Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its 5th season How C*m has helped thousands of Cumpanions have their first O's, hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!
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In this poignant final episode, Remy Kassimir thanks listeners for six seasons of "How C*m" before discussing why the podcast is ending. She then welcomes comedian Lauren Hope Krass and Dr. Shreya Reddy from Tia, a women's healthcare clinic, to delve into the critical state of women's health. They explore historical biases, the importance of holistic care, and share Lauren's personal breakthroughs with anxiety and vaginismus thanks to Tia's patient-centered approach.
Comedian and creator Jessie Jolles turns the art of getting dressed into an act of seduction—of self, of confidence, of truth. In this intimate, laugh-out-loud conversation, she strips down the layers of performance and slips into something far more revealing: radical self-love. From the thrill of a perfectly fitted outfit to the power of saying no with style, Jessie reminds us that the sexiest thing you can wear is your own comfort. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow Jessie @J...
Comedian and writer Alison Leiby (The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Broad City, The President Show) comes on to discuss her memoir "I'm a Lot" , exploring deeply personal and cultural topics such as abortion, sexuality, relationships, and media representation. From there, she takes us behind the screen and reveals the ways television shapes how we see women, sex, and control. From the glossy chaos of Bravo to the tired tropes of "very special episodes," Allison and Remy unpack how pop culture scripts o...
When romance meets rent and receipts, things can get messy. In this candid chat with Smoov founder and CEO Tucker Cohen, we dive into the emotional and practical side of managing money as a couple — from who pays for dinner to how to keep things fair when life (and kids) come into play. Tucker shares the story behind Smoov, the app designed to take the awkwardness out of shared finances and make transparency feel, well… sexy. Expect insights on modern relationships, financial equality, and why t...
In this episode, comedian Liz Glazer shares her deeply personal journey with self-improvement, including her experiences in Debtors Anonymous and Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous. She delves into how her upbringing shaped her perception of forbiddenness in early gay relationships and the challenge of sustaining excitement in her current stable and happy life. The conversation also explores the roles of the left and right brain in creativity and sex, and the pursuit of genuine self-trust and enjoyment.
What is wrong with men with nieces, men with thousands of plants, and men who rock climb? NYC comedian Stewart Fullerton is here with her official list of red flags for the unfairer sex and we are laughing through all of it. (Spoiler, we're not full-on misandrists we just love a giggle!) We also talk about toxic boy moms, car sex in LA, Stewart's rules for dating within a friend group, and how putting an intentional pause on her dating life has helped her career soar. If you date boys we highly ...
Comedian Lissa Lennis shares her journey as a "late bloomer," explaining why she waited until 30 to lose her virginity, influenced by familial experiences and societal body pressures. She details her transformative weight loss, gastric sleeve surgery, and how this empowered her comedy and dating life, including her first oral experience and eventual loss of virginity, alongside her current sexual goals and relationship philosophy.
Sure love is blind-- but if you are a person who needs glasses, is sex blind too? We are joined by hysterical Portland based comedian, and glasses wearer, Imani Denae to talk all things sex and romance from the perspective of someone with limited vision. She also tells us about growing up in a home with polyamorous parents and how it shaped her personal views of sex and relationships. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow Imani @ImaniDenae_ Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKa...
Kenice Mobley is a hilarious New York based comedian and writer who had a stroke at 36 years old. Four years later we are discussing how it happened, all of the rehabilitation she had to go through post stroke, and how important it was for her to get her orgasms back. She tells us how she did it and we learn some very important information about different types of strokes; how to know that one is happening, and how to change your mindset if you are healing from one. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW...
We are joined by fantastic comedian Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show, The Today Show) to talk about a controversial conversation about sexual identity that podcaster Betty Who started -- that hit the lesbian/bisexual/queer femme community, and had everyone asking, "Betty-- Why??" We talk about labels and what is so important or unimportant about them, as well as delve into Ali's sex life as a lesbian who sometimes will fuck a guy. We also talk about Ali ending her engagement, toxic relationships, h...
For some, cleaning can be an aphrodisiac -- and those people are going to love this episode. But even those who aren't Monica Geller will benefit from the cleaning methods of home expert Caroline Solomon aka @Neat.Caroline who reminds us that organizing your space not only helps your daily life but it can help your sex life as well. Caroline and Remy share many tips and tricks for cleaning your home-- whether you are the type who likes to tidy a little every day or someone who likes to let stuff...
Father of 5 (cats) and brilliant comedian Mohanad Elshieky joins Remy to talk about growing up in Libya, what sex education is like there, how/ why he ended up moving to the US, and the sexual culture shock that met him in Portland, Oregon. He also tells us about his new special "No Need To Address Me" and Remy asks the question, "Does owning cats make you a sexual deviant or is that just a study I read once?" Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow Mohanad @mohanad.elshieky Follow ...
Do nice guys finish last-- or do they just let you finish first? Something to think about on this episode where we talk to hilarious comedian and resident nice guy Pete Lee! Pete tells us about how his first O experience led him to being a giver and "nice guy" in the bedroom-- and how he gave stellar comedian Nikki Glaser her first EVER orgasm in life. He also tells us about his serial monogamy and his current goal to casually hook up this year -- because he hasn't been single since he was 15. L...
We are joined for a wet and wild episode with the star of Netflix's MerPeople, professional mermaid Blix Unami (Erik Milligan). Blix tells us what mermaids really represent and takes us on an underwater adventure through their sex life, relationship history, and sexual goals. Blix also gives us all a lesson in how to build authenticity and positivity, discussing everything from achieving success in the face of naysayers to getting diagnosed with HIV and how to dive into thriving instead of merel...
Star of Bravo's Summer House Carl Radke and "Dry Humping" author Tawny Lara come on the pod to share their sobriety journeys and the challenges and triumphs of dating, sex and socializing without alcohol. We discuss how to "date yourself" in early sobriety, how long you should wait before dating another person, and how meaningful connections are made in sobriety. We discuss "partying"-- "what really IS it if drugs and alcohol are not involved?" and the need for new social spaces like Carl's upco...
Get your mind out of the gutter-- we're talking FOOD! 'BrunchBoys' internet foodie Jeremy Jacobowitz joins Remy to talk about food, sex, dating, the joys of ordering in and his favorite places to eat out. We discuss what foods to stay away from on a date, which foods are aphrodisiacs, and whether you can date someone with different dietary restrictions than yourself. Just like a great meal, this episode is perfect for sharing with a loved one. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow...
This episode is all about the importance of our second favorite bedroom activity-- SLEEP! Stand up comedians Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton are two of the hosts of the podcast Pillow Talk -- where funny people have easy going conversations that you can fall asleep to. Today they join Remy to talk sleep habits, dreams, sleep positive households vs. sleep negative and sex-- does it make you sleepy? It is quite the fun and exciting little slumber party, but if you fall asleep during this e...
This is one of the most unique episodes we've ever had-- and yet it is so relatable in so many ways. Remy chats with Srilatha Rajamani, a vibrant, funny, and sweet New York City comedian who has had sexual intercourse only TWICE in her life-- and also has a 27 year old daughter. Srilatha tells us about being raised in India and how being in an arranged marriage changed her life, how she has finally come into finding herself in her 50s- discovering her queerness, asexuality, love for colorful gir...
Remy welcomes hilarious podcaster and comedian, Tracey Carnazzo-- who also happens to be her oldest friend from comedy (years wise, not age wise) and they reminisce about bonding 10 years ago from both being dicked around by fuckboys; what led them to allow themselves to do that-- and eventually get out of it. Tracey tells us how she learned to de-center men from her life and how vastly her life has improved since she did it as well as the importance of friendships, not hating other women, and w...
Incredible comedian, actress, writer, host and impressionist Anna Roisman answers questions about her own sex life and also brings some of her most iconic characters (Joan Rivers, Lea Michele, Steve from SATC etc.) to life to talk about the news in sex! We talk about the sexual awakening that was Anna's summer camp experience and the NOVEL that Anna wrote from ages 8-16 as well as how Luigi Mangione ruined losing her virginity. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow Anna @Annaroism...
Remy's boyfriend and incredibly funny comedian Ben DeMarco is back to talk about approaching 10 YEARS of having sex with Remy and celebrate their upcumming Bangiversary! They discuss how much individual growth they have done over 10 years, how they've grown as a couple, and their plans for the future. There is also a lively discussion about Marilyn Manson's alleged ability to suck his own dick, the process of subscribing to an OnlyFans account together, and the many bizarre similarities that Rem...
Comedian Bronwyn Ariel Isaac and her girlfriend musician and security researcher Alex Smith call in from Amsterdam to talk about their extremely loving relationship and how Alex coming out as trans after a few years together has made it even more solid. Did Bronwyn know she was into women before? How long did Alex know she was trans before she came out? What IS the correct way to clean a diva cup?? And why does Remy keep saying she 'recommends autism?' All this and much more on this highly educa...
Hilarious comedian Brendan Sagalow is here to talk about dirty talk, role play, and being labeled a "serial monogamist." We talk about the negative connotations of the phrase and what it most likely actually means. We also chat about past relationships and the "my current girlfriend" trend that has been blowing up-- but how he feels about his current girlfriend is oh so different. It's a super cute and super fun one! Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow Brendan @BrendanSagalow Fo...
It's finally summer which means TWO franchises of Love Island are coming out every. single. night. -- and we still cannot get enough. Here to talk about this particularly scandalous, tumultuous, steamy and viral AF season of Love Island US is comedian and joke writer for Love Island US, Caroline Hanes! Caroline gives us some juicy behind the scenes info and a look into how the sausage gets made. And of course we discuss the current islanders, and the Huda of it all. Warning: SPOILERS! Love How C...
An extra long, extra hot and extra horny episode with two former guests; comedian James Tom and writer/producer Sydney Baloue all about their lives as gay trans men -- and how it compares to their former lives living as lesbian women. We talk about losing different virginities, taking virginities, and SO many spots to go if you are looking to hook up as a gay trans man. Syd and James both share very similar experiences but are so different at the same time. It is a conversation about trans joy a...
Hilarious internationally touring comedian and host of the We're Having Gay Sex podcast Ashley Gavin is back! And this time she is telling us about her open relationship; how she got into it, the rules her and her girlfriend have, and some hot hot hookups that she has had. She helps to educate Remy about different types of lesbians-- from a list that Remy found on a Reddit thread, advises our listeners on how to hit on women, and finally Remy and Ashley discuss difficult relationships leading to...
We are talking about the link between scents and attraction with fragrance expert, perfume lover/advisor, matchmaker, and host of Perfume Room , Emma Vernon. We discuss the science between smell and arousal and all different types of fragrances. Emma talks about how to get a signature scent, the importance of scent with regard to memories, and the evolution of fragrance throughout the 70s, 80s, 90s etc. and how those changes reflects on what was going on culturally during each decade. This episo...
Comedian, ex-model and author of the new book, " You Wanna Be on Top? " Sarah Hartshorne comes on the pod to talk her time on America's Next Top Model; the good, the bad, and the very pretty despite being called ugly. She tells us all about what happened behind the scenes, openly queer models, making friends + having crushes on each other and her body image from before the show to now. We also discuss threesomes, tax law for certain types of queer marriage, Sarah's miscarriage early in life as w...
Do you have endometriosis or wonder what it is? Learn all about it with comedian and friend of the pod, Ashley Ray. She tells us about living with and suffering through undiagnosed endo in her teens and early 20s and how she finally found out what was going on with her body. We discuss her endometrial cysts, how much blood is actually produced in a "normal" period, how endo held her back socially and sexually and how she went about fixing it! Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow ...
In the new FX/ Hulu show Dying for Sex, Jenny Slate plays Nikki, a woman whose best friend Molly (Michelle Williams) is diagnosed with terminal cancer and decides to turn her diagnosis into an opportunity to go on sexual adventures and fulfill all of her desires before the end of her life. The show is based on a podcast of the same name by the real life Molly and Nikki and today we have the pleasure of talking to Executive Producer of Dying for Sex, and Molly's best friend Nikki Boyer. We discus...
