Send us a text This week on Not Well Bobby & Jim are back in Columbus and both are feeling bloated from Austin. This one gets heated as we discuss what's happening in Washington and why it's important to stand up. Originally, I was a little worried that it might be all serious, but Bobby’s got some things on his mind, so he puts the spotlight on Jim for their final act in Austin last week. Here is a sneak peak quote at what Jim said to Bobby on that last night in Austin: “ I can’t move my le...
May 11, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 137
Send us a text LIVE FROM OUR HOTEL BED IN AUSTIN TEXAS This week we enjoy the sights and sounds of Austin and when we say sights and sounds, we mean it. Everything is bigger in texas but its full of Steers and Queers. Bobby and Jim talk about their issues with the capital city as well as what they like. We talked about meeting some of the amazing people and we are obsessed with the energy they bring. We harassed straight guys per usual and ended up drinking too much (and Bobby having edibles lik...
May 05, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 136
Send us a text This week Bobby is showing up after attending a Saturday brunch. You're never going to believe the week that Bobby had and Jim has a new "follower" but it’s sort of his fault.Wait until you hear how Bobby spends his HSA money on Amazon and Jim has an experience no homeowner ever wants. to have. What do a lazy Saturday brunch, a case of mistaken identity, and your favorite person have in common? Nothing. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoingsowell/ Please s...
Apr 27, 2022•57 min•Ep. 135
Send us a text Subscribe to our Youtube here: CLICK THIS TO SUBSCRIBE We are making our Youtube debut but things are still being adjusted so stick with us. The audio this week is the edited youtube version. Going forward there will be a podcast version and a youtube version (and eventually an unedited raw version for those who choose) "Everything you can imagine is real." -- Pablo Picasso This week we just returned from a birthday party where we learned how to play a frisbee game that is like co...
Apr 20, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 134
Send us a text “Color is my day-long obsession, joy and torment.” ~Claude Monet “Life is about using the whole box of crayons.” ~RuPaul This week we are sitting in a new setup after Bobby decided to go all out on making a video friendly setup (more on that later). Bobby has a new favorite Tik Tok personality and they go by “sweetntrippy”. She is literally Bobby in female form when he is questioning the existence of everything and she has thoughts while high. We will eventually have her on the sh...
Apr 13, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 133
Send us a text This week, Bobby and Jim had a mini adventure before recording. Bobby is in a rare mood (but is it rare?) and Jim once again tries to keep the ship moving forward and being productive. Bobby went to the dentist and learned a valuable lesson about flossing. He also went on a food tour, where he tried some interesting dishes including Yemeni, Brazilian, Mexican, Vietnamese and Kenyan. Jim went to a gay luau party, where he proceeded to get drunk on sugary drinks and flirt with the b...
Apr 06, 2022•52 min•Ep. 132
Send us a text "I am here," she said, "standing on the shoulders of generations of Americans who never had anything close to this kind of opportunity." - Ketanji Brown Jackson This week, we'll talk about the Senate hearings and how embarrassing it is to see it play out. From Lady G asking about faith to Ted Cruz talking about baby books, we cover it all. Bobby is devastated when he finds out that NASA colors in their pictures from space because they come as black and white. What? Jim had an MRI ...
Mar 30, 2022•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 131
Send us a text "I will sit at the table and compromise with anyone in the name of progress, but there are things I'm not willing to compromise and negotiate on, and that is the rights of women, of immigrants, of workers, and of the LGBTQIA community." Ayanna Pressley This week Bobby and Jim reunite after not seeing each other for 8 days (oh my god how did they survive?)! Bobby just got back from a trip to the nation's capital and learned that the Smithsonian is more than one building, Capital Hi...
Mar 23, 2022•59 min•Ep. 130
Send us a text “You could be happy here, I could take care of you. I wouldn't let anybody hurt you. We could grow up together, E.T.” “You could take care of me. You could always take care of me,”…“I could be the one that takes care of you, E.T., I'm your friend and I love you,” - Elliott (E.T.) Well, we decided it would be a good idea to go to a bar and drink like we never had before we recorded. Jim is not too thrilled with Bobby making him leave the bar to record but teaches the youth who list...
Mar 16, 2022•53 min•Ep. 129
Send us a text "Well, as a matter of policy, we try not to take advice from anyone who praises President Putin and his military strategy.” - Jen Psaki The amount of dry hacking cough laughs from this week’s episode is enough to break the record for being the best in recent memory. Jim tells us about cutting himself preparing for a hookup and discusses looking at your own backside. Bobby reveals the sexyness of wearing a CPAP machine and is going to start a CPAP facebook group for the gays. We ta...
Mar 09, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 128
Send us a text SUPER FANS CLICK HERE ***NSFW- LISTENER DISCRETION IS ADVISED*** “As you attack, it will be our faces you see, not our backs .” — Ukraine’s President Volodymyr Zelenskyy, as Russia invaded his country. We know that the world is a scary place this week, so we tried our best to make it interesting. Jim and his ski trip, which also included an accident, are discussed. Jim also tells us why he's proud to be queer. Bobby tells us more about his sleeping disorder and has some words to s...
Mar 02, 2022•57 min•Ep. 127
Send us a text “I mean, I was Josh Safdie’s muse when he wrote Uncut Gems .” - Julia Fox SUPER FANS CLICK HERE ***NSFW- LISTENER DISCRETION IS ADVISED*** This week, Bobby’s Cousin Heather and her friend Cady come in to discuss how Cady got into a romantic relationship with a gay man when she was younger. We also discuss the female anatomy and we all take a turn drawing what they think it looks like. Bobby ended up peeing in a gender neutral bathroom next to a woman for the first time and tells u...
Feb 23, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 126
Send us a text “Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody.” ― Mark Twain This week on Not Well Podcast, Bobby and Jim are bringing you a lot. From ice fishing to conspiracy, this week's episode ebbs and flows through so many topics. Jim was watching a video that took a turn for the unexpected and is questioning what he'll feel like 20 years from now about seeing couples his current age. Bobby is in conspiracy mode, but also shares clips about being the nice guy and ...
Feb 16, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 125
Send us a text “… when people ask about the meaning of life as if it were the job of our cosmos to give meaning to our existence, they’re getting it backward: It’s not our Universe giving meaning to conscious beings, but conscious beings giving meaning to our Universe.” ― Max Tegmark This week, we talk about Bobby's hatred for high school powderpuff girls (sorry, friends) and once again he is stuck on the topic of d*cki size as well as playing NSFW Twitter audio…Jim talks about his childhood kab...
Feb 09, 2022•49 min•Ep. 124
Send us a text "A queer Christ would be the only Christ I would like to follow." - Dr. Marcella Althaus-Reid This week, we'll deep dive into some fun and relatable topics. Jim received an interesting text that solidified his stance on continuing to be his authentic self. Jim is also appalled at Bobby eating snocaps. Meanwhile, Bobby was gooning on Twitter and telling us the story about when he caught on fire in Cub Scouts. Some Topics We discuss: Slammers Holy Trinity Brewery (again) Jerking off...
Feb 02, 2022•55 min•Ep. 123
Send us a text “There is no life I know to compare with pure imagination. Living there, you’ll be free if you truly wish to be.” -Willy Wonka This is the worst recording we've ever had. We're absolute disasters; the audio is not up to par and it's overall a complete disaster. However, the show must go on and one of our goals in 2022 was to be as authentic as possible. Don't worry, there are plenty of good stories and conversations, just, it gets a little sloppy at times. Bobby talks about new D*...
Jan 26, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 122
Send us a text ***This episode is brought to you by Hydronique Hydration *** “My doctor told me to stop having intimate dinners for four. Unless there were three other people.” – Orson Welles This week on Not Well, Bobby & Jim are feeling like talking a little shit. Bobby has a health coach now and he is not thrilled about it. Jim is in physical therapy and somehow turning it sexual (shocker). Jim also tells us about his vivid dreams and in one of them Bobby is a skinny attractive woman sing...
Jan 19, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 121
Send us a text ***This episode is brought to you by Hydronique Hydration *** " The wonderful thing is, imagination is universal all over the world, no matter what the language is.." - Roy Horn This week is a complete sh*t show, you're welcome! Bobby & Jim take a much needed escape to Las Vegas and hit the town running. they make new friends and they even get a huge upgrade at Caesars Palace. Bobby is very high and decides to take everything to the next level. You will most likely be horrifie...
Jan 12, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 120
Send us a text ***This episode is brought to you by Hydronique Hydration *** “The big lesson in life, baby, is never be scared of anyone or anything.”– Frank Sinatra This week on not well, Bobby and Jim are preparing for their Vegas trip. The episode starts off talking about Jim having a gay sexual experience, Bobby is not amused and is devastated because he was just broke up with by his work husband. Jim hates new years. Bobby thinks if we all die at the same time we would not be scared to die....
Jan 05, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 119
Send us a text ***This episode is brought to you by Fucking Good Soap *** "What a distressing contrast there is between the radiant intelligence of the child and the feeble mentality of the average adult." - Sigmund Freud. How do we get back that inner child inside us all? Imagine a world where we all lived in the now, Focused solely on happiness and carefree living. ...you can. We also talk about: Bidet Christmas Spirit Money Expectations Gifts Turn Offs Anger Teeth Braces Sex Gay stuff Gooning...
Dec 29, 2021•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 118
Send us a text ***This episode is brought to you by Fucking Good Soap *** "Don't be distracted by criticism. Remember — the only taste of success some people get is to take a bite out of you." - Zig Ziglar This week on Not Well with hosts Bobby and Jim, the guys discuss their wild night where things got interesting in the hot tub. They also talk about family at the holidays and how to avoid triggering yourself or your loved ones - which is easier said than done sometimes! Jim and Bobby discuss a...
Dec 22, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 117
Send us a text ***This episode is brought to you by Fucking Good Soap *** “The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear” – Rumi This week on Not Well We talk about: Bobby's Mental Health Update Mediation Sleep Study Being nothing Staying the same body size Jim put up Christmas Lights Getting into Christmas Spirit Bi Sexual Erasure Las Vegas Trip CES Conference Las Vegas Strip Bathhouses in Las Vegas Gay Bars in Las Vegas Transition lenses Good Fucking Soap Patrick from Good Fucking Soap...
Dec 15, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 116
Send us a text “A person’s energy and the aura they give off never lies. Trust in that.” - Anonymous This week on Not Well We talk about: Miz Leaving the show Being stupid and goofy again Focus on Columbus Ohio Aura reading Red Aura meaning Indigo Aura Meaning Purple Aura Meaning What's going on with cussing Britney Spears NCAA Women's Volleyball Edibles Tall Boys (Beer) Digger position in Volleyball Uber Crazy driver Union Café Side profile What book would we want to write? Choices What would w...
Dec 08, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 115
Send us a text “I’ve never met an interesting person with an easy life.” ***This episode is brought to you by Good Fucking Soap *** Topics Discussed This Week: Oatmeal peasants Fissures Prep H Lube Public sex Bathroom attendant Rabbit at the boarder Potato Canada Montreal Vermont New Hampshire Purrtaters Sick Ramen Pittsburgh Stadium seating Heights Beyonce Flawless Hanukkah decorations for no one Jewish Upper Decker Making it Celebrity undercover boss Love Languages Fucking your shower Fleshlig...
Dec 01, 2021•57 min•Ep. 114
Send us a text This week on Not Well we talk about: New Hampshire for Thanksgiving Interesting trip to NYC Throwing up at a restaurant Margarita sizes Hookah The Eagle Gay Bar Jock Night Sweaty Men Eiffel Tower Position Multiple men at once Bad text exchange Lost Jackets Lesbian couple presenting Van Gogh Starry Night in person Brunch Shit Faced Lesbian Pizza IVF baby switch Friendships Trauma Mental Health Gay Sex Blow Jobs Penetration Overweight Homeless People MOMA Thanksgiving Tiramisu is na...
Nov 24, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 113
Send us a text This week on Not Well with Bobby, Jim & Miz we talk about: Donda Kanye West Vincent Van Gogh Edibles Ancestors Future Fans This F***ing LA Trip Flaws Anger Anxiety Sensitive Jewelry Gays Wedding Bands Rings Beyoncé Harry Potter Free Willie Library Dog On Fire Police Childhood Grounded Running away Street Interviews gone Bad Ice Breaker Game Ketamine Treatments Depression ADULTS ONLY Discord JOIN NOW Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoingsowell/ Please s...
Nov 17, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 112
Send us a text This week on Not Well with Bobby, Jim & Miz we talk about: Saying Goodbye to the name She's Not Doing So Well (See letter below) Bottoming and why Bobby feels guilty about it Going through changes Bobby embracing being a creator instead of the main event Bobby sent freak nasty pictures being entered to a friend Dick Pics Dwayne Wade Duane Reade Balls Dick Point of View porn Google history Billy Bob Thorton Bad Santa Sling Blade The Nutcracker Death Songs Supply chain issues Ne...
Nov 10, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 111
Send us a text Its the season 5 Finale, finally. We don't disappoint either when Bobby goes ham on Miz. Jim is blindsided and Bobby is just trying to stick up for himself. This one gets off to a very aggressive start but ends up being a pretty great life lesson. Are you the main character in your life? We also talk about invisible disabilities and what it actually means. Do these disabilities go too far and take away from visible or actual disabilities? You be the judge. Where do we go from here...
Nov 03, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 110
Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well, Miz hooks up at a gay bar with a Pfizer representative, Jim is feeling himself and thinks things are looking up for him and Bobby found out from his bloodwork that he is pre diabetic and has high cholesterol and is in a complete spiral. All this and more because we are extra. We are also talking seriously about a rebrand. We might be changing the name to just "Not Well" for searchability purposes. Key Topics: Bloodwork Crystals/Rocks LA Homele...
Oct 27, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 109
Send us a text This week is another episode that is not with the complete cast of characters . Not to worry, its still entertaining and we will be back together next week! Finally. Bobby hates when people pout all day even though he is guilty of it sometimes. Miz tells us about his WILD time in Atlanta. Jim is in California but literally calls us for no more than 30 seconds from the San Diego Zoo. All this and more sprinkled in. As if you can't get enough of us already, join our ADULTS ONLY Disc...
Oct 21, 2021•48 min•Ep. 108
