Risky Business: For Instant Confidence, Become a Bold Risktaker
Sep 01, 2023•27 min
Episode description
Odds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it.
Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness.
Never fear—dating coach Connell Barrett is here. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares some simple secrets to being the kind of bold badass women ache to date… no weird pickup tricks needed! Listen now, to go from playing it safe to confidently attracting wonderful women. You’re about to become a Romantic Risktaker.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
Quotes
"Playing it safe is great for buying stocks or choosing a doctor. But if you want to attract incredible women, you must become a risk taker." - Connell Barrett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
02:54 - Unlocking Connection: The Shift That Made All the Difference
07:04 - The Transformative Power of Commitment in Love
08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking
09:32 - Playing the Full Game: What LeBron Can Teaches About Love
11:42 - Learning to Lead with Assertiveness
13:53 - Piloting Through Love: The Highs and Lows of Risk
15:42 - How to Stop Overthinking and Start Approaching
18:11 - Why 'Risking It' Is Your Safest Bet in Dating
21:08 - The Cost of Not Taking the Next Step
23:40 - Authenticity as the Ultimate Risk: When Being You Pays Off
26:27 - Outro
Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness.
Never fear—dating coach Connell Barrett is here. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares some simple secrets to being the kind of bold badass women ache to date… no weird pickup tricks needed! Listen now, to go from playing it safe to confidently attracting wonderful women. You’re about to become a Romantic Risktaker.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
Quotes
"Playing it safe is great for buying stocks or choosing a doctor. But if you want to attract incredible women, you must become a risk taker." - Connell Barrett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
02:54 - Unlocking Connection: The Shift That Made All the Difference
07:04 - The Transformative Power of Commitment in Love
08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking
09:32 - Playing the Full Game: What LeBron Can Teaches About Love
11:42 - Learning to Lead with Assertiveness
13:53 - Piloting Through Love: The Highs and Lows of Risk
15:42 - How to Stop Overthinking and Start Approaching
18:11 - Why 'Risking It' Is Your Safest Bet in Dating
21:08 - The Cost of Not Taking the Next Step
23:40 - Authenticity as the Ultimate Risk: When Being You Pays Off
26:27 - Outro
Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com