthy r...

May 01, 202323 minSeason 2Ep. 31

Nonviolent Communication & How to Deepen Intimacy - with Steve Torma

This episode is a MUST LISTEN for anyone who wants to have a thriving long-term relationship. Why? Because creating this kind of relationship takes a certain set of skills that 99.7% of people didn't learn growing up. I certainly didn't... I've studied with Steve Torma for years, and practicing what I've learned from him has fundamentally changed EVERYTHING about my romantic and sexual relationships (and even my business, friendship and family relationships too). Almost all of my close friends h...

Apr 24, 20231 hr 16 minSeason 2Ep. 30

Self-Responsibility, Men's Work & Hard Conversations - with Jeddy Azuma

I didn't expect this episode to go the direction it did, but it ended up being perfect. Thank you Jeddy for getting real with me, and for having the awareness and intuition to pivot the conversation when something juicy came up. Jeddy is the host of the Rising Man Podcast, and he regularly leads in-person workshops for men too around rights of passage and vision quests in the desert. You can find links to his work below. And on the note of pivoting the conversation, if you're part of the organiz...

Apr 18, 20231 hr 4 minSeason 2Ep. 29

Semen Retention as a Lifestyle + My Personal Transformation Story

I just got back from an awesome workshop that changed my perspective on how to practice semen retention as a lifestyle. And in this video I'll first share some important key points about semen retention , and then you'll hear my own personal transformation story from the workshop. * My personal story begins at 13:12 in this episode. The workshop I went to was called Embodied Transformation, and it was put on by the Strozzi Institute - out in Petaluma, California, USA. The workshop itself was not...

Apr 10, 202337 minSeason 2Ep. 28

Semen Retention & Business Growth + Magic & Celtic Mysteries - with Jeremy Schewe

Today we're going to hear how semen retention helped Jeremy create a multi-million dollar business, and how this practice helps him get closer to the magic of life too. We explore: Semen retention as an integrative lifestyle The magic and beauty of intentional ejaculations Creating other forms of life besides human babies How sexual choices impact business success The practice of building sexual energy, transmuting it and using it as fuel to power our creative projects How to tune into the magic...

Apr 03, 20231 hr 6 minSeason 2Ep. 27

Polyamory + How to "Divorce-Proof" any Marriage - with Kenya Stevens

This episode is for ANYONE who wants a successful relationship (monogamous or polyamorous). I've personally hired Kenya as a coach back when I was experiencing growth pains in a non-monogamous relationship. She's an expert in helping with that, AND she also helps anyone in any relationship style too... Kenya has multiple husbands, and her husbands have multiple partners too. They live together, and they're all staring in a new TV show called "Seeking Brother Husband" that just premiered last nig...

Mar 27, 202356 minSeason 2Ep. 26

Sexual Kung Fu, Prostate Orgasms & "Alpha" Males - with Johnathan White

If you've ever looked into Semen Retention, you've probably come across videos from both Johnathan and I. We both teach semen retention as a lifestyle, we both teach sexual mastery for men, and now we both even live in the same city! (Asheville, NC, USA). So when we decided to make this episode, we wanted to make something unique for you. Not just another "how-to" guide... But something fresh. Something personal. And I think you'll really enjoy it. We explore: Non-ejaculatory orgasms Prostate or...

Mar 20, 20231 hr 4 minSeason 2Ep. 25

Relationship Communication Mastery - with David Chambers

One of the most important and underrated aspects of sexual mastery is COMMUNICATION. This is something you should focus on IF you want a thriving sex life and relationship. So in today's episode we're going to explore some very practical and powerful communication skills you can start using TODAY, to create the intimate reality you want. We're joined by David Chambers, who's an intimacy, communication and relationship coach for men. Multiple people requested that I interview him for this podcast...

Mar 13, 202359 minSeason 2Ep. 24

Sex & Desire in Long Term Relationships - with Laurie Handlers

Do you believe it's possible to keep sexual charge alive in long term relationships? Do you believe that sex gets better with age? Turns out both things are possible, and in this episode with Laurie Handlers, you'll learn some great ways to do this. Laurie is an international sex educator, retreat leader, and overall badass woman who helps couples create and sustain thriving romantic & sexual relationships over the long term. She's in her 70s, and she says her sex life keeps getting better w...

Mar 06, 20231 hr 3 minSeason 2Ep. 23

UPDATE: This Podcast Has a New Name!

ANNOUNCEMENT: The name of this podcast will change next week. It started off as "Eros Rising," and I do like that name because it's representative of my intentions for this podcast... But the problem is most people have no idea what "Eros Rising" actually means. From a marketing perspective, that's no good. The new name will be simple and clear, so whenever anyone sees it in the podcast directory, they'll know exactly what the podcast is about. For the name change I decided to upgrade my wardrob...

Feb 27, 202311 minSeason 2Ep. 22

Financial Abundance from Semen Retention 💰 (Personal Story)

Today we're going to talk about sex and money! Specifically, how semen retention helped me make more money in my previous business (before I started teaching about sex and retention). In this episode you'll hear how I went from: struggling to start a business financial scarcity porn addiction premature ejaculation erectile dysfunction and sexual anxiety... To creating success in my business, and experiencing financial abundance for the first time in my life. Sexual energy transmutation and semen...

Dec 29, 202246 minSeason 2Ep. 21

Natural Birth Control & Semen Retention for Successful Pregnancy Prevention - with Naema Pierce

My girlfriend and I have successfully prevented pregnancy using the Fertility Awareness Method and Semen Retention for almost three years now. We're both fertile (just confirmed with my own sperm analysis test), and I do occasionally ejaculate inside her. 🔱 IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: Why women are NOT fertile all the time (unlike men) How Naema and I practice natural birth control in our relationship How the Fertility Awareness Method can be 99.4% effective at preventing pregnancy (that's mo...

Dec 19, 202259 minSeason 2Ep. 20

Overcoming Premature Ejaculation - (Raw & Real Talk Part 2)

This is a followup conversation to episode 16, where Banks and I got real about his struggle with premature ejaculation - BEFORE he took my Orgasmic Mastery Course. Today you'll hear what his life is like now, after taking my course and after being in sex therapy too. If you're someone who wants to overcome premature ejaculation, this episode should give you some hope and inspiration. It may feel hopeless for you right now, but I promise you it isn't. I used to feel that way too, and so have man...

Oct 17, 202244 minSeason 2Ep. 19

I Went to an Anal Sex Party... (Personal Story)

About 5 years ago, I went to an anal sex party in Asheville. It was a wild experience that broke my brain, left me speechless and opened my eyes to things that I had never seen before. I think you'll like this story. :D After listening, check out my new anal sex course that'll give you everything you need to master the art of anal sex (both giving and receiving), including: anal anatomy pain-free penetration techniques anal energetics prostate pleasure anal orgasms rituals to open the root and m...

Oct 11, 202223 minSeason 2Ep. 18
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