Picture this: it is the early 2000s. The OC is on, the Hills is on and Perez Hilton is forcing Johnny Wujek out of the closet by calling him gay on a blog. Fast forward to LA 2024 as Remy chats with Johnny (Emmy award winning costume designer/ stylist to pop idols including Katy Perry, Ariana Grande, Mariah Carey, and Nicki Minaj) about how he actually feels about being publicly "called out," the benefits of it and the fallout, and what his love life has been like since. We also discuss exciting...
Apr 30, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Season 6Ep. 10
Comedian and actor (Sex and the City + The Other Two) Bill Dawes sits down with Remy to tell her about one of the most pivotal days of his life: when a woman told him he was bad in bed. Come on a journey with us as Bill shakes that devastating blow and learns how to get good at sex. We discuss lectures, kundalini yoga, tantra, techniques for eating out a vulva and more. We also discuss cheating, past relationships and how in many ways, if you used to be shitty it doesn't mean you can't get bette...
Apr 30, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 6Ep. 9
Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand jobs, and many many book recommendations from Nikki that she swears will change your life. We also take...
Apr 08, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 6Ep. 8
Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand jobs, and many many book recommendations from Nikki that she swears will change your life. We also take...
Apr 08, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 6Ep. 8
Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand jobs, and many many book recommendations from Nikki that she swears will change your life. We also take...
Apr 08, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 6Ep. 8
We're talking sex in media with Jourdain Searles; comedian and film/TV critic. Discussing all different types of sex scenes from Babygirl to Severence. We are also chatting about Jourdain's Twitter thread of sex advice that she did earlier this year and how it relates to the "IUD Debate" that took over Twitter for two days. TW Assault / Abortion Laws Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow Jourdain @JudySquirrels Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ ge...
Mar 31, 2025•1 hr 27 min•Season 6Ep. 7
We have the pleasure of talking to one of the stars of Schitt's Creek; award winning actress Emily Hampshire and her podcast co-host Katie Boland (writer/director/actress/producer). Emily and Katie tell us all about life in the industry, from how they were treated as being female child stars to their treatment now as adults. We discuss their first sex scenes, introductions to intimacy coordinators, and how media they have made has changed people's views on sexuality and gender. We also talk in d...
Feb 18, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 6Ep. 6
Today we are talking about what the dating scene is currently like from a man's perspective with comedian, actor, director, and show creator Dan Perlman (Showtime's Flatbush Misdemeanors and Cramming ). Is there a male loneliness epidemic? Or is dating just exhausting? Dan tells us many stories including his experiences dating openly; when he entered into an open relationship in the completely wrong way, times that he has hooked up with people in open relationships, and who should not enter into...
Feb 07, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 6Ep. 5
Are you dating and looking for new tips, tricks, and pick up lines? Or has your dating life come to an end and you just want to hear some really good dating stories? This is the episode for you! Remy chats with Portland based stand up comedian and Beast Games contestant Megan Otto. Megan rose to internet fame on Instagram and TikTok by going on dates and sharing her experiences with the world. She explains why she started sharing her stories so publicly, what stories are off limits for her to sh...
Jan 18, 2025•1 hr 23 min•Season 6Ep. 4
We can't hold it in any longer! We're FINALLY talking golden showers, water sports, piss kinks-- whatever you want to call it-- with Portland based, and liquid based comedian Mack Lee. Mack tells us about their piss kink; how they discovered they have one, where they think it came from, and where they like to pee/ be peed on (body-wise AND location-wise!) We discuss celebrities who have piss kinks, drinking pee, spitting or swallowing, and the etiquette & proper prep that you should do if pi...
Jan 11, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 6Ep. 3
Kicking off 2025 with an extremely fun episode with Remy's friend, hairstylist and occasional adult film actor Christian Camacho. We're talking about birthday orgies, fisting, role-play, foot-play, sex work, breath work, losing your mojo, & jacking off: it can be HARD! And not in the good way. We discuss labels in the LGBTQIA community, Christian's road to self discovery, and how bisexuality and queerness is viewed in the media vs. with people in every day life. Finally Remy reads the Cumpan...
Jan 03, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 6Ep. 2
We've c*m back for a brand new season AND How C*m's Birthday, (born Christmas Day, 2017) To celebrate we are talking all things Sabrina Carpenter with drag queen and pop-culture aficionado Poutine Levine and our beloved Robyn Kennedy. We talk about Sabrina's unapologetic horniness, the ability and freedom to express sexuality through pop music, and the hurdles that women in the music industry have to face; not to mention how much harder it is when there's beef between two icons -- what happened ...
Dec 25, 2024•1 hr 45 min•Season 6Ep. 1
One more episode for this season! Yippee! Remy welcomes her friend, a mystery guest, to talk about an experiment she did -- in which she went on 50 first dates in one year. They talk about why she did it, how the dates went, and what she learned from it. There *are* spoilers from the 2004 movie 50 First Dates in this episode, but it is not an episode about love and amnesia.
Jun 29, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Season 5Ep. 46
It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* -- with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy ...
Mar 31, 2024•1 hr 13 min•Season 5Ep. 45
Aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film icon John Legendary is here to talk EVERYTHING regarding the long-misunderstood 'hotwife' lifestyle-- you may have heard about "cuckolding" in porn but he gives us the inside scoop and tells us about his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand 'bull' in other people's bedrooms. He goes into us how he got into the hotwifing lifestyle, how he got into porn, how hotwifing in porn differs from how it actually is in real life and SO much more. Love ...
Mar 31, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 5Ep. 44
Actor and Comedian Jade Catta-Preta is back after many seasons and this time she has several life changes to share; she is "so much gayer now" and is also going through pre-menopause or "perimenopause." We talk about everything from getting good at gay sex, to learning to love yourself, to how she felt getting diagnosed with perimenopause. She tells us about how she has been treating it and we run through all the symptoms that come with it in case anyone is going through something similar. It is...
Mar 31, 2024•1 hr 28 min•Season 5Ep. 43
A very special episode with one woman who has NEVER masturbated, and another who has given up having sex with other people! Remy sits down with Lauren Hope Krass- stand up comedian and Betches content manager, podcast host, video star and humor writer, and Rachel B - comedy club veteran and host of the Dating App Disasters Podcast. They answer all questions related to why they do not/ are not partaking in their respective sexual activities and dive into body image, dating culture, after-care and...
Mar 17, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Season 5Ep. 42
Remy had the extreme pleasure talking to the hilarious and wonderful Salma Hindy -- a first-generation Egyptian-Canadian comedian, writer, actor and performer who has opened for Ken Jeong, Ramy Youssef, Beth Stelling, and Chelsea Handler. Salma tells us all about growing up in a very strict religious household and the ways in which it effected her sexuality and self-view. She tells us all about ending her relationship with people pleasing and how she pivoted to self-pleasing, with the help of th...
Feb 29, 2024•1 hr 34 min•Season 5Ep. 41
Today's guest is the very funny, very handsome, and extremely anti-camping licensed professional counselor, Jeff Guenther. You may now him best from his insanely popular advise account, TherapyJeff on TikTok and Instagram -- and we're so lucky to have him here today! We're talking relationship do's and don'ts, for people currently in relationships, people who are trying to get into relationships, and people who have no interest in relationships at all! From love bombing; how to recognize it, and...
Feb 26, 2024•1 hr 19 min•Season 5Ep. 40
Remy is in beautiful Australia chatting with stunning entrepreneur, media personality, television host, podcast legend and sex goddess Abbie Chatfield! They discuss love on reality shows, dating in the public eye, sex in the public eye, whether Abbie thinks she is bisexual or a lesbian, open relationships, sex parties, everything she has learned about her "down under" from pelvic floor therapy, and SO much more. Like this episode? There's more! Listen to Remy on Abbie's podcast here Love How C*m...
Feb 07, 2024•56 min•Season 5Ep. 39
Today's guest is Dr. Tara, a Los Angeles-based sex and relationship coach, tenured professor of sexual communication, award-winning sex researcher, TEDx speaker, TV Host of Celebs Go Dating, and the #1 sex educator on TikTok Dr. Tara talks us through her many different first time c*mming stories-- because she can and has c*m in SO many different ways-- internal o's, external o's and CERVICAL o's as well (which we have never heard of until now)! She also teaches us how to achieve sexual confidenc...
Feb 01, 2024•58 min•Season 5Ep. 38
Iconic actress, writer, and comedian Rachel Bloom stops by the podcast for a TRULY c*mazing episode and we cannot wait for you to hear it! Rachel is best known for co-creating and starring as Rebecca Bunch in musical comedy-drama series Crazy Ex-Girlfriend which won her numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe Award , a TCA Award , a Critics' Choice Television Award , and a Primetime Emmy Award . We talk about how her character Rebecca (and Rachel and Remy) have all experienced limerence -- ...
Jan 21, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Season 5Ep. 37
Goddess/ sex educator Lola Jean and comedian/ Remy's bestie Betsy Carroll are BACK (both returning guests from earlier seasons, but together for the first time) and they are talking about Cirque Du Squirt-- a "sex freak show/ carnival" that Lola curates and stars in to celebrate her title of the 'World Record Holder of Volume Squirting.' Remy and Betsy attended the sex show and talk about their hesitations about going (spoiler: Betsy had none, Remy had a lot), the various games they played and a...
Nov 04, 2023•1 hr 44 min•Season 5Ep. 36
This episode is all about IVF! Remy welcomes back Season 1 Episode 2 guest and host of the popular dating + relationships podcast We Met at Acme- Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey tells us all about trying to concieve, getting diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, and her and her husband's journey with IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). We hear about the different types of IVF, what types of people might require IVF, the differences between IVF, IUI, and ICI, and a range for what the procedure can cos...
Oct 20, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Season 5Ep. 35
Last week Samantha Jones' brief orgasm drought inspired us to talk about menopause-- even though that is not what caused *her* drought. But Cumpanions have been vying for a menopause episode for a WHILE and it's finally here! We chat with stand up comedy veteran and creator of "Funny Women of a Certain Age" Carole Montgomery about being a woman of a certain age; barriers, breakthroughs, how menopause went for her, all the symptoms that can come with menopause, how to deal with it, and the fact t...
Sep 30, 2023•1 hr 16 min•Season 5Ep. 34
Much like the episodes have slowed down, so too have Remy's orgasms. And OH BOY are they connected. In this episode you can hear all about Remy's FIVE month long orgasm drought; why she thinks it happened, what she has been trying to do to fix it, and what she plans to do in the future. We welcome back Season 1+2 producer/researcher and Remy's sister Charlotte Kassimir to talk about it, read Companion stories about their own droughts/ how they have fixed them, and Charlotte gives Remy a new assi...
Sep 20, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Season 5Ep. 33
Before Twitter was X, Kristofer Thomas (comedian, actor, and screenwriter) shared his story of being a pack-a-day cigarette smoker for years and how the promise of top surgery is the thing that finally made him quit. We discuss that story, the benefits of gender affirming care (beyond quitting cigs), what gender affirming care means a different ages, and how many steps it actually takes to get prescribed testosterone. Read Kristofer's Piece "Dad Used to Have Boobs (And They Were Kind of Big) Fol...
Aug 19, 2023•53 min•Season 5Ep. 32
Today's guest is Tyomi Morgan-- a Certified Authentic Tantra Coach, sex blogger/coach and creator of The Cowgirl Workout. We are diving into the workout program she created centered around dick riding! Tyomi teaches us how to do it, the benefits of it, and how to feel comfortable getting on top. We also discuss the importance of breathing control, hip isolation, choosing the right position, and making adjustments. Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast , @RemyKassimir , @realglamazontyomi Support the ...
Aug 19, 2023•1 hr 12 min•Season 5Ep. 31
What goes better with Pride than Joy? We end our Pride month with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to talk about all things love, sex, and relationships. We go deep into about attachment styles and how they affect our relationships, whether we're avoidant, fearful avoidant, anxious, disorganized, or secure. Dr. Joy explains how different types of households and upbringings can affect our attachment styles, and what we need to do to heal ourselves. We discuss therapy,...
Jun 27, 2023•53 min•Season 5Ep. 30
A few weeks ago we posted a video from @VonMusic about her making music by having orgasms -- and the video EXPLODED. This week we are joined by Von to talk all about HOW she makes music with orgasms, why she does it, and how she feels about people who don't like what she is doing. Von discusses her education in music as well as growing up in a religious household and how she feels about Christianity today. Finally we hear all about different songs to c*m to, songs that feel like an orgasm, songs...
Jun 27, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Season 5Ep. 29
