Declan and Silvan are joined by Jenn from the Book Refuge for Part 2 of our Fan fiction and AO3 episode. We go deeper into the world of AO3 and fancition. We cover tags such as hurt/comfort and soulmate Alternate Universess to secret marriages, social media disasters, and the infamous plane crash fic. Jenn guides us through the stories that have captured the Heated Rivalry fandom's imagination. We explore why readers are drawn to angst, whether suffering makes a love story more meaningful and ho...
May 31, 2026•1 hr 37 min•Ep. 23
Silvan is joined by special guest Jenn from The Book Refuge for a deep dive into the passionate world of Heated Rivalry fandom, fan fiction, and the phenomenon of AO3. Jenn shares her journey into fan fiction culture, including how Heated Rivalry became one of the biggest fandoms on AO3. We unpack why these characters inspire such devotion, what makes romance adaptations so emotionally powerful when done well and why fandom spaces can feel both deeply creative and deeply personal. Together we ex...
May 24, 2026•1 hr 24 min•Ep. 22
Declan and Silvan dive into Part 3 the Heated Rivalry book review. We finally reach one of the most emotionally charged turning points in Shane and Ilya’s relationship and we had a lot to say about it. From the aquarium scenes with Hayden and the subtle hints about Shane’s fears around family, to the infamous penthouse chapter, ginger ale, tuna melts, and one devastating use of first names, we unpack how Rachel Reid uses intimacy, domesticity, and even sex itself as storytelling devices. We expl...
May 17, 2026•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 21
In part two of our Heated Rivalry book review series, Declan and Silvan dive deeper into the emotional chaos, yearning, and tension that turns Shane and Ilya’s relationship from a physical rivalry into something far more dangerous. What started as criticism in part one quickly becomes obsession as the pair unpack chapters 9–11 of and realise this is where the story truly finds its rhythm. We discuss Ryan Price’s introduction and the early exploration of anxiety and mental health and Ilya’s prote...
May 10, 2026•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 20
In this episode of the podcast, Declan and Silvan dive into the Heated Rivalry book. Covering the first eight chapters, we begin a multi-part deep dive into how the original story compares to the TV adaptation, and whether the book lives up to the hype. Coming to the story from two very different perspectives, Declan as a longtime reader and Silvan as a first-time book reader shaped by the show, our conversation explores first impressions, biases, and the challenge of separating beloved on-scree...
May 03, 2026•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 19
Declan and Silvan are joined by Lizzy from the Self aware podcast in Part 2 of this special discussion on masculinity and sport in Heated Rivalry. In this episode, we explore the emotional cost of elite athletic culture through the lens of Shane, Ilya and Scott. Building on last week’s episode, the conversation moves beyond performance and into identity, intimacy, and emotional survival. We question why physical closeness between male athletes encouraged, while emotional vulnerability feels almo...
Apr 26, 2026•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 18
In this episode of the podcast, Silvan and Declan are joined by special guest Lizzy, who is a college athletics coach, former competitive thrower, and co-host of the Shelf aware Podcast, for a conversation about masculinity, sport, and emotional expression. Drawing on her lived experience as both an athlete and a coach working closely with young men in sport, Lizzy offers an insider perspective on the pressures, expectations, and unspoken rules that shape male athletes. We explore how environmen...
Apr 19, 2026•56 min•Ep. 17
In Part 2 of our Game Changers book club series, we dive into the second half of the novel (Chapters 16 to the end). This is where the tension finally breaks, the relationship is tested, and the cracks we’ve been anticipating start to show. We unpack the long-awaited conflict between Scott and Kip and discuss if it was it worth the build-up, or did it fall flat? We talk about pacing issues and repetitive intimacy to the emotional payoff (or lack of it), we get honest about what worked and what d...
Apr 12, 2026•42 min•Ep. 16
Welcome to the first episode of our book club. Declan and Silvan dive into the Game Changer, the book by Rachel Reid that started off the whole book Heated Rivalry series and introduced Scott and Kip. Coming to the story from a TV-first perspective, we explore what it feels like to read Game Changers with the show still fresh in mind. We talk about the challenge of separating the book versions of these characters from their on-screen counterparts, and how adaptation can both lose and elevate dif...
Apr 05, 2026•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 15
In part two of the trauma focused episode, Declan and Silvan continue their discussion with trauma therapist and comedian Eliza, going deeper into the emotional and psychological layers of Heated Rivalry. This episode explores how trauma shapes the way Shane and Ilya relate to each other, from minority stress and emotional suppression to dissociation, control, attachment wounds, and defence mechanisms. Together, we unpack the difference between intensity and intimacy, the role of trauma in sexua...
Mar 29, 2026•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 14
In part one of this special two-part episode of Long Game: A Heated Rivalry Podcast, Declan and Silvan are joined by trauma therapist and comedian Eliza to unpack why Heated Rivalry feels so emotionally intense. Together, we explore the obsession, attachment, longing, and emotional pull that has made the show so impossible to stop thinking about. From ADHD hyperfixation and dopamine hits, to yearning, restraint, masculinity, and queer joy, this episode digs into the psychology of why the story l...
Mar 22, 2026•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 13
Declan and Silvan reach the final part of our deep dive into Episode 6 of Heated Rivalry. After Shane’s Father discovers Shane and Ilya together, the episode shifts into one of the most emotionally powerful sequences of the series. We unpack Shane’s spiral, the quiet but powerful support Ilya provides, and the tense dinner that turns into something far more meaningful. At the centre of this episode is the heartbreaking and healing conversation between Shane and his mother. We talk about the weig...
Mar 08, 2026•50 min•Ep. 12
We are still at the cottage. Welcome back to Episode 6, part 2. In this episode, Declan and Silvan peel back the layers that make this story resonate for so many people craving authentic representation. We break down where Shane and Ilya’s playful banter turns into a heartfelt confession, showing how their love grows gradually. We analyse the subtle storytelling that creates emotional catharsis, like Shane’s panic attacks, Ilya’s opening up in Russian and the quiet scenes bathed in an art-house ...
Mar 01, 2026•45 min•Ep. 11
In part 2 of our psychology deep-dive, Clinical Psychologist, Neelam joins Declan and Silvan as we move byond attachment styles into parenting styles, the pressures of professional sports and the impact of shame on identity. We explore the intersection of race and sexuality and which therapeutic approach/type of therpay we think could benefit Ilya, Shane, Scott and Kip. We delve into the masculinity and vulnerability of the show and the psychological toll of long-term compartmentalisation. In pa...
Feb 22, 2026•50 min•Ep. 10
Declan and Silvan are joined by Clinical Psychologist, Neelam to unpack the psychological layers behind Heated Rivalry. Together, we explore themes of attachment styles, addictive viewing and the importance of support systems. We uncover why this story resonates so deeply and the nature of parasocial relationships and the effects of celebrity culture on viewers. This episode blends narrative analysis with Neelam’s clinical insight, bringing psychological thoery into conversation with key scenes ...
Feb 15, 2026•54 min•Ep. 9
Declan and Silvan finally arrive at the cottage. Episode 6 is wherre everything starts to climax. In Part 1, we dig into the first half of the pisode and unpack the shifting dynamics in Shane and Ilya’s story. We delve into our expectations of the cottage and Scott’s speech and the importance of a safe space for LGBTQ+ individuals. We touch on our dating experiences, cinematic techniques from the episode and what lies ahead for the Ilya and Shane. We touch on the complexities of coming out, the ...
Feb 08, 2026•1 hr 30 min•Ep. 8
In this episode of the podcast, Declan and Silvan are joined by Ren Browne, an author and podcaster to discuss the portrayal of female characters in the Heated Rivalry series. Ren shares her insight and admiration for the depth and complexity of the female characters. We take a deep dive into all the female characters you love, including Svetlana, Rose, Yuna, Elena and even Maria, highlighting their supportive roles and the emotional intelligence they bring to their relationships with the male l...
Feb 01, 2026•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 7
This episode picks up in the second half of Episode 5. Declan and Silvan break down the pivotal scenes, including the hotel encounter that marks a shift from physical to emotional connection. We devour Ilya’s Russian monologue, where he expresses his love, and Scott’s grand gesture which serves a turning point for LGBTQ+ representation in sports. We highlight the role of women as catalysts in the narrative and conclude at the Cottage. This episode works best after listening to Episode 5, part 1....
Jan 25, 2026•58 min•Ep. 6
Declan and Silvan analyse episode 5 of Heated Rivalry, ‘’I’ll believe in anything’. There was so much content to talk about that we split it into two halves. This episode has been hailed as one of the most highly rated episodes at the time of it’s release. We explore the cultural impact of the episode, the depth of character development, and the emotional journeys of the for Shane and Ilya. We highlight the significance of supporting characters, the dynamics of different friendships and the impo...
Jan 18, 2026•45 min•Ep. 5
Declan and Silvan break down episode 4 of Heated Rivalry, Rose. We explore the dynamics of our beloved characters of Ilya and Shane and how the introduction of Rose serves as a catalyst in their story. We look at how Rose complicated Shane’s emotional journey as well as the self-destructive patterns that emerge from his fear and insecurity. Our conversation highlights the importance of emotional intelligence and the contrasting lives of the characters, culminating in a deep analysis of the night...
Jan 11, 2026•51 min•Ep. 4
Declan and Silvan breakdown episode 3 of Heated Rivalry, Hunter. We discuss the dynamics between the characters Kip and Scott and explore themes of romance, emotional intelligence, and the impact of support systems on these two characters. We touch on the symbolism in the costumes and the complexities of coming out. Chapters 02:52 Artistic Choices and Themes in Episode 3 05:32 Character Dynamics: Kip and Scott vs. Ilya and Shane 08:08 The Importance of Relationships and Support Systems 10:53 Cha...
Jan 04, 2026•51 min•Ep. 3
In this episode of the podcast, Declan and Silvan delve into Heated Rivalry episode 2, Olympians. We explore the complexities of character development for Shane and Ilya. We discuss challenged in communication in relationships, the impact of family dynamics, power struggles and those sex scenes. We touch on the controversy surrounding the depiction of gay sex in media, the importance of consent, and the role of actors in LGBTQ+ representation. Chapters 01:07 Exploring Shane and Ilya's Relationsh...
Dec 29, 2025•55 min•Ep. 2
Welcome to 'Long Game: A Heated Rivalry Podcast', a rewatch podcast exploring power, desire, identity, and emotional defence in Heated Rivalry. In this opening episode, we unpack episode 1: Rookies, the moment where everything appears casual, but rarely is. We explore first impressions and competitive posturing to the psychological groundwork of intimacy, and look at how early dynamics quietly shape the entire relationship arc. This podcast works best as a series. If this episode sparks your int...
Dec 22, 2025•55 min•Ep. 1
