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Not Well | A Comedy Podcast

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Join Bobby and Jim on 'Not Well', where fearless conversations meet humor and wisdom in an explosion of topics ranging from the latest celebrity gossip to the intricacies of gay issues and politics. With Bobby's unconventional wisdom, often fueled by his adventures with edibles, leading us into the most random and taboo subjects you'd never dare to bring up, and Jim's sharp intellect providing insightful commentary, there's never a dull moment.

Our podcast is a bold, inclusive space that welcomes gay men, straight women, and straight men alike, especially those who are curious about a wide array of discussions—including the candid exploration of sex and men's bodies. Bobby and Jim create a safe haven for laughter, connection, and sometimes the outright bizarre, ensuring our listeners feel happy, engaged, and part of a larger community.

Every Thursday we dive deep into everything under the sun, from the most controversial topics to the day-to-day quirks of life. Our unique content mix, featuring listener voicemails and the funniest Tik Toks, complements our discussions, making 'Not Well' more than just a podcast—it's a movement towards embracing our not-so-perfect selves.

Subscribe now and join our community where being 'not well' is celebrated, and discovering the joy in life's randomness is a weekly adventure. Experience the dynamic duo of Bobby's wild tangents and Jim's smart insights, and see why our listeners can't get enough of our unapologetic take on the world.

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Episodes

F**k You Seth. I Really Liked You. (Too High, Royals, Point of Life, Twins, Gays, Sex & More)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well the spiral has hit the basement floor. Bobby has an edible at the wrong time and goes through a series of issues that become hysterical and award winning entertainment. Miz HATES tote bags and also tells us why we should not like Seth. Jim tries to freak out Bobby but ends up having Bobby stumped and looking stupid. We bring it home with an ending no one will see coming (or actually you probably will fully see it coming). All this and so much m...

Mar 17, 20211 hr 3 minEp. 77

I Had To Go To Macy's, Like Any Self Respecting Midwesterner Would ( Manscaping, Lung Pills, Suit Sizing, Sex, Consent & Gay Reddit Bashing)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well, the boys continue to spiral. Bobby has replaced his infatuation with the move and existentialism with his overuse of certain words and alleges a hate crime was made against him. Meanwhile, MIZ experiments with lung pills and seeks advice on how to groom himself, and Jim was forced into Macy’s after discovering he....outgrew his suit. All this and more on your favorite gay comedy podcast! Commercial: Thanks For Coming Podcast (Top Ranked Ru Pau...

Mar 10, 20211 hr 16 minEp. 76

He Literally Has Margarita In His Lungs Right Now (Mid-Life Crisis, Fantasy, Duck Anatomy & Sex)

Send us a text I wanna get you in the back seat windows up …That's the way you like to fuck, clogged up fog alert. Rip the pants and rip the shirt,.. This week on She's Not Doing So Well we talk about sexual fantasy. Bobby talks about his midlife crisis and how seeing the full moon freaked him out tot he point of questioning "what is a road?". Miz is still super busy at work but was not busy enough to stop the margarita train from happening. Jim got a Peloton but shortly after starting his new w...

Mar 03, 20211 hr 7 minEp. 75

I don't feel bad for you if you didn't exercise your total intelligence (Dick Size, Sherry Pie, Salad Tossing, HIV Stigma, Clouds & Bad Leadership)

Send us a text In this week's episode of She's Not Doing So Well, the boys are a little, testy. Bobby got prescribed his medical marijuana card and he literally hates bad leaders. Bobby also asks about preferences and if it is really that bad to have a type. Miz has an HIV scare and we learn what kind of stigmas and fears that are still involved. We talk about what an average dick is and how average means majority not minority. Jim eats ass and fully stumps us with the talk of clouds. Jim also q...

Feb 24, 202153 minEp. 74

I Had An Apple For Dinner... I'm Skinny (Beards, Straight Women Allies, Gay, Consent & Female Anatomy)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well , the boys seem to be in a spiral, and you will be living for it. The main topic this week was about the amazing straight women in gay men's lives and there different terminology and definitions. Of course in perfect SNDSW fashion we stray off topic into some interesting developments. Bobby has men writing him asking for him to do videos with all sorts of fetishes. Jim is in a better mood this week and brings up some really good points about co...

Feb 17, 20211 hr 5 minEp. 73

I Fell Into A Pile Of Clothes And Faked A Seizure Because She Wasn't Talking To Me (Hand Jobs, Bananas, Open Relationships & Barber Shops)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well, bobby takes his newfound OnlyFans career a step further by inventing a sex move, and Hellen Keller is involved. The MIZ and Jim weigh in and ask the obvious: “What?” In other news, The MIZ is over barber-shop small talk and Jim lays out his feud with Bananas. The episode rounds out with a listener suggestion about open relationships and things end a little..... je ne sais quoi, awkward. One thing’s for sure this week - she is NOT doing so well...

Feb 10, 202148 minEp. 72

My portfolio tanked so I got into porn (OnlyFans, Wall Street, Stocks & Snow)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well, the boys work on diversifying their portfolio through different revenue streams - specifically, Bobby's OnlyFans debut. Will he make millions, or will he file Chapter 11 in three days. We may not be going to the bank yet, but we're laughing anyway. In other news, the MIZ has a laundry list of things he hates this week, and Jim explores an interesting dream, or perhaps a nightmare - you be the judge. While they somehow end up unpacking Alzheime...

Feb 03, 20211 hr 9 minEp. 71

With a Taste of a Poison Paradise, I'm Addicted to You, Don't You Know That You're Toxic? (Toxic Gays, Plant Gays, Butt Plugs, Urinals & Trouble)

Send us a text This week on She’s Not Doing So Well, things get a little…toxic! Don’t worry, it’s toxicity at its finest and full of comedy. The boys discuss what it means to be a toxic gay and share experiences dealing in the topic while learning a thing or two about themselves. In other breaking news, Bobby has major beef with urinals, MIZ can’t keep his plants alive, and Jim finds himself in a bit of delicious trouble. Join us this week on She’s Not Doing So Well – with a taste of our podcast...

Jan 27, 20211 hr 10 minEp. 70

If Armie Hammer Wants To Break My Ribs And Eat Me Alive, All The Power To Him (Thrussy,Circle Jerks, Life, Gay Drama)

Send us a text She's Not Doing So Well - Gay Comedy Podcast Title :If Armie Hammer Wants To Break My Ribs And Eat Me Alive, All The Power To Him (Thrussy,Circle Jerks, Life, Gay Drama) Things really heat up this week on She’s Not Doing So Well. Your favorite gays take messiness to the next level and record in a full blackout, leading to unfounded drama and an existential crisis. MIZ realizes he’s more sensitive to criticism than he would like to lead on, Jim advocates for the average lifestyle, ...

Jan 20, 20211 hr 2 minEp. 69

I Kissed My Grandfather Goodbye In That Rotunda (Fat Shaming, Cousins, Gay Straight Guys, Capitol Domestic Terrorism, Butt Plugs & ASMR)

Send us a text Per usual, we are out of our minds in this episode. Jim had WAY to much to drink before hand and brings you an unhinged unicorn with a magic attitude. The Miz is really upset (to put it lightly) about people who still refuse to see how vile and nasty the United States has become. He also says if it were not for social issues he would probably lean more conservative. Bobby & Jim talk about growing up republican and closeted and what it means now when they see people they grew u...

Jan 13, 20211 hrEp. 68

I had this really weird thing where I had to sweat every day to feel good or else I felt like really puffy (Gayming, New Years, Bottomless Margaritas & Gays over covid)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well we have got a dose of fun for you. We talk to Bobby about his Fat Liver and how he got so high he could not feel his feet and was stuck watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire after he almost paid $30 for McDonalds delivery (Thanks to Bobby's partner for running to McDonalds and only paying $10). Jim has a hot daddy doctor who he likes to just stare at and Jim is in rare form and we are SCREAMING. The Miz went out for Bottomless Brunch and it tu...

Jan 06, 20211 hr 13 minEp. 67

This Is My Last Sober Episode, I Can't Do This (Diets, Gay stuff, Abuse & Eating disorders)

Send us a text *** TRIGGER WARNING*** **This episode discusses abuse and eating disorders. If Discussing these subjects in a light hearted, comedic manner offends you, listener discretion advised** This week on She's Not Doing So Well, we talk about the year ending and what we want to leave in 2020. Bobby talks about sexual abuse and The Miz talks about how he dealt with eating disorders. We got very deep in this episode but also kept it super casual and comedic. While we are laughing and having...

Dec 29, 20201 hr 8 minEp. 66

Is Cialis A Sleeping Pill? (Death Comedy, Feeling unlovable & being in a gay neighborhood)

Send us a text In this weeks episode of She's Not Doing So Well, the boys started off wanting to have the episode be about gayborhoods. We found out that gayborhoods are great but its sort of hard to talk about. Some things we talk about are being unlovable and in the friend zone (thanks to our texter this week), Straight boys are kissing for fun, we are the #1 Gay Death Comedy, Would someone judge your life if you died suddenly and just good gay comedy really. We hope you have a great holiday s...

Dec 21, 202058 minEp. 65

Our World is so Complex and so Subjective That There's Just so Many Different Views. (Gay Only Fans, Death Penalty, Pineapple Express, Ableism & More)

Send us a text This week on She's Not Doing So Well (gay comedy podcast) the boys seem very bi polar in their topics (not in their sexuality). Talking about gay Only Fans, to adult diapers on a plane to the death penalty and ableism. Bobby seems frustrated as he thinks all comedy is going to be canceled at some point and Jim hammers home about why its really not ok to make fun of Donald Trump for wearing diapers because some people have to do this on a regular basis and that would make us ableis...

Dec 16, 20201 hr 5 minEp. 64

Well, I Am Never Going To Have The Body In Order To Get An Invite To Fire Island (Basic Gay Bitches, Whale Blubber & More)

Send us a text This week we start a new season and a new chapter. The Miz (Anthony Villiotti) Makes his debut as the permanent 3rd host. We have a good time getting to know him and his super dark humor and so much more. Some topics discussed are Rudy Giuliani Chuck - E - Cheese Lean Squad Bobby's Weight Loss Journey started Gagged and Giggled Commit Soo Miz is mad at Austin Elliot Page Twitter Ban Olive Garden Ass Bitch Jennifer Lopez Mariah Carey Ariana Grande Frankie Grande is annoying as fuck...

Dec 09, 202052 minEp. 63

You Need Three Oxygens Everyday To Live, Therefore And Such As. Feat Michael Burke (Being Gay and Bold, Comedy, Thanksgiving, Gen Z & More)

Send us a text This week on She’s Not Doing So Well (#1 Gay Comedy Podcast) we bring Michael Burke on to be a guest host. This episode we improv the entire episode other than we know that Thanksgiving is the upcoming holiday. Michael Burke Joins Us We are talking about nothing and everything Thanksgiving is canceled for Jim Being Bold Being Gay and Being Bold President is not bold Journey of 2020 Guilt Brene Brown Thanksgiving Whole Foods Turkey Capitalism Civil War II New South Liquid Death Wat...

Nov 25, 20201 hr 12 minEp. 62

It's like oh, I would hug you goodbye but it's COVID and like jealousy! (Georgia, Covid-19, Gay, Grinder, Nudes & so much shade)

Send us a text This week on She’s Not Doing So Well. The boys really prove why there are the Best Gay Comedy Podcast (or Comedy podcast for that matter). Bobby is doom and gloom and thinks the country is headed for a collision course into destruction. Jim keeps saying the word cancer because Bobby got his blood results back and well, its Bobby and he’s a total Hypochondriac. This week we sat down and pressed record and this is what you get. Trump has yet to concede Conceited much? So much Shade ...

Nov 18, 202043 minEp. 61

Where is Nicolas Cage When You Need Him? ( QAnon, Antifa, Trump, Biden, Gays, Voting & more)

Send us a text This week on the best gay comedy podcast She's Not Doing So Well. The election is over and there is a clear winner! Joe Fucking Biden. However, Donald Shithead Liar Trump is claiming everything is rigged against him. We talk about this and how the right is now " Scared" for their loved ones lives in this new "radical" America. Bobby has had enough of the fucking bullshit to be honest. Being gay you would think that people in our lives would have been "scared" for us. No they are o...

Nov 11, 202048 minEp. 60

Together We Stand. Divided We Fall (Post Election Nightmare)

Send us a text This week we talk about the election. The full results are not in yet but we discuss where we are at and what everything means including: Your live reactions before the vote tally began night of the election What the electoral college is Coastal elites Leftist Biden Trump Gay LGBTQIA Counting Vote Democrat Global warming Police Homeless Healthcare Opportunity BLM Bobby has a speech For more exclusive material, video's, extra content, see our Patreon. www.patreon.com/shesnotdoingso...

Nov 05, 202042 minEp. 59

Dental Dam, Percocet Voice & Witch Weed (In other words, its our Gay Halloween Special)

Send us a text One of our craziest episodes yet. Bobby and Jim talk for the first time in 2 weeks and they do not disappoint. This is a classic SNDSW episode. Tiffany Trump and her “pride” Celebration for the LGBQIIA+ Community Tiffany also getting soft toned with the talk of aids Tiffany Trump is like if Lindsay Lohan and Miley Cyrus had a baby Smoker cough Tiff Tiff Jim is turning 29 again Mask for your hole and your face Somehow Dental Dams Come up We listen to how Dental Dams work and someho...

Oct 28, 202056 minEp. 58

Just Because You Are In The Middle Of An Eiffel Tower Does Not Mean You Can Just Ignore A Pandemic Featuring Britt East

Send us a text This week we have the incredible Britt East ( @britteast ) on the show. Britt is a Speaker and also the author of the book A GAY MAN'S GUIDE TO LIFE "A personal growth and development manual that combines memoir with practical and pragmatic advice to challenge and inspire gay men to live their best lives. No new-age mumbo jumbo or wishy washy self-help jargon. Just real work focused on real results to unleash our true selves and unlock our best lives." Some Other Topics Discussed ...

Oct 21, 202059 minEp. 57

Are You Breaking Up With Me Because I'm Alive? (Yoga, Cancer & Loving Yourself)

Send us a text Release Date: 10/14 @ 9AM Do you love yourself? No really, look in the mirror, do you love yourself? No matter how many friends you have or how many likes you have on a social media post, do you love yourself? Even if you say yes, this episode is a must listen. ⁣ This week on She's Not Doing So Well, we speak to the incredibly inspiring Kirsten Beverley-Waters. She is a Yoga Medicine teacher, fitness coach, author, and motivational speaker. Kirsten is known for using innovative mo...

Oct 14, 202047 minEp. 56

Yes...And... (a look into improv, comedy & life Featuring Michael Burke)

Send us a text This week Bobby & Jim are accompanied by Dave as we interview Comedian and Tik Tok breakout Michael Burke. Some things we cover: · Trump and his anti-mask rhetoric · Super spreader event at the Whitehouse · Karma is a bitch · Downplaying Covid · Age is not just a number · Fox News is a fucking joke · Gay community needs to step up · Bobby feels like Columbus LGBTQ community likes to talk the talk but does not walk the walk · Jim goes off on local bars · Bobby talks about wanti...

Oct 07, 20201 hr 15 minEp. 55

I need to make sure some prescriptions are filled before I think things that I don't want to say. (Featuring Joey Skladany)

Send us a text *** Please forgive our audio during Joey's Interview (he sounds great, Bobby & Jim sound a little muffled) but its still good (side note, we were trying new software for remote recording and it was a failure)*** This week we talk to Joey Skladany about his new cookbook Basic Bitchen. We talk about what its like growing up gay in Naples Florida, Working with Mama June and Honey Boo Boo and what its like to write a book. We also talk about Bobby's Dentist trip & how Hot Aaro...

Sep 30, 202052 minEp. 54

Blink If You're Ok Ladies (Featuring Hall Monitor of the Universe)

Send us a text This week we have one of our favorite Tik Tokrs to talk all about their life, Hollywood, being different, non-binary, pronouns and more. We also do a mini rapid fire with them! Its super fun this week. Gender reveals,Forest Fires ,Wild Fire, California, Straights, Boy, Girl, Intersex,Global Warming ,Trump ,Fucking idiot ,Gay ,Gay Stuff, Hall Monitor of the Universe, Vegas, Small towns, Growing up Queer, Coming out, support, Hollywood, Tom Cruise, Jennifer Garner, Anna Faris, The A...

Sep 16, 20201 hr 5 minEp. 53

What if God Was One of Us? (Just a Gay Like Some of Us)

Send us a text This week we asked you to help us narrow down a topic. You chose God. This episode we talk about some of the following: Yacht Daddy Pina Colada God Faith Make believer Science Wanting so bad to believe denial of death god made me gay gay is made in his image lady gaga lady godga story be a good person If you are easily offended about god and religion this one isn't for you. For more exclusive material, video's, extra content, see our patreon. www.patreon.com/shesnotdoingsowell Fol...

Sep 09, 202046 minEp. 52

Higher-Fatter-Drunker

Send us a text **Warning** This episode will sound more like a live episode because we brough mics up and recorded in a huge living room. We literally lay on the couches and ramble so while its enjoyable, sometimes the audio sounds like we are deep throating the mics*** This week is a SNDSW state of the union and labor day special. We talk about our upcoming schedule, the shenanigans at the lake, SNDSW makes a Broadway special and more. Some topics discussed this week are: Lake Trip Weekend Away...

Sep 02, 202038 minEp. 51

Is Kansas City The F Capital of the World? (Gay Travel & Problematic Slurs)

Send us a text This week we tackle some key issues. Bobby jokingly asks Jim if he wants to have a pussy and learns that being trans or presenting a certain way does not put you in any box or label. We then go right into the Cincinnati Reds announcer, Thom Brennan, speaking on a hot mic about how Kansas City is the " one of the fag capitals of the world". Jim opens up about why the word triggers him but also how to spin it back and not allowing the word to hurt him. This week also is about Gay tr...

Aug 26, 202042 minEp. 50

I Shoved That Thing As Far Back As I Could

Send us a text Bobby Has a cough Covid Test Working From Home Primary Care Doc could not Test Lack of testing Slow Testing Down Equitas Gayish stuff Drive Thru Covid Test Hazmat Suites Self Administer Wizard of Za Hidden Pizza Sports College Football Cancled Tail Gating Capitalism vs Education fall tantra tantric sex sex moaning Is it real? Leslie Jordan Gay Rose Mathews Might be a bitch Palm Springs. Facebook is the Devil True Colors come Out AOC Mark Zuckerberg Wrap Up For more exclusive mater...

Aug 19, 202039 minEp. 49

The Lights Are On But No One Is Home

Send us a text This week we dive into a bunch of random things. We rant about how antidepressants are ruining our lives but also making them so much better. We also talk about self esteem and see if you can come back from having bad self esteem. Britney Spears Spacers Orthodontist Gap Tooth Grindr Guest Gayness Gays Military Guys Folsom Street Hunts is Disgusting Pandemic Funny stuff Grindr Question Fail Only Fans Mushroom Dick Big dick soft small dick hard small dick soft big dick hard stupid q...

Aug 12, 202045 minEp. 48
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