This month at Honeydew Me, we're learning how to put ourselves out there or, as we like to say, how to PUSS ourselves out there. We're starting off with the juiciest lesson on foreplay and initiation with none other than Haylin Belay. Haylin is a sexual health educator, bodyworker, and pleasure witch who is ready to CHANGE YOUR DAMN LIFE. We cover: Expanding your definition of foreplay How to turn yourself ON Understanding the phases of sexual arousal and USING that to your advantage How to feel...
Nov 01, 2023•1 hr 5 min
Ever been curious about role-play? Wanted to explore your wild side? Lucky you, because we're closing out kink month by exploring pet play. Tyomi Morgan, a sexpert and intimacy coach, is BACK on Honeydew Me to break down one of her favorite kinky activities. We cover: What pet play (aka a type of animal role play) is and why it's a kink How Tyomi engages in pet play and her pet persona The dom/sub dynamic and what pet/handler relationships can look like Props and accessories Communication while ...
Oct 25, 2023•1 hr 10 min
This episode has us all tied up and we couldn't be more excited. Midori, a sex educator and coach, is here to share all her tips for bringing bondage and restraints into the bedroom. We cover: Midori's definition of BDSM (IT'S SO GOOD) Why being bound is so erotic How to get started in bondage Types of restraints (including household items, luxury restraints & more) Body parts to restrain and body parts to avoid Dominance and rope games Connect with Midori: On her website On Instagram Watch ...
Oct 18, 2023•1 hr 1 min
You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover: Sexual communication basics How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires Navigating shame around sexual interests How to c...
Oct 11, 2023•1 hr 12 min
It's officially kink month at Honeydew Me and we're kicking things off with a SPICY lesson on how to be more dominant. We're joined by Eva Oh, a Professional Dominatrix with ALL the tips we've been waiting for. We cover: What makes a good domme both privately and professionally What gets in the way of us embracing our dominant sides Setting containers and boundaries How to build confidence How to work through shame and embarrassment when being dominant How to recover when you make a mistake or s...
Oct 04, 2023•1 hr 3 min
We're closing out non-monogamy month with a BANG... or lots of banging. We went to a sex club as total newbies and now we're reporting back to tell you everything you need to know. We cover: Getting in, getting a tour, and first impressions All the rules and why we LOVED them The set up of the club What we saw and what we DID Major takeaways and tips for other first timers Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podca...
Sep 27, 2023•1 hr 7 min
WTF is cuckolding? Why are people into it? Is it something I might be into? These are the questions we set out to answer when talking with Jen Meyer, a licensed therapist and sex educator who specializes in kink and consensual non-monogamy. In this episode, we cover: What cuckolding is and how it all works Why it's a turn-on The different roles in a cuckolding scene How shame and jealousy play into cuckolding Figuring out if cuckolding is for you How to navigate opening your relationship Connect...
Sep 20, 2023•1 hr 12 min
Susan Bratton, THE intimacy expert to millions, is back and this time she's breaking down two of her favorite nonmonogamous activities... THREESOMES AND SEX PARTIES. Here's what you can expect: Susan sells us on threesomes and explains WHY she loves them Positions for threesomes What to do when you're feeling left out IT WILL BE CLUNKY... we cover how to work through that What it feels like to be double-penetrated Finding a third Why you NEED to be making "offers" and examples of how to do it Na...
Sep 13, 2023•1 hr 12 min
First up in our non-monogamy series we’re covering POLYAMORY… because WTF is it and would you ever be into it? That’s what we’re exploring in this episode with sex educator and therapist, Dr. Liz Powell. We cover: What polyamory is and what it isn’t (aka all the things we get wrong when we think about polyamory) Why we need to be examining the “relationship scripts” we’re given to figure out what we actually want What the BENEFITS of polyamory are What polyamorous relationships can look like How...
Sep 06, 2023•1 hr 16 min
One last catch up and we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming. We cover what’s next for Honeydew Me, what we’ve been up to this summer, and reflect a little on the past (but like, in a fun way) 😘 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Aug 16, 2023•36 min
For our last rewind of the summer, we’re revisiting turn ons with sex educator, Cassandra Corrado. We cover: How to figure out what turns you on How to ask for what you want Giving ✨constructive✨ criticism to a partner What to do when someone kills the mood When you accidentally say the wrong name Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Aug 09, 2023•59 min
It’s the last month of our Summer Rewind and we’re starting off by revisiting an audience favorite: SQUIRTING. Sex educator, Shea Alexander joins us to share the ins and outs of the elusive juices (lol sorry). We cover: What squirting ACTUALLY is How to do it G-Spot basics Clean up Talking with a partner about squirting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Aug 02, 2023•1 hr 15 min
Another check in with Cass & Em cummin right atcha. We’re chatting through some of our most TRANSFORMATIVE sexual experiences and our major takeaways. If you’re looking for a little encouragement to take up space and get what you want in the bedroom, we’ve got you covered 😘 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Jul 19, 2023•30 min
This week, we’re heading ✨down south✨ and revisiting cunnilingus with sex educator Luna Matatas. Whether you’re the giver or the receiver, this episode is overflowing with all the juicy tips you need to have a great time when eating out. We cover: Working through shame (aka how to stop worrying about how you look, taste, and smell) How to move your tongue How to incorporate fingers Positions How to engage as the receiver AND SO MUCH MORE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com...
Jul 12, 2023•1 hr 12 min
Summer can bring up ALL SORTS of insecurities when it comes to our bodies, so we're revisiting one of our favorite episodes with Brenna O'Malley. Brenna, a non-diet dietician, takes us on a deep dive of body neutrality and teaches us how to navigate the crunchy feelings that tend to arise when we start unpacking our relationships with our bodies. We cover: How to navigate vulnerable body image moments Whether or not affirmations work Brenna's top tip for fueling an amazing sex life Food in the c...
Jul 05, 2023•1 hr 1 min
Craving a cozy convo with your besties? Us too. So press play and join us for a quickie 😘 We're talking sex, we're talking marriage, we're talking LIFE CHANGES, honey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Jun 21, 2023•37 min
Fingering is an art, that when done right, is *chef’s kiss*. That’s why we’re revisiting fingering with Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101 and a true va-genius. We cover: What fingering is and how to make it a MAIN COURSE Pleasure anatomy and technical basics How to touch the outside (aka the vulva) How to ✨enter✨ and what to do once you’re in Positions How to add in oral Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Jun 14, 2023•1 hr 2 min
We’re gettin on all fours and revisiting a fan favorite… DOGGY STYLE. August McLaughlin of Girl Boner Radio joins us to share all the dirty deets. We cover: What doggy style is and its many variations Making the position work for YOU and YOUR BODY How to make doggy feel more intimate Finding the G spot during doggy Stroke tips and tricks What you can do as the receiver Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Jun 07, 2023•1 hr 2 min
We’re diving HEAD first into fantasies with Gina Gutierrez, the Chief Creative Officer and Co-Founder of Dipsea (aka our fav audio erotica app)! We chat about: How to start incorporating fantasy into your sex life Navigating fantasies wile you’re in a relationship What to do if fantasizing doesn’t come easily to you What to do when something you DON’T like pops into your fantasy (and why this happens) What people typically fantasize about (according to the data) Where our fantasies come from The...
May 31, 2023•1 hr 12 min
Hey you dirty little slut… Dr. Liz Powell is BACK and this time they’re helping us break down degradation and humiliation play. We chat about: What degradation play is WHY degradation and humiliation can be turn ons How sex and shame are connected in our brains Indicators that this type of play might be for YOU Boundaries and safe words Examples of how to engage in this type of play Aftercare and dealing with feelings of guilt/shame Humiliation Play Resources: https://bit.ly/HHHStudent Learn mor...
May 24, 2023•1 hr 7 min
Our QUEEN, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, has returned, and this time she's breaking down the concept of "negative" or "bad" emotions. We chat about: Victoria's thoughts on "negative" emotions Allowing all emotions to be FELT Being labeled as the emotions we allow ourselves to feel (sad, angry etc.) Wanting to more ✨elegantly✨ express your emotions Being taken seriously when you're upset Is there such a thing as "too emotional"? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
May 17, 2023•1 hr 1 min
We’re chatting with sex educator Danielle Bezalel and closing some BIG OL’ knowledge gaps (courtesy of the shitty sex ed we got growing up). We cover: If using vibrators makes it harder to orgasm without one How much masturbation is TOO MUCH How early people typically start masturbating and when to start talking about masturbation with kids Emergency contraceptive 101 Can you take TOO MANY Plan B’s? Navigating porn use in a relationship Feeling in competition with porn If sex should EVER hurt an...
May 10, 2023•1 hr 11 min
We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about: What libido is and isn't The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire What a "normal" libido looks like Why low libido isn't inherently bad How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship Common libido myths What can negatively impact your libido Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
May 03, 2023•1 hr 9 min
We’re breaking down toxic masculinity and sex shame with Zachary Zane, author of “Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto”. We chat about: What toxic masculinity is and how it manifests How toxic masculinity impacts our sex lives and leads to sexual shame How sexual shame limits and negatively impacts us Zachary's personal experience with sexual shame and being bi Labels in life and social media What queerbaiting actually means Get Zachary's book HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoi...
Apr 26, 2023•59 min
We’re headed BACK to your backdoor and talking all things anal masturbation with Dr. Heather Bartos. We cover: WHY your butt is such an epicenter of pleasure (even when you don’t have a prostate) Prep and precautions Techniques for playing with your butt Internal and external methods Positions Toys and other props to try Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Apr 19, 2023•59 min
Ever wondered what the most "flattering" positions are? What about the ideal hairdo for ✨down there✨? Us too, but it turns out that "flattering" sex might not be a worthwhile goal. That's why we're talking with sex educator and author of “Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life”, Elle Chase. Elle is here to help us unpack the oh-so complex relationship between sex and body image by chatting about... How body image impacts partnered and solo sex How to work through ne...
Apr 05, 2023•1 hr 4 min
We're diving head first (and balls deep) into some listener questions with Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, a magical human who specializes in helping people work through emotional outsourcing (AKA people pleasing, codependency etc.). In this episode we chat about: How to "manage" a partner's insecurities How to navigate boundaries in a relationship and what to do when you don't agree The difference between being "kind" and "nice" Being queer while in a hetero relationship The FOMO trap and how to get ...
Mar 29, 2023•1 hr 9 min
It’s time for a little gab sesh because we miss ya, we’ve learned some things, and we have some updates. This week, we’re talking about: Techniques for spicing up missionary position The Coital Alignment Technique (AKA the secret to missionary orgasms) Having sex on a yoga ball, in the ocean, and with a pillow (not at the same time) Dating and navigating “the apps” Period pain and endometriosis A BIG OL’ UPDATE for Honeydew Me Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Mar 22, 2023•1 hr 8 min
Our UNCENSORED QUEEN, Dr. Tara, is back and ready to answer all your spicy questions. We cover: Tips and ideas for high quality foreplay What NOT to say during sex How to redirect someone during sex WITHOUT hurting their feelings Mismatched libidos and what to do about it How to CONFIDENTLY initiate sex The 4 types of initiation styles and examples for each How to navigate erectile dysfunction What to do if your partner won't stop "jackhammering" Getting your partner to slow down How to start th...
Mar 15, 2023•1 hr 16 min
When did being NEEDY become a bad thing? We have NEEDS (a lot of 'em) and those needs deserve to be met whether they're in the bedroom or beyond it. That's why we're talking with Mara Glatzel, MSW an intuitive coach and author of the Book "Needy: How To Advocate For Your Needs and Claim Your Sovereignty". We chat about: What it ACTUALLY means to be needy Why we should ditch the "chill girl/person" mentality What happens when we neglect our needs How ignoring our needs impacts our sex lives How t...
Mar 08, 2023•1 hr 8 min
