Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now! Quotes "When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expre...
Jan 22, 2024•37 min
If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women. Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn… 2:17 The first rule of flirting 4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection 7:31 The right posture and eye ...
Jan 15, 2024•37 min
Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up? You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate. Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can al...
Jan 09, 2024•59 min
If you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up! In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with his superstar client John, who’s been having some incredible dates with some incredible women… and he’s done it all with RADICAL AUTHENTICITY (no creepy pickup moves needed.) John—a true, classy gentleman who likes and respects women—has gone from low c...
Jan 05, 2024•47 min
If you wonder what it’s like to work with a renowned dating coach, this episode is for you. Because dating coach Connell Barrett takes you “behind the curtain” and lets you listen in on a coaching session with his new client Ryan. If you’re like Ryan, you struggle with flirting, or you have self-confidence. Or you want to approach women but it’s difficult for you? You’re about to learn… • How to overcome “approaching anxiety” so you can meet some wonderful women • What to say when you want to ap...
Jan 02, 2024•1 hr
You know what’s worse than a big hunk of coal in your Christmas stocking? Approach anxiety, getting ghosted, and getting locked up in the friend zone after a first date. Ho-ho-NOOO! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix all of those problems by taking some questions from listeners. You’re about to learn… Connell’s personal formula for taking massive approaching action A texting tip you’ve NEVER heard before The biggest dating mistake he ...
Dec 13, 2023•25 min
Pop quiz, dating app user! Do cute, quality women match with you about as often as Halley’s Comet visits Earth? Yeah, I thought so. It’s downright debilitating to grab your phone, check the app, and… crickets and tumbleweeds. No matches… no GOOD ones, anyway. The good news? This is fixable! You just need to realize the cause of your problem: Your photos SUCK! It’s time to upgrade your photo game and see the matches pour in. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 6 Game-Chang...
Dec 08, 2023•24 min
‘Love Actually’ is now 20-years-old, and dating coach Connell Barrett is here to review the classic rom-com in terms of dating strategy. Listen in as he shares some lessons that YOU can use to improve your love life. So… let’s go get the sh*t kicked out of us by love! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ...
Nov 28, 2023•24 min
Ever had what you thought was a good date or conversation with a woman, only to find out she just wasn’t interested? And you have no idea what you did wrong! Odds are, your conversation was too boring. And if you bore women, your dating life will suffer. Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this all too well. As an introvert, he used to struggle with flirting. He didn’t know what to say. He bored women, who chose more charismatic guys over him. And then he fixed it! How? In this episode, Connell s...
Nov 17, 2023•39 min
If your love life is stuck in a neutral, well, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He battled every dating problem in the book, from low confidence to approach anxiety to a lack of matches on the apps. And he fixed them all! In today’s episode, Connell shares 7 of the biggest “Aha!” moments he had on his journey from “the King of the Friend Zone” to becoming, as the New York Post calls him, “the real-life Hitch.” Listen now so you can have your own “Aha!” moment, and attract a wonderful...
Nov 14, 2023•41 min
Cue the confetti! Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest for this episode: the fun, funny, talented, effervescent Melanie Sutrathada! Melanie is an actor, TV host and lifestyle expert who’s appeared on “Good Morning America” and “Today.” She’s also a single woman who knows what women want from single men! And she has a LOT of wisdom to share. Connell and Melanie team up to talk about… 8:45: Why travel makes you more attractive 14:20: How activity dates make it easier to go fo...
Nov 10, 2023•55 min
Dating coach Connell Barrett specializes in helping sober single men like YOU confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend… completely booze-free. Is it hard for you to meet women, because you’re sober… and alcohol and dating are closely linked? Are you worried that women may not be interested in you, once they learn that you’re sober? Do you struggle to feel confident without the help of liquid courage? In part 2 of Connell’s series on sober dating, he shares 7 strategies on how to confidently at...
Nov 07, 2023•38 min
Drinking and dating go together like Scotch and soda. But are you a guy who uses alcohol as a crutch? Do you need a drink or two (or five!) to relax when talking to a woman? Do you depend on “liquid courage” to approach a woman, but you’re running low on ACTUAL courage? Sober dating coach Connell Barrett helps men confidently flirt, date and find love… without a drop of alcohol. In this special episode, Connell talks about his decade-long struggle to quit drinking (he was downing a gallon of whi...
Oct 31, 2023•35 min
We’re breaking the format in this episode as dating coach Connell Barrett knocks out not one, not two, but 15 (!!) quick dating tips in 15 minutes. You’re about to learn… How to confidently approach, how to compliment women on dates, how to send a flirty opener on the apps, how to stop “running out of things to say,” how to get phone numbers the RIGHT way, how to flirt with lots of charm and zero creepiness, and a LOT more. So listen now to get 15 practical tips in 15 hot minutes. FOR A FREE STR...
Oct 24, 2023•28 min
If you’re like most single guys, you’re not sure how to be fun on your dates or when talking with women you’re into. What do you say? How do you make her laugh? What if you seem boring and she loses interest? Sadly, if your date or conversation is dull, she won’t be attracted to you—and you’ll be missing out on romance. So let’s amp up the fun factor. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 tools you can use to make your dates and conversations...
Oct 20, 2023•42 min
Do you struggle to make sparks fly on first dates? Do you think it might be “creepy” to go for a first-date kiss? Do you TRY to be funny and interesting and cool, but you fall short… and women just don’t want to have another date? Let’s fix this! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the three most common first-date mistakes that you’re making… and you don’t even know it. He also gives you the RIGHT three moves to correct things. And he shares an incredible client success story, a...
Oct 17, 2023•25 min
You’re not sure what women want, or how to connect with them, right? Plus, there’s so much dating advice out there from so-called “experts” that you’re not sure what to do. Act like an “alpha male”? Be a nice guy? Wear a “man of mystery” mask? You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating. Here’s the solution: Show women your best, most authentic self. Because girls like you for YOU! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the groundbr...
Oct 13, 2023•27 min
You’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts you! It’s so frustrating. Your problem? Odds are, you’re not “escalating” on dates in the 5 core ways that dial up romantic connection. If you don’t know these Escalation Secrets, you’ll likely struggle on dates and not even know why. In this episode,...
Oct 10, 2023•25 min
Do you feel stuck in your dating life? Would you like to approach beautiful women, but something holds you back? Do you consume dating tips on YouTube, but you’re STILL not “shooting your shot” with your types of women? Do you feel like the wheels of your love life are spinning in mud? Here’s the problem: You’re trapped in Information Mode. And you need to get into Action Mode. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple strategy to go from “stuck” to taking the right action...
Oct 06, 2023•27 min
You know what’s frustrating? When you’re talking to an attractive woman—say, on a date or at a social event—and you get stuck in your head. You overthink. You judge yourself. You worry, “What do we talk about next? What if I run out of things to say?” This hurts your confidence and leads to awkward conversations. Yikes. Well, those days are over. It’s time to unleash the power of presence! Dating coach Connell Barrett has had over 1,000 dates, and in this episode of the Dating Transformation pod...
Oct 03, 2023•32 min
Is dating just not fun for you? Do you judge yourself harshly after dates or interactions with women? Do you struggle with flirting and talking to cute girls, and you’re not improving? Let’s get this handled! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares a simple mindset drill called the Coin of Self-Assessment. It’s a simple mental tip you can apply every day to make dating a LOT more fun, while helping you get better at flirting, approaching, and connecting on first dates. Listen now, a...
Sep 29, 2023•23 min
Swiping and swiping. Lack of quality matches. Women who ghost. Fake accounts. Chances are, online-dating just doesn’t work for you. But it’s NOT because you’re unattractive. It’s because you’re making a big dating-app mistake… and you’re not even aware of it! So let’s fix this. In today’s episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the truth about online-dating, so you can STOP swiping without success, and START getting matches and dates with wonderful women. If you want to turn your phone int...
Sep 26, 2023•32 min
First dates can be scary. Will she like you? Will you run out of things to say? Will there be awkward silences? Will she dump you for the cool bartender with the man bun? Questions, questions… Fear not. Your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, has had more than 1,000 first dates. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he shares the 5 essential moves that he and his clients use to have great dates with wonderful women. Stop going on lame dates and start making sparks fly. Listen no...
Sep 22, 2023•28 min
You know what sucks worse than Mondays and paper cuts? Wanting to “make a move” with a woman you’re into and then freezing up. It’s frustrating. You want to talk to that cutie at your gym, but you’re stuck in your head. You’d like to ask out your crush, but what if she says no? It’s frustrating, because you’re tired of being lonely, but you can’t seem to get going. It’s time to stop spinning your wheels and start taking action! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell tells ...
Sep 19, 2023•29 min
It’s the scariest moment of a date: Going for the first kiss. You probably don’t how to read her signals to know if you can kiss her. If you move in to lock lips too soon, you’ll creep her out. If you wait too long or don’t even try, hello, “friend zone.” Ouch! And if your kiss attempt is awkward, she’ll likely reject you and give you the cheek… and there won’t be another date. No worries—dating coach Connell Barrett can help. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares ...
Sep 15, 2023•39 min
There’s a good chance you struggle with what to say and how to flirt with women. You get stuck in your head. You doubt yourself. Maybe you fall into dreaded “interview mode” with a woman and interrogate her. The consequences? She either disappears, or she says, “You seem great, but I didn’t feel a spark.” Either way, she’s lost interest. And this can kill your confidence. Never fear—7 new flirting moves are here! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett ...
Sep 12, 2023•29 min
So you’re texting a cool, cute girl, and then… silence. Tumbleweeds. She vanishes! It’s frustrating to get SO close to a date, only to have her disappear. It can feel devastating, like there’s something wrong with you—and make you want to delete the apps for good. The good news? You can fix this! It’s time to STOP getting ghosted and START getting dates. How? Use the “3 Times Rule,” a simple, tested texting system that gets results. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating co...
Sep 08, 2023•38 min
You may think that women want a bold, brash “alpha male” to show her who’s boss. But think again! The truth is, women love men who are in touch with their feminine sides. Embracing that side of yourself doesn’t rob you of your masculine essence. It balances it, making you more complex, complete and attractive to women. Yes, a “real man” approaches and makes moves. But he also empathizes, listens, and shows compassion for women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell B...
Sep 05, 2023•31 min
Odds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it. Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness. Never fear—dating coach ...
Sep 01, 2023•27 min
It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more. Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email ...
Aug 29, 2023•41 min
