We’re talking all things MASTURBATION with one of our favorite sex and pleasure educators, Luna Matatas. We cover: New positions to try How to make your hands feel JUST as good as a toy How to finger yourself What to do if you get nervous while *exploring* How often we should masturbate How to start fantasizing during solo play Dirty chat rooms How long a solo sesh should be Taking masturbation OUTSIDE the bedroom (legally) Connect with Luna: Website On Instagram [Episode 129 on Youtube ] Learn ...
Jun 19, 2024•59 min
When did being NEEDY become a bad thing? We have NEEDS (a lot of 'em) and those needs deserve to be met whether they're in the bedroom or beyond it. That's why we're talking with Mara Glatzel, MSW an intuitive coach and author of the Book "Needy: How To Advocate For Your Needs and Claim Your Sovereignty". We chat about: What it ACTUALLY means to be needy Why we should ditch the "chill girl/person" mentality What happens when we neglect our needs How ignoring our needs impacts our sex lives How t...
Jun 12, 2024•1 hr 5 min
Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about: What Power PDA is Critique and support for PDA What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want? Giving NO f*cks Who decided affection needed to be kept private? Should there be goal with PDA? How far is TOO far in public? How healthy displays of affection are GOOD How to start engaging in PDA if you're new to it Connect with Dr. Tara On Instagram Website [Episo...
Jun 05, 2024•52 min
Alright Honeys, we're juuuussst about ready to send you into your summer of hook-ups but can't let you go without a little help and advice for our girl, Abigail Jensen. In this episode, we dive into girl chat about what makes for a PERFECT date. We chat about: How to practice being confident Key ingredients for setting up a great date Where to take your dates to ensure good vibes Questions we should be asking to get to know your date Common dating mistakes LTR dating tips Connect with Abigail In...
May 22, 2024•1 hr
Get your hands nice and warmed up because we'll be puttin' them to WORK. This week we talk to Barbara Carrellas, erotic massage pro, about how to give and receive pleasure through massage. 🙌 Barbara holds nothing back when it comes to pleasure and this episode delivers tips, tricks, and erotic puppets??? We chat about: What makes a massage ✨erotic✨ The benefits of an erotic massage How to get present in the moment Best positions to give a massage Massage prep How to incorporate ALL our parts Co...
May 15, 2024•1 hr 5 min
There is nothing more make-or-break than kissing chemistry, so as we head into our summer of hook-ups, let's refresh ourselves shall we?! This week, we chat with the one and only, Luna Matatas all about the art of lip-locking. In this episode, we cover: Mistakes we make while kissing How to practice your technique What cues to pick up on from a partner What to do with your lips How to french How to communicate with your partner about what you want more or less of Connect with Luna: On Instagram ...
May 08, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Dating casually never seemed so easy after this convo with Talia Koren. As the host of Dating Intentionally podcast, and a HIGHLY experienced casual dater, Talia knows a thing or two about putting yourself out there to get what you want and have fun while dating. In this episode, we cover: Getting clear on what you want out of dating Tapping into your own desirability Benefits of casually dating How to be selfish (in a GREAT way) Creating your roster Rules of Casual Dating Connect with Talia On ...
May 01, 2024•54 min
We believe that every last BIT of you deserves maximum pleasure so we brought back Dr. Tara to teach us a thing or two (or 12) about how to tease, play and talk dirty to ALL of our naughty bits. In this episode, we cover: Breast and Nipple play Nipple-gasms for ALL How to play with the booty cheeks How to relax during anal play What to do with the balls Dirty talk tips Connect with Dr. Tara On Instagram On TikTok Website ✨ Dr. Tara's Course ✨ Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me...
Apr 17, 2024•46 min
Get ready to be BLOWN away this week as we cover the fundamentals of giving a Bl*wjob worthy of a standing (laying, sitting) O with Dr. Jenni Skyler. 👏 We also cover: How to feel safe and comfortable How to make a bl*wjob romantic How to ask your partner if they're in the mood Positions for both givers and receivers Finishing tips Connect with Dr. Jenni: On Instagram On YouTube Website Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices...
Apr 10, 2024•58 min
Azaria is one magical (p*ssy) fairy and she shares her wisdom by dishing out some of the BEST, yummiest, most healing tips and tricks for masturbating with a vulva & vagina. She'll heal your soul, and help you reach your maximum O. We also cover: The definition of self-pleasure How to use your masturbation practice to heal How to build a sustainable self-care routine Ways to get creative with touch Dual sensory activation Connect with Azaria: On her website On Instagram Or listen to her podc...
Apr 03, 2024•1 hr 4 min
Annabelle Knight, a sex and relationship expert, is here to walk us through her top tips for oral sex on a vulva. We cover: How to initiate going down (or any type of intimate play) Non verbal pleasure cues to watch out for How to communicate what you want as the receiver Positions Specific ways to orally pleasure a vulva A method that reportedly helps people ✨finish✨in 3 minutes or less How to feel confident and sexy as the giver or receiver Connect with Annabelle: On her website On Instagram W...
Mar 27, 2024•1 hr 5 min
YOUR VAGINA IS BEAUTIFUL and deserves to be taken care of. That's why we're diving into all things vaginal health with April Davis, from discharge, to pubes, and everything in between. April Davis is the creator of Haus of Vagina, a community that combines her extensive background in birth work and passion for sex education to empower vagina owners everywhere! In this episode, we cover: What to look out for when it comes to vaginal health The regular self checks we need to be doing Common signs ...
Mar 20, 2024•1 hr 15 min
This week we're rediscovering the power of the humble handjob with relationship and intimacy coach, Keeley Rankin, MA. We cover: WHY handjobs are worth including in your sexual toolkit Common mistakes we make when giving handjobs Ways to tease and seduce your partner Navigating the different parts of the penis Different movements to try How to play with the balls Cleaning up after someone cums The mental roadblocks that can get in the way of us feeling sexy and having fun Connect with Keeley: On...
Mar 13, 2024•1 hr 8 min
Ready to put those hands to WORK?! Ashley Manta, a sex and relationship coach, is here to teach us the art of pussy massage (aka fingering/hand sex). We cover: Why we’re ditching “finger banging” in favor of ✨pussy massage✨ Common mistakes people make when fingering The most pleasurable ways to touch a vulva or vagina The best positions for hand sex Getting involved as the receiver How to incorporate toys Why you might want to try adding in some butt stuff Connect with Ashley: On her website Acc...
Mar 06, 2024•57 min
Ever wondered why people cheat? If it's possible for a relationship to TRULY heal after someone's strayed? Cue Rebecca Stone, LCSW, a therapist who specializes in helping couples recover after infidelity. In this episode, we cover: How Rebecca defines cheating & why it's SO important to define it within your relationship WHY people cheat The role attachment styles play in infidelity How to disclose to your partner that you cheated Whether recovery is possible and if "once a cheater, always a...
Feb 28, 2024•1 hr 12 min
Whether you're dating around, ready to find your person, or loving it up in the honeymoon phase, knowing how to navigate the highs and lows of a new relationship is pivotal. Catherine Drysdale, a sex and relationship coach, is here to help us understand what we tend to mess up, what we need to look out for, and how to make the most of a brand new relash. We cover: Common mistakes we make when starting a new relationship How to reframe the dating process so you can feel CONFIDENT and in control W...
Feb 21, 2024•1 hr 6 min
HOT RELATIONSHIP TIP: fighting isn’t a bad thing… but you do need to learn how to fight fair. Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks are back and this time they’re sharing their expert tips on how to fight. We cover: Why fighting is actually a part of a healthy relationship How to fight fair How to regulate your emotions during a fight Scripts for expressing your feelings and apologizing What resentment can look like and how it manifests in our relationships The grief t...
Feb 14, 2024•1 hr 16 min
This month we're all about RELATIONSHIPS and who better to start us off than Victoria Albina, NP, MPH? As a coach for codependent folks who want to stop feeling anxious and overwhelmed, Victoria is the perfect person to walk us through how to maintain the long term relationships we're in. We cover: What a healthy relationship looks like How codependent thinking and emotional outsourcing impact our relationships What happens when we rely on a partner for joy How to start assuming positive intent ...
Feb 07, 2024•1 hr 9 min
Whether you're trying to keep things discreet or wanting a romp in the great outdoors, we've done the research and found all the tips, tricks, and positions you need to make it a pleasurable experience. Got a roommate you don't want to disturb? Trying to sneak in an orgasm while on a hike? No prob, because we cover: How to prepare for discreet sex Positions for discreet sex Public/outdoor sex trends Locations for outdoor sex (from beginner to more adventurous) Positions for outdoor sex Watch Thi...
Jan 24, 2024•1 hr 1 min
Short on time? No worries, we're talking quickies with sex and relationship expert, Dr. Tara, and learning all the ways to start using quick sex sessions to our advantage. We cover: What a "quickie" actually is The benefits of quickies Types of quickies (there's probably more than you're thinking...) Positions for quickies The importance of incorporating "play" into your relationship Using quickies to try out something new Connect with Dr. Tara: On her website Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep ...
Jan 17, 2024•1 hr 8 min
Calling all lazy lovers... this episode was made especially for you. We're looking for minimum effort and maximum pleasure, which is exactly why we're talking with Ginny Hogan, a stand-up comedian and author of the book "Sex for Lazy People: 50 Effortless Positions So You Can Do It Without Overdoing It." We cover: Why sex doesn't have to be high-energy or high-effort How to make sex as low effort or lazy as possible Positions for when you just want to chill Releasing the pressure aka letting sex...
Jan 10, 2024•51 min
This week we are getting into position to have the best sex ever, even when we're not feeling our best. It's hard to remember that we deserve pleasure when we're feeling hot, but especially when we're feeling VERY NOT. In this episode, we chat with Sarah Watson a certified sex therapist and sex educator about how to have great and pleasurable sex even when our insecurities are making an unwanted debut. We cover: How to approach sex when you're feeling insecure How to communicate your insecuritie...
Jan 03, 2024•1 hr 3 min
If there’s one thing we’ve learned about having good sex, it’s that you need to be INTENTIONAL. So that’s what we’re doing for 2024, setting sexual intentions to get us closer to having the BEST DAMN SEX we can. In this episode, we’re chatting about: Our personal intentions for the new year and how we plan on implementing them (i.e. masturbation practices, embracing our buttholes etc.) Sexual resolutions/intentions submitted by YOU (our listeners) Advice for implementing your intentions based on...
Dec 27, 2023•1 hr 9 min
Here at Honeydew Me, we are first and foremost ✨simple bitches✨. So when we're connecting with our bodies, we're looking for simple, no bullshit tips. That's why we're talking with Usha Anandi, a holistic nutritionist, herbalist, yoga teacher and founder of Womben Wellness, WHO JUST GETS IT. We cover: Realistic practices for connecting with your body and your cycle (aka you don't have to overhaul your entire life) Why you should definitely give a fuck about connecting with your body Why rest is ...
Dec 20, 2023•1 hr 4 min
We hope you're PSYCHED for this episode, because we sure as hell are. Jessica Alfaqih, a Psychedelic Sensual Empowerment Coach, is here to teach us the ins and outs of having psychedelic sex (both sober and with the help of some plant friends). We cover: What psychedelics are and how they impact your mind and body How psychedelics can be used to enhance your sexual experiences How to have the same psychedelic sex WITHOUT using psychedelics (aka sober) Where to start if you're a newbie Visualizat...
Dec 13, 2023•1 hr 8 min
This month at Honeydew Me we’re learning how to connect with our bodies and there’s no one better to start us off than THE Victoria Albina, NP, MPH. Victoria is a coach for codependent folks who want to stop feeling anxious, exhausted and overwhelmed... and, hawt damn, is she INCREDIBLE at it. In this episode, we cover: What it actually means to FEEL your feelings and HOW to do it WTF somatics means and why it’s so important Sex and somatics Making friends with your body Getting present and drop...
Dec 06, 2023•1 hr 9 min
We pussed ourselves out there ALL MONTH LONG and now we're ready to share the dirty deets with YOU. From speed dating, to Hinge dates, to hot hookups, we're chatting through it all and sharing our biggest takeaways. We cover: What it's like to go to a speed dating event Navigating casual dating for the first time Hooking up with strangers Ending a fling Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoi...
Nov 29, 2023•1 hr 7 min
This week we're learning how to flirt and feel confident AF while we do it. Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach, is here to spill all his flirting secrets and give us the actionable tips we've been waiting for. We cover: A CLEAR definition of what flirting is The 4 main flirty styles and how to find your personal flirting style What we're getting WRONG when it comes to flirting What to do if you're shy or awkward Benjamin's flirting framework How to enhance your verbal flirting game Using your ...
Nov 22, 2023•1 hr 6 min
This week we're putting our sluttiest foot forward and pussing ourselves OUT THERE by learning how to be hot sluts. Lucky for us, Zachary Zane aka The Boyslut, is here to teach us how. Zach is a sex expert, advice columnist, and author who is here to help you embrace your inner slut. We cover: What it means to be a slut (it's empowering af) Finding your slutty confidence Zachary's journey to becoming a slut Slutty mantras to live by What if you want to be a slut but you also catch feelings? How ...
Nov 15, 2023•53 min
Ready to put your self OUT THERE? We thought so. Cue Amy and April, hosts of Shameless Sex Podcast and authors of the upcoming book "Shameless Sex: Choose Your Own Pleasure Path". We're unpacking HOW to puss yourself out there and get what you want both in the bedroom and beyond. We cover: What it means to put yourself out there and how to get started How to put yourself out there when you're single AND in a long term relationship Where to find people to date or just bang Pick up lines and initi...
Nov 08, 2023•1 hr 19 min
