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Not Well | A Comedy Podcast

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Join Bobby and Jim on 'Not Well', where fearless conversations meet humor and wisdom in an explosion of topics ranging from the latest celebrity gossip to the intricacies of gay issues and politics. With Bobby's unconventional wisdom, often fueled by his adventures with edibles, leading us into the most random and taboo subjects you'd never dare to bring up, and Jim's sharp intellect providing insightful commentary, there's never a dull moment.

Our podcast is a bold, inclusive space that welcomes gay men, straight women, and straight men alike, especially those who are curious about a wide array of discussions—including the candid exploration of sex and men's bodies. Bobby and Jim create a safe haven for laughter, connection, and sometimes the outright bizarre, ensuring our listeners feel happy, engaged, and part of a larger community.

Every Thursday we dive deep into everything under the sun, from the most controversial topics to the day-to-day quirks of life. Our unique content mix, featuring listener voicemails and the funniest Tik Toks, complements our discussions, making 'Not Well' more than just a podcast—it's a movement towards embracing our not-so-perfect selves.

Subscribe now and join our community where being 'not well' is celebrated, and discovering the joy in life's randomness is a weekly adventure. Experience the dynamic duo of Bobby's wild tangents and Jim's smart insights, and see why our listeners can't get enough of our unapologetic take on the world.

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Episodes

Here We Are Now, Entertain Us (Grunge, Seattle, Los Angeles, Mugging)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well, Bobby has been on vacation in Seattle and LA, Miz is in LA doing stand up, and Jim is going to be in LA next week (who are we). Bobby will give you updates on what's happening with him and share some fun stories from his time in Seattle. We catch up with Miz in LA and find out about the day he quit his job and got mugged. Next week, my friends will be on the show in an episode called "The Girls and The Gays" and it will be the Season 5 Finale....

Oct 14, 202138 minEp. 107

Masters Of Mayhem (Instagram, Polyamory, Sobriety, Sex, Trans Gay Men)

Send us a text Let me introduce ourselves, we are MASTERS OF MAYHEM lately. This week we talk about Instagram etiquette, how difficult being sober is, the actual act of sex and Bobby learns a valuable lesson about FTM (Female to Male) Gay men. Jim opens up about his relationship status and how he finally feels like he understands what he has been feeling. We get vulnerable this week so get ready to love and hate us. Some housekeeping: We will all be traveling to the west coast the next two weeks...

Oct 07, 20211 hr 32 minEp. 106

She's Fully Made Of Wax But We're Not Body Shaming (Shitting Pants, Skincare, Plastic Surgery, Hate Mail, Privilege)

Send us a text This week on She’s Not Doing So Well Bobby is in a full blackout due to change in meds, alcohol and vape pen. 2 hours before the recording Bobby was complaining of being hot and dizzy (I guess sitting in the hot tub drinking in the sun for 4 hours will do it). Bobby is an absolute disaster but also we are just keeping it 100%. This comes on the heels of Bobby yelling at Miz for drinking too much. So much to unpack. Bobby talks about how he almost shit himself at work this past wee...

Sep 29, 20211 hr 28 minEp. 105

A Look Back (Street Interviews, Drag Queen, Being Black and Gay & Miz)

Send us a text ****NOTE*** If you are listening to this before 5PM on 9/22 during the first street interview there is a mini audio breakdown that lasts for about 30 seconds. Just skip or wait it out and it will be fixed later*** This week on She's Not Doing So Well Bobby gave Jim & Miz the week off after some technical difficulties and just being super busy rolling into the fall season. Bobby plays you a clip of his "stand up comedy" routine read by a friend as well as tells you all about hi...

Sep 22, 202147 minEp. 104

It Does A Body Good (Emo, Ugly Private Parts, Milk Drinking, Misfits)

Send us a text Bobby never thought we would be told he needed crucified but here we are. This week on She's Not Doing So Well, Bobby tells a story about going to a concert for "The Used" and while looking around, he notices something about the people he find intriguing. Bobby also thought that societal collapse would be a great topic but when your edible hits you mid talking about it, things get complicated. During Rate my Dick we discuss the dicks we have been seeing and dicks we DON'T want to ...

Sep 15, 20211 hr 16 minEp. 103

Puke & Rally ( Labor Day Binge, Management, Cash Only Bars, Weddings)

Send us a text This week's episode of She’s NOT Doing So WELL is a train wreck. The opening line has Jim throwing up the water he just drank because of a night of drinking bourbon. Bobby is higher than ever and puts on a wig in order to spice things up mid-recording. Miz is starting what turns out to be a 3 day binge of alcohol and self discovery. This episode is full of unpredictable laughter and utter chaos. Bobby starts off with Pee Wee Herman and ends with talking about how much he hates bei...

Sep 08, 20211 hr 17 minEp. 102

Off The Grid (Heartbreak, Gum, Weed, First Kiss, Kayne West)

Send us a text How do you feel in love? Love is a strong and often passionate feeling for someone in a romantic relationship. It is the feeling that you love that person and want to be with them. Love can also be a feeling of caring about someone without the desire to be in a romantic relationship with them. The feeling of heartbreak is a feeling of extreme sadness, depression, and loneliness. It can be accompanied by physical symptoms such as a heavy heart, sighing, and crying. This week on She...

Sep 01, 20211 hr 19 minEp. 101

OnlyFans (Religion, Sex Worker, LA, Drinking, Pray Away)

Send us a text Wars are often started due to religious differences. In order to solve the problem, we must first look at the sources. We need to understand what religion and wars have in common. It is because of this that we should start using religion as a way of uniting people instead of divide them. Its make or break for She’s Not Doing So Well this week. We start out talking about OnlyFans and how investors are shaping society. Bobby feels that the top 1% are controlling everything going on ...

Aug 25, 20211 hr 8 minEp. 100

You Did What??? (Drunk, Comedy Shows, Sh*t Shows, Multiple Personality disorder)

Send us a text Well hello again so soon, we decided since our show's episode count is now over 100 to make this week a double whammy! This episode of She’s Not Doing So Well, Bobby, Miz & Doctor Mike (Bobby’s Partner) discuss what happened to Miz before he left for LA. It's quite the story. We also touch on Bobby's perceived disorder in which Miz gets diagnosed with a disorder of his own by Dr Mike. We also talked about nachos and just a bunch of randomness. Join us for part II! WE ARE PLANN...

Aug 19, 202156 minEp. 99

That's Hot (Casinos, Cooking with Paris Hilton, Birthday Binge, Bathhouse)

Send us a text A bathhouse is a public facility that provides bathing and, usually, washing. The earliest public baths date from around 2800 BC in Ancient Egypt, and were used for both cleanliness and rituals. Public baths had a communal aspect to them, with all people typically bathed naked in the same room. Can anyone guess how the gays use them? We made it to 100 episodes and we can't believe it. We've changed formats multiple times and added our Miz, and we're more excited about the future t...

Aug 18, 202142 minEp. 98

Teabag Him, Mary! (Originality, Death, Voice Messages, Alcohol)

Send us a text The act of teabagging someone (or being "teabagged") involves putting your balls into their mouth while they're lying on the ground or getting them to put their balls in your mouth and then lifting up your lower jaw so that they fall out onto their tongue with a satisfying plop! What the hell is a Mary? Mary's are people too. This week on She's Not Doing So Well, Bobby is in a full sativa rage. It’s not so much as an angry fury (or even that he was high) but more of the vibe we ha...

Aug 11, 20211 hr 6 minEp. 97

Such As Why? (Smoking, Sleep, Fisting, Body of Christ)

Send us a text Let's go over a few other things: Fisting is a sexual practice in which one partner inserts their entire hand into the anus of another person. Body of Christ is a phrase found in Christians' Eucharistic liturgy that refers to the bread and wine used in the sacrament. Karens are two types of fungi--one causes yeast infections while the other causes a pain in the ass. Oh... Hi Gay (or whatever you are) This week on She's Not Doing So Well, Bobby contemplates sleeping patterns and wh...

Aug 04, 20211 hrEp. 96

I'm Not Actually A Fan (Trauma, Cardboard Olympic Beds, Crushes, Jury Duty, Chubs)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well, Bobby, Jim & Miz are in a mood. Bobby & Jim are feeling trauma from the weekend and tell the tragic story that happened. Bobby specifically just took edibles the entire weekend especially after the "incident" so he is dealing with the trauma in the best way possible. He also brings up the 2020 (in 2021) Olympic games in Tokyo and is concerned about the POS (People of Size) having to sleep on cardboard beds. Miz has found his Venmo crus...

Jul 28, 20211 hr 3 minEp. 95

Daddy Chill (Catfishing , Stepping into Psycho, Butt Plugs, Dentist Office, Body count)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well the boys show their true colors. Bobby talks about the horrifying activity of riding on a peddle wagon. Miz tells us about his weekend at The Berkshire and brings up an interesting way to flirt with a bartender. This conversation leads Bobby into telling his most inappropriate action ever and it's almost Sherry Pie level bad. Jim then tells us the time he stepped into psycho. Let's just say we learn a lot about each other. Jim also tells us his...

Jul 21, 20211 hr 11 minEp. 94

I'm not gonna say anything because it looks tragic (Gay Camping, Penises, Blowjobs, Sex, Mexico)

Send us a text This week the boys have all been traveling and making moves as summer is in full swing. Bobby discusses his first ever gay camp experience and what its like to be around a lot of naked dudes who are just hanging out and not hooking up (necessarily). Miz made out with someone who was the "ugliest person ever" but allowed it to escalate off of a sunset cruise on the Hudson River, to blowjobs in bushes. Jim is in rare form and is super exhausted from drinking eighteen drinks everyday...

Jul 14, 202152 minEp. 93

Smoke Em If You Got Em (Surprise Conversation, Work Meetings, Sex, Porn, Flaccid)

Send us a text This week we literally are flying by the seat of our pants. Bobby has been out of town in Atlanta, Jim has been working and is about to go to Mexico and Miz has been in New Hampshire with his parents....sober... Here is a taste of what we talk about: Nephew calling out Bobby for something unexpected Jim does not understand why "older" people don't get Pronouns or basically anything Traveling in an airplane is still a disaster Miz has a meeting literally in the middle of the show A...

Jul 08, 20211 hr 7 minEp. 92

S.T.F.U ( Work, Trans Athletes, White Gays, Margarita Delivery, Adult Swim)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well we dive into a few serious topics. We talk about transgender athletes and why its a hot topic. We go into details about a Tik Tok Bobby responded to that caused some controversy and backlash. Miz is pissed about the margarita delivery service being canceled and now his gay awakening is OVER. Jim went on vacation and is "Lucky" but also has a fight with a lady at the pool during adult swim. All this and more. As if you can't get enough of us alr...

Jun 30, 20211 hr 8 minEp. 91

I Actually Don't Know Why I Didn't Get High Before Going To High School (Wake and Bake, Manscaping, Gay Swimming, Morning)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well the boys record in a brunch style setting. Bobby talks about why he is socially awkward all the sudden, Miz continues his gay awakening and Jim can't stand the mornings. All this and more!! Oh and we are the new Frenemies As if you can't get enough of us already, join our ADULTS ONLY Discord where basically anything goes.... JOIN NOW Show us some love if you choose! www.patreon.com/shesnotdoingsowell Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagra...

Jun 23, 20211 hrEp. 90

She Just Tries So Hard to be Different ... It's Not Even Natural (Queerbaiting, Gay Awakening, Tongue Smiles, Straight guys, sex experimentation)

Send us a text This week on She’s Not Doing So Well, things take on a different kind of vibe, and we’re here for it. Bobby is up and arms over Billie Eillish as it seems apparent that she is Queerbaiting in her new video and other actions. MIZ is having an unexpected and fully off-brand gay awakening, and Jim is tired of remaining quiet and tells us about his hatred for tongue teeth smiles. These topics and so much more will have you laughing, cringing, and potentially crying. Don’t miss this we...

Jun 16, 20211 hr 7 minEp. 89

Ok Well... Try Shitting In The Non-binary Bathroom At Stonewall (New York Gays, New York City, Recording Together, Blowjob at The Eagle)

Send us a text After Season 4 ended with MIZ’s abrupt departure, the show’s future seemed to be one giant question mark. Fear not because Season 5 of She’s Not Doing Well is back and more insane than ever. Open scene on the boys drunk in a hotel room after bottomless brunch, where discussion flows from public hookups at the bar, the sweltering New York City heat, and, somehow, the titanic. Join us as we kick off the season with a mess to beat all messes. You’ll be confused, but somehow, you’ll k...

Jun 09, 202150 minEp. 88

I Think He Is Ok (Mix Minus Podcast Feud, NYC trip, Gay Comedy, Cliffhanger ending)

Send us a text Is this the beginning of the end? This episode is FULL of drama. To start, we found out another podcast, Mix Minus, has started talking some shit about us. We took in in stride and attack back pretty aggressive. This then causes us to talk about how much we don't understand Disney Gays and why its so fun for 40 year old's to go to Disney. Really, we don't understand it. Speaking of Disney, Miz was 1st chair trumpet in middle school band and forgot his sheet music so faked the enti...

May 26, 202152 minEp. 87

No One Ever Called You Ugly And No One Ever Called You Pretty (Gender Labels, Puppets, "Minimum Wage Gays", They/them pronouns))

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well, the vibe is...different and controversial at times. Miz had a horrible night around what he likes to call "minimum wage" gays (gays who bring nothing to the table other than being bitchy and over the top). Bobby & Jim try to convince Miz that being gay does not mean you have to fit in a certain box at all. With two weeks left until all of the guys are finally all together in NYC, Bobby and Jim are planning to rock Miz's gay world and show ...

May 19, 20211 hr 6 minEp. 86

I Was Like In Gay Heaven, But Straight Hell For Gays (Airplanes, Spelling Bee, Brooklyn, Milking the Prostate)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well, the boys have a rough start when Jim can't find his remote equipment and has to drive to Bobby's to record only to get in his car and have all the lights blinking and it not starting. Bobby talks about being a person of size or a POS and how we need to embrace getting back to normal and hugging the people we miss. Miz was looking sexy as fuck this weekend and was totally feeling himself. He tells us about a party that had gays and girls but he...

May 12, 20211 hrEp. 85

My Friends Had A Nickname For Me (Brunch, Anti-Vaxxers, Earth, Problematic gays, Ecstasy)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well the boys are in an interesting mode and come out of the gates swinging at some problematic gays. Bobby is hungover, grumpy, anxious and all around mess and tells us how he is tired of people (like anti-vaxxers) needing led to water. Miz hated his comedy show but signed up for another one. He also had a DAY on Sunday and ran all around NYC with old co workers. Jim tells us about how MDMA (ecstasy) is used in trials for PTSD as well as throw Bobb...

May 05, 202158 minEp. 84

It’s Just A Whole Cornucopia Of Horse Shit (lying, dark game show, the nose, demi lovato)

Send us a text This week the boys audio is finally on point but what about their topics? Bobby & Jim are sick of the "Columbus Gay Elite" not noticing them or at least being supportive like they have of the "Columbus Gay Elite" (good thing we have expanded to NYC). They also discovered and got mistaken for a new podcast out of Columbus called Gay Propaganda. We are NOT them but we do wish them luck. Bobby brings up lying and calls out everyone because literally everyone lies. Miz puts on a m...

Apr 28, 20211 hr 17 minEp. 83

I Just Laid On The Ground With A Bike On Top Of Me (Reality star comes out, Bathroom habits, Bike accident in Central Park, Aliens)

Send us a text Happy Wednesday! This week on She's Not Doing So Well, Bobby, Miz & Jim are feeling very refreshed. Bobby got his hands on a Netflix exclusive preview of the gay reality show featuring Gus Kenworthy as a gay guide to Colton Underwood being filmed now. He also talks about people in his office not knowing how to check after themselves when they go to the bathroom. Miz had a WILD RIDE through central park at 2am after "52 Corona bottles". Jim tells us about aliens which then spin...

Apr 21, 20211 hr 16 minEp. 82

I Wish I Could Glitch Out Of This Bitch (Simulation Theory, Funeral Arrangements, Lube, Organisms)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well we are in a w(hole) new reality. No really, Bobby is becoming more and more obsessed with simulation theory and does a piss poor on brand explanation of it. Miz wants to have a funeral arrangement talk, where we discuss menus, positions and themes. Bobby is uncomfortable with the topic which seems to delight Jim and Miz. Jim tells us what lube will stain the sheets and what lube you can take into the shower. He also gives us a fun fact about th...

Apr 14, 20211 hr 17 minEp. 81

You're the type of person that has nothing to say but everything to say (Lil Nas X, Disagreements, Celebrity Mental Health, Sexual Tension & Photos)

Send us a text This week is full of fun and adventure. The boys are literally at each others throats and might not call each other by their names ever again. Bobby is unprepared for the first time, Miz is over Demi Lovato and why her mental health is more important than the regular everyday person. Jim tells us about how photos work and how you can catch people in complete lies. Jim and Miz go at each others throats over Lil Nas X and Bobby is the poor soul in the middle, even though he basicall...

Apr 07, 20211 hr 7 minEp. 80

Yea…Good Thing I Am Not The One Complaining About Bags Under My Eyes You Old Ugly Bitch (Covid, Virginity, Comedy Profession, Aging)

Send us a text As if they could not get any worse, Bobby has covid and is NOT happy about it. After a year of precautions and a vaccine, Bobby tests positive for covid and we are not shocked. Miz hates standup because he feels he does not fit in a certain mold. Jim calls out the guys about aging and tells us all about what the process is like. They also all go into details about losing their virginity and they are all unique in their own way. All this and more! As if you can't get enough of us a...

Mar 31, 20211 hr 16 minEp. 79

I Love It...You're Drinking Wine Out Of A Whiskey Glass (Leashes, Elementary School, Babysitters, Legal Fun, Tobacco))

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well, the boys are in rare form...again. Miz is in serious distress about the fact that he will neve be apart of Ricky Martins life. Jim tells us about death and ants as well as his soap opera loving baby sitter (which leads to some amazing stories from Miz and Bobby) . Bobby grew up with a leash and he wonders if the leash is still in control of his life. He also brings up the "Sit & Reach" from elementary school. All this and more. As if you c...

Mar 24, 202159 minEp. 78
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