Do you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women you’d LOVE to be with. Let’s fix this! The great news? EVERY woman is attracted to confidence, and today you’re going to take yours to a whole new level. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares the 4 Pillar...
Aug 25, 2023•37 min
Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks with you. It’s frustrating! You’re in luck. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the two BIGGEST mistakes that men make when trying to flirt with women. (Make sure you’re not doing them!) He also...
Aug 22, 2023•30 min
Rejection… ghosting… not knowing what to say… low confidence. Man, dating can suck! But it doesn’t have to. What if you had simple, tested moves to not only flirt with wonderful women, but to also ENJOY dating? It’s true—looking for love can be fun! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his “happiness blueprint”—a new way to have fun on the singles scene, whether you want more matches on the apps, flirty conversations with desirable women, or s...
Aug 15, 2023•33 min
We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO S...
Aug 11, 2023•38 min
So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing. When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you...
Aug 08, 2023•30 min
You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance. Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way th...
Aug 04, 2023•27 min
Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.” Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become m...
Aug 01, 2023•32 min
If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out. The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and c...
Jul 28, 2023•29 min
Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this! In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidenc...
Jul 25, 2023•33 min
There are 7 “deadly dating sins” that many men commit in the #MeToo era that will get them ghosted. Make sure you’re not making any of these mistakes. In this special episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett tells you what they are, so you can avoid these dating pitfalls. Plus, Connell shares a raw, personal story about a woman he once date who is survivor of sexual assault. He explains how she opened his eyes about the importance of the #MeToo movement, and how she hel...
Jul 21, 2023•25 min
The #MeToo era has made dating more confusing than ever. As a good-hearted guy, you’re caught between two extremes. On one hand, you don’t want to do anything inappropriate. On the other, you fear that doing nothing will land you in the Friend Zone. And you’re just not sure… Can you still approach, or is that harassment? Should you ask for her number? Can you go for a first kiss, or is that creepy? It’s confusing! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares ...
Jul 18, 2023•35 min
You may think that desirable women only want to date handsome men, or perhaps guys who are tall or rich. But the truth is, most women just want a confident, authentic man who has his life together. But believing these outdated beliefs can crush your confidence and cost you dates. After all, it’s hard to talk to and ask out a woman if you think she’s out of your league. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett takes a sledgehammer to 5 debilitating dating myths t...
Jul 14, 2023•39 min
Getting dates is great (yes!) What’s NOT great? Struggling with what to say, and dealing with long… awkward… silences (nooooo!) In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, listen in on a coaching session that coach Connell has with his client Tom. Tom has gone from getting ZERO dates to landing as many as FIVE DATES a week! Just one problem: He’s still struggling with what to say and how to flirt. Listen now, as Connell gives some practical tips to avoid awkward silences and keep the c...
Jul 11, 2023•1 hr 7 min
When you see an attractive woman you’d love to meet, fear of rejection likely holds you back. “What if she doesn’t like me?,” you think. Or if you want to go for a first-date kiss, the R-word paralyzes you, and you worry, “What if she turns away?” Hello, Friend Zone. In dating, fear of rejection is the Big Bad Wolf. It costs you confidence and romantic success. In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you cure your fear of rejection, so you can ...
Jul 07, 2023•37 min
Do you lack self-confidence with women? Do cute girls tend to see you as not attractive enough or not tall enough or not charismatic enough… not something enough? Low confidence makes you less attractive and leads to rejection and loneliness. It’s frustrating… but it’s fixable! If you want to learn how to be more attractive to women, you’re in luck. In this special “live coaching” episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett shares a game-changing coaching secret for the first t...
Jul 06, 2023•1 hr 15 min
Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Do you doubt yourself and think, “What would she see in me?” Do you send boring texts that make girls ghost you? If so, then it’s time to use your dating superpowers! That’s right! EVERY guy has a dating superpower. You just have to harness it. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you uncover YOUR special dating skill. He also shares 6 powerful tools that you can use to get more dates and more confidence. Listen now so you can make sp...
Jun 30, 2023•26 min
So you have a big date lined up, or maybe you’re gonna hit the bars to socialize with women, but you have NO idea what to wear. Do labels matter? Should you wear sneakers or shoes? Or those chinos the right choice, or do you look like your dad’s golf buddy? Your clothes can either make you MAGNETIC… or they can make you lonely and dateless. In dating, your looks are overrated, but your LOOK matters… a lot! Good style is essential. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach C...
Jun 27, 2023•37 min
Do you struggle with texting women? (Check.) Does approaching seem scarier than a haunted house? (Check.) Do your dates go nowhere, leading to the dreaded “friend zone”? (Check please!) Help is on the way. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you solve some of your toughest dating problems by opening up the Dating Transformation mailbag. Listen to Connell answer your questins, so you can send flirty messages, approach with steely confidence, make sparks fly on first dates... and attract...
Jun 23, 2023•37 min
You want practical dating tips so you can stop doubting yourself, flirt with charm, and land a great girlfriend, right? Yet there’s so much advice out there! You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating. We’ve got you covered. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes the wise, witty Amber Brooks, editor-in-chief of DatingAdvice.com and DatingNews.com. A true dating expert, Amber knows what women want...
Jun 20, 2023•48 min
Have you ever been talking to or texting a cool, attractive woman, but you didn’t know how to ask for her number… so you lost out on the date? Or maybe you saw a group of women at a bar, and you wanted to approach, but you felt too intimidated… so you did nothing. Inaction can crush your confidence and keep you feeling lonely. Let’s fix this! In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 9 of his favorite “advanced dating tips” to help you ...
Jun 16, 2023•28 min
As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene. Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness. Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world, yourself—and you can feel the shackles of toxic masculinity tighten around your wrists. And you might be confused about how to date and flirt in the #MeToo Era (“Can I still make moves, or is that harassment?”) Today’s special guest can help you navigate...
Jun 13, 2023•1 hr 8 min
You know what sucks more than rainy Mondays and popup ads? Running out of things to say on dates. You’ve been there, right? After “Hey, nice to meet you,” you get stuck in your head. What should you talk about? Her job? Your dog? The weather. And the only thing worse than boring conversation is when your date is filled with….um [pause]… awkward [errrrr]… silences. And you know what that means: No second date. If you struggle coming up with good first date topics, you’re in the right place! In th...
Jun 09, 2023•24 min
WARNING! Listening to this episode may lead to you getting hit with a big stick! (In a good way.) Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question your worth, both to women and to the world. And desirable women tend to see you as a “nice guy” or friend, not as a lover. It can make you wonder if you’ll ever reach your potential as a man, and perhaps never attract the kind of woman you want. And...
Jun 06, 2023•1 hr 29 min
So you’re trying to write your online-dating profile, but you’re just staring at an empty screen. What do you write? How do you talk about yourself? If you do this wrong, you can kiss matches and dates goodbye. If you do it RIGHT, well, you’ll be kissing your next date very soon. If you don’t know how to describe yourself on the dating apps, you’re in the right place. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 15 of his best tips for what t...
Jun 02, 2023•37 min
OK, a quick joke. How much does an introvert weigh? Not enough to break the ice. (Rim shot!) Humor aside, dating can be hard if you’re an introverted guy. It’s difficult (and feels impossible!) to cold-approach an intriguing woman at a bar, party, or social occasion. And you may think that women want outgoing, charismatic men—not quiet, thoughtful guys like you. And that can hurt your confidence. Well, if you feel you’re at a dating disadvantage as an introvert, here’s some good news. A LOT of w...
May 30, 2023•1 hr 28 min
You finally get a good match on a dating app with a cool, attractive woman you’d LOVE to meet. You craft the “perfect” opener, send it, and wait for her reply. And wait… and wait… and wait. Crickets, tumbleweeds, radio silence. Bottom line? You’re just not sure how to start a conversation on a dating app. You doing something wrong but you’re not sure what. It can make you feel like the apps will never work for you. Another dateless weekend approaches. Let’s change all of that! In this episode of...
May 26, 2023•25 min
You’d love to have fun, flirty first dates with women you’re attracted to… and have the dates go great, right? But maybe you lack confidence on first dates, you run out of things to say, and women either ghost you or say, “You seem nice, but I wasn’t feeling the connection.” So, you now have two choices: Get a nice inflatable woman, or (better yet!), listen to this podcast and have fun, flirty dates that help you attract your dream girlfriend! Tough choice, right? In this episode of the Dating T...
May 23, 2023•51 min
You want to confidently date wonderful women, flirt with charm, and find your dream girlfriend. Right? But self-doubt holds you back, you’re not sure how to talk to girls… and desirable women just don’t seem into you. Rejection. Loneliness. Low confidence. Dating can suck. But it doesn’t have to! In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares the most important secret for learning how to get a girlfriend: become Radically Authentic. Connell gi...
May 19, 2023•54 min
If you’re stuck in the Friend Zone with women, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He didn’t just live in the Friend Zone—he owned real estate there. But he learned how to escape. And in this special LIVE COACHING episode with his client, Chris, Connell will give you a practical plan to stop getting “friend zoned” and start igniting sparks with women you’re interested in. That’s right! This episode is the second-best thing to working with a great dating coach, because you get to listen ...
May 15, 2023•1 hr 4 min
So you want to attract a wonderful woman into your life, for love, companionship and hate-watching “Emily in Paris” together. BUT… dating apps don’t work for you. And the thought of approaching random women makes you more anxious than an IRS audit. Well, what if you could get great dates and find your ideal girlfriend, and never have to swipe on an app, or nervously hit on random women? In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes Robbie Kramer, a dating...
May 12, 2023•1 hr 16 min
